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Speech Etiquette: 17 Tips to Get Yourself Noticed

How well have you mastered public speaking? Feeling nervous before speaking in front of an audience gets to the best of us.

However, understanding speech etiquette can help you bridge any subject. Here are the mannerisms that meet proper speech etiquette.

Present Yourself as a Competent Speaker

Every message is as good as its messenger. You will need to have a criterion in mind to present your message so that you come off as a competent speaker. Thus, know what you want to accomplish and do exactly that.

Inspire, persuade, or inform without backtracking or going in circles. Understand your audience so you can structure your speech to meet your audience’s purpose.

When you present yourself confidently, you’ll command the audience’s attention. That’s why it pays to be passionate about the subject so you can pass the message with utmost clarity.

Understand the Demands of the Occasion

You’ll benefit from understanding the context. For example, you are the father of the bride and have been asked to give a speech at a wedding. You are naturally required to give a heartfelt story.

In this case, you’re going to have to rise to the demands of the occasion.

Know the difference between formal vs informal presentations .

Observe Politeness

It’s human nature to detect tone and attitude. Therefore, it will be difficult to fake politeness if your attitude is a bit off. For this reason, it’s best to recognize that you’re entering someone else’s personal space, and they expect you to respect it.

Whenever you’re presenting your speech, let your facial expressions mirror your words. You don’t want to smile when delivering a sad message and vice versa.

Furthermore, brush up on the best jokes for the occasion while considering that inappropriate jokes do not count as funny.

Maintain Eye Contact

Maintaining eye contact is a learned skill that follows good speech etiquette. You don’t have to read every single thing in your notes.

Losing eye contact will lose your audience engagement and make you feel like you’re presenting the message to yourself.

Present Yourself Confidently

Apart from maintaining eye contact, there are more things that you can do to present yourself confidently .

• Practice good posture when approaching the stage, on the podium , and as you walk off. Do not slump, lean, or twist on the podium or table. Also, do not stand in the projector’s light.
• Wait for the introducer to leave the stage before you start speaking. Remember to thank the introducer before commencing with the speech. This will prevent the scenario where the introducer has to acknowledge the thank you halfway between the podium and their seat – it’s very distracting and unnecessary.
• Make special greetings to the guest of honor, dignitaries, and government officials.
• Use the microphone provided and don’t readjust or tap it more than once.
• Articulate your words by slowing down and speaking up.
• Eliminate verbal crutches like ums and uhs and distracting habits such as fidgeting.
• Use variations in force, speed, and inflictions to enhance meaning and hold the audience’s attention.
• Never quit in between the speech or “lose your cool.”

Practice! Practice! Practice!

Practicing your speech is the only way to be completely prepared and show mastery of the subject. 

For you to nail your speech, you have to be overwhelmingly thorough. A practiced speaker connects to their audience with 100% confidence in their speech.

Arrive Early

Don’t arrive five minutes before giving a speech. You’ll be unprepared; the MC will not know how long the speech will take, and you’ll likely sort any presentation in front of the audience.

Doing this will take away from the audience’s confidence in you.

Stick To Your Time Slot

It’s disrespectful to the audience and other speakers when you speak after your given time is over. Always pay attention to the timing and obey timing signals.

If you take your full time, skip a few low-priority topics. If you expect to answer questions, leave five to ten minutes from your time slot.

The best way to stick to your time slot is by recording yourself and seeing if the speech fits within the allotted time.

Encourage Q&As

Q&As make the speech lively, allowing you to interact with the audience. The audience can ask for clarification on the subject or how a product works if it’s a sales pitch .

In addition, Q&As give the audience the impression that their presence is valued and appreciated. It will also give them the courage to share their thoughts which is valuable when passing any message.

During Q&A, listen thoughtfully and patiently. Then answer the questions respectfully. Furthermore, acknowledge when you don’t have an answer by telling your audience you’ll check and get to them with the appropriate answer.

Move On After Technology Glitches

It would help if you did not rely solely on visual presentation . If something happens to your slides, move on with the rest of the speech.

Do not spend more than a couple of minutes fixing the glitch. Always have alternatives like flow charts or a practiced speech that you can complete without the help of technology.

Make Presentable PowerPoint Slides

Have you ever been at a presentation only for the PowerPoint slides to pass super-fast? Fast slides with a long message in small fonts waste time.

Ensure that the visuals are readable by everyone. Zoom in on the important points, pause and let everyone take in the message.

When presenting visuals, ensure that they are not duplicating the message you’re speaking. The audience gains nothing of value when they have to see slides that repeat the same information.

Don’t Apologize

It may seem counterintuitive, but apologizing draws attention to any mistake like fumbling or tripping.

Even more important, do not apologize for not being prepared. Practice mindfulness techniques to be aware of how much you apologize.

Watch Your Movements

Reduce nervous gestures by practicing the ideal gestures for emphasis.

While some speeches are better done with little movement , some can benefit from a little demonstration and moving around your space.

Avoid Too Many Statistics

The last thing you want is to come across as a statistician. You only require one or two statistics to support a point; any more than that, you’ll start losing audience engagement . 

Again, speak your audience’s language , and share your insights and experiences.

Tell a Good Story

People want to relate to you. When you tell a story or inject a joke, the audience feels comfortable and captures their attention.

Adding humor makes the audience more likely to remember you and your speech. However, don’t tell the audience that you’re going to tell them something funny since it might sound awkward.

Dress for the Occasion

Tidy up and dress appropriately. Tie or slick your hair back to avoid strands getting in your eyes. Also, avoid wearing a hat or cap that could distract the audience.

Get Some Rest

Don’t compromise your energy level by over-exerting yourself before the day of the speech. It may impact your speech delivery since you will likely struggle to deliver a clear message.

In addition, avoid alcohol or caffeine the night before you deliver a speech.

Conclusion: On Speech Etiquette

Anyone can learn speech etiquette and present themselves with confidence. It takes practice to be good at something, especially public speaking. The next time you’re called to deliver a speech, follow these rules to speak for success. Good luck!

10 Tips for Improving Your Public Speaking Skills

Few are immune to the fear of public speaking. Marjorie North offers 10 tips for speakers to calm the nerves and deliverable memorable orations.

Marjorie North

Snakes? Fine. Flying? No problem. Public speaking? Yikes! Just thinking about public speaking — routinely described as one of the greatest (and most common) fears — can make your palms sweat. But there are many ways to tackle this anxiety and learn to deliver a memorable speech.

In part one of this series,  Mastering the Basics of Communication , I shared strategies to improve how you communicate. In part two, How to Communicate More Effectively in the Workplace , I examined how to apply these techniques as you interact with colleagues and supervisors in the workplace. For the third and final part of this series, I’m providing you with public speaking tips that will help reduce your anxiety, dispel myths, and improve your performance.

Here Are My 10 Tips for Public Speaking:

1. nervousness is normal. practice and prepare.

All people feel some physiological reactions like pounding hearts and trembling hands. Do not associate these feelings with the sense that you will perform poorly or make a fool of yourself. Some nerves are good. The adrenaline rush that makes you sweat also makes you more alert and ready to give your best performance.

The best way to overcome anxiety is to prepare, prepare, and prepare some more. Take the time to go over your notes several times. Once you have become comfortable with the material, practice — a lot. Videotape yourself, or get a friend to critique your performance.

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2. Know Your Audience. Your Speech Is About Them, Not You.

Before you begin to craft your message, consider who the message is intended for. Learn as much about your listeners as you can. This will help you determine your choice of words, level of information, organization pattern, and motivational statement.

3. Organize Your Material in the Most Effective Manner to Attain Your Purpose.

Create the framework for your speech. Write down the topic, general purpose, specific purpose, central idea, and main points. Make sure to grab the audience’s attention in the first 30 seconds.

4. Watch for Feedback and Adapt to It.

Keep the focus on the audience. Gauge their reactions, adjust your message, and stay flexible. Delivering a canned speech will guarantee that you lose the attention of or confuse even the most devoted listeners.

5. Let Your Personality Come Through.

Be yourself, don’t become a talking head — in any type of communication. You will establish better credibility if your personality shines through, and your audience will trust what you have to say if they can see you as a real person.

6. Use Humor, Tell Stories, and Use Effective Language.

Inject a funny anecdote in your presentation, and you will certainly grab your audience’s attention. Audiences generally like a personal touch in a speech. A story can provide that.

7. Don’t Read Unless You Have to. Work from an Outline.

Reading from a script or slide fractures the interpersonal connection. By maintaining eye contact with the audience, you keep the focus on yourself and your message. A brief outline can serve to jog your memory and keep you on task.

8. Use Your Voice and Hands Effectively. Omit Nervous Gestures.

Nonverbal communication carries most of the message. Good delivery does not call attention to itself, but instead conveys the speaker’s ideas clearly and without distraction.

9. Grab Attention at the Beginning, and Close with a Dynamic End.

Do you enjoy hearing a speech start with “Today I’m going to talk to you about X”? Most people don’t. Instead, use a startling statistic, an interesting anecdote, or concise quotation. Conclude your speech with a summary and a strong statement that your audience is sure to remember.

10. Use Audiovisual Aids Wisely.

Too many can break the direct connection to the audience, so use them sparingly. They should enhance or clarify your content, or capture and maintain your audience’s attention.

Practice Does Not Make Perfect

Good communication is never perfect, and nobody expects you to be perfect. However, putting in the requisite time to prepare will help you deliver a better speech. You may not be able to shake your nerves entirely, but you can learn to minimize them.

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North is a consultant for political candidates, physicians, and lawyers, and runs a private practice specializing in public speaking, and executive communication skills. Previously, she was the clinical director in the department of speech and language pathology and audiology at Northeastern University.

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If you use any of these 9 phrases, you have 'better etiquette skills' than most: Public speaking expert

Actions may speak louder than words, but words still matter — a lot . People can get easily offended, and if you rush around like most folks, it's easy to say the wrong thing in the wrong way .

As a public speaking expert , one thing I focus on is teaching good speech manners. There are nine phrases in particular that instantly show appreciation and respect.

If you use any of them every day, you have better etiquette skills than most people:

1. "What I'm hearing you say is ..."

People don't expect you to agree with everything they say. But they do want to know they've been heard and understood.

Use this phrase to clear your mind and confirm that you did consider their words before responding. If they spoke in a vague way the first time, you'll give them a chance to focus their thoughts and contribute more meaningfully to the conversation. 

2. "You may be right."

This phrase helps pave the way for disagreement, as in: "You might be right, but let's experiment with this new idea this time."

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It's also helpful for responding to off-topic comments and remarks from hyperactive colleagues who talk too much. No one likes to be negated, and a simple affirmation allows conversations to proceed without disharmony. 

3. "You were right, I was wrong."

This phrase is a gold star of conversational selflessness for two reasons:

• It's impossible to say these words unless you mean them.
• They're music to people's ears.

It is a great tool for defusing tension, clearing the slate, and earning respect. Surrender your ego to win the bigger fight for more productive, authentic relationships.

4. "Thank you for doing this ..."  

Old-school, elegant and simple. In a world where gratitude, respect and acknowledgement are hard to come by, it pays to be generous with praise.

If you want to encourage good behavior, force yourself to acknowledge it when you see it.

5. "I'll leave you to it."

Sometimes the hardest and most helpful thing you can do is overcome your impulse to control.

If someone is chopping carrots (rather than landing a plane), offer this simple gesture of trust — especially if your first thought is that you have a better technique. Say it like you mean it, and do it with a smile.

6. "Can you help me with something?"

No one likes to be barked at or ordered around, but most of us enjoy being asked for help.

Note the difference between saying, "Take out the garbage," versus, "Hey, I'm overwhelmed. Can I ask you to help me by taking out the garbage?"

7. "Your [hair/shirt/tie, etc.] looks so nice today!"

Don't lie, but do look for the good. People like compliments, even when they act like they don't.

We're all aging, we're all stressed, we all worry that we forgot something about our appearance. It's nice to hear that we did something right once in a while.

8. "That's interesting."

Even the melodic, prosodic flow of these words demands a slow-down, a bow to the speaker of sorts, before the conversation continues. It's an acknowledgement that something was said, heard and considered.

9. Say nothing at all.

When someone says something rude or ignorant and you're dying to lash back, remember the power of "I'm rubber and you're glue." Be rubber. Take a deep breath. Chalk the words up as somebody else's issue and walk away.

John Bowe  is a speech trainer, award-winning journalist, and author of  "I Have Something to Say: Mastering the Art of Public Speaking in an Age of Disconnection."   He has contributed to The New Yorker, The New York Times Magazine, GQ, McSweeney's, This American Life, and many others. Visit his website  here  and follow him on  LinkedIn .

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Speech on Good Manners for Students in English [3 Minutes*]

December 10, 2020 by Sandeep

Good Manners Speech: Good manners play a vital role in shaping the personality of children. Good habits and manners reflect on a person’s upbringing, culture, social behaviour and value towards society. They lead to success in life and inculcate values of honesty, truthfulness, loyalty and sincerity in individuals.

Speech on Good Manners 500 Words in English

Below we have provided Good Manners Speech in English, suitable for class 6, 7, 8, 9 and 10 students.

Good morning everyone presents here. Respected teachers & my dear friends. Today I am going to tell you all about good manners & its importance. We all live in a society, where the way of thinking, talking & acting must be following social norms. Right Manner is a part of human nature & life. We all must know how to behave well & perform good manners. It helps us to earn respect & dignity in society. People always love a man of good manners.

Good manners are incorporated by parents to their children so that they start adapting to it from a very young age. They teach them how to behave with the family, friends, neighbours, relatives & people around them. Modesty, humbleness & kindness are few of the essential traits of a good manners person. Greeting people with a ‘Namaste’ or handshake with a smile is one of the primary manners which all of learning from a very young age.

Reverting people with ‘thank you’ is one of sweet gesture. Saying ‘sorry’, ’excuse me’ are very common which we practice in our lives. Besides all these treating elders with respect & juniors with love & care is also a trait of good manners. We must take permission from other before using any property of others, offering seats to elders in public transport, being humble & polite, not using any offensive or abusive language are also the characters of a well-mannered person.

Good manners always open up the new doors for good connections in life. It also helps us ease of living life. It allows a new conversation with people which is essential for success in life. Good manners create an effective interaction & healthy discussion. Good manners create positivity in the environment. It is a vital part for the individual as well as for society. However, it is observed that the new generation is forgetting the importance of good manners day by day.

They are becoming rude & arrogant. The cases of indiscipline & irregularity are on hike. Good manners are the rudiment elementary education which starts from home. We all must stress on the fact that children are learning it from the very beginning itself. It is a part of life which impacts our existence in society. So we all must practice & follow good manners in our day to day life.

Short Speech on Good Manners

Below we have provided a short speech Good Manners, written in easy and simple words for class 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 school students.

Good morning to everyone present here. Today I ……. of class….. is going to deliver my speech on good manners.

Good manners are an integral part of our life & society. We all learn it from a very young age from our home. Teachers also teach us all good manners in school. It is essential for all of us as it helps in having a good impression on people around us. Being respectful, humble, caring, kind is few of the example of traits which is included in good manners. I will tell you a few of the traits which we all must practice in our day to day life.

Firstly wishing & greeting people whenever we meet them. We must acknowledge people with ‘Thank You’ whenever anyone does any favour for us. If we are wrong somewhere, we must say ‘sorry’. We all must respect our parents, teachers & all elders as well as must show care & love to the juniors. Maintaining cleanliness must be practised not only in-home or school but everywhere we go to. We must not use any offensive or abusive word ever.

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14.1 Four Methods of Delivery

Learning objectives.

• Differentiate among the four methods of speech delivery.
• Understand when to use each of the four methods of speech delivery.

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The easiest approach to speech delivery is not always the best. Substantial work goes into the careful preparation of an interesting and ethical message, so it is understandable that students may have the impulse to avoid “messing it up” by simply reading it word for word. But students who do this miss out on one of the major reasons for studying public speaking: to learn ways to “connect” with one’s audience and to increase one’s confidence in doing so. You already know how to read, and you already know how to talk. But public speaking is neither reading nor talking.

Speaking in public has more formality than talking. During a speech, you should present yourself professionally. This doesn’t mean you must wear a suit or “dress up” (unless your instructor asks you to), but it does mean making yourself presentable by being well groomed and wearing clean, appropriate clothes. It also means being prepared to use language correctly and appropriately for the audience and the topic, to make eye contact with your audience, and to look like you know your topic very well.

While speaking has more formality than talking, it has less formality than reading. Speaking allows for meaningful pauses, eye contact, small changes in word order, and vocal emphasis. Reading is a more or less exact replication of words on paper without the use of any nonverbal interpretation. Speaking, as you will realize if you think about excellent speakers you have seen and heard, provides a more animated message.

The next sections introduce four methods of delivery that can help you balance between too much and too little formality when giving a public speech.

Impromptu Speaking

Impromptu speaking is the presentation of a short message without advance preparation. Impromptu speeches often occur when someone is asked to “say a few words” or give a toast on a special occasion. You have probably done impromptu speaking many times in informal, conversational settings. Self-introductions in group settings are examples of impromptu speaking: “Hi, my name is Steve, and I’m a volunteer with the Homes for the Brave program.” Another example of impromptu speaking occurs when you answer a question such as, “What did you think of the documentary?”

The advantage of this kind of speaking is that it’s spontaneous and responsive in an animated group context. The disadvantage is that the speaker is given little or no time to contemplate the central theme of his or her message. As a result, the message may be disorganized and difficult for listeners to follow.

Here is a step-by-step guide that may be useful if you are called upon to give an impromptu speech in public.

• Take a moment to collect your thoughts and plan the main point you want to make.
• Thank the person for inviting you to speak.
• Deliver your message, making your main point as briefly as you can while still covering it adequately and at a pace your listeners can follow.
• Thank the person again for the opportunity to speak.
• Stop talking.

As you can see, impromptu speeches are generally most successful when they are brief and focus on a single point.

Extemporaneous Speaking

Extemporaneous speaking is the presentation of a carefully planned and rehearsed speech, spoken in a conversational manner using brief notes. By using notes rather than a full manuscript, the extemporaneous speaker can establish and maintain eye contact with the audience and assess how well they are understanding the speech as it progresses. The opportunity to assess is also an opportunity to restate more clearly any idea or concept that the audience seems to have trouble grasping.

For instance, suppose you are speaking about workplace safety and you use the term “sleep deprivation.” If you notice your audience’s eyes glazing over, this might not be a result of their own sleep deprivation, but rather an indication of their uncertainty about what you mean. If this happens, you can add a short explanation; for example, “sleep deprivation is sleep loss serious enough to threaten one’s cognition, hand-to-eye coordination, judgment, and emotional health.” You might also (or instead) provide a concrete example to illustrate the idea. Then you can resume your message, having clarified an important concept.

Speaking extemporaneously has some advantages. It promotes the likelihood that you, the speaker, will be perceived as knowledgeable and credible. In addition, your audience is likely to pay better attention to the message because it is engaging both verbally and nonverbally. The disadvantage of extemporaneous speaking is that it requires a great deal of preparation for both the verbal and the nonverbal components of the speech. Adequate preparation cannot be achieved the day before you’re scheduled to speak.

Because extemporaneous speaking is the style used in the great majority of public speaking situations, most of the information in this chapter is targeted to this kind of speaking.

Speaking from a Manuscript

Manuscript speaking is the word-for-word iteration of a written message. In a manuscript speech, the speaker maintains his or her attention on the printed page except when using visual aids.

The advantage to reading from a manuscript is the exact repetition of original words. As we mentioned at the beginning of this chapter, in some circumstances this can be extremely important. For example, reading a statement about your organization’s legal responsibilities to customers may require that the original words be exact. In reading one word at a time, in order, the only errors would typically be mispronunciation of a word or stumbling over complex sentence structure.

However, there are costs involved in manuscript speaking. First, it’s typically an uninteresting way to present. Unless the speaker has rehearsed the reading as a complete performance animated with vocal expression and gestures (as poets do in a poetry slam and actors do in a reader’s theater), the presentation tends to be dull. Keeping one’s eyes glued to the script precludes eye contact with the audience. For this kind of “straight” manuscript speech to hold audience attention, the audience must be already interested in the message before the delivery begins.

It is worth noting that professional speakers, actors, news reporters, and politicians often read from an autocue device, such as a TelePrompTer, especially when appearing on television, where eye contact with the camera is crucial. With practice, a speaker can achieve a conversational tone and give the impression of speaking extemporaneously while using an autocue device. However, success in this medium depends on two factors: (1) the speaker is already an accomplished public speaker who has learned to use a conversational tone while delivering a prepared script, and (2) the speech is written in a style that sounds conversational.

Speaking from Memory

Memorized speaking is the rote recitation of a written message that the speaker has committed to memory. Actors, of course, recite from memory whenever they perform from a script in a stage play, television program, or movie scene. When it comes to speeches, memorization can be useful when the message needs to be exact and the speaker doesn’t want to be confined by notes.

The advantage to memorization is that it enables the speaker to maintain eye contact with the audience throughout the speech. Being free of notes means that you can move freely around the stage and use your hands to make gestures. If your speech uses visual aids, this freedom is even more of an advantage. However, there are some real and potential costs. First, unless you also plan and memorize every vocal cue (the subtle but meaningful variations in speech delivery, which can include the use of pitch, tone, volume, and pace), gesture, and facial expression, your presentation will be flat and uninteresting, and even the most fascinating topic will suffer. You might end up speaking in a monotone or a sing-song repetitive delivery pattern. You might also present your speech in a rapid “machine-gun” style that fails to emphasize the most important points. Second, if you lose your place and start trying to ad lib, the contrast in your style of delivery will alert your audience that something is wrong. More frighteningly, if you go completely blank during the presentation, it will be extremely difficult to find your place and keep going.

Key Takeaways

• There are four main kinds of speech delivery: impromptu, extemporaneous, manuscript, and memorized.
• Impromptu speaking involves delivering a message on the spur of the moment, as when someone is asked to “say a few words.”
• Extemporaneous speaking consists of delivering a speech in a conversational fashion using notes. This is the style most speeches call for.
• Manuscript speaking consists of reading a fully scripted speech. It is useful when a message needs to be delivered in precise words.
• Memorized speaking consists of reciting a scripted speech from memory. Memorization allows the speaker to be free of notes.
• Find a short newspaper story. Read it out loud to a classroom partner. Then, using only one notecard, tell the classroom partner in your own words what the story said. Listen to your partner’s observations about the differences in your delivery.
• In a group of four or five students, ask each student to give a one-minute impromptu speech answering the question, “What is the most important personal quality for academic success?”
• Watch the evening news. Observe the differences between news anchors using a TelePrompTer and interviewees who are using no notes of any kind. What differences do you observe?

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Public Speaking Etiquette - 10 Solid Ways to Get Yourself Noticed

Etiquette Expert and Modern Manners Authority; Owner, The Protocol School of Texas

Most people would rather have a root canal than stand up in front of a crowd and make a speech, even among their own peers. Yet, one of the most efficient and effective venues for getting yourself noticed is speaking to a group of people with a message that supports your knowledge, intelligence, and strengths. People will not only listen, but take note of your presentation skills. I often hear the remark, "You are so lucky, you don't have to worry about making a fool of yourself!" On the contrary, every speech is a prime opportunity to do something or say something that may come across as foolish. A joke may tank, a remark may be delivered incorrectly or you may fall on your face (and I have!). Over the years, I've learned how to minimize these risks by utilizing a few simple tools.

• Speak hands-free. Glancing down, relying on note cards is distracting. Put down your papers and speak directly to your audience, connecting with eye contact and engaging with a smile and strong knowledge. Don't worry about getting off course. No one will know you have skipped ahead of your presentation. Complete your thoughts and incorporate the material you missed into another segment of your speech.
• Avoid sputtering off too many statistics. One or two relevant statistics to support a comment is acceptable, but most participants would rather you speak their language than come across as a statistician. Share your own thoughts, experiences and insights on the topic.
• Get some rest. When your energy level is compromised, you may struggle to deliver a concise message. Make time to get enough sleep and steer clear of caffeine or alcohol the night before an early morning presentation.
• Inject humor. People enjoy seeing the presenter as a relatable human. Tell a story or a joke that you feel comfortable relaying. A good story captures the audience's attention. A joke can easily work against you if it appears as if you are trying too hard.
• Encourage Q and A's. If someone has a question, mention they are welcome to ask during the presentation. It's a great icebreaker and sets the stage for two way dialogue rather than a talking head in the front of the room. Let the audience know they are free to give their opinion or share a thought.
• Stay mindful of the sound of your own voice. Record yourself and listen carefully to how you sound under pressure. Taping yourself will indicate if you need to practice slowing down, speaking up, or articulating your words more clearly. Look out for "up speak," ending each sentence with a question mark rather than a period.
• Make sure your words mirror your facial expressions. If you are telling a serious story, or delivering bad news, a wide smile will not correspond with your message. On the other hand, if you are attempting to come across as light and breezy, a pensive furrow and a tight lipped smile sends a conflicting message. Practice your speech in the mirror to work out the body language kinks.
• Understand the power in a pause. A brief lapse of words can express thoughtful contemplation, or emphasize a particular point. It can also be used to let others know you are uncertain and thinking the answer through. If you are caught off guard, don't be afraid to say "I don't know, but I will find out and get back to you."
• Hire a professional to coach you. When I first started out, I hired a speech trainer that worked with me on my personal idiosyncrasies and nuances. She methodically taped me, critiqued me, and gave me honest feedback. I sharpened my presentation skills with each session and eventually found my natural voice. Years later I went on to do the same for others, and took over her clients when she retired. Study with the best and the results will be well worth the cost of training.
• Relax and have fun. Once you have mastered your speech, and practiced until you are pitch perfect, trust your own ability to deliver a message that is foolproof and inspirational.

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Etiquette Tips for Public Speaking

When I was a high school speech and debate teacher, etiquette was not something that we ever stressed.  However now, as an etiquette educator, I understand how etiquette offers an easy bridge to the subject of speaking when an audience is present. And this is true whether you are speaking to a large audience, a small group, or sharing your views at a neighborhood get together.

Etiquette-ful Public Speaking

If you've ever taken a class in public speaking, you know there are certain criteria to aim for in order to present yourself as a competent speaker. Most importantly:

• Have a purpose in mind - know what you want to accomplish.  Do you want to inform, inspire, persuade?
• Know who your audience is and their purpose for listening to you.
• Structure and organize your talk according to your purpose and the audience.
• Pay attention to the volume and tone of your voice, your body language, and other techniques of delivery.
• Get and keep your audience’s attention.
• Practice presenting your material with passion in accordance with your desired effect and as few notes as possible. 

While these criteria are very important in making an effective presentation, etiquette requires more.   When a person is “etiquette-ful” he is mindful first of the other person or persons in the context of a situation.  Whether giving a talk at a PTA meeting, a motivational speech to a thousand people, a pep talk to your sales group, or presenting an impassioned plea to a group of potential donors, you would know your environment, the reason you are there to speak, and the demands of the occasion.  

• Politeness and courtesy are always evident in a speaker's attitude.
• The audience is attending to hear you speak, so treat them with the respect you would treat anyone when you've entered their personal space.
• Be so familiar with what you're saying that you can be attentive to signals and the "feel" of your audience.
• Know and be practiced enough to avoid personal habits that distract from your message - little things like touching your hair, scratching, pacing, or losing eye contact with the audience for too long.
• Avoid talking about your flaws or the flaws of the current situation if they are not relevant to your material.
• If you make a mistake just move on.  Your audience is rooting for you.

Focus on Confidence

Presenting yourself in a confident manner gives your audience a level of comfort.   They want to know that you are a professional, that you know what you're talking about, and that you want to educate them with your information. Nearly everyone gets nervous before giving a speech or presentation - that's the nature of the beast of public speaking.  But when you focus on having confidence for the sake of others and providing the comfort they need to like and trust you and the information you are presenting, it helps take the burden of self-consciousness off of yourself. You can present yourself confidently when you:

• Remain poised and postured before you ever walk onto the stage, up to the podium, or welcome others to the meeting.
• If you are introduced, thank the person and wait until he sits or leaves the stage before beginning your talk.
• Don’t readjust the mic or blow sounds into it. A tap is enough for everyone to know it's working.
• Remain standing if others are standing.
• Smile before you begin talking.
• Speak clearly and slowly out of respect for your listeners.
• Use language that draws others into your message.  Avoid unkind words and sarcastic phrasings.
• Be mindful of your gestures.  Avoid pointing and flailing your arms out of exuberance.
• Always speak the truth.  Even if it is a difficult message, kindness can frame anything.
• Be concerned with how you come across.

Practiced Makes Presentable

There are people for whom public speaking comes naturally.  But this doesn't necessarily make them effective speakers and presenters. A practiced speaker not only knows how to talk in front of people, she knows how to talk to people.   She presents her material in a confident, respectful manner.  She makes eye contact with her audience and feeds off their reactions.  During Q&A she listens thoughtfully and answers each question respectfully. A practiced, etiquette-ful speaker presents herself or himself in a way that draws an audience in.  This is why they are typically better leaders, educators, and entertainers.  Don't you want to be one, too?

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Audience etiquette 

How to be a well-mannered audience member.

The key to audience etiquette is to know what is considered good manners for the type of performance you are attending. What is appropriate in one context doesn't always readily translate to another. 'One size fits all' can be a trap.

If you go the theater to watch a play, talking through it will upset members of the audience around you and perhaps even the cast on stage. The same applies to a musical presentation in a concert hall.

However if you go to a large outdoor political rally or rock concert you'll be free to comment, holler and shout to your heart's content.

So what is standard audience etiquette for listening to speakers?

Arrive early.

The advertised starting time is generally the signal for the speaker to begin, not for you to be edging along a row to find your seat while whispering, "Excuse me. Excuse me. Oh, I'm so sorry! Was that your foot?"  

Turn all electronic gadgetry off

You came to listen, not to take photos, text friends, send messages to your social media accounts, or video the event. Leave all of that to the people whose job it is to do it.

And if you must have your mobile/pager on, set it to vibrate and make sure you're seated on the end of a row near an exit. Leave the auditorium, hall or room before you take the message.

Talk only if you're invited to by the speaker

Sometimes a speaker will ask for comments or questions from the audience. Phrase your questions or responses respectfully and sincerely.

Interjections, (spontaneous comments), to challenge a speaker may be appropriate in some settings and absolutely not in others. Judge it very carefully.

Yelling, "Hah! That's a load of unsubstantiated tosh!" or "Give us your references!" may get you promptly escorted out the door.   

Be prepared

If you need cough drops or tissues have them ready rather than having to rummage through your bag for them.

Chewing, munching, slurping, burping ...

The sound of someone chewing gum, munching popcorn or slurping on a water bottle can be disruptive to others. You may not think you're being distracting but if those around you experience your behavior as such, you are. 

Hush, shhhhh ...

Keep private whispered conversations to an absolute minimum and make them brief.

Please don't fiddle, tap or rattle

If you're a habitual rattler of programs, keys or coins put them out of your own way to avoid temptation.

Stay alert and actively listen

Slouching, yawning and falling asleep does little for the speaker's confidence and the people around you will hate it if you snore!

Seats and feet

Please keep your feet on the floor, rather than resting them on the back of the seat in front of you.

Stay to the end

Either wait for a scheduled break or  stay to the end of a speech  before leaving. Exiting noisily or squeezing past other people trying to watch and listen is rude.

Show your appreciation

It's good manners to show your appreciation for the effort the speaker has made to plan, write and deliver a speech. If he makes you laugh, laugh. Clap when it's appropriate. A speaker needs your response. Your laughter, eye contact, and clapping all let him know he's doing a good job.

However if you feel he's not performing well, it is not considered good manners to make that public knowledge. So no eye rolling or disparaging comments.

Be kind. Audience etiquette follows the "do unto others as you would have done unto you" rule.

That doesn't mean lie to the speaker and pretend the performance you saw was faultless. It means, if you're asked, that you find the positive, acknowledge it, and if it's appropriate, offer some considered feedback on ways to improve.

Examples of thoughtless behavior 

These come from my 'what-not-to-do' department. I witnessed both of them.

An older woman and her friend sitting a row in front of me shared a bag of peppermints through a violin concerto. They unwrapped them creak by creak in painfully loud slow motion oblivious to the glares from those near by, mine included.

Yet another occurred at a play. A mobile phone rang. It was answered and a conversation began. The lead actress stopped the play, left the stage, and reappeared in the aisle scanning the audience. Having found her man, she escorted him and his phone, amid cheers and clapping, to the exit.

Observing good etiquette is good for everyone 

Good audience etiquette let's everyone do what they came to do, listen to the speaker or music, or watch the play. 

This is live performance. You can't rewind because you missed a bit, or turn the volume up to hear over the top of unwanted background noise.  

If you sincerely don't know what's expected for a particular type of public performance, ask someone who's got the experience to tell you. While you're at the event carefully observe the behavior around you. Take the best as a model for your own conduct.

"All speech, written or spoken, is a dead language, until it finds a willing and prepared hearer."                        Robert Louis Stevenson: 1850-1895

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Speech on Good Manners

Good manners are like keys to a door, opening up a world of respect and kindness. They help you make a positive impression on others.

Imagine a world where everyone treats each other with courtesy and respect. Isn’t it a beautiful thought? That’s the power of good manners!

1-minute Speech on Good Manners

Good day, Ladies and Gentlemen. I stand before you today to give a speech on a topic that is essential yet often overlooked, and that is ‘Good Manners’.

Good manners are not merely about following set rules. They are about treating others with kindness, respect, and consideration. They are the cornerstone of our daily interaction with others, and they serve as a reflection of our character and our upbringing.

In our fast-paced world, where we often forget to appreciate and respect the people around us, it is important to remind ourselves of the significance of good manners. Simple acts of kindness, like saying ‘please’, ‘thank you’ and ‘sorry’ can make a world of difference. They can make others feel valued and respected, and they can also foster a positive and healthy environment.

Good manners extend far beyond our daily personal interactions. They also play a crucial role in our online interactions. With the rise of social media and digital communication, we must remember to be polite and respectful in our online interactions. A well-mannered person will not only respect others in face-to-face interactions, but also in virtual communication.

In conclusion, let us not underestimate the power of good manners. They have the ability to create a positive and respectful environment, they can build strong relationships, and most importantly, they reveal a lot about our character. So let’s strive to imbibe good manners in our daily lives and spread positivity around us. Remember, good manners cost nothing, but they can bring immense value to our lives and the lives of others. Thank you.

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2-minute Speech on Good Manners

Ladies and Gentlemen,

I stand before you today to speak on the topic of ‘Good Manners’. We’ve all heard the phrase, “Manners maketh man”, but what does it truly mean? Good manners refer to the responsible behavior that an individual exhibits in any social setup. They are the essential part of human life, which people from all walks of life should possess for a harmonious existence.

From an early age, we are taught the importance of good manners. These include saying “please” and “thank you”, waiting for your turn, respecting others’ opinions, and listening attentively when someone else is speaking. Good manners are not just about following set rules. Instead, they reflect an individual’s inner self and upbringing.

One might question, why are good manners important? Firstly, they make us civilized. If we behave in a well-mannered way, it not only reflects our refined and cultured personality but also promotes respect in our relationships. When we treat others with kindness, respect, and understanding, it also develops a sense of trust and friendliness around us.

Secondly, practicing good manners helps to build character. By showing respect for others, we develop empathy and compassion, which are vital for personal growth. Moreover, good manners are contagious. Just like a smile, when we practice good manners, they can influence others and create a positive environment.

Good manners also have a significant role in communication. By practicing active listening, being polite, and showing respect in our conversations, we can avoid misunderstandings and conflicts. It helps to create a positive and respectful conversation, where every opinion is heard and valued.

However, let us not forget that practicing good manners is not a one-time task, but a way of living. It requires consistent efforts and patience. It’s like a beautiful plant, which needs to be nurtured with love and care every day, and over time, it will blossom into a tree of respect, love, and harmony.

As we stride towards a fast-paced, ambitious, and competitive world, let’s not leave behind the essence of being well-mannered. Remember, good manners are not only about respecting others but also about self-respect. When we respect ourselves, it naturally reflects in our actions towards others.

In conclusion, good manners shape us into better individuals and contribute significantly to creating a harmonious society. They reflect our character and upbringing. Practicing good manners will not only help us in our personal growth but also in building better relationships. Remember, it’s not about the big things but the small gestures of love, respect, and kindness that make a big difference.

Let’s pledge to practice good manners and set an example for the younger generation. After all, a person is not judged by his wealth or intelligence, but his behavior and manners. So, let’s strive to be well-mannered and make this world a better place.

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Methods of speech delivery, learning objectives.

Identify the four types of speech delivery methods and when to use them.

There are four basic methods of speech delivery: manuscript, memorized, impromptu, and extemporaneous. We’ll look at each method and discuss the advantages and disadvantages of each.

A manuscript page from President George W. Bush’s address to the nation on the day of the 9/11 attacks in 2001.

A manuscript speech is when the speaker writes down every word they will speak during the speech. When they deliver the speech, they have each word planned and in front of them on the page, much like a newscaster who reads from a teleprompter.

The advantage of using a manuscript is that the speaker has access to every word they’ve prepared in advance. There is no guesswork or memorization needed. This method comforts some speakers’ nerves as they don’t have to worry about that moment where they might freeze and forget what they’ve planned to say. They also are able to make exact quotes from their source material.

When the exact wording of an idea is crucial, speakers often read from a manuscript, for instance in communicating public statements from a company.

However, the disadvantage with a manuscript is that the speakers have MANY words in front of them on the page. This prohibits one of the most important aspects of delivery, eye contact. When many words are on the page, the speakers will find themselves looking down at those words more frequently because they will need the help. If they do look up at the audience, they often cannot find their place when the eye returns to the page. Also, when nerves come into play, speakers with manuscripts often default to reading from the page and forget that they are not making eye contact or engaging their audience. Therefore, manuscript is a very difficult delivery method and not ideal.  Above all, the speakers should remember to rehearse with the script so that they practice looking up often.

Public Speaking in History

The fall of the Berlin Wall on November 9, 1989, owed in large part to a momentary error made by an East German government spokesperson. At a live press conference, Günter Schabowski tried to explain new rules relaxing East Germany’s severe travel restrictions. A reporter asked, “when do these new rules go into effect?” Visibly flustered, Schabowski said, “As far as I know, it takes effect immediately, without delay.” In fact, the new visa application procedure was supposed to begin the following day, and with a lot of bureaucracy and red tape. Instead, thousands of East Berliners arrived within minutes at the border crossings, demanding to pass through immediately. The rest is history.

The outcome of this particular public-relations blunder was welcomed by the vast majority of East and West German citizens, and hastened the collapse of communism in Eastern and Central Europe. It’s probably good, then, that Schabowski ran this particular press conference extemporaneously, rather than reading from a manuscript.

You can view the transcript for “The mistake that toppled the Berlin Wall” here (opens in new window) .

A memorized speech is also fully prepared in advance and one in which the speaker does not use any notes. In the case of an occasion speech like a quick toast, a brief dedication, or a short eulogy, word-for-word memorization might make sense. Usually, though, it doesn’t involve committing each and every word to memory, Memorizing a speech isn’t like memorizing a poem where you need to remember every word exactly as written. Don’t memorize a manuscript! Work with your outline instead. Practice with the outline until you can recall the content and order of your main points without effort. Then it’s just a matter of practicing until you’re able to elaborate on your key points in a natural and seamless manner. Ideally, a memorized speech will sound like an off-the-cuff statement by someone who is a really eloquent speaker and an exceptionally organized thinker!

The advantage of a memorized speech is that the speaker can fully face their audience and make lots of eye contact. The problem with a memorized speech is that speakers may get nervous and forget the parts they’ve memorized. Without any notes to lean on, the speaker may hesitate and leave lots of dead air in the room while trying to recall what was planned. Sometimes, the speaker can’t remember or find his or her place in the speech and are forced to go get the notes or go back to the PowerPoint in some capacity to try to trigger his or her memory. This can be an embarrassing and uncomfortable moment for the speaker and the audience, and is a moment which could be easily avoided by using a different speaking method.

How to: memorize a speech

There are lots of tips out there about how to memorize speeches. Here’s one that loosely follows an ancient memorization strategy called the method of loci or “memory palace,” which uses visualizations of familiar spatial environments in order to enhance the recall of information.

You can view the transcript for “How to Memorize a Speech” here (opens in new window) .

An impromptu speech is one for which there is little to no preparation. There is often not a warning even that the person may be asked to speak. For example, your speech teacher may ask you to deliver a speech on your worst pet peeve. You may or may not be given a few minutes to organize your thoughts. What should you do? DO NOT PANIC. Even under pressure, you can create a basic speech that follows the formula of an introduction, body, and conclusion. If you have a few minutes, jot down some notes that fit into each part of the speech. (In fact, the phrase “speaking off the cuff,” which means speaking without preparation, probably refers to the idea that one would jot a few notes on one’s shirt cuff before speaking impromptu.) [1] ) An introduction should include an attention getter, introduction of the topic, speaker credibility, and forecasting of main points. The body should have two or three main points. The conclusion should have a summary, call to action, and final thought. If you can organize your thoughts into those three parts, you will sound like a polished speaker. Even if you only hit two of them, it will still help you to think about the speech in those parts. For example, if a speech is being given on a pet peeve of chewed gum being left under desks in classrooms, it might be organized like this.

• Introduction : Speaker chews gum loudly and then puts it under a desk (attention getter, demonstration). Speaker introduces themselves and the topic and why they’re qualified to speak on it (topic introduction and credibility). “I’m Katie Smith and I’ve been a student at this school for three years and witnessed this gum problem the entire time.”
• Body : Speaker states three main points of why we shouldn’t leave gum on desks: it’s rude, it makes custodians have to work harder, it affects the next student who gets nastiness on their seat (forecast of order). Speaker then discusses those three points
• Conclusion : Speaker summarizes those three points (summary, part 1 of conclusion), calls on the audience to pledge to never do this again (call to action), and gives a quote from Michael Jordan about respecting property (final thought).

While an impromptu speech can be challenging, the advantage is that it can also be thrilling as the speaker thinks off the cuff and says what they’re most passionate about in the moment. A speaker should not be afraid to use notes during an impromptu speech if they were given any time to organize their thoughts.

The disadvantage is that there is no time for preparation, so finding research to support claims such as quotes or facts cannot be included. The lack of preparation makes some speakers more nervous and they may struggle to engage the audience due to their nerves.

Extemporaneous

The last method of delivery we’ll look at is extemporaneous. When speaking extemporaneously, speakers prepare some notes in advance that help trigger their memory of what they planned to say. These notes are often placed on notecards. A 4”x6” notecard or 5”x7” size card works well. This size of notecards can be purchased at any office supply store. Speakers should determine what needs to go on each card by reading through their speech notes and giving themselves phrases to say out loud. These notes are not full sentences, but help the speakers, who turn them into a full sentence when spoken aloud. Note that if a quote is being used, listing that quote verbatim is fine.

The advantage of extemporaneous speaking is that the speakers are able to speak in a more conversational tone by letting the cards guide them, but not dictate every word they say. This method allows for the speakers to make more eye contact with the audience. The shorter note forms also prevent speakers from getting lost in their words. Numbering these cards also helps if one gets out of order. Also, these notes are not ones the teacher sees or collects. While you may be required to turn in your speech outline, your extemporaneous notecards are not seen by anyone but you. Therefore, you can also write yourself notes to speak up, slow down, emphasize a point, go to the next slide, etc.

The disadvantage to extemporaneous is the speakers may forget what else was planned to say or find a card to be out of order. This problem can be avoided through rehearsal and double-checking the note order before speaking.

Many speakers consider the extemporaneous method to be the ideal speaking method because it allows them to be prepared, keeps the audience engaged, and makes the speakers more natural in their delivery. In your public speaking class, most of your speeches will probably be delivered extemporaneously.

• As per the Oxford English Dictionary' s entry for "Off the Cuff." See an extensive discussion at Mark Liberman's Language Log here: https://languagelog.ldc.upenn.edu/nll/?p=4130 ↵
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Speech On Good Manners [1-3 Minutes]

Are you looking for a guide to draft a speech on good manners? The good news for you is here below I have provided some engaging speeches on the same topic. You can take an idea on how to formulate an influential speech that is worth appreciation and recognition.

Speech on Good Manners | 1 Minute | 100 Words

Very First, I would like to thank you all for having me a chance to deliver this speech. And I wish you all greetings and best wishes.

Good manners will carry you where money won’t go. – Margaret walker

This is the quote that always inspired me to pursue good manners. But have you ever brainstormed about what good manners are? It is actually a set of good behaviours towards others. These good manners are taught to us by our parents and family members first and then by our school teachers.

The next question is -why do good manners hold so much weight in society? That is because Good Manners give shape to personality and behaviour oneself. In fact, Good manners are characteristics of a gentleman . Everyone should adopt good manners in life in order to make a distinct identity in society. Good manners bring us respect and appreciation in society.

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Speech on Good Manners | 2 Minutes | 150 Words

Before I get started I would like to wish you all greetings and good wishes. And I want to thank you all for having me this great opportunity to deliver a speech about good manners.

Good manners will open doors that the best education cannot. Clarence Thomas

This line is written by Clarence Thomas and I personally believe that it is true. All the successful people in the world possess extraordinary good manners that make their personalities very distinct from others. As we all know good manners decide the personality and behaviour of a person. This is why good manners hold intense significance in one’s life.

Everyone likes a person who shows good manners. Don’t you? It is human nature to like someone who treats everyone with love and respect. In fact, most people that are very famous and loved by all are because of having self-confidence and good manners.

Everyone must know the power of words in relation to good manners. Thank You “, “ Sorry “, “ Excuse Me “, “ Good Morning ” and “ Good Evening “. These words can make you liked and well-recognised in society. Using these words in daily life will shine your character and this will strengthen brotherhood and relations.

There is a lot to say but we should respect time as time is limited. So, I sum up this speech here.

Thank you all.

Speech on Good Manners | 3 Minutes | 250 Words

Good manners are the fundamental lesson taught to any child. A person with good manners is forever loved and cherished. These sorts of people hold a magnetic attraction in society. The quality of having good manners is the ladder to achieving success. So, Everyone must practise and follow good manners because they decide the character of a person.

How we can improve good manners to become gentle people? Good manners develop over time and we understand that observation has a higher weight than teaching. Kids use to observe and replicate the styles of people all around them. So, it is also vital for parents to adopt good manners rather than only training their kids about good manners.

Good manners assist us to enhance our personality and offer a good position in society. Plus, these practices render us a chance to be liked and loved by everyone. Whether at home, school , college or any area of the world we should always respect our elders irrespective of appearance, creed or caste. Apart from respect, always speak politely to everyone be it a kid, youth or senior.

Moreover, generosity and helpfulness are also features of a gentleman. These qualities cause a person to be a true human. Words leave a magical influence on human beings. So always use “ Thank You “, “ Sorry “, “ Excuse Me “, “ Good Morning ” and “ Good Evening “. Using these words in daily life will shine your character and this will strengthen brotherhood and relations.

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Teaching Your Teens to Use Their Manners

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When most parents think about teaching manners, they envision telling a preschooler to say 'please' and 'thank you.' But, good manners goes far beyond those words and it's important to make sure you're teaching your child good manners into the teen years.

Unfortunately, in the digital age, many teens aren't learning basic social skills, like cellphone etiquette . And there are many manners teens often forget even though they've learned them in the past. Sometimes, teens go through phases where they want to look cool and manners go out the window. At other times, they get a little sloppy and forget to be polite.

Raising a kind and caring teen who uses good manners could be very beneficial to their future. Teens with good manners will command more respect, which could help them socially and academically. 

Basic Manners Teens Should Know

Sometimes, teens need a little refresher on the basic manners department. It's easy for them to develop a few bad habits when hanging out with their peers or they may get a little lazy from time to time. 

Here are some basic manners you should ensure your teen uses on a regular basis:

• Apologize when they've done something wrong.
• Ask permission to do things.
• Don't answer calls when they're in the middle of a face-to-face conversation.Keep their hands to themselves and don't grab things out of people's hands.
• Make eye contact in conversations.
• Refrain from texting and using social media when talking to people face-to-face.
• Say 'excuse me' when they need to interrupt or if they accidentally bump into someone.
• Say 'please' and 'thank you.'
• Shake hands when greeting someone new.
• Take care of basic hygiene, including coughing into their elbow and covering their mouth when they sneeze.
• Use appropriate language and answer questions when asked.
• Use proper table manners when eating.
• Wait their turn to speak in a conversation.
• Write thank you notes to people who give them gifts.

In our digital world, it's easy for teens to lose sight of basic manners. But grunting when Grandma asks a question or texting when eating a meal is rude. So it's important to teach your teen how to communicate, interact, and respond to others in a polite and kind manner.

How to Encourage Good Manners

You can get your teen to use their manners the same way you get them to do anything else:

• Be clear about what you expect.
• Give your teen consequences when necessary.
• Model the behavior you want to see.
• Talk about the benefits of having good manners.

Avoid lecturing your teen or embarrassing them in public when they make a mistake. Instead, have private conversations about their manners when you see a problem.

The exception to the rule is disrespect. If your teen is disrespectful toward you , intervene right away. Make it clear that you won't tolerate being treated in an unkind manner. Remove your teen's privileges and allow them to earn their privileges back when they behaves politely. 

Give your teen opportunities to practice good manners. Returning an item to the store, scheduling their own appointment, or asking the wait staff for another drink in a restaurant serve as chances for them to practice his skills.

You can also talk about characters on TV or in movies and how they interact with others. Discuss how manners affect people's lives. When your teen is about to enter a new situation, role play. For example, before they pick up a date for the prom, talk about how to greet their parents. Or before they go to an appointment on their own, role-play how to check-in at the desk.

When you see your teen display good manners, point it out. Acknowledge when they're doing a good job and they'll be more likely to keep up the good work. Your feedback can be a critical component of your teen's ability to learn new manners and sharpen his skills.

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English Etiquette

A history of English etiquette and good manners

Ben Johnson

Whilst the English penchant for manners and socially appropriate behaviour is renowned across the world, the word etiquette to which we so often refer actually originates from the French estiquette – “to attach or stick”. Indeed the modern understanding of the word can be linked to the Court of the French King Louis XIV, who used small placards called etiquettes , as a reminder to courtiers of accepted ‘house rules’ such as not walking through certain areas of the palace gardens.

Every culture across the ages has been defined by the concept of etiquette and accepted social interaction. However, it is the British – and the English in particular – who have historically been known to place a great deal of importance in good manners. Whether it be in relation to speech, timeliness, body language or dining, politeness is key.

British etiquette dictates courteousness at all times, which means forming an orderly queue in a shop or for public transport, saying excuse me when someone is blocking your way and saying please and thank you for any service you have received is de rigueur.

The British reputation for being reserved is not without merit. Overfamiliarity of personal space or behaviour is a big no-no! When meeting someone for the first time a handshake is always preferable to a hug and a kiss on the cheek is reserved for close friends only. Asking personal questions about salary, relationship status, weight or age (particularly in the case of more ‘mature’ ladies) is also frowned upon.

Traditionally, one of the best examples of the British etiquette is the importance placed on punctuality. It is considered rude to arrive late to a business meeting, medical appointment or formal social occasion such as a wedding. As such it is advisable to arrive 5-10 minutes early to appear professional, prepared and unflustered as a mark of respect to your host. Conversely, should you arrive too early to a dinner party this could also appear slightly rude and ruin the atmosphere for the evening if the host is still completing their preparations. For the same reason an unannounced house call is often frowned upon for risk of inconveniencing the home owner.

Should you be invited to a British dinner party it is customary for a dinner guest to bring a gift for the host or hostess, such as a bottle of wine, a bouquet of flowers or chocolates. Good table manners are essential (particularly if you want to be invited back!) and unless you are attending a barbeque or an informal buffet it is frowned upon to use fingers rather than cutlery to eat. The cutlery should also be held correctly, i.e. the knife in the right hand and the fork in the left hand with the prongs pointing downwards and the food pushed onto the back of the fork with the knife rather than ‘scooped’. At a formal dinner party when there are numerous utensils at your place setting it is customary to begin with the utensils on the outside and work your way inward with each course.

As the guest it is polite to wait until everyone at the table has been served and your host starts eating or indicates that you should do so. Once the meal has begun it is impolite to reach over someone else’s plate for an item such as seasoning or a food platter; it is more considerate to ask for the item to be passed to you. Leaning your elbows on the table whilst you are eating is also considered rude.

Slurping or making other such loud noises whilst eating is completely frowned upon. As with yawning or coughing it is also considered very rude to chew open-mouthed or talk when there is still food in your mouth. These actions imply that a person was not brought up to adhere to good manners, a criticism against not only the offender but their family too!

Social classes

Rules of etiquette are usually unwritten and passed down from generation to generation, although in days gone by it was common for young ladies to attend a finishing school to ensure their manners were up to scratch. An attribute which was felt particularly crucial in securing a suitable husband!

Whilst today good manners and etiquette are seen as a sign of respect, particularly to those more senior (in either age or position), in Victorian England when the class system was alive and well, etiquette was often used as a social weapon in the interests of social advancement or exclusion.

The evolution of etiquette

More recently, a rise in multiculturalism, a changing economy and the introduction of social and gender specific equality laws have all played a part in Britain moving away from its rigid class system of old and therefore a more informal attitude to social etiquette has arisen. However, today – like the rest of the world – Britain has been influenced by the importance of corporate etiquette, with a shift in focus from the social or household setting to an emphasis on business etiquette and protocol. With the whole concept of etiquette being dependent on culture, for a business to succeed internationally it is important to be aware that what is considered good manners in one society may be rude to another. For instance the “okay” gesture – made by connecting the thumb and forefinger in a circle and holding the other fingers straight, is recognised in Britain and North America as a signal to question or confirm that a person is well or safe. However in parts of southern Europe and South America this is an offensive gesture.

Thus the etiquette of business has become a set of written and unwritten rules of conduct that make social interactions run more smoothly, whether during interaction with a co-worker or contact with external or international colleagues.

Indeed, the rise in online business and social media sites has even seen the creation of a worldwide ‘online society’, necessitating its own rules of conduct, commonly referred to as Netiquette, or network etiquette. These rules regarding the protocol for such communications as email, forums and blogs are constantly being redefined as the internet continues to evolve. So whilst the traditionally accepted behaviours of old may not have the influence they once did, it could be argued that etiquette is as crucial in today’s far-reaching society as it has ever been.

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The Ultimate Guide to Gentleman’s Etiquette

In a world where manners seem to be less and less seen, it’s more important than ever to uphold the standards of gentlemanly behavior. This guide to gentleman’s etiquette covers everything from basic courtesies to advanced social skills, offering timeless advice for modern men.

Alexander Stoicoff

In today’s fast-paced world, the art of being a true gentleman with impeccable etiquette can sometimes seem like a dying breed. However, for those who value good manners and social grace, we’ve compiled a list of 12 essential etiquette tips to help you become the modern-day gentleman you aspire to be.

Dress Like a Gentleman

Embrace a classic and timeless style by dressing well and wearing suits for appropriate occasions. A well-fitted suit not only makes a good impression but you’ll also look good, exuding confidence and refinement.

Pay attention to the dress code and dress appropriately for each event. Invest in quality gentleman essentials that will stand the test of time.

Work Etiquette

In the workplace, gentlemanly behavior is equally important as it is in social settings. Show respect for your colleagues by arriving punctually, maintaining good posture, and offering a firm handshake when greeting others. Be mindful of personal space and avoid engaging in gossip or office politics.

Always address your coworkers and superiors courteously and professionally, remembering that a little common sense goes a long way in the office environment.

Dating Etiquette

When it comes to dating, a true gentleman knows that treating their date with kindness and consideration is paramount. From opening doors to making eye contact during conversation, these small gestures can significantly impact the success of a first date .

In Western cultures, it’s considered polite to open doors while on a date. Keep the door open to show courtesy and respect; it’s always good etiquette to follow.

In addition, be attentive, ask thoughtful questions, and genuinely listen to your date’s responses. Finally, remember to show appreciation and gratitude by picking up the tab or sending a follow-up message to express your enjoyment of the evening.

Social Etiquette

Grace, tact, and etiquette awareness are key for a modern gentleman navigating social events. Whether at a cigar lounge or a dinner party, interact politely and kindly.

Learn social nuances, such as cigar etiquette , which includes buying from the lounge visited, following its rules, and gently extinguishing your cigar instead of stubbing it forcefully.

By observing these conventions, you respect the venue and fellow patrons, ensuring a pleasant experience for all. Introduce yourself with a warm smile, maintain eye contact, and participate in conversations with genuine interest and active listening.

Physical Expression and Self-Portrayal

As a discerning gentleman, being aware of your body language is important in conveying confidence and poise. Stand tall with good posture, avoid crossing your arms or slouching, and maintain appropriate eye contact during conversations.

Use hand gestures in moderation to emphasize points and ensure your facial expressions align with the tone of your speech. By mastering your physical expression, you’ll effortlessly create a positive and lasting impression on those around you.

Conversation: Polite Dialogue and Active Listening

A key component of gentleman etiquette is mastering the art of conversation. Engage in discussions with genuine curiosity and strive to find common ground with others. Practice active listening by giving the speaker your full attention, asking relevant questions, and providing thoughtful feedback.

Avoid interrupting, monopolizing the conversation, or veering into controversial topics. Remember, a gentleman is respectful and empathetic, creating an inclusive atmosphere that encourages open and enjoyable dialogue.

Basic Table Manners: Mastering Dining Etiquette and Proper Conduct

A gentleman understands the importance of basic table manners when dining with others. Always wait for the host to sit before taking your seat, and follow their lead on when to start eating. Use utensils correctly, keep your elbows off the table, and chew with your mouth closed.

Engage in polite conversation, passing items when requested and avoiding speaking with a full mouth. Should you need to excuse yourself, do so discreetly, and remember to thank your host at the end of the meal.

Gym Etiquette: Creating a Positive Environment for All

Being considerate of others at the gym is an essential aspect of gentleman etiquette. Avoid phone distractions and hogging equipment; allow others to use machines between your sets if the gym is busy. Wipe down equipment after use and return items to their proper place.

Refrain from excessive noise or dropping weights, and respect personal space by maintaining a buffer zone around those using squat racks, benches, or lifting platforms. Lastly, don’t offer unsolicited advice or stare at others, ensuring a comfortable atmosphere for all gym-goers .

Gracious Host and Guest: Making Others Feel Welcome and Comfortable

A gentleman knows the importance of being a gracious host and courteous guest. As a host, create a warm and welcoming environment by greeting your guests personally, offering refreshments, and engaging them in conversation.

Anticipate their needs and ensure they’re comfortable throughout the event. As a guest, arrive punctually, respect the host’s home, and engage with fellow attendees. Show appreciation for the invitation by bringing a small gift. Finally, send a follow-up message or note to express your gratitude for the event.

Compliments: Genuine Praise and Encouragement

Offering genuine compliments is an essential aspect of gentleman etiquette. When praising others, be specific, and sincere, and focus on their qualities or accomplishments.

Avoid flattery or superficial remarks, as they may come across as insincere. Instead, encourage and uplift those around you by acknowledging their efforts, strengths, and achievements, fostering a positive and supportive atmosphere.

Cherishing Personal Space: Respecting Boundaries and Privacy

A gentleman understands the importance of respecting others’ personal space and privacy. Be mindful of physical boundaries by not standing too close or touching someone without permission. In conversations, avoid asking intrusive questions or prying into personal matters.

Respect others’ time and space by not overstaying your welcome or showing up unannounced. You demonstrate consideration and sensitivity toward others’ feelings and needs by cherishing personal space.

The Art of Gratitude: Expressing Appreciation and Thankfulness

Gratitude is a cornerstone of gentleman etiquette, showing others you value and appreciate their kindness, generosity, or assistance. Regularly express thankfulness for the people and experiences in your life, whether through verbal acknowledgments, handwritten notes, or small gestures of appreciation.

By practicing gratitude, you cultivate a positive mindset and strengthen your relationships, leaving a lasting impression as a contemporary gentleman.

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Etiquette and Manners for Your Success

The Etiquette That People Most Want to Know – The Most-Read Etiquette Posts of the Year

Enjoy these most popular etiquette topics people want to know about (based on the top ten most-read posts of 2017).

By: Maralee McKee, Manners Mentor

I always find it fascinating to see what interests people. With that in mind, I looked up the top ten most-read Manners Mentor posts of 2017 to discover the etiquette that people most want to know. At this time of year, when we’re all reflecting back and looking forward, I thought it would be fun to share with you what I found.

What were the most common etiquette questions this year? What manners topics peaked readers’ interests? What social skills did people Google?

Here’s a list of the ten most-read posts on Manners Mentor this past year, in order from one to ten.

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An interesting fact about number three is that I wrote it for the July 4 holiday in 2016. It was well-received, but not like many of my other posts. More than a year later, I woke up one day and discovered that over 3,000 people had read it in just one evening! People kept coming to it by the thousands each day for several months this fall after a few football players decided to protest by not standing for the playing of The National Anthem. More players followed suit, some Presidential tweets were sent, and suddenly I was doing radio and print interviews from small towns in the U.S. to European capital cities. Who says etiquette isn’t exciting?!

What I find lovely about the list is that people were looking for ways to take care of people (#1), pay ultimate respect (#10), graciously do hard things (#2, 6, 8, and 9), and celebrate others’ milestones (#4 and 7). These are all things that help draw us together by interacting with thoughtfulness, compassion, kindness, and graciousness. It’s a pretty great way to live the new year and all the future ones too!

Without further ado…

The Most Popular Etiquette Topics — The 10 Most-Read Posts of the Year

1.) How to Be a Great Friend To Someone in the Hospital

2.) Three Ways to Nicely Say No Without Feeling Guilty

3.) U.S. Flag, Pledge of Allegiance, and National Anthem Etiquette

4). RSVP Etiquette for Guests and Hosts: The Newest Manners for This Fading Art

5.) Which To-Go Orders You Tip and Which You Don’t

6.) How to Graciously RSVP That You Can’t Attend

7.) Graduation Etiquette — The Top Eleven Manners for Grads, Guests, and Families

8.) How to Apologize: The 7 Steps of a Sincere Apology

9.) How to Graciously Answer Nosy Questions

10.) The Etiquette of Visitations and Funerals

My Favorite Post on the Blog

If I had to limit the blog to one post, it would be this one:

The Gracious 5-Step Formula for Writing Thank You Notes

It’s surprising that it never made The Top 10 List. I believe it’s because too many people don’t want to slow down enough to express gratitude. Yet until we do, what we have will never be enough. It’s while we’re expressing gratitude, and afterward as we think back on it, that our heart is focused on the contentment that the gift or kind act gives us.

What’s Next?

Happy New Year! May the next 12 months bring you health, contentment, and joy!!! Thank you for reading this blog and being part of the Manners Mentor family! Keep doing what only you can do: make your portion of the world a better place by being you at your authentic best!

Blessings galore,

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About Maralee McKee

Maralee McKee is dedicated to helping you become the person you most want to be and to live a confident, kind, and generous life! She is a contemporary etiquette, manners, and people skill expert and the founder of the prestigious Etiquette School of America. She's in the top one percent of experts in her field, and her etiquette skills blog is the most read in the United States. Maralee presents business etiquette seminars to corporations large and small and coaches individuals one-on-one virtually and in-person. Her book on how moms can teach their children to become the best version of themselves (Harvest House Publishing) earned the prestigious Mom’s Choice Gold Award for excellence in parenting books.

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Good manners are always welcomed by the people in society. Good manners are nothing but to treat the people in a polite way and good behaviour in public. Likewise bad manners are impolite—bad or rude behaviour can be referred to as a discourteous way to treat people in public. Every parent must teach their children to behave in a good manner wherever they may be in public or at home.

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The base of every relationship is manners. Whether it's a friend or a family member, your manners decide whether it will be a good or bad relationship with the person in front of you.

To win someone's heart you have to maintain good manners as it helps to keep the relationship smooth and positive.

A person with good manners is polite, respectful and shows feelings for the people around him.

A person with good manners will never be proud or arrogant about something which is not based on a proper reason. And always takes care of the feelings of the person in front.

Manners play an important role in every single stage of our life. It matters a lot for living a social life.

Manners say that be thankful for others, be kind to all living beings and give respect. These are 3 mantras for good manners.

Good manners also helps to maintain or improve physical, mental, spiritual and social well-being. It leads to sensibility and dignity.

Saying hurtful things to the person is not a sign of good manners. It will hurt the feelings of a person and will make the relationship negative.

Yelling at every point and giving excuses are part of bad manners. Instead we can talk in a lower voice and can say sorry if we are wrong at some point.

Good manners will help to improve our image and make us a good person.

Short Speech on Good Manners

Possessing good manners refers to one's ability to behave properly in social situations. Living a social life depends greatly on having decent manners. Particularly in youngsters, it should be instilled from an early age. The most crucial aspect of our nature and life is how we behave, whether it is in a good or negative way. While bad manners disgrace us, good manners assist us in gaining respect and dignity in society. Good manners give a proper shaping to a personality.

Good manners makes every person extraordinary in their own way. In everyday life, manners are crucial. Our body language, temperament, demeanour, civility, and manners are all reflected in them. We do our duties in every aspect of life, and our moral character is put to the test. Here are some examples of good manners.

Helping people.

Greetings others respectfully.

Say thank you after receiving something.

Say sorry after making any mistake.

Don't talk back.

We must constantly stand for people who are suffering.

Before touching or utilising someone else's property, we must obtain their consent.

When someone speaks to us, we should pay close attention.

We should always compliment individuals on their positive traits and actions.

To leave a positive impression on others in daily life, good manners are crucial. They aid in enhancing your sense of self-worth and identity. Good manners should be used anywhere you go, including at home with children, at work with coworkers, and with friends.

Long Speech on Good Manners

Our character is created by our manners. Both good and bad manners are possible. Our reputation is ruined by bad manners. It is referred to as bad manners when we treat people poorly, such as when we are impolite or fail to communicate with them appropriately.

Children should start learning manners at a young age.We rarely lose the virtues and conduct that were instilled in us as children. Good manners are a set of characteristics that support us in life. A person should always act politely. That demonstrates moral integrity. A person's good manners are not truly a part of them if they are only used when there is a profit to be gained or to make others think well of them.

Practicing Good Manners

I believe that using excellent manners is essential for success in daily life. The modern man is hard-pressed and impatient. In order to function in society, one must also develop social graces. These are frequently referred to as manners or etiquettes. For instance, if there isn't another seat available, one must offer one to an elderly person. One must cover their lips with a handkerchief or at the very least their hand when they cough or sneeze in public.

Additionally, when in a social setting, one must wait their turn to speak. It's impolite to interject in other people's conversations. Students who behave well benefit from their own personal development and become better people overall. Anyone who is kind to us deserves our gratitude. Being polite is essential to having a great and honourable personality in society. It supports our soul's and mind's positivity. Our admirable conduct demonstrates the strength of our character. To foster constructive contact, we ought to reverence and respect others.

Examples of Good Manners

When you first meet someone, introduce yourself by name. Introduce yourself by name and ask the person you are meeting with their name if you haven't met them previously.

For example, You may say, "Hello, my name is James. Which is yours?" When it comes to introductions, different cultures and nations have distinct customs, so be sure you are aware of them where you are.

Use the words "please" and "thank you" while making requests. Start with saying "please" whenever you need to make a request or need anything. In this manner, it won't appear as though you are expecting the other person to perform tasks for you.

For instance, you might ask, "Could you hand me that book please?" Upon receiving the book, "Would you kindly hand the book to me?" Say "Thank you" after receiving the book.

To demonstrate that you are kind and considerate, offer to assist others. Ask if there is anything you can do for someone if you see them in need.

Take the time to help the other person if the request is reasonable and you can complete it without difficulty. You might not always need to ask someone for aid. You can give your seat on a bus to someone who needs to sit down, or you can hold a door open for someone who is approaching from behind.

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Data Administrator

Database professionals use software to store and organise data such as financial information, and customer shipping records. Individuals who opt for a career as data administrators ensure that data is available for users and secured from unauthorised sales. DB administrators may work in various types of industries. It may involve computer systems design, service firms, insurance companies, banks and hospitals.

Bio Medical Engineer

The field of biomedical engineering opens up a universe of expert chances. An Individual in the biomedical engineering career path work in the field of engineering as well as medicine, in order to find out solutions to common problems of the two fields. The biomedical engineering job opportunities are to collaborate with doctors and researchers to develop medical systems, equipment, or devices that can solve clinical problems. Here we will be discussing jobs after biomedical engineering, how to get a job in biomedical engineering, biomedical engineering scope, and salary. 

Ethical Hacker

A career as ethical hacker involves various challenges and provides lucrative opportunities in the digital era where every giant business and startup owns its cyberspace on the world wide web. Individuals in the ethical hacker career path try to find the vulnerabilities in the cyber system to get its authority. If he or she succeeds in it then he or she gets its illegal authority. Individuals in the ethical hacker career path then steal information or delete the file that could affect the business, functioning, or services of the organization.

GIS officer work on various GIS software to conduct a study and gather spatial and non-spatial information. GIS experts update the GIS data and maintain it. The databases include aerial or satellite imagery, latitudinal and longitudinal coordinates, and manually digitized images of maps. In a career as GIS expert, one is responsible for creating online and mobile maps.

Data Analyst

The invention of the database has given fresh breath to the people involved in the data analytics career path. Analysis refers to splitting up a whole into its individual components for individual analysis. Data analysis is a method through which raw data are processed and transformed into information that would be beneficial for user strategic thinking.

Data are collected and examined to respond to questions, evaluate hypotheses or contradict theories. It is a tool for analyzing, transforming, modeling, and arranging data with useful knowledge, to assist in decision-making and methods, encompassing various strategies, and is used in different fields of business, research, and social science.

Geothermal Engineer

Individuals who opt for a career as geothermal engineers are the professionals involved in the processing of geothermal energy. The responsibilities of geothermal engineers may vary depending on the workplace location. Those who work in fields design facilities to process and distribute geothermal energy. They oversee the functioning of machinery used in the field.

Database Architect

If you are intrigued by the programming world and are interested in developing communications networks then a career as database architect may be a good option for you. Data architect roles and responsibilities include building design models for data communication networks. Wide Area Networks (WANs), local area networks (LANs), and intranets are included in the database networks. It is expected that database architects will have in-depth knowledge of a company's business to develop a network to fulfil the requirements of the organisation. Stay tuned as we look at the larger picture and give you more information on what is db architecture, why you should pursue database architecture, what to expect from such a degree and what your job opportunities will be after graduation. Here, we will be discussing how to become a data architect. Students can visit NIT Trichy , IIT Kharagpur , JMI New Delhi . 

Remote Sensing Technician

Individuals who opt for a career as a remote sensing technician possess unique personalities. Remote sensing analysts seem to be rational human beings, they are strong, independent, persistent, sincere, realistic and resourceful. Some of them are analytical as well, which means they are intelligent, introspective and inquisitive. 

Remote sensing scientists use remote sensing technology to support scientists in fields such as community planning, flight planning or the management of natural resources. Analysing data collected from aircraft, satellites or ground-based platforms using statistical analysis software, image analysis software or Geographic Information Systems (GIS) is a significant part of their work. Do you want to learn how to become remote sensing technician? There's no need to be concerned; we've devised a simple remote sensing technician career path for you. Scroll through the pages and read.

Budget Analyst

Budget analysis, in a nutshell, entails thoroughly analyzing the details of a financial budget. The budget analysis aims to better understand and manage revenue. Budget analysts assist in the achievement of financial targets, the preservation of profitability, and the pursuit of long-term growth for a business. Budget analysts generally have a bachelor's degree in accounting, finance, economics, or a closely related field. Knowledge of Financial Management is of prime importance in this career.

Underwriter

An underwriter is a person who assesses and evaluates the risk of insurance in his or her field like mortgage, loan, health policy, investment, and so on and so forth. The underwriter career path does involve risks as analysing the risks means finding out if there is a way for the insurance underwriter jobs to recover the money from its clients. If the risk turns out to be too much for the company then in the future it is an underwriter who will be held accountable for it. Therefore, one must carry out his or her job with a lot of attention and diligence.

Finance Executive

Product manager.

A Product Manager is a professional responsible for product planning and marketing. He or she manages the product throughout the Product Life Cycle, gathering and prioritising the product. A product manager job description includes defining the product vision and working closely with team members of other departments to deliver winning products.  

Operations Manager

Individuals in the operations manager jobs are responsible for ensuring the efficiency of each department to acquire its optimal goal. They plan the use of resources and distribution of materials. The operations manager's job description includes managing budgets, negotiating contracts, and performing administrative tasks.

Stock Analyst

Individuals who opt for a career as a stock analyst examine the company's investments makes decisions and keep track of financial securities. The nature of such investments will differ from one business to the next. Individuals in the stock analyst career use data mining to forecast a company's profits and revenues, advise clients on whether to buy or sell, participate in seminars, and discussing financial matters with executives and evaluate annual reports.

A Researcher is a professional who is responsible for collecting data and information by reviewing the literature and conducting experiments and surveys. He or she uses various methodological processes to provide accurate data and information that is utilised by academicians and other industry professionals. Here, we will discuss what is a researcher, the researcher's salary, types of researchers.

Welding Engineer

Welding Engineer Job Description: A Welding Engineer work involves managing welding projects and supervising welding teams. He or she is responsible for reviewing welding procedures, processes and documentation. A career as Welding Engineer involves conducting failure analyses and causes on welding issues. 

Transportation Planner

A career as Transportation Planner requires technical application of science and technology in engineering, particularly the concepts, equipment and technologies involved in the production of products and services. In fields like land use, infrastructure review, ecological standards and street design, he or she considers issues of health, environment and performance. A Transportation Planner assigns resources for implementing and designing programmes. He or she is responsible for assessing needs, preparing plans and forecasts and compliance with regulations.

Environmental Engineer

Individuals who opt for a career as an environmental engineer are construction professionals who utilise the skills and knowledge of biology, soil science, chemistry and the concept of engineering to design and develop projects that serve as solutions to various environmental problems. 

Safety Manager

A Safety Manager is a professional responsible for employee’s safety at work. He or she plans, implements and oversees the company’s employee safety. A Safety Manager ensures compliance and adherence to Occupational Health and Safety (OHS) guidelines.

Conservation Architect

A Conservation Architect is a professional responsible for conserving and restoring buildings or monuments having a historic value. He or she applies techniques to document and stabilise the object’s state without any further damage. A Conservation Architect restores the monuments and heritage buildings to bring them back to their original state.

Structural Engineer

A Structural Engineer designs buildings, bridges, and other related structures. He or she analyzes the structures and makes sure the structures are strong enough to be used by the people. A career as a Structural Engineer requires working in the construction process. It comes under the civil engineering discipline. A Structure Engineer creates structural models with the help of computer-aided design software. 

Highway Engineer

Highway Engineer Job Description:  A Highway Engineer is a civil engineer who specialises in planning and building thousands of miles of roads that support connectivity and allow transportation across the country. He or she ensures that traffic management schemes are effectively planned concerning economic sustainability and successful implementation.

Field Surveyor

Are you searching for a Field Surveyor Job Description? A Field Surveyor is a professional responsible for conducting field surveys for various places or geographical conditions. He or she collects the required data and information as per the instructions given by senior officials. 

Orthotist and Prosthetist

Orthotists and Prosthetists are professionals who provide aid to patients with disabilities. They fix them to artificial limbs (prosthetics) and help them to regain stability. There are times when people lose their limbs in an accident. In some other occasions, they are born without a limb or orthopaedic impairment. Orthotists and prosthetists play a crucial role in their lives with fixing them to assistive devices and provide mobility.

Pathologist

A career in pathology in India is filled with several responsibilities as it is a medical branch and affects human lives. The demand for pathologists has been increasing over the past few years as people are getting more aware of different diseases. Not only that, but an increase in population and lifestyle changes have also contributed to the increase in a pathologist’s demand. The pathology careers provide an extremely huge number of opportunities and if you want to be a part of the medical field you can consider being a pathologist. If you want to know more about a career in pathology in India then continue reading this article.

Veterinary Doctor

Speech therapist, gynaecologist.

Gynaecology can be defined as the study of the female body. The job outlook for gynaecology is excellent since there is evergreen demand for one because of their responsibility of dealing with not only women’s health but also fertility and pregnancy issues. Although most women prefer to have a women obstetrician gynaecologist as their doctor, men also explore a career as a gynaecologist and there are ample amounts of male doctors in the field who are gynaecologists and aid women during delivery and childbirth. 

Audiologist

The audiologist career involves audiology professionals who are responsible to treat hearing loss and proactively preventing the relevant damage. Individuals who opt for a career as an audiologist use various testing strategies with the aim to determine if someone has a normal sensitivity to sounds or not. After the identification of hearing loss, a hearing doctor is required to determine which sections of the hearing are affected, to what extent they are affected, and where the wound causing the hearing loss is found. As soon as the hearing loss is identified, the patients are provided with recommendations for interventions and rehabilitation such as hearing aids, cochlear implants, and appropriate medical referrals. While audiology is a branch of science that studies and researches hearing, balance, and related disorders.

An oncologist is a specialised doctor responsible for providing medical care to patients diagnosed with cancer. He or she uses several therapies to control the cancer and its effect on the human body such as chemotherapy, immunotherapy, radiation therapy and biopsy. An oncologist designs a treatment plan based on a pathology report after diagnosing the type of cancer and where it is spreading inside the body.

Are you searching for an ‘Anatomist job description’? An Anatomist is a research professional who applies the laws of biological science to determine the ability of bodies of various living organisms including animals and humans to regenerate the damaged or destroyed organs. If you want to know what does an anatomist do, then read the entire article, where we will answer all your questions.

For an individual who opts for a career as an actor, the primary responsibility is to completely speak to the character he or she is playing and to persuade the crowd that the character is genuine by connecting with them and bringing them into the story. This applies to significant roles and littler parts, as all roles join to make an effective creation. Here in this article, we will discuss how to become an actor in India, actor exams, actor salary in India, and actor jobs. 

Individuals who opt for a career as acrobats create and direct original routines for themselves, in addition to developing interpretations of existing routines. The work of circus acrobats can be seen in a variety of performance settings, including circus, reality shows, sports events like the Olympics, movies and commercials. Individuals who opt for a career as acrobats must be prepared to face rejections and intermittent periods of work. The creativity of acrobats may extend to other aspects of the performance. For example, acrobats in the circus may work with gym trainers, celebrities or collaborate with other professionals to enhance such performance elements as costume and or maybe at the teaching end of the career.

Video Game Designer

Career as a video game designer is filled with excitement as well as responsibilities. A video game designer is someone who is involved in the process of creating a game from day one. He or she is responsible for fulfilling duties like designing the character of the game, the several levels involved, plot, art and similar other elements. Individuals who opt for a career as a video game designer may also write the codes for the game using different programming languages.

Depending on the video game designer job description and experience they may also have to lead a team and do the early testing of the game in order to suggest changes and find loopholes.

Radio Jockey

Radio Jockey is an exciting, promising career and a great challenge for music lovers. If you are really interested in a career as radio jockey, then it is very important for an RJ to have an automatic, fun, and friendly personality. If you want to get a job done in this field, a strong command of the language and a good voice are always good things. Apart from this, in order to be a good radio jockey, you will also listen to good radio jockeys so that you can understand their style and later make your own by practicing.

A career as radio jockey has a lot to offer to deserving candidates. If you want to know more about a career as radio jockey, and how to become a radio jockey then continue reading the article.

Choreographer

The word “choreography" actually comes from Greek words that mean “dance writing." Individuals who opt for a career as a choreographer create and direct original dances, in addition to developing interpretations of existing dances. A Choreographer dances and utilises his or her creativity in other aspects of dance performance. For example, he or she may work with the music director to select music or collaborate with other famous choreographers to enhance such performance elements as lighting, costume and set design.

Social Media Manager

A career as social media manager involves implementing the company’s or brand’s marketing plan across all social media channels. Social media managers help in building or improving a brand’s or a company’s website traffic, build brand awareness, create and implement marketing and brand strategy. Social media managers are key to important social communication as well.

Photographer

Photography is considered both a science and an art, an artistic means of expression in which the camera replaces the pen. In a career as a photographer, an individual is hired to capture the moments of public and private events, such as press conferences or weddings, or may also work inside a studio, where people go to get their picture clicked. Photography is divided into many streams each generating numerous career opportunities in photography. With the boom in advertising, media, and the fashion industry, photography has emerged as a lucrative and thrilling career option for many Indian youths.

An individual who is pursuing a career as a producer is responsible for managing the business aspects of production. They are involved in each aspect of production from its inception to deception. Famous movie producers review the script, recommend changes and visualise the story. 

They are responsible for overseeing the finance involved in the project and distributing the film for broadcasting on various platforms. A career as a producer is quite fulfilling as well as exhaustive in terms of playing different roles in order for a production to be successful. Famous movie producers are responsible for hiring creative and technical personnel on contract basis.

Copy Writer

In a career as a copywriter, one has to consult with the client and understand the brief well. A career as a copywriter has a lot to offer to deserving candidates. Several new mediums of advertising are opening therefore making it a lucrative career choice. Students can pursue various copywriter courses such as Journalism , Advertising , Marketing Management . Here, we have discussed how to become a freelance copywriter, copywriter career path, how to become a copywriter in India, and copywriting career outlook. 

In a career as a vlogger, one generally works for himself or herself. However, once an individual has gained viewership there are several brands and companies that approach them for paid collaboration. It is one of those fields where an individual can earn well while following his or her passion. 

Ever since internet costs got reduced the viewership for these types of content has increased on a large scale. Therefore, a career as a vlogger has a lot to offer. If you want to know more about the Vlogger eligibility, roles and responsibilities then continue reading the article. 

For publishing books, newspapers, magazines and digital material, editorial and commercial strategies are set by publishers. Individuals in publishing career paths make choices about the markets their businesses will reach and the type of content that their audience will be served. Individuals in book publisher careers collaborate with editorial staff, designers, authors, and freelance contributors who develop and manage the creation of content.

Careers in journalism are filled with excitement as well as responsibilities. One cannot afford to miss out on the details. As it is the small details that provide insights into a story. Depending on those insights a journalist goes about writing a news article. A journalism career can be stressful at times but if you are someone who is passionate about it then it is the right choice for you. If you want to know more about the media field and journalist career then continue reading this article.

Individuals in the editor career path is an unsung hero of the news industry who polishes the language of the news stories provided by stringers, reporters, copywriters and content writers and also news agencies. Individuals who opt for a career as an editor make it more persuasive, concise and clear for readers. In this article, we will discuss the details of the editor's career path such as how to become an editor in India, editor salary in India and editor skills and qualities.

Individuals who opt for a career as a reporter may often be at work on national holidays and festivities. He or she pitches various story ideas and covers news stories in risky situations. Students can pursue a BMC (Bachelor of Mass Communication) , B.M.M. (Bachelor of Mass Media) , or  MAJMC (MA in Journalism and Mass Communication) to become a reporter. While we sit at home reporters travel to locations to collect information that carries a news value.  

Corporate Executive

Are you searching for a Corporate Executive job description? A Corporate Executive role comes with administrative duties. He or she provides support to the leadership of the organisation. A Corporate Executive fulfils the business purpose and ensures its financial stability. In this article, we are going to discuss how to become corporate executive.

Multimedia Specialist

A multimedia specialist is a media professional who creates, audio, videos, graphic image files, computer animations for multimedia applications. He or she is responsible for planning, producing, and maintaining websites and applications. 

Quality Controller

A quality controller plays a crucial role in an organisation. He or she is responsible for performing quality checks on manufactured products. He or she identifies the defects in a product and rejects the product. 

A quality controller records detailed information about products with defects and sends it to the supervisor or plant manager to take necessary actions to improve the production process.

Production Manager

A QA Lead is in charge of the QA Team. The role of QA Lead comes with the responsibility of assessing services and products in order to determine that he or she meets the quality standards. He or she develops, implements and manages test plans. 

Process Development Engineer

The Process Development Engineers design, implement, manufacture, mine, and other production systems using technical knowledge and expertise in the industry. They use computer modeling software to test technologies and machinery. An individual who is opting career as Process Development Engineer is responsible for developing cost-effective and efficient processes. They also monitor the production process and ensure it functions smoothly and efficiently.

AWS Solution Architect

An AWS Solution Architect is someone who specializes in developing and implementing cloud computing systems. He or she has a good understanding of the various aspects of cloud computing and can confidently deploy and manage their systems. He or she troubleshoots the issues and evaluates the risk from the third party. 

Azure Administrator

An Azure Administrator is a professional responsible for implementing, monitoring, and maintaining Azure Solutions. He or she manages cloud infrastructure service instances and various cloud servers as well as sets up public and private cloud systems. 

Computer Programmer

Careers in computer programming primarily refer to the systematic act of writing code and moreover include wider computer science areas. The word 'programmer' or 'coder' has entered into practice with the growing number of newly self-taught tech enthusiasts. Computer programming careers involve the use of designs created by software developers and engineers and transforming them into commands that can be implemented by computers. These commands result in regular usage of social media sites, word-processing applications and browsers.

Information Security Manager

Individuals in the information security manager career path involves in overseeing and controlling all aspects of computer security. The IT security manager job description includes planning and carrying out security measures to protect the business data and information from corruption, theft, unauthorised access, and deliberate attack 

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Automation test engineer.

An Automation Test Engineer job involves executing automated test scripts. He or she identifies the project’s problems and troubleshoots them. The role involves documenting the defect using management tools. He or she works with the application team in order to resolve any issues arising during the testing process. 

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1 Minute Speech on ‘Manners Matter’ In English

A very good morning to one and all present here. Today, I will be giving a short speech on the topic of ‘Manners Matter’.

Google defines the term ‘manners’ to be “a person’s outward bearing or way of behaving towards others.” One’s manners reflect their social behavior thus. 

Why do manners matter? Manners matter because it conveys the respect one has towards their social environment and the people in it. In the civilized society that we all find ourselves to be in today, manners are extremely important in presenting an impeccable image of ourselves. 

Keeping in mind the significance of manners, they are seen to be inculcated right from childhood. Basic manners such as saying the ‘magic words’ please and thank you, apologizing upon doing a mistake, basic table manners, knocking on doors before entering, covering one’s nose and mouth while sneezing or coughing (which became all the more important during Covid-19!), and being polite are taught. These later transform into etiquettes to be followed in life. 

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Miss Manners: I would personally prefer no applause at a funeral

• Published: Apr. 09, 2024, 3:00 p.m.

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DEAR MISS MANNERS: I have noticed that mourners now applaud at funerals after a memorial speech. Maybe I am old-school, but I do not remember this being done until lately. I would personally prefer no applause.

GENTLE READER: Whether this was started by those who grew up on a parental chorus of “Good job!” for every action or is just part of America’s orientation toward show business, Miss Manners cannot say.

But yes, solemn occasions are now often punctuated by applause. To applaud a funeral tribute does take the focus from honoring the deceased to congratulating the speaker. Even applauding music that is a formal part of religious services suggests that it is done to please an audience, not to glorify God.

So Miss Manners agrees with you, but sees little hope of convincing others that thoughtful silence can be more meaningful than noise.

(Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com ; to her email, [email protected] ; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.)

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Advice | Miss Manners: I don’t want people to applaud at my funeral

Plus: my manners took a hit during the overwhelming weeks after my diagnosis.

DEAR MISS MANNERS : I have noticed that mourners now applaud at funerals after a memorial speech.

GENTLE READER : Whether this was started by those who grew up on a parental chorus of “Good job!” for every action or is just part of America’s orientation toward show business, Miss Manners cannot say.

But yes, solemn occasions are now often punctuated by applause.

To applaud a funeral tribute does take the focus from honoring the deceased to congratulating the speaker. Even applauding music that is a formal part of religious services suggests that it is done to please an audience, not to glorify God.

So Miss Manners agrees with you, but sees little hope of convincing others that thoughtful silence can be more meaningful than noise.

DEAR MISS MANNERS : I’m a terrible procrastinator. I have procrastinated sending thank-you letters for multiple years for multiple events (our wedding, my baby shower, our child’s birthday parties).

The worst offense is our wedding, five years ago.

Is it ever too late to send a thank-you letter? Could I send a single thank-you now, for the gifts and attendance to all these events?

GENTLE READER : Yes, but it had better be a good one.

Being a procrastinator is not a decent excuse, and Miss Manners is not going to let you off the hook by declaring a statute of limitations.

What you need to atone for is not postponement so much as blatantly apparent ingratitude. So you need to name and praise your use of each of these presents (at least vaguely, if you can’t remember what they were) and also express appreciation for your benefactors’ continued thoughtfulness and generosity over the years.

Yes, this will be a lot of work. But when you do not pay a debt when it is due, it accrues interest.

DEAR MISS MANNERS : A few months ago, I was diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer. I had many friends, family members and colleagues send gifts, cards, emails and texts, for which I know that I am very, very lucky.

Most of these occurred in the first month after my diagnosis, which was a flurry of tests, procedures and doctor’s appointments.

I tried to keep up with sending thank-you notes or responding to emails, but it was quite overwhelming. Unfortunately, many slipped through the cracks.

Now a couple months have passed. What is the etiquette for sending thanks or responding at this point?

Still, you do want to show your appreciation. Miss Manners reminds you that some of those kind people will surely have asked what they can do to help. One or more of them could make your task easier by taking dictation from you to write on your behalf.

Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com; to her email, [email protected]; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.

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What it means.

A person may be described as brusque when they are talking or behaving in a very direct, brief, and unfriendly way. Brusque can also describe speech that is noticeably short and abrupt.

// We knew something was wrong when our normally easygoing professor was brusque and impatient with our class.

// She asked for a cup of coffee and received a brusque reply: “We don't have any.”

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“Archaeologists look down on him because of his working-class background, and his brusque manner hasn't won him many friends. He doesn't argue with those he disagrees with; he just walks away.” — Dan Lybarger, The Arkansas Democrat-Gazette , 19 Feb. 2021

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If you’ve ever felt swept aside by someone with a brusque manner, that makes a certain amount of etymological sense. Brusque , you see, comes ultimately from bruscus , the Medieval Latin name for butcher’s broom , a shrub whose bristly, leaf-like twigs have long been used for making brooms. Bruscus was modified to the adjective brusco in Italian, where it meant “sour” or “tart.” French, in turn, changed brusco to brusque , and the word in that form entered English in the 1600s. English speakers initially applied brusque to tartness in wine, but the word soon came to describe a harsh and stiff manner, which is just what you might expect of a word bristling with associations to stiff, scratchy brooms.

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