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A Guide to Writing the Perfect Mother of the Groom Speech

Last Updated: January 18, 2024 Fact Checked

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This article was co-authored by Lynn Kirkham and by wikiHow staff writer, Aly Rusciano . Lynn Kirkham is a Professional Public Speaker and Founder of Yes You Can Speak, a San Francisco Bay Area-based public speaking educational business empowering thousands of professionals to take command of whatever stage they've been given - from job interviews, boardroom talks to TEDx and large conference platforms. Lynn was chosen as the official TEDx Berkeley speaker coach for the last four years and has worked with executives at Google, Facebook, Intuit, Genentech, Intel, VMware, and others. There are 7 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 7,114 times.

Your son’s wedding is quickly approaching and all the details are taken care of—except the speech you plan to give at the rehearsal dinner or reception. We're here to help! Writing and giving a mother of the groom speech will be a piece of cake with our guide. You only need a few stories, anecdotes, and sweet words to melt everyone’s hearts. We’ll explain what to include and avoid, provide tons of examples, and even show you how to format your speech from beginning to end.

Things You Should Know

• Start your speech with a quick introduction, stating who you are and your relationship to the couple.
• Add personality and warmth to your speech by including heartwarming or funny stories about your son.
• Finish your speech with a touching message for the happy couple, expressing how bright and joyful you wish their future together to be.

How to Write a Mother of the Groom Speech

• If you’re feeling stuck, brainstorm speech ideas by jotting down what words describe your son and his partner.
• Practice makes perfect! If you’re nervous about giving your speech, that’s completely normal. Practice your speech as many times as possible so you know what you’ll say and how you’ll say it. This can help calm your nerves. [5] X Research source
• Keep your speech short and sweet. [6] X Research source The longer your speech is, the less engaged your audience will be. So, aim to keep your speech under 5 minutes.
• At the end of the day, make the speech unique to you. If these templates don’t speak to you, that’s okay! Write and speak from the heart. [7] X Research source
• If you’re worried about how your speech sounds, ask someone to read it over.
• 1 Standard Example Hello everyone, I’m [Your Name], the mother of the handsome groom. I’m so grateful to be standing before you today to celebrate [Your Son’s Name] and [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], and it’s been wonderful getting to meet each and every one of you. The support you’ve shown my son is truly heartwarming. Now, some of you know [Your Son’s Name] as the person who’s always [insert personal description]. But to me, he’s still the sweetest little boy. [Insert story about your son’s childhood]. [Your Son’s Name] has always been [insert description that matches above childhood story], and now he’s found someone just as incredible as he is. [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], you are [insert description of your son’s partner]. From the first time I met you, I knew you were the one. It gives me great honor to welcome you into our family. [Your Son’s Name] and [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], I hope your lifetime together is full of joy and laughter. May your love continue to grow with each year, each milestone, and each hardship. Let’s raise our glasses to the happy couple! Here’s to many more happy years to come!
• 2 Short & Sweet Example Dear friends and family, I’m here tonight to talk about my son, [Your Son’s Name], the most [insert description] man I know. Ever since he was little, he’s been a [insert description]. He has a heart of gold, and I knew whoever would win his heart one day would be someone very, very special. [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], you are that very special someone. From the moment [Your Son’s Name] introduced me to you, I knew you were his future. You’re [insert description], and I can’t imagine anyone better for my son. [Insert a popular quote or family saying]. I can’t wait to spend more time with you, [Your Son’s Partner’s Name]. I hope your marriage is happy, bright, and filled with joy. I love you both dearly.
• 3 Funny Example Good evening, everyone! Thank you all for coming to this special occasion. I am honored to stand before you as the groom's mother. Now, [Your Son’s Name] may have gotten his good looks from his father, but he certainly got his humor from me! [Insert a funny story about your son growing up that showcases his personality or relationship with you] [Insert another story about your son that focuses on his relationship with his partner] And [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], our beautiful bride. Now, I must admit, when [Your Son’s Name] first introduced us, I was a bit skeptical. But I’m happy to say you’ve won me over with that contagious laugh, kind heart, and [insert description]. [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], you’ve brought my son and this family so much joy these past few years, and I cannot thank you enough for that. You’re a perfect match for each other, and it’s been an honor to watch you grow and thrive in each other's arms. Here’s to a future full of love and laughter. To the happy couple!
• 4 Heartfelt Example Ladies and gentlemen, I’m here tonight to talk to you about my son and his fabulous new life partner. Growing up, [Your Son’s Name] always talked about finding the one. [Insert personal story]. When he brought [Your Son’s Partner’s Name] home, I just had this feeling. Something told me this was it. And then he asked [Your Son’s Partner’s Name] to marry him. [Insert story about the proposal]. I knew she’d say yes—we all did! But seeing them waltz into the house with the biggest grins made it all so much more real. [Your Son’s Partner’s Name], I’m so happy to say you’re a part of this family. It feels like you always have been. Here’s to many, many years of happiness. I love you both.
• 5 Simple Example Good evening, everyone! I don’t want to take up too much of your time. After all, we have a lot of speeches to get through tonight! So I’ll just say how happy I am for my son and his beautiful partner. These two are a force to be reckoned with, and I have no doubt that they are going to do such wondrous things together. To [Your Son’s Name] and [Your Son’s Partner’s Name]! Let all of your wildest dreams come true.

What Not to Say In Your Speech

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Most people would agree that public speaking isn't easy, and this is especially true when you're feeling the added pressure that comes along with giving a speech at a loved one's wedding. Not only do you have the attention of dozens (if not hundreds!) of guests you probably don't know, but you're also trying to appeal to a group of people in a wide range of ages from all different phases of the couple's lives. What's more, you want your speech to delight the couple of the hour and be as appealing to your group of friends as it to the newlyweds' grandparents. All in all, it's a tough task.

Before you panic, know that we're here to help. Ahead, we're sharing a comprehensive guide on what you should include in your speech , how to nail your delivery, and questions to consider to get the brainstorming process started—all from noteworthy speakers, well-established speechwriters, and wedding planners (who have seen it all).

Wedding Speech Template

Every great wedding speech has one thing in common: the right flow. Factor in these guidelines to help you find your own organic rhythm.

Open With a Statement or Question

Don't lead with a joke or a reference to how nervous you are. "The goal is to engage your audience, not make it a boring one-way message," says award-winning motivational speaker Jaime Pfeffer . "You'll lose them if you do this."

Introduce Yourself

After your opener, introduce yourself, says Fallon Carter , a wedding planner, even designer, and professional speaker. "A lot of times, people don't know who is speaking, and they don't know their relationship to the bride or the groom," she says. "It's really important to identify yourself, so make sure you've prepared something."

Address Your Audience

As speaker and life strategy coach Mark Black, CSP , points out, focusing on yourself only enhances nerves. "Instead, concentrate on your audience and how you want them to feel. This will help you to speak from the heart, allowing your speech to do what it's supposed to do: Make the couple feel special while also engaging the audience."

Focus on a Few Points

Seasoned speaker Susan Bender Phelps, CEO of Odyssey Mentoring & Leadership , says her top guideline is to select one to three aspects of the newlyweds that you love and appreciate, along with no more than three short stories to illustrate each of these points (or that one point). "The simple, succinct story or stories where the bride and groom are the hero will work best." This is an excellent way to structure your speech and keep your message focused.

How Long Wedding Speeches Should Be

The ideal length for a speech is three to five minutes, with five minutes being the absolute maximum you should speak for. That's it. "I’ve never been to a wedding where anyone said, 'That was a great wedding, but the best man speech was just too short and that  ruined  it,'" says David Litt , the speechwriter for former President Barack Obama and author of Thanks, Obama .

Carter agrees: "I always say anywhere between two and five minutes—and no more than five minutes," she says. "You want to keep things short and sweet." It's just as important to keep in mind when the speech will take place when determining length, since toasts are often timed with meal courses: "Be mindful of how long a course generally takes or how long it takes people to eat," Carter adds, noting that most courses last between 15 and 20 minutes and that several speeches have to fit inside each window. "If there are other people speaking, you want to be mindful and give them space."

Wedding Speech Tips

Now that you've established the right framework for your words, take note of these essential tips for acing the delivery from a few speaking pros.

Rehearse Regularly

The better prepared you are, the more confident you'll be and the better your speech will be, says author and professional speaker Barry Maher . A good rule of thumb is to practice the speech enough that you can remember the points you want to make and the order in which you want to make them. That way, you can look out to the crowd and make eye contact every so often.

Record Yourself Practicing

Use your phone to take a video of yourself practicing, suggests Kate Kenfield , speaker and sex educator. "It can be a little uncomfortable to watch yourself, but you'll be able to identify distracting mannerisms, such as the verbal pauses 'um,' 'uh,' and 'like'." It's also a good idea to practice your speech in front of someone else. "A second opinion can help you craft your piece and make it that much stronger," she says.

Don't forget body language! Rehearse the speech in front of a mirror and notice things like your facial expression, eye contact, and hand position.

Avoid Alcohol

Although it may be tempting to look for some liquid courage, alcohol definitely won't do you any favors, warns keynote speaker Amy Morin , author of 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do . "It may cause you to slur your speech and forget your lines, so wait until after your toast to celebrate," she advises. If you need a drink to loosen up the nerves or can't refrain from participating in a toast without being rude, stick to one glass of Champagne before you address the crowd.

Use Nerves to Your Advantage

A little nervousness can actually liven up your speech. "I get worried if I'm not a little nervous," says Maher. "I'll actually try to make myself a little tense to get my energy level up." The key is to harness that energy and communicate it in a positive, genuine way; tensing up to the point that you forget your words or panic won't make for a great presentation.

Be Yourself

Keep in mind that you're not putting on a show, only sharing your personal perspective. Trying too hard to force the funny can yield the opposite of the desired effect, cautions Matt Dalley, co-founder of Simply Eloped . "I've noticed that keeping it short and sweet, heartfelt and warm, and coming across as authentic and focused on the couple is something we are all capable of and generates some very wonderful moments," he says.

Never Embarrass the Newlyweds

It's a wedding toast, not a roast. While this should go without saying, keep the bachelor or bachelorette party jokes out of it, and remember that grandma and possibly a few colleagues are in the audience, notes Laurie Battaglia , a keynote speaker and workplace strategist. "It's okay to look back at childhood and refer to something funny, but ask yourself if you'd like 200-plus of your closest friends knowing that story about you."

Use Your Notes

Reading your speech straight from a piece of paper is a big no-no. However, having a couple of note cards handy is encouraged. "You're likely to be nervous, excited, and exhausted, which can make you forget your lines," explains Morin. "The audience won't care if you glance at your notes. In fact, there's a good chance they won't even notice."

Wedding Speech Brainstorm Ideas

Need some inspiration? Ask yourself these questions to get the brainstorming process going.

• Who will speak before you? After you? How will this affect the content of your toast? (Perhaps you want to include a reference to their speech, thank them for an introduction, or introduce the next speaker).
• Is there someone you should thank for making the event possible and inviting you to speak?
• What would you want to hear in this speech if you were in the audience?
• Is there a favorite story or memory that the couple would want you to share with their friends and family?

Wedding Speech Examples to Make Your Own

So, what does it look like when all these elements come together? Wedding vow and speechwriter Katelyn Peterson , owner and creator of Wedding Words , offered us three examples of successful toasts to inspire your own.

Maid of Honor Wedding Speech Example

"Hi, I’m Maya, the bride’s older sister . With Lucy being three years younger, we fell right into our respective roles as sister-rivals growing up. We constantly fought over stolen clothes, monopolizing the phone back when landlines were a thing, and what boy band to blare from the car speakers. I’m still Team Backstreet Boys while Lucy is forever indebted to NSYNC.

Looking back on those memories, I should have stepped up and granted Lucy permission to wear my favorite sweater for picture day, to hand her the phone once in a while, and to let her play, 'Bye Bye Bye.' Even I can admit that’s a good one. But despite Lucy being the younger sister, she has always been more patient, more accommodating, and more thoughtful than me. And that’s because when it comes to the people she loves, she’s all in.

She’s the one to prioritize their desires. She’s the one to compromise first. And, she’s the one to support their dreams as if they were her own. 

This is why it makes me so happy to know that Lucy has found a home in David. He matches her in compassion, thoughtfulness, and warmth. And I know he’ll spend his life prioritizing her desires, being ready to compromise, and supporting her dreams as his own.

Cheers to Lucy and David! May you always feel loved because you always put each other first."

Best Man Wedding Speech Example

"Hello, everyone. My name is Luke and I’m the best man . I met Robert eight years ago when I became his neighbor. His reputation preceded him as I had heard about the 'Block Party King' before my closing papers were inked. 

Rob has never been the guy to wear fancy clothes. In fact, I’m still in shock seeing him in that tux tonight. And he’s never been the guy to show off even though the work he’s put into his vintage Mustang could make Henry Ford himself envious.

But when it comes to cooking, he should receive an award. His pulled pork is a staple at our summer block parties and his homemade barbeque sauce has remained our neighborhood’s best-kept secret. But the most satisfying part about his delicious dishes is that there’s always plenty to go around. And Rob makes sure your plate is never empty. I have no idea how he pulls it off, but Rob has a covert ability to scoop seconds onto your plate without you ever seeing him do it. I hope you all came hungry tonight, folks. You’ve been warned! 

The first time I met Jasmine I could immediately tell she was an amazing person. She laughed at his jokes which I never thought anyone would get. She supported his career and the nonstop travel involved. But most importantly, whenever we’re all hanging out, Jasmine is the one always topping off Rob’s plate with more pasta, more chicken, more of everything. When she’s around, it’s never empty. 

And that’s when I saw what a perfect match they were for each other. I know they will always put each other first, make sure their needs are met, and will never allow the other to go hungry.

So let’s raise our glasses to toast the newlyweds! As you begin this next chapter together, may your plates and your hearts always remain full."

Father of the Bride Wedding Speech Example

"Good evening, family, and friends. I’m Daniel Lee, the father of the bride. I’d like to welcome you to this special occasion where we get to celebrate the love between my daughter Allison and her new wife, Kristin. 

Standing up here today, I’m reminded of all the moments that led to this significant one. The dance recitals that ended with standing ovations and the soccer games that concluded with winning scoreboards. 

But, while those were fun and rewarding times, those aren’t the moments I cherish most with Allison. The memories that make me smile the brightest are those in-between the big stuff moments. It’s the makeshift magic shows in our living room using a bedsheet that Allison confiscated from our linen closet to convert into a curtain. It’s the countless tea parties she hosted with exclusive invitations just for me and her beloved stuffed bear, Buttons. And it’s the way she’d beg to stay up for just five more minutes but was asleep on the couch by minute number two.

Those everyday, blink-and-you’ll-miss-them moments with Allison are the ones that gave color to my life and filled my heart with a happiness I never knew could exist.

So, my beautiful daughter, as you begin your life with Kristin today, I have one wish for you: May your warmest memories come from the ordinary moments throughout your marriage, and may those moments give you a reason to smile brighter every day. Cheers! I love you both." —Daniel

What Not to Say in a Wedding Speech

Your job when delivering a wedding speech is to keep things light—tell an anecdote, make an emotional connection, then wish the couple well before you close out. Anything that doesn't feel definitively positive should be avoided. "I would advocate against bringing up negative details, specifically past relationships or past spouses," says Carter. "Skip anything that you wouldn't want to be physically recorded and played over and over again—this is a rule of thumb."

Keep it light, delicate, and present- and future-focused, Carter adds. "If you're going to go into the past, make those stories really intentional," she says. "Bring those stories back to who they are now. Your mission is to create a great environment and vibe and to potentially give some information about one of the newlyweds, so that it's enlightening for all guests."

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Someone you love is getting married, and you’ve just been asked to give a speech at the wedding. What an honor! But also, if you’re not used to giving speeches, what a nightmare! Public speaking can be scary , which is why many people prefer to avoid it. But when your bestie asks you to make a speech at his or her wedding, it’s time to rally. But now you’re wondering if you even know how to write a wedding speech! What makes some wedding speeches fun and memorable, and what makes others cringy and fall flat? We’ve got you. We’ve put together the ultimate guide for how to write a wedding speech, focusing on things you definitely should do, things you definitely should NOT do, and then how to deliver your killer wedding speech like a pro.

If you’re wondering how to write a wedding speech, here are a few “Do’s” to keep in mind.

• Start planning early
• Introduce yourself and how you know the bride and groom
• Thanks to hosts, guests, and wedding party; congratulate the couple
• Make it personal
• Think of 3 traits with 3 stories
• Talk about the couple
• Have a beginning, middle, and end
• Consider your audience
• Keep it short and sweet
• It’s okay to be simple and meaningful

1. Start planning early

If you don’t know how to write a wedding speech but the bride just asked you to give one, this is not a time to procrastinate. Public speaking is one of the number one fears many people have, so it’s likely you’ve avoided giving too many public speeches before this. And unless you’re a performer or a veteran improv comedian, you might not do too well winging this one. If you get nervous in front of an audience (as most of us do), the best defense against freezing up when you take the mic is being prepared. 

As soon as you know you’ve been asked to give a speech at the wedding, begin jotting down notes immediately. Whenever you’re inspired by a thought of the couple or remember an anecdote that might be worth retelling, make note of it. This will help to give you a pool of ideas to draw from when you start writing down the speech.

Begin gathering ideas and writing the speech a couple of weeks to a month before the wedding. You’ll need time to edit, fine-tune it, and make it concise. And as wedding showers, bachelorette parties, and other wedding festivities begin, you might find there are entertaining stories from these events you want to add as well. If you want to write it all at once, you can do that too. However, make sure to sleep on it and come back with fresh eyes. You don’t want just “okay,” you want your speech to be heartfelt and meaningful.

You will also want to begin early to give yourself time to practice and rehearse your speech plenty of times.

2. Introduce yourself and how you know the bride and groom

No matter how large or small the wedding is, it’s likely you will not be familiar with many of the guests on one or both sides. And they won’t be familiar with you either. So don’t leave them guessing! 

Make sure when you start to write a wedding speech to introduce yourself and mention how you know the couple. This will help them understand the context of your speech, which will also help it to be more well-received. 

3. Thank hosts, guests, and wedding party; congratulate the couple

It’s also courteous to take this time to thank the hosts and other members of the wedding party for all the hard work that went into the event, and to thank guests for being there to support the newlyweds, especially those who had to travel far. 

It’s also a good time to officially congratulate the newlyweds and offer them your personal well-wishes for their future. It is imperative that you don’t forget this part, because they are the whole reason you’re there and giving a speech!

4. Make it personal

Whether you are the maid of honor, the best man, father of the bride, or just a friend, you were asked to give a speech because of your close connection and relationship with either the bride or groom (or both). 

And since you know your friend as well as you do, you probably have plenty of stories to share; so the next tip for how to write a wedding speech is don’t hesitate to make it personal and share those stories! This will also help guests get to know the other half of the couple they might not know as well or are just meeting for the first time. And those guests who do know them will love hearing some entertaining stories they might not have heard yet.

5. Think of 3 traits with 3 stories

If you’re finding it difficult to come up with anything, a useful approach for how to write a wedding speech is to think of 3 positive defining traits or qualities of the bride or groom and recount three stories or examples that illuminate a time they exhibited these traits. These stories could be comedic, heartwarming, or both. Just make sure they are relevant and entertaining!

6. Talk about the couple

If you’re the maid of honor and have been chatting up the bride for the whole speech, part of how to write a wedding speech is to make sure at some point it circles around to the groom, too, and to the two of them as a couple.  

Recount the time you met him, or how you remember talking about him with the bride in the beginning stages of their relationship. If you don’t know the groom all that well, talk about how good they are as a couple and about how happy he makes her. 

And If you’re not a fan of the groom, this is not the time to air your grievances. Always keep it positive. 

7. Have a beginning, middle, and end

All good speeches have a good flow and take the audience along with it. 

Don’t let your speech fall flat or jumble together in a haphazard confusion of disconnected anecdotes. Give it the structure of an overarching theme, with a beginning, a middle, and an end. 

We are not talking about a novel here, just make sure there is a direction to where the speech is going, and that the destination, end, or sentiment is achieved. It doesn’t need to be Charlie Chaplin in The Great Dictator, but a three-act structure does help keep you grounded. Most people also follow a story easier when there is a clear direction for a story or speech. 

8. Consider your audience

The next thing to keep in mind when considering how to write a wedding speech is to make sure you consider who your audience is. 

This is not the bachelor or bachelorette party. There will be a wide range of people present from children to the elderly, and from close friends of the bride and groom to casual acquaintances and coworkers. Make sure your speech is free of any crudeness that might not be fit for such a varied audience. Also, this isn’t the time to take a shot at any of the religious cermonies.

Be considerate and keep it positive and use language everyone can relate to. 

9. Keep it short and sweet

You want your speech to be meaningful and memorable; but the wedding is not about you, and yours is not the only speech. 

No one ever complains about a speech being too short, but they do begin to grumble if it runs on too long. A good rule of thumb to keep in mind when figuring out how to write a wedding speech is to keep your speech between 2-5 minutes long. Any longer than 5 minutes and you’ll lose everyone to thoughts of cake and whether or not to Cupid Shuffle later. 

10. Add humor

Don’t be afraid to be funny! Another tip for how to write a wedding speech is that if you’ve got a lighthearted, creative, joking side, use it and add humor to your speech! Everyone likes to be entertained. 

This doesn’t mean you should scour the internet for generic wedding-themed jokes, but if you’ve got some good original material to use that helps relate a story about the bride or groom in a comedic way, do it. As long as you’re not making fun of the couple but having fun with them, jokes are great. Or you can even poke fun at yourself to illuminate a higher quality in your bestie. It’s all about making the newlyweds shine. 

If you’re creative and have other talents, use them! If you are musical, bust out your instrument and/or vocal cords and make the speech in the form of a song! Use props, and get the other guests involved! The newlyweds will feel special because you created something for them, and the guests will love joining in the fun.

11. It’s okay to be simple and meaningful

If entertaining isn’t your thing, that’s okay! Don’t force it – just be yourself. It’s okay to be simple and meaningful with your speech. Always keep in mind when you go to write a wedding speech that what’s important is that you are genuine and speak from the heart.

Hopefully, you found these tips for how to write a wedding speech helpful, and can start writing today! And stay tuned to our blog for the next part in this ultimate guide for how to write a wedding speech where we highlight a few things you should definitely avoid.

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Writing the Perfect Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech: A Step-by-Step Guide

Our mother of the groom wedding speech guide gives you tips and templates for giving a memorable mother of the groom wedding speech.

Are you the mother of the groom and tasked with giving a speech at your son's wedding? Writing a heartfelt and meaningful speech can be a daunting task, but with a little preparation and guidance, you can create the perfect speech that will leave your audience in tears of joy.

Here are some tips on how to write the perfect mother of the groom wedding speech:

• Start by brainstorming . Before you start writing, take some time to think about your relationship with your son and what you want to say to the newlyweds on their special day. Jot down any memories, anecdotes, or words of wisdom that come to mind.
• Keep it personal . Your speech should be about your son and your relationship with him, rather than about general wedding advice. Share personal stories and memories that highlight the unique bond you have with your son.
• Show your love and support for the couple . While your speech should be about your son, it's also important to show your love and support for the couple. Express your happiness for them and your excitement for their future together.
• Be heartfelt and sincere . Your speech should come from the heart and be sincere. Avoid using cliche phrases or jokes that may come across as insincere.
• Practice, practice, practice . Rehearsing your speech is key to delivering it confidently and smoothly. Practice in front of a mirror or with a close friend or family member to get feedback and make any necessary adjustments.
• Keep it short and sweet . While you may have a lot to say, it's important to keep your speech concise and to the point. Aim for around 5-7 minutes in length.

Here are a few points you can include in your mother of the groom wedding speech:

• Share a personal story about the groom and how he has grown and changed over the years
• Express your love and support for the couple
• Offer words of wisdom and advice for the couple's future together
• Raise a toast to the happy couple

Writing the perfect mother of the groom wedding speech takes time, preparation, and a lot of heart. By following these tips and focusing on your personal relationship with your son, you can create a speech that will be remembered and cherished for years to come.

Here are 10 mother of the groom wedding speech templates to give you inspiration for your son's wedding:

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #1

Good evening everyone,

I’m [Mother of Groom’s name], mother of the handsome groom, [Groom’s name].

[Anecdote about Groom’s childhood, growing up, and his relationship with his future spouse.]

[Groom’s name] has always been a joy in my life, and [future spouse’s name] has brought so much happiness into his life. And to see them join together in marriage, well, it just fills my heart with joy.

[Anecdote about the couple’s love story, how they met, their first date, and what made you know they were meant to be together.]

I’ve never seen [Groom’s name] as happy as he is with [future spouse’s name]. Their love is truly inspiring, and I know they will have a lifetime of happiness together.

[Anecdote about your relationship with the bride’s family, and how you feel welcomed into their family.]

I am so grateful to have [future spouse’s name] and her family as a part of our family now. I know we will have many happy memories together.

[Anecdote about the couple’s future plans, and your hopes for their life together.]

[Groom’s name] and [future spouse’s name], I wish you a lifetime of love, happiness, and adventure. May your love continue to grow and flourish each and every day.

So, let’s raise a glass to the happy couple. Congratulations [Groom’s name] and [future spouse’s name]. To a lifetime of love and happiness!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #2

Hello everyone,

My name is [Name], and I have the honor of being the mother of the groom. I'm so grateful to be here today to celebrate the love between [Groom's Name] and [Bride's Name].

Now, some of you may know [Groom's Name] as the man who's always [insert personal anecdote about the groom]. But to me, he's just my little boy who's all grown up and about to start the next chapter of his life.

[Groom's Name] has always been the kindest, most thoughtful person I know. From [insert personal anecdote about the groom's childhood], to [insert personal anecdote about the groom's adulthood], he's always had a heart of gold. And now, he's found someone who's just as wonderful as he is.

[Bride's Name], you are an absolute gem. From the moment [Groom's Name] introduced us, I knew you were the one for him. And I have to say, [insert personal anecdote about the bride and groom's relationship], it's been the cutest thing to witness.

[Groom's Name], [Bride's Name], I wish you a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness together. May your love continue to grow and flourish with each passing year.

And to the rest of the guests here today, let's raise a glass to the happy couple. Cheers!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #3

Dear friends and family,

I stand before you today, honored to be the mother of the groom and to be a part of this joyous occasion. As I look around, I am struck by the love and happiness that fills this room. It is a reminder of what is truly important in life, and that is the love we have for one another.

As I reflect on my son's journey to this day, I am filled with pride and gratitude. [Insert personal anecdote about your son's upbringing].

And now, as he joins his life with [bride's name], I am filled with joy. [Insert personal anecdote about the bride and groom's relationship].

Marriage is a beautiful thing, but it is not always easy. It requires hard work, patience, and an unwavering commitment to one another. But if two people are willing to put in the effort, the reward is a love that will last a lifetime.

[Groom's name] and [bride's name], I know that you have what it takes to make this marriage work. You have already demonstrated your love and devotion to one another, and I have no doubt that your future together will be bright.

So, let us raise a glass to the happy couple. May your love continue to grow, may your life together be filled with joy and laughter, and may you always find comfort in one another's arms.

To [groom's name] and [bride's name], congratulations and best wishes for a lifetime of happiness.

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #4

Ladies and Gentlemen,

I am here tonight to talk about my son, [groom's name], who has brought so much joy and laughter into my life. Just like George Carlin once said, "A wedding is just a day, when two people become one, but the memories will last a lifetime."

[Personal Anecdote 1]

For example, [insert memory or story that showcases the groom's character or relationship with the bride].

[Personal Anecdote 2]

And who could forget the time [insert another memorable moment that includes both the groom and the bride].

[Groom's name] has always been a special and unique individual. He has always had a great sense of humor, just like George Carlin, who once said, "There's no such thing as youth. There's just a universal atypical adolescence."

[Groom's name], you have found the love of your life in [bride's name], and I couldn't be happier for the two of you. You complement each other in every way, just like George Carlin said, "Marriage is an attempt to solve problems together which you didn't even have when you were on your own."

[Groom's name], I want you to know that your mother is here for you, to support you and love you, now and always. And [bride's name], I welcome you into our family with open arms.

So, let's raise a glass to the happy couple. To [groom's name] and [bride's name], may your marriage be filled with laughter, love and joy. Cheers!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #5

Good evening everyone!

I hope you're all having a great time at this beautiful wedding. I'm [Your Name], the mother of the groom, and I just wanted to say a few words about my son [Groom's Name].

[Insert personal anecdote about the groom growing up, something that made you proud, or a funny story]

Now let's talk about [Bride's Name]. [Insert personal anecdote or compliment about the bride]. I have to say, I've never seen [Groom's Name] this happy. [Bride's Name], you have brought so much joy into my son's life and I am grateful to have you as a daughter-in-law.

[Insert personal anecdote about the wedding or the couple's relationship]

I would also like to thank [Parents of the Bride] for raising such a wonderful daughter. You have raised a kind, intelligent, and beautiful person, and I couldn't have asked for a better match for my son.

[Groom's Name], [Bride's Name], I wish you a lifetime of happiness, love, and laughter. May your love for each other continue to grow and flourish with each passing day.

Cheers to the happy couple!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #6

I am honored to stand here today as the mother of the groom. [Insert groom's name] may have gotten his good looks from his father, but I know for a fact he got his humor from me!

[Personal Anecdote #1 - share a funny story about the groom growing up, or a moment from his life that showcases his personality and/or relationship with you]

[Personal Anecdote #2 - share another funny or heartwarming story, this time focused on the groom's relationship with the bride]

And now, let's talk about the beautiful bride [insert bride's name]. When [groom's name] first brought her home, I have to admit, I was a little skeptical. But let me tell you, this girl has won me over. [bride's name], you have brought so much joy and love into my son's life, and for that I am forever grateful.

[groom's name], [bride's name], you two are the perfect match. Your love for each other is so strong, it can light up a room. I have no doubt that you will have a lifetime of happiness together.

[Raise glass] To the happy couple!

Thank you, and enjoy the rest of your evening!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #7

Hello everyone, I am the proud mother of the groom and I must say, my son looks so handsome today! (Insert personal anecdote about your son growing up, a funny story or a moment that stands out)

I want to thank everyone for joining us on this special day as we celebrate the love and union of my son and his beautiful bride. (Insert personal anecdote about the bride and how she and your son met)

As I sit here and look at my son, I can’t help but feel overwhelmed with emotions. It feels like just yesterday he was playing with toy cars and now he’s all grown up, starting a new chapter in his life with the love of his life by his side. (Insert personal anecdote about your son's life milestones or events)

I am so grateful for the amazing woman he has chosen to spend the rest of his life with. She brings out the best in him and I couldn’t be happier for them both. (Insert personal anecdote about the bride and how she has impacted your son's life)

To my son and his bride, I want you to know that I will always be here for you, supporting you and cheering you on every step of the way. I wish you a lifetime of love, happiness, and adventures together.

And to everyone here, let’s raise a toast to the happy couple! Cheers!

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #8

First of all, I would like to say thank you for joining us on this beautiful day as we celebrate [Groom's name] and [Bride's name]'s union. It's an honor for me to be standing here today as the mother of the groom.

Now, let me tell you a little bit about [Groom's name]. When he was born, I remember thinking, "This kid is going to be trouble." And boy, was I right! [Insert funny story about the groom growing up].

But despite all the trouble, [Groom's name] has always been a loving son and a loyal friend. And I couldn't be more proud of the man he's become.

[Groom's name], you and [Bride's name] are the perfect match. You both bring out the best in each other and together, you will accomplish great things. I can't wait to see what the future holds for you both.

So, [Groom's name] and [Bride's name], I want you to know that I love you both with all my heart. I wish you a lifetime of happiness, love, and laughter.

And to the newlyweds, I raise a toast to your future together. May it be filled with love, joy, and a lot of laughter.

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #9

Good evening! My name is [Your Name], and I am the mother of the groom. I am overjoyed to be here today to celebrate my son [Groom's Name] and his beautiful bride [Bride's Name].

I want to take a moment to thank everyone for coming together to make this day special. It truly means the world to us.

[Insert personal anecdote about the groom growing up and how proud you are of him]

[Groom's Name], you have grown into a remarkable young man and I am so grateful to have you as my son. [Bride's Name], from the moment you entered our lives, you brought love and light into our family. I know that you two will have a lifetime of happiness together.

[Insert personal anecdote about the bride and how she fits into the family]

I want to raise a toast to the happy couple. May your love for each other continue to grow and flourish. May your life be filled with joy, laughter and all the things that make you happy.

[Insert a closing sentiment and another toast]

So here's to [Groom's Name] and [Bride's Name], may your marriage be filled with love, laughter, and all the blessings life has to offer.

Mother of the Groom Wedding Speech Template #10

I'm [Name], the mother of the groom, and I couldn't be happier to be here today to celebrate the love between [Groom Name] and [Bride Name].

First of all, I have to say that [Groom Name] has always been an incredible son. [Insert personal anecdote about the groom that showcases his character].

And now, he's found the love of his life in [Bride Name]. [Insert personal anecdote about the bride and groom's relationship].

[Groom Name] and [Bride Name], I have no doubt that the two of you will have a long and happy life together. May your love continue to grow and flourish, and may your marriage be filled with laughter, love, and joy.

[Insert a touching sentiment or advice for the newlyweds].

So, let's raise a glass to the happy couple. To [Groom Name] and [Bride Name], congratulations, and may you have a lifetime of love and happiness.

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Mother Of The Groom Speech Examples

March 19, 2017 By Kate

If you are reading this article, then you must be a mother whose son is getting married soon. This is an exciting time for you as a mother and you might be tasked with delivering a speech on your son’s wedding day.

Your son, who was once your little boy, has now grown up and is getting married. A wedding is not just an emotional time for the couple, it is also an intense time for the family as well, especially the parents of the bride and groom. If you want to let your son and his bride know how happy you are for them, you can write a speech that will be delivered at the wedding.

As the Mother of the Groom, there are different messages and themes that you can touch on in your speech. You can talk about how grateful you are to have such a wonderful son and an amazing daughter-in-law. You can talk about what your son was like as a boy as well.

You can also talk about love. You will have the knowledge to talk about the love that a mother has for her son. You can even talk about the love that you have for your husband. And to tie up the theme, you can talk about the love that the bride and groom have for each other.

Since it is a very special day, you will want to work hard on this speech. When working on this speech, you will want to think about good memories of your son. This will help to provide you with the right kind of positive inspiration. You will also want to try and focus on your son’s good qualities as well as those of his bride.

You can also try talking about the first time you met the bride and what she and the groom are like as a couple. How do the bride and groom complement each other? How has the groom changed since he met the bride? What are your hopes and wishes for the newlywed couple?

These are just a few topics and questions that might help you write a speech that is truly personal. Even though there are speech examples below for you to use, you will also want to avoid sounding generic. It should be clear that this speech was written for your son and his bride and they will appreciate the personal details that you include in your speech.

Below are several examples of speeches for a Mother of the Groom. These speech examples can be used as inspiration for the speech that you will give at your son’s wedding.

1. [Groom,] my son, I love you so much. On your wedding day, I am overcome with so many happy emotions: love, gratitude, excitement, and joy. You could not have found a better bride to spend the rest of your days with. [Bride,] thank you for making my son so happy. I am more grateful to you than words can possibly say.

2. I may be a little more than biased, but I am sure I am not alone when I say that [groom] is a person who is kind and generous. He has a heart of gold.

As [groom’s] mother, it can be very tempting to take all of the credit for the wonderful person that he has grown up to be. While his father and I did our best to be great parents and to raise him with good values in a loving home, at the end of the day, we are not responsible for the person he is today.

The plain truth of the matter is that [groom] is the main person responsible for who he is now. And this person that sits before all of us today is a person of exceptional character. He is a beautiful individual, inside and out and I am so blessed to be his mother. I could not have asked for him to be any better than he is.

Believe me, I do not just say this because he is my son. He is someone who I know makes the world a better, happier place. But [bride,] she makes him even better than he was before because she just brings out the very best qualities in him.

Just when I thought my son could not be happier, [bride] came along and changed his world for the better. And during their relationship, she made him want to be the best person that he could be. And I really do thank her for that.

3. There are merely not enough words to describe the sense of peace that a mother feels in her heart when she knows that her child is taken care of. While I know that my son could fend for himself and survive alone in the world, I also know how nice it is to have someone to care for you and spend the rest of your life with you. If you are lucky enough to get that chance, then you can never take it for granted.

I know that no matter what happens, [bride] and [groom] will care for each other and take care of each other with patience, love, and understanding.

I know that my son is in good hands and that he has found the perfect woman to be his wife. I know that they will be great together and that they will continue to make each other happy.

[Bride] and [groom] I wish you nothing but happiness, success, and an endless love that will burn brighter and stronger between you to as your days go by. I love you both very much. Take care of each other always.

4. [Groom,] I have known you for a very long time and I like to think that I know you well. And from the moment I met [bride,] it was crystal clear that she was the one for you. If I had not been introduced to her yet and was asked to pick her out from a crowd of people, I would have been able to spot her right away. And I would have known she was your soulmate.

You and [bride] were meant to be together. Your wedding day is just a reminder of that, a promise that you have made to each other to stick together and stay side by side. Congratulations to the two of you, from your proud mother.

5. While it was quite a long time ago, I can still remember my very own wedding day quite vividly. Even though the wedding day was all about my husband and I, I did not get to see him all day until the wedding ceremony itself. That is, after all, the tradition.

As I prepared for the wedding, I was surrounded by plenty of loving people including my bridesmaids, my mother-in-law, and my own loving mother who was a huge source of support for me as I planned my wedding.

On the day of my wedding, I knew that my mother was excited for me, but I also knew there was something bittersweet about seeing your baby getting married. Today, I truly have an idea of how my mother felt. I can hardly believe that my baby boy is now the man sitting right there. How time flies.

[Groom,] I am beyond proud of you for everything that you are and everything that you have accomplished. No matter what you do, you make us so proud and happy and I know that I am not alone when I say that you and [bride] are just right for each other. I just know that you will bring each other love, joy, and peace for many years to come.

6. [Groom,] you have always been a boy that I could be proud of. And now that you are a man, I could not be any prouder of who you have become. As your mother, I am so very happy and proud for you because you were able to find [bride,] a loving, beautiful woman who will love you for the rest of your life. I know you will treat her with respect and shower her with love.

7. The first time I laid eyes on [groom,] I was instantly in love. He was my little baby who grow into a wobbly toddler, and then a curious child. Then came the pre-teen and teen years and the next thing I knew, my little baby was a man.

[Groom,] I am so proud of the person that you have become. You have always made your family proud in everything that you do and on your special wedding day today, we could not be happier for you.

8. As a mother, there are so many moments in your child’s life that stay with you. There is the moment they are born, when you first hold them in your arms. That is a moment you never forget.

Over the years, I have so many fond memories of my son. There was his very first word, his first steps, and his first day of school. On graduation day, I had so many emotions. Imagine how I feel today, on his wedding day, to a beautiful and lovely woman.

[Groom,] every time I think that I could not be happier for you, something new happens to remind me how blessed I am to be your mother. Thank you for being such a wonderful son. I know that you will be a great husband and that [bride] will be a great wife to you.

9. Love is the truly the greatest gift of love. When you have it, never treasure it always and never let it go. That is the advice that I have for you on your wedding day. You will have hard days and you will have great days as well, just remember to love each other no matter what. I love you both and wish the best for you two.

10. Seeing all of the lovely people here reminds me a little bit of my own wedding day. The excitement, the intense planning, and the nerves going all around. Many people might refer to their wedding day as the happiest day of their life, but I do not find that to be true for me.

While my wedding day was an amazing, unforgettable day full of love, for me that special day was only the beginning of a wonderful life with my soulmate. I hope that your wedding day is only the catalyst for the rest of your beautiful life together, like it was for my beautiful life with my husband and family.

11. To my lovely son [groom] and his wonderful wife [bride], may you continue to grow together in love. My wish for you is that today is only the beginning of your happy days together. May you learn to cherish each other more and more over the years and may your love for each other grow stronger with each passing day.

12. Sometimes in life, it can be hard to remember all the blessings we have. But I am really blessed in so many ways. I am blessed to have a loving husband and a wonderful family. My son [groom] has blessed our family with so many happy memories and we are eternally proud of him. And now, [groom] is blessed to have [bride] as his wife.

I have to say that our family is also just as blessed to be able to welcome [bride] into our family. How did we get so lucky with such an amazing and kindhearted woman? I hope that we can make you feel welcome and loved as if you were our own flesh and blood. [Bride,] know that you are like a daughter to me now. I know that God will bless the two of you in your marriage and in your many years together as husband and wife.

13. When my son [groom] was born, I was overjoyed to have a son. He was perfect in every way and I could not have wanted more. Our son gave us some of the happiest times of our lives and we did our best to make him happy as well.

While God did not give us a daughter at first, I have to say that I am perfectly okay with that. But now that [bride] is a part of our family, it really does feel like God did give us a daughter after all. Even before they got married, [bride] was part of the family. But after today it is official. [Bride,] welcome to our family. We welcome you with open, loving arms.

14. Hello everyone, I am [groom’s] mother. As many of you know, our family can be a little crazy. We can be loud and maybe even intimidating to outsiders who don’t know us. But we are also fiercely loyal. We would do anything for each other and we love each other dearly.

When [bride] was first introduced to the family, I hoped that she wouldn’t be scared off. You could instantly tell that she was a wonderful person and you could see how much she cared about [groom] and how deep her love for him was.

Now I know that I can sometimes come on too strong. But [bride] held her own and quickly found her place in this family. And now that she and [groom] are married, they are creating their own family together.

While the love of a mother is like nothing else, I know firsthand that there is something truly special about the love that a husband and wife have for each other. That kind of love is strong and unlike anything else. It is a treasure that you must cherish always.

[Bride,] thank you for being part of the family and for making [groom] so happy. Let us all toast to the happy newlyweds.

15. Even though [groom] is an adult now, in many ways he is still very much the same as the little baby and the little boy I knew. And yet, one day, something about him did change. He seemed happier, bright-eyed, and more optimistic. Something about him was different. And then one day we met [bride] and it all made sense. Our son was in love. We were so happy for him and we were happy to get to know [bride.]

It was not long before it became clear to all of us that the two of them would spend the rest of their lives together. Even before the engagement, you could easily tell that these two beautiful people were meant to be husband and wife.

[Groom,] I am overjoyed that you are changed, that you are happier now than ever before. May today only be the beginning of your happy days. And [bride,] thank you for putting such a big smile on my son’s face.

You may also enjoy our Bride’s Speech Examples.

16. A mother’s love for her child is unique. It is special. Even before my son was born I knew that I always wanted the best for him. I wanted [groom] to have everything in this life. I wanted him to always be surrounded by those who love him. And one day, I hoped that he would find somebody to love who would love him just as much.

I hoped that he would be as lucky as I was to find my soulmate, that this special person would move the sun and moon for him and that he would do the same. I wanted him to know the kind of love that exists between two people who are meant to spend an eternity side by side.

And that is why I am so happy that he met [bride.] Not only is she beautiful and charming, she brings out the best in him. And she makes him happy. And I think he makes her happy too. May they always be willing to move the sun and moon for each other and may their marriage be blessed and happy.

17. [Groom,] if I have not told you enough I will tell you now. You are the kindest person I know. You have enough love in your heart for all of your family and friends, and [bride] who is now your wife.

Even when you were a child I knew that you would be an amazing person. While I knew that your life would not always be easy, I knew that at the end of the day, I would not have to worry about you.

Knowing how you are as a person, I still want to remind you what a marriage is about.

18. As [groom’s] mother, I cannot truly say how happy I am to see him married to such a wonderful person. This has been a beautiful wedding and while I am sure we are all enjoying the festivities and the celebration of [groom] and [bride’s] love, I cannot help but think of their future with excitement and hope.

To be married is to be blessed with a best friend who wants to wake up next to you every day. Someone who will stick with you through good times and bad, who will make you laugh when you cry and laugh along with you when you are overcome with joy. I can say without a doubt that [bride] and [groom] have found that in each other.

As a mother, here is my wish for the happy newlyweds. I hope that you remember to be patient and kind to one another, even on the tough days. I hope that years and decades from now, you will be old and gray and still in love with each other if not even more deeply in love than you were on your wedding day.

I hope that over the years, you will continue to learn more new things about each other like uncovering a piece of buried treasure. You both have a whole lifetime ahead of you and I know you will make a million wonderful memories together.

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Below, you’ll find all the information you need to know about writing the ideal mother-of-the groom speech.

It will undoubtedly be a joyful (though emotional!) day for your son’s wedding. After all, witnessing your son exchange vows with his new spouse is certain to make you cry. It’s safe to say that your mothering role plays a big role in your son’s special day, making it equally important for both of you. You will also be required to deliver a mother-of-the groom speech on top of everything else. In honor of your son’s special day, you’ll have the honor of toasting to your son and new son-in-law or daughter-in-law as they embark on this new chapter together as newlyweds. Even though the mother of the groom frequently speaks at wedding receptions, this speech is customarily delivered at rehearsal dinners.

You’re not alone if you find it difficult to put into words how much you love and cherish your son. To help combat writer’s block—and get your creative juices flowing—we reached out to wedding planners and other professionals for expert insight. Below, you’ll find everything you need to know about crafting the best mother-of-the-groom speech.

On the occasion of their nuptials, what do you tell your son and future daughter-in-law?

“Best wishes to my son/daughter and son-in-law/daughter-in-law as you start your life together.” “We and I love you both. We/I couldn’t be happier!” “Lots of love and happiness to you both on this exciting and joyful day for our family.”.

Use one of these heartfelt wedding wishes to offer your congratulations to a newly married couple.

If there’s a wedding on the horizon and you want to offer your best wishes to the happy couple with a congratulations message, we’re here to help you find the right words for the perfect wedding wishes to write in a wedding card.

Ideally, your wedding message should be sentimental, sweet, and tailored to the couple and your relationship with them. Whether you’re looking for warm wedding wishes for a family member or a funny wedding card message for your hilarious college roommate who finally settled down, we’ve got dozens of examples of how to sign a wedding card with the best wedding wishes for every scenario. As long as your wedding congratulations message is heartfelt and offers the happy couple a positive wish for their marriage, you’re good to go.

What does the bride’s mother say at the rehearsal dinner?

The mother of the groom can give a speech or just a toast at the rehearsal dinner, as she is one of the hosts of the event. There are some details that a speech should include, such as special memories, stories about the couple, and of course, the toast.

What is an example of a mother-of-the groom speech?

I’ve always been able to be proud of you, (groom). I am so proud of who you have become as a man now, and I could not be more so. Because you were able to find (a bride), a kind, lovely woman who will cherish you for the rest of your life, I, as your mother, am overjoyed and immensely proud of you. Cached.

If you’re reading this, you must be a mother whose son is soon to be married. You may be asked to give a speech at your son’s wedding, which would be exciting for you as a mother to have to do.

Your son was a young boy; he is now an adult and getting married. Intense feelings are experienced by the entire family, especially the bride’s and groom’s parents, during a wedding in addition to the happy couple. Write a speech that will be read at the wedding if you want to express how happy you are for your son and his bride.

You have a variety of messages and themes that you can address in your speech as the mother of the groom. You can express your gratitude for having a son and daughter-in-law who are so wonderful. You can also talk about your son’s boyhood.

How do you begin a wedding speech for your son?

Brief: Thank you everyone for coming today. I adore you more than anything, (Son), and I always will. You’ve matured into a fine young man, and it makes this day complete to see you so content with (partner’s name).

If you’re the father of the groom, you’ve likely been there for everything from your son’s first diaper change and scraped knee to the blossoming relationship he’s built with his partner. Now, they’ve decided to tie the knot, and he’s asked you to give a father of the groom speech.

This is a great honor and a good opportunity for you to share your innermost feelings with the couple about their future together. You’re a big part of their wedding day, so guests will want to hear what’s on your mind.

If the wedding will follow a traditional format, you’ll probably give your speech at the rehearsal dinner, since the groom’s family traditionally hosts that event. You might also give your speech at the wedding reception, likely before the best man’s speech.

What should a mother say at her son’s wedding?

Express your gratitude and share how grateful you are that they were able to celebrate your son’s wedding with you. Talk about your son. Katelyn Peterson of Wedding Words, a wedding vow and speech writing service, advises sharing two to three “short and concise” stories about your son that spotlight their personality. Cached.

Everything you need to know about writing the perfect mother of the groom speech is below.

Your son’s wedding is sure to be a happy (albeit emotional!) day. After all, watching your son exchange vows with his new spouse is sure to bring a tear to your eye. In fact, it’s fair to say your son’s big day is just as significant for you as his mother as it is for him. On top of all this, you’ll also be tasked with presenting the mother-of-the groom speech. In honor of your son’s special day, you’ll have the honor of toasting to your son and new son-in-law or daughter-in-law as they embark on this new chapter together as newlyweds. While this speech has traditionally been given at rehearsal dinners, it’s not unusual for the mother of the groom to speak at the wedding reception, either.

If you’re struggling to put words on paper to express the joy, happiness, and love you have for your son, you’re not alone. To help combat writer’s block—and get your creative juices flowing—we reached out to wedding planners and other professionals for expert insight. Below, you’ll find everything you need to know about crafting the best mother-of-the-groom speech.

What is the saying when your son gets married?

A son is a son until he takes a wife; a daughter is a daughter all of her life.

What should the mother of the groom not do?

Here are the seven things a mother of the groom should never do. Wear white. Same goes for ivory, cream, or any other light neutral. Dress like a bridesmaid. Overly criticize. Insist on upping the guest list. Skip the bridal shower. Make empty offers. Upstage with the rehearsal dinner.

What color is the mother of the groom supposed to wear?

The Best Colors for the Mother of the Groom “Wear a color that is flattering and complements the color palette of the wedding,” advises Valiente. For example, jewel tones and earthy hues are perfect for fall nuptials, while formal gowns in navy or silver would be ideal for black-tie weddings.

Watching your son get married is one of the most memorable moments in a mother’s life, right up there with her own wedding. As the mother of the groom, you’ve raised your son and watched him grow, and now you have a front-row seat as your child says “I do” to their partner for life. And since this is such a special day, it absolutely calls for a special dress. Choosing what to wear is important as your ensemble will be captured in photos for a lifetime, so extra thought must be put into the style and, most importantly, the color of your dress.

To help you understand the nuances of MOG dressing, we consulted with fashion stylist Vanessa Valiente to break down everything you need to know in terms of dressing for this wonderful day.

Vanessa Valiente is a fashion stylist based in San Diego, California. She began her career in 2006, styling celebrity talent including Eric Dane, Rhona Mitra, Bo Derek, Morgan Fairchild, and Joe Manganiello. She has since expanded to editorials and catalog shoots, but her core focus is personal styling.

What should the mother of the groom do?

Mother of the Groom Roles and Responsibilities: Plan the Rehearsal Dinner Provide a list of guests from the groom’s side. Following up on Late RSVPs. Help guests with the wedding registry. Help With Any Family Traditions Stand in Receiving Line.

You have been waiting and wondering when this day will come—the day your son will become a married man. You are overjoyed with the excitement and looking forward to the festivities that surround this upcoming wedding. As a mother, you want to help as much as possible to ensure everything goes smoothly. So where do you start? What can you do?

The first tip we have is good communication. Talk to the couple to see what they would like assistance with and what level of involvement they would like you to have. Some couples want the bride’s mother and the groom’s mother to both be extremely involved, while others may not want as much help. The level of involvement is totally up to them, so communication is key!

We have compiled a list of other ideas, along with dos and don’ts for the mother of the groom, tips on etiquette, and more.

What does the groom’s mother do the day of the wedding?

On your actual wedding day, one of the major responsibilities the mother of the groom can take on is making sure that the people they know (family and friends) are taking their seats at the ceremony on time, are all set with transportation to and from the venue, and don’t get lost—especially if you’re.

When it comes to planning a wedding, figuring out your loved ones’ roles early on makes the entire process run much more smoothly. That way, you’ll know who is responsible for what, when each person has the final say, and exactly when you do (and do not) want someone’s input. While you might know exactly what you want your soon-to-be spouse to take care of and where your mom’s strengths lie, what is the role of the groom’s mother in all this?

Traditionally, the role of the groom’s mother is a little more limited than that of the mother of the bride. When it comes to involvement in wedding planning, it’s usually at the discretion of the couple. There’s no expectation that the mother of the groom should be more involved, and they shouldn’t take on any additional responsibilities unless the couple asks them to.

So, if you’re wondering what typical mother-of-the-groom etiquette is and how involved they should be in your wedding, here are a few common ways they can help take some stress off your shoulders.

What color should the mother of the groom wear?

What do you say to your son and daughter-in-law on your wedding day?

Dear Son and Daughter-in-Law, I hope that the years you share will be filled with lasting joy. May your love always be a source of comfort to you both. I wish you both a beautiful wedding. I wish you happiness and love on your wedding day, dear children.

It’s always a cause for celebration when your family has the pleasure of welcoming a new daughter into the fold, and you can’t wait to write wedding wishes for your son and daughter-in-law. Whether you want to send them something religious, something short and sweet, or something that recalls memories of good times, you’ll find the perfect wedding wish for your son and daughter-in-law here!

May you both be blessed with love and an abundance of all you need for all the days of your lives.

Congratulations, dear ones, on joining your hearts and lives together.

What is a beautiful message for my son on his wedding day?

“Dear Son, your wedding day will come and go, but I wish that boundless love and happiness remain through your whole life.” “Our hearts are so confident that you will keep each other happy with lots of love and affection. May God bless you with a beautiful life. Congratulations!”. I wish you many happy days ahead, no matter where life takes you.

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Father of the Bride Speech Examples and Templates

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When it comes to a wedding, one of the most anticipated speeches is the father of the bride’s.

It’s a moment for the father to express his love and pride for his daughter, offer advice and well wishes for the newlyweds, and thank everyone for being a part of this special day.

But for many fathers, the idea of giving a speech can be intimidating . You want to make sure you come across as confident, clear, and knowledgeable, but where do you start?

Brainstorming and planning ahead can help you organize your thoughts and ensure you hit all the key elements. From there, you can start writing and incorporating techniques to make your speech stand out.

What should you say in a Father of the Bride speech?

When it comes to delivering a memorable father of the bride speech, there are several key elements that you should incorporate. These elements will help you to create a speech that is heartfelt, emotional, and memorable for all the right reasons.

Introduce Yourself

Firstly, it’s important to introduce yourself and welcome the guests . This will help to set the tone for your speech and make everyone feel at ease. You can also take this opportunity to thank the guests for coming and for their support.

Share a Short Story

Next, it’s time to share stories and memories about your daughter. This is the perfect opportunity to reminisce about happy times and to highlight the qualities that make your daughter so special. You can also use this time to welcome your new son-in-law or daughter-in-law and to express your happiness for the happy couple.

Offer Words of Wisdom

It’s also important to offer some words of wisdom and marriage advice. This can be done in a concise and meaningful way, and can include quotes or anecdotes that have special meaning to you and your family. You can also share your hopes and wishes for the future of the couple.

End with a Toast

Of course, no father of the bride speech would be complete without a toast. Raise a toast to the happy couple and their future together, and share your pride and joy in their union. You can also take this opportunity to thank the maid of honor and the master of ceremonies for their contributions to the wedding.

Examples and Templates

When it comes to writing your father of the bride speech, having some examples and templates to draw inspiration from can be incredibly helpful. Here are a few resources to get you started:

"Ladies and gentlemen, I stand here as a proud father to [DAUGHTER'S NAME] . It feels like just yesterday that she was [SHARE A MEMORABLE CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCE] . Today, I can hardly believe she's marrying [GROOM'S NAME] , a man who [POSITIVE TRAIT OR ANECDOTE ABOUT GROOM] . As I raise my glass, I want to thank everyone for being here to celebrate this special day with us. To the happy couple, may your future be filled with love and joy."

"When [DAUGHTER'S NAME] was little, we used to [A SHARED ACTIVITY OR STORY] . Now as I watch her with [GROOM'S NAME] , I see a similar bond of [SHARED QUALITY] . I could not be happier for them. So here's to my beautiful daughter and her wonderful new husband. May your love continue to grow stronger with each passing day. Cheers!"

"As a father, you dream of the day your little girl finds someone who [VALUES OR QUALITIES YOU HOPED FOR] . Today, [DAUGHTER'S NAME] married [GROOM'S NAME] , a man who embodies all of these qualities. To my daughter and her new husband, I wish you a lifetime of happiness and love. May your marriage be as strong and beautiful as the love you share today."

"They say a father is his daughter's first love. Well, [DAUGHTER'S NAME] was my first true love. Seeing her today with [GROOM'S NAME] , I know she's found her [TERM OF ENDEARMENT: e.g. forever love, true match] . As I look at my daughter and her new husband, I am filled with pride and joy. Here's to a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness. Cheers!"

"Raising [DAUGHTER'S NAME] has been my life's greatest joy. She's [POSITIVE QUALITIES OR TRAITS] . Today, as she marries [GROOM'S NAME] , I see those qualities reflected back at her, and it fills my heart with joy. To the newlyweds, may your love for each other only grow stronger with each passing year. Here's to a lifetime of happiness and joy together."

"I always knew [DAUGHTER'S NAME] would grow up to be [QUALITY, ACHIEVEMENT, OR TRAIT] . I am proud to say that [GROOM'S NAME] is the kind of man who values that about her. As a father, there is no greater joy than seeing my daughter so happy. To my daughter and her new husband, may your love for each other never fade. Cheers!"

"There are many moments in a father's life that he cherishes, but this moment, seeing [DAUGHTER'S NAME] marrying a man who is [POSITIVE TRAITS OF GROOM] , is truly special. To my beautiful daughter and her handsome husband, may your love story be filled with adventure, laughter, and endless joy. Congratulations and cheers to a lifetime of happiness together."

"As [DAUGHTER'S NAME] 's father, I've seen her grow and accomplish so much. Her marriage to [GROOM'S NAME] , a man who [COMPLIMENT ABOUT GROOM] , is another proud moment in a long list. As I raise my glass, I want to thank my daughter and her new husband for giving me the greatest gift of all - the gift of seeing my little girl so happy. Here's to a lifetime of love and joy together."

" [DAUGHTER'S NAME] has always been the [ADJECTIVE: e.g. light, star] of our family. Today, as she joins hands with [GROOM'S NAME] , I know she has found her perfect [COMPLEMENT TO PREVIOUS ADJECTIVE: e.g., beacon, constellation] . To my daughter and her new husband, may your love for each other be as strong and unbreakable as the bond between a father and his daughter. Cheers to a lifetime of happiness together."

" [DAUGHTER'S NAME] , from your first steps, to this walk down the aisle, I've had the privilege of being there. Now, as you step into a new journey with [GROOM'S NAME] , a man who [POSITIVE TRAIT OR QUALITY OF GROOM] , I know you will make beautiful memories together. As I look at my daughter and her new husband, I am filled with hope and happiness for their future together. To the happy couple, may your marriage be blessed with love, joy, and endless happiness. Cheers!"

Understanding the Role

As the father of the bride, you have a special role to play in your daughter’s wedding. Your speech is one of the most anticipated and memorable moments of the wedding reception, and it’s an opportunity to express your love and pride for your daughter and your new son-in-law.

Your speech should be heartfelt, sincere, and personal. It’s a chance to share your thoughts and feelings about your daughter, her new spouse, and their future together. Your words should be chosen carefully to reflect the love and support you have for the couple.

Remember that your speech is not just about your daughter, but also about your family. It’s a time to acknowledge and thank the guests who have come to celebrate this special occasion with you and your family. You should also take a moment to welcome your new son-in-law into the family and express your happiness at having him as part of your family.

When preparing your speech, it’s important to keep in mind the overall tone of the wedding. Is it a formal, traditional affair, or a more casual, relaxed event? Your speech should fit the tone of the wedding and reflect the personality of the couple.

Finally, don’t forget to practice your speech before the big day. This will help you feel more confident and ensure that you deliver your message clearly and effectively. With a little preparation and a lot of love, your father of the bride speech is sure to be a highlight of the wedding reception.

Brainstorming and Planning

Before you start writing a father of the bride speech, it’s important to take some time to brainstorm and plan. This will help you structure your speech and make sure you include all the important elements. Here are some tips to help you get started:

Step 1: Gather Ideas

The first step in planning your father of the bride speech is to gather ideas. Think about your daughter and her relationship with her new spouse. What are some of their shared interests? What are some of your favorite memories with your daughter? What advice do you want to give the newlyweds?

Write down all your ideas on a piece of paper or in a document. Don’t worry about organizing them yet, just get everything down.

Step 2: Organize Your Ideas

Once you have a list of ideas, it’s time to organize them. Look for common themes or topics that you want to cover in your speech. For example, you might want to talk about your daughter’s childhood, her relationship with her new spouse, and your hopes for their future together.

Create an outline for your speech, with each idea or topic as a separate section. This will help you stay organized and make sure you cover everything you want to say.

Step 3: Write Your Speech

With your ideas organized and your outline in place, it’s time to start writing your speech. Use your outline as a guide, and fill in the details for each section.

Remember to keep your speech concise and focused. Aim for a length of around five minutes, and avoid rambling or going off on tangents.

Step 4: Practice Your Speech

Once you’ve written your speech, it’s important to practice it. Stand in front of a mirror and read your speech out loud. This will help you get comfortable with the material and make sure you’re speaking clearly.

You might also want to practice in front of a friend or family member. Ask for their feedback and make any necessary adjustments to your speech.

Step 5: Deliver Your Speech

On the day of the wedding, take a deep breath and deliver your speech with confidence. Remember to speak slowly and clearly, and make eye contact with the audience.

End your speech with a heartfelt congratulations to the newlyweds, and a toast to their future together.

Writing Tips and Techniques

When it comes to writing a father of the bride speech, there are a few helpful tips and techniques that can make the process easier and ensure that your speech is a success. Here are some pointers to keep in mind:

• Be yourself: The most important thing to remember when writing your speech is to be yourself. Don’t try to be someone you’re not or use language that doesn’t feel natural to you. Speak from the heart and let your personality shine through.
• Practice public speaking: If you’re not used to speaking in public, it’s a good idea to practice beforehand. You can do this by rehearsing your speech in front of a mirror or recording yourself and watching it back. This will help you build confidence and get used to the sound of your own voice.
• Know your audience: When writing your speech, it’s important to keep your audience in mind. Think about who will be listening to your speech and what they might be expecting to hear. Tailor your speech to your audience and try to make it relevant and engaging for them.
• Keep it concise: While you might have a lot to say, it’s important to keep your speech concise and to the point. Aim for a speech that is around five minutes long, as this will keep your audience engaged without dragging on too long.
• Use humor: A little bit of humor can go a long way in a father of the bride speech. Try to include some lighthearted jokes or anecdotes that will make your audience smile and help to break the ice.

Practicing the Speech

Now that you have written your father of the bride speech, it’s time to start practicing. Practicing your speech will help you deliver it confidently and avoid any last-minute jitters. Here are some tips to help you practice your speech effectively:

• Practice in front of a mirror: Practicing in front of a mirror will help you see your facial expressions and body language. This will help you identify any nervous habits or gestures that you might want to avoid.
• Practice with a timer: Timing is crucial when it comes to delivering a speech. Practice your speech with a timer to ensure that you are not going over the allotted time. This will also help you pace yourself and avoid rushing through your speech.
• Practice in front of a friend or family member: Practicing in front of a friend or family member will help you get feedback on your speech. They can also help you identify any areas that need improvement.
• Record yourself: Recording yourself while practicing your speech will help you identify any areas that need improvement. You can also listen to your speech to get a feel for your pacing and tone.

Remember, practice makes perfect. The more you practice your speech, the more confident you will be when it’s time to deliver it. So, take the time to practice your speech and you’ll be sure to deliver a memorable speech that your daughter and her new spouse will cherish forever.

Frequently Asked Questions

What should the father of the bride say in his speech.

As the father of the bride, your speech should be heartfelt and sincere. You should start by welcoming the guests and thanking them for coming to celebrate this special day with your family. Then, you can share some personal anecdotes about your daughter and her relationship with the groom. You can also express your love and pride for your daughter and offer some words of wisdom for the newlyweds.

How long should a father of the bride speech be?

Your speech should be long enough to cover everything you want to say, but not so long that it becomes boring or tedious. A good rule of thumb is to keep your speech between 5-7 minutes. This will give you enough time to say what you want to say without losing the attention of your audience.

What should a dad say to his daughter on her wedding day?

As a father, your daughter’s wedding day is a very emotional and special day for you. You should take this opportunity to express your love and pride for your daughter. You can tell her how much she means to you and how proud you are of the person she has become. You can also offer some words of advice and encouragement for her future with her new spouse.

Is it OK to read the father of the bride speech?

Yes, it is perfectly acceptable to read your speech from a written copy. In fact, it may even be preferable if you are nervous or worried about forgetting what you want to say. However, it is important to practice your speech beforehand so that you can deliver it with confidence and emotion.

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Court Rules North Carolina Catholic School Could Fire Gay Teacher Who Announced His Wedding Online

A federal appeals court has ruled a Catholic school in North Carolina had the right to fire a gay teacher who announced a decade ago that he was going to marry his longtime partner

RALEIGH, N.C. (AP) — A Catholic school in North Carolina had the right to fire a gay teacher who announced his marriage on social media a decade ago, a federal appeals court ruled Wednesday, reversing a judge's earlier decision.

A panel of the 4th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals in Richmond, Virginia, reversed a 2021 ruling that Charlotte Catholic High School and the Roman Catholic Diocese of Charlotte had violated Lonnie Billard’s federal employment protections against sex discrimination under Title VII of the Civil Rights Act. The school said Billard wasn't invited back as a substitute teacher because of his “advocacy in favor of a position that is opposed to what the church teaches about marriage,” a court document said.

U.S. District Judge Max Cogburn determined Billard — a full-time teacher for a decade until 2012 — was a lay employee for the limited purpose of teaching secular classes. Cogburn said a trial would still have to be held to determine appropriate relief for him. A 2020 ruling by the U.S. Supreme Court declared Title VII also protected workers who were fired for being gay or transgender.

But Circuit Judge Pamela Harris, writing Wednesday’s prevailing opinion, said that Billard fell under a “ministerial exception” to Title VII that courts have derived from the First Amendment that protects religious institutions in how they treat employees “who perform tasks so central to their religious missions — even if the tasks themselves do not advertise their religious nature.”

That included Billard — who primarily taught English as a substitute and who previously drama when working full-time — because Charlotte Catholic expected instructors to integrate faith throughout the curriculum, Harris wrote. And the school's apparent expectation that Billard be ready to instruct religion as needed speaks to his role in the school's religious mission, she added.

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“The record makes clear that (Charlotte Catholic) considered it “vital” to its religious mission that its teachers bring a Catholic perspective to bear on Shakespeare as well as on the Bible,” wrote Harris, who was nominated to the bench by then-President Barack Obama. “Our court has recognized before that seemingly secular tasks like the teaching of English and drama may be so imbued with religious significance that they implicate the ministerial exception.”

Billard, who sued in 2017, began working at the school in 2001. He met his now-husband in 2000, and announced their decision to get married shortly after same-sex marriage was made legal in North Carolina in 2014.

In a news release, the American Civil Liberties Union and a Charlotte law firm that helped Billard file his lawsuit lamented Wednesday's reversal as “a heartbreaking decision for our client who wanted nothing more than the freedom to perform his duties as an educator without hiding who he is or who he loves.”

The decision threatens to encroach on the rights of LGBTQ+ workers “by widening the loopholes employers may use to fire people like Mr. Billard for openly discriminatory reasons,” the joint statement read.

An attorney for a group that defended the Charlotte diocese praised the decision as "a victory for people of all faiths who cherish the freedom to pass on their faith to the next generation.” The diocese operates 20 schools across western North Carolina.

“The Supreme Court has been crystal clear on this issue: Catholic schools have the freedom to choose teachers who fully support Catholic teaching,” said Luke Goodrich with The Becket Fund for Religious Liberty. Attorneys general from nearly 20 liberal-leaning states as well as lawyers from Christian denominations and schools and other organizations filed briefs in the case.

Circuit Judge Paul Niemeyer, an appointee of former President George H.W. Bush, joined Harris' opinion. Circuit Judge Robert King, a nominee of former President Bill Clinton, wrote a separate opinion, saying he agreed with the reversal while also questioning the use of the ministerial exemption. Rather, he wrote, that Charlotte Catholic fell under a separate exemption in Title VII for religious education institutions dismissing an employee.

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How to Write a Father of the Bride Speech From Start to Finish

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If you're the father of a bride-to-be, you've probably dreamed of (or dreaded!) your daughter's wedding since she was a little girl. Now that the big day is finally here, you'll be tasked with presenting a heartwarming father of the bride speech. Yes, the father of the bride is expected to give a speech—and it's usually a central moment during the wedding reception . So, bring a pack of tissues along for the emotional roller coaster ride and use our helpful father of the bride speech examples and tips to write your own tribute . Plus, we've created an easy-to-follow checklist that you can screenshot or print to make sure you've hit all the important points.

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How to Write a Father of the Bride Speech Step-by-Step

"This, without a doubt, is one of the most emotional speeches, so there will surely be many tears," says Fátima Falcon of Momentos Weddings and Events in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. Emotions are sure to run high on the day of your daughter's wedding, which can make it difficult to deliver a heartfelt wedding toast to your daughter and her new spouse. We've compiled expert public speaking and wedding speech tips to help you write an authentic, tear-jerker father of the bride speech that's sure to wow everyone in the crowd.

1. Start with a welcome greeting.

Begin the speech by introducing yourself as the bride's father (or father figure), including your name.

2. Thank the guests for coming.

Share a few words of gratitude for everyone who attended the wedding—you can even include a brief mention of how much you've been looking forward to this day, especially if you were part of the planning process.

3. Talk about your bond with your daughter.

Consider incorporating memorable moments from years past into your speech to paint a picture of your daughter, like examples of what makes her special and how she's evolved into the person she is today. "Use this writing opportunity to express your love for your daughter and the special bond that you share now and will always share," says wedding planner Lynne Goldberg of Ms. Wedding Planner in South Florida, New York and Las Vegas. "Let her know that even though she is starting a new life, you will always be there for her."

If you're stuck on what to mention, Falcon recommends writing about how it felt when you first found out you were having a little girl, what moments you've most enjoyed with her and the times you felt especially proud of your daughter.

4. Welcome your daughter's partner to the family.

"Make sure you include the person she has chosen to marry in your speech," Goldberg says. Falcon adds: How did you feel when your daughter first met her now-spouse? How has your affection grown for her partner over time? Address your new in-law directly and share a few words about something that's unique to your connection with them.

5. Speak about the couple's relationship.

Take a moment to talk not just about your daughter's partner, but about their relationship with each other. Mention something positive you've noticed about their partnership and congratulate them for taking this next important step. You can also share a few words of encouragement for their next chapter or your best piece of marriage advice.

6. Raise your glass for a toast.

This one's obvious, but it's just as important. Conclude your father of the bride speech by inviting all of the guests to join you in a toast to the newlyweds.

Father of the Bride Speech Examples

Before you begin writing, decide if you want your speech to be short and sweet (check out the one below if you're looking for a shy father of the bride speech example), charming and funny, or simple and to the point. Once you're ready, follow these fill-in-the-blank options.

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Simple father of the bride speech example.

"Welcome everyone. I'm [insert your name] , Danielle's dad. On behalf of her mother and I, thank you for joining us tonight. We're incredibly grateful to celebrate the beautiful marriage of Danielle and John. We raised Danielle to be kind, independent and to embrace everything that life has to offer, but we could only hope that she'd someday find her match who embodies all of that and more. John, I'm so happy to say that you're that person, and we're thrilled to welcome you into our family. I admire [insert a characteristic about her partner] most about you, and I know that you're going to be a wonderful lifelong partner for Danielle. If I had one piece of advice for both of you, it's this: 'Whenever you are wrong, admit it. Whenever you are right, shut up!' But seriously, life is too short, so do your best not to sweat the small stuff. Danielle, I'm looking forward to celebrating many more happy moments in the future for you and John. Now, I'll ask that you all join me in raising your glasses for the newlyweds. Here's to a lifetime of love."

Short Father of the Bride Speech Example

"Hello, and thank you everyone for joining us to celebrate Jennifer and Melissa. I'm [insert your name] , Jennifer's dad, and I'm so excited for her as she and Melissa take their next step in life together. When Jennifer was a little girl, one of the things I loved most about her was [share a favorite memory or characteristic from her childhood] . I could only hope that someday she'd find a partner who cares about her as much as I do, and Melissa is that person. Melissa, we are so thrilled to have you join our family, and I'm looking forward to many more years of [insert a common interest that you both share] . Cheers and congratulations to you both!"

Funny Father of the Bride Speech Example

"I've long been ridiculed by my wife, family members and now-adult children for my so-called 'awful' dad jokes, so bear with me as I try to keep those to a minimum. As the father of the bride, the pressure is on me to deliver a poignant, powerful speech. Hopefully, I live up to your expectations. If not, there's the door.

I've been picturing Alex's wedding day in my head since we first brought her home from the hospital. Honestly, I'm having trouble wrapping my head around how fast Alex has grown up. It's hard to believe I'm standing here today, in front of you all, giving this speech. When I look into my daughter's eyes, I am amazed. Instead of the little girl who'd force me to play dress-up, watch Disney movies, and host fake tea parties with her stuffed animals, I now see a beautiful bride and an all-around exceptional young woman. And although I will miss being the man you always run to for guidance, I won't miss getting the bills for your designer handbag obsession.

When Alex brought Sam home for the first time, I was terrified at the thought of her leaving the nest. And, I almost didn't want to like Sam—after all, dads aren't supposed to like their daughter's significant others (or, so I've been told by my much-older, less-wiser friends.) But as soon as Sam walked through our door and began chatting me up about the Mets, he nearly swept me off my feet just as they did with Alex. Over time, our casual conversations evolved and our bond became much stronger. She loved Sam, and I did, too.

Sam, you make the perfect addition to our family, and I'm so excited to call you my new [son/daughter/child]. I wish you both a lifetime of happiness. Now that I'm all puffy-eyed, please join me in toasting to this incredible couple before we get back to the dance floor!"

Father of the Bride Speech Tips

Now that we've shared the basics, the next step is to start writing your own father of the bride speech. Here are a few final tips to make note of (and the wedding speech mistakes to avoid ).

Kick it off with an anecdote or heartfelt comment.

Figuring out how to start a father of the bride speech can feel like a lot of pressure—you want to capture guests' attention from the start without seeming like you're trying too hard. Once you've introduced yourself, sharing a short anecdote about your daughter or a touching comment about how proud she's made you are two father of the bride speech icebreakers. Whether you mention a funny wedding planning moment that happened leading up to the day, or you share a fond childhood memory that captures her personality, guests will love the personal touch. Not only will this give them a glimpse of your daughter's character, but it will double-down on just how special your relationship is.

Avoid sensitive or embarrassing comments.

Err on the side of caution by avoiding any embarrassing—or potentially awkward— memories, moments or mishaps that could make your daughter, her new spouse or wedding guests feel uncomfortable. This includes past relationships/breakups, mentions of future grandchildren and any other topics that are private or personal.

You'll also want to avoid jokes related to your bank account. "You may have spent a ton on this event, but joking about your now empty bank account will only make people feel awkward," says Katelyn Peterson of Wedding Words , a wedding vow and speech writing service. And while you're at it, steer clear of cliches as well. "We've all heard the line about how you're not losing a daughter, you're gaining a son," Peterson says. "Instead, express how you feel about your new son-in-law or daughter-in-law in your own words."

Conclude with a short and sweet message.

When it comes time to end your speech, think short, sweet and sentimental. "When the father of the bride inspires guests to wipe a tear away, that's when you know you've hit speech writing gold," says Peterson. Alternatively, end with a toast to the couple followed by a "wish for their future together," says Parks.

Father of the Bride Speech Frequently Asked Questions

Are you new to writing father of the bride speeches? No problem. Here's what's expected when it comes to timing and who you should thank once you take the mic.

How long should a father of the bride speech be?

A father of the bride speech can be about three minutes on the short side, and up to 10 minutes long for a more in-depth speech.

According to Falcon, the best father of the bride speeches last around six minutes. She continues, "The tone should be more formal at the beginning and, as the minutes go by, more emotional." But, beware: "Anything over 10 minutes will lose the attention of the guests," advises Joanna Kwok of Honour and Blessing Events in Vancouver, Canada.

When does the father of the bride give a speech?

The father of the bride can expect to make the speech at the start of the wedding reception, "just before dinner is served," says Peterson.

Alternatively, you can also give the father of the bride speech right before the father-daughter dance, says Goldberg. "That way, the very last line in the father of the bride speech can be: 'My beautiful daughter, may I have this dance?'" (I'm not crying—you are!)

Who does the father of the bride thank in his speech?

It's important to thank your wedding guests for attending, especially anyone who traveled from out of town to be present. You can also mention your wife or partner and reflect on how you've bonded as a family throughout the wedding planning process. Lastly, it's nice to give a special shout-out to your new in-laws and anyone else who contributed significantly to the wedding.

However, Peterson warns, "Long thank-yous are boring and not necessary." Instead, she recommends "focus[ing] on the main folks who it would make sense for them to receive a dedicated shout-out."

Samantha Iacia contributed to the reporting of this article.

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Touching, Motivational, or Short: How to Craft the Perfect Mother of Groom Speech

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A mother of groom speech is always a sweet moment that guests look forward to. However, it hasn’t always been that way. Traditionally, it’s the bride’s parents that make the speeches. Over recent years, the formality surrounding weddings has loosened up a bit, giving brides and grooms plenty of new options to tailor their unique wedding experience. Opening up the floor to new speakers is a relatively new trend, but it’s been very well received. So much so that it’s a trend that we can assume will stick around for a long time.

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Now that you know how popular mother of the groom speeches is, you’re probably wondering how to write the speech. Well, we have all the advice you need. Stay with us for a complete guide to writing a mother of the groom speech.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What should the mother of the groom say in her speech.

The mother of the groom can express her love and joy, share anecdotes about her son, welcome the bride into the family, and offer words of wisdom and support.

What does a mother say to her son on his wedding day?

A mother may express her love, share fond memories, and offer heartfelt advice for a happy and successful marriage on her son’s wedding day.

What do you say to your son on his wedding day speech?

In a speech on his wedding day, a mother can express her love, share memories, offer advice, and convey blessings for her son’s future with his new spouse.

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Like anyone delivering a speech, the mother of the groom is going to wonder what topics you should touch on during a mother of the groom speech. You want to be respectful. You want to be funny. How do you accomplish this while being funny, memorable, and sweet? We’re not going to tell you exactly what to say, but we do have the structure needed to check all of the mother-of-the-groom speech boxes. This mother of the groom speech template will point you in the right direction.

• Introduce yourself Not all of the guests are going to know who you are. The first thing you should communicate is your relationship with the couple. This will provide context to the rest of your speech.
• Thank wedding guests No inspirational speech from the mother of a groom can go without acknowledging the guests. Not only does this make them feel good, but it also converts you from talking at them to talking to them.
• Include your memories Including an anecdote really drives the mother of the groom’s speech. You can choose a funny story from when they were growing up or a cute story about the moment you realized he would make a perfect husband.
• Don’t forget about your son’s partner Welcoming the bride to the family is always a sweet moment. Take advantage of this opportunity to express when you first realized they were destined to be together or the moment you knew she was part of the family. It’s always wise to also acknowledge her parents by congratulating them for raising such a fine woman.
• Explain Why Their Marriage Makes You Happy Although this portion of the mother of the groom’s speech is about why you are happy, it’s still about the bride and groom. Use statements that explain how proud you are that they will be so happy or that this is their dream coming true.
• Add jokes and be funny You don’t want to be cruel, but you absolutely should include a few jokes in your mother of the groom’s speech. You can include the bride if you know her well but should otherwise stick to the groom when poking fun.
• Keep it short When it comes to mother of the groom speeches, less is often more. Make your statements without wandering. If needed, practice your speech so that it’s concise.
• Give some unique advice for newlyweds Deliver your best well wishes to the couple. Provide some life lessons that will help them navigate the trials and tribulations of marriage. This will finish your mother of the groom’s speech on the perfect note.

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There are a few topics that are taboo in mother of the groom speeches. These topics usually embarrass the bride and groom, the guests, and the speaker. Pretty much everyone. Here is what to avoid.

• The negative situation of the son It’s okay to poke a little fun at your son as long as it’s mild and has good intentions. Tread carefully, however. Going a little too far could shine a light on uncomfortable situations that are making him feel like a bad person.
• Embarrassed the son’s partner If your pike on the bride, it’s likely to make her feel like she’s not good enough for your son. Not only will this embarrassment hurt her at the moment, but it will also become a lifelong obstacle to overcome.
• Don’t add stories about ex Even if it’s in a negative light, stories about ex-boyfriends and girlfriends have no business at a wedding. Nothing good can come of this and it almost always ruins the vibe of the reception.

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If you have never delivered a speech, as the mother of the groom you will appreciate these tips. These will help you stay focused, keep your structure, and connect with the audience.

• Ensure that you are not too drunk It’s common to assume that a drink or two will help calm nerves. This is not true. If anything a few drinks will cause you to lose focus and will probably add to your nerves. A few too many drinks will make you sloppy and possibly make you forget the rules about avoiding taboos.
• Practice many times Reading directly from your notes is never a good speech. Mothers of the groom are encouraged to practice speaking in front of a mirror and friends. This will help establish a tempo and commit your points to memory.
• Use note cards You shouldn’t read from your notes, but you should have your talking points written down. Nerves often get the better of us and cause us to lose track of what we are saying. A few written reminders will keep you on point.
• Express your feelings Weddings are emotional events. Feel free to smile, laugh, and cry. Don’t hold back. It’s very much appropriate to emote while you deliver the mother of the groom’s speech.

There are a few speech styles to consider. These mother-of-the-groom speech templates provide guidance for the 3 most common scenarios.

Short mother of the groom speech

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A short mother of the groom’s speech is typically under 3 minutes long. A short speech is a great goal to have as most speeches suffer from running too long. There are lots to say, and scaling it back to the bare minimum will keep things punchy and concise.

The trick is self-editing. Once you write your first draft, analyze each complete thought and try to find the quickest way to relay those thoughts.

If your son met his bride at a sporting event, your mother of the groom speech could start a little something like this:

When John was a little boy, a third-grade teacher taught him how to dribble a basketball. Once he got good at it he joined the basketball team and made a bunch of new friends. Sports taught him the value of teamwork.

This is a nice story but could be much more concise.

• “When John was a little boy, a third-grade teacher…” These are redundant statements. By stating that John was in the second grade it becomes immediately evident that he was also a child at the time.
• “Once he got good at it he joined the basketball team…” This detail does not add a lesson to the story.
• “Sports taught him the value of teamwork.” This is a nice thought, but it’s a little disjointed from the rest of the paragraph.

When you consider all of these factors the new sentence becomes:

John joined the basketball team in second grade. This introduced him to a lot of new friends and taught him the value of teamwork.

Half the amount of words relay the same information without the potential for confusion. Use this technique with your jokes, your anecdotes, and your well-wishes.

Motivational speech from the mother of the groom to the bride

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The second mother of the groom’s speech style is motivational. The entire point of the speech is to deliver sage advice about how to nurture love and facilitate a successful marriage. This style requires attention to balance. On one hand, you want to be realistic about the difficulties that marriages endure. On the other, you don’t want to be all gloom and doom.

One thing to avoid is stories like “Sarah and Dave were just as happy as you when they first started out. Now they are divorced and Dave doesn’t have access to the kids anymore.”

This is not advice. This does not help the couple start off on the right foot. Instead, provide advice that helps the bride and groom avoid fights and misunderstandings. Explain that a marriage takes work.

“Marriage is not a 50/50 relationship. It’s 100/100. Your vows today mean that you will always give your all and that, if either of you isn’t giving 100%, the other will be there to support you and bring you back up. Marriage is a partnership that both participants need to contribute to every day.”

• In short, your speech should include examples of staying true to the couple’s vows. Examples of struggles your marriage has endured will serve to provide guidance on how they can avoid it, or manage it if it happens.
• The focus should be on love and cooperation, not warnings.
• You can also consider providing practical advice. Most couples are aware of the significance and value of love but are ill-prepared for life’s surprises.
• Marriage advice about raising a family: “Marriage is the beginning of a family. You will never be 100% ready for a child, but the two of you have all of the love needed to successfully raise a son or daughter.”
• Marriage advice about finances: “Love is more important than money, but money does play a huge role in your future. You are accountable to each other and should be transparent with your spending, savings, debts, and investments.”
• Marriage advice about careers: “In marriage, your family comes first. Although your jobs pay the bills, they do not define who you are.”

These types of advice can, and should, be blunt. Sugar coating the realities of life only serves to dilute the message.

Touching mother of the groom speech

An emotionally deep mother of the groom’s speech is always a winner. Someone who has experienced a lifetime of marriage and is overjoyed that her son is about to experience the same thing. Just make sure to have the tissue ready.

The touching of the mother of the groom’s speeches is based on emotion. They talk about feelings, relationships, and the future. They acknowledge personality traits

• If you are in a healthy marriage, this is a good time to express how important it is to set a good example. “After 40 years of marriage, your father and I still hold hands. It warms my heart to know that one day you will be standing in front of your children feeling the same way.”
• If the groom’s father has passed away or is otherwise absent, you can speak on his behalf. “Your father would be so proud of the man you have become. He would say that you are strong, intelligent, and treat your new wife with respect. He would say that he admires who you are today and what you will become tomorrow.”
• If you don’t know the bride well: “I’ve only met Sarah recently. I can’t say much about her as a person but by the changes I can see in my son, I know she’s perfect. He’s happy. He’s excited. He has a renewed zest for life and is constantly talking about the future. Anyone who can do that to my son must be a saint and is very much part of this family.”

The key to a successful touching speech is to speak from the heart. Use your personal experiences and anecdotes to tell the story of how your son arrived at this point in his life. Explain the journey that both you, your son, and your new daughter-in-law have developed and how many more experiences they have to look forward to.

Stay true to yourself. If you’re known to be a funny person, incorporate jokes into your mother of the groom speech. If you are naturally emotional, let it shine. Sticking to your structure and practicing your speech will make it good. Staying true to yourself and allowing your personality to shine will make it great!

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Xavier cancels UN ambassador Linda Thomas-Greenfield’s graduation speech, citing potential ‘disruptions’

NEW ORLEANS (WVUE) - Xavier University of Louisiana on Wednesday (May 8) announced that it was canceling its planned commencement address from Linda Thomas-Greenfield, the American ambassador to the United Nations, out of concern for potential “disruptions.”

Thomas-Greenfield was to speak Saturday (May 11) at 1 p.m. during the commencement ceremony at Xavier’s Convocation Center.

A letter from XULA president Dr. Reynold Verret announcing the decision did not say whether the university had received any specific threats to interrupt its ceremony. But college campuses nationwide have seen increased demonstrations in recent weeks linked to Israel’s retaliatory war in Gaza that followed a terror attack and kidnappings carried out by Hamas last Oct. 7.

“In recent days, we have heard the voices of a number of students and others in the Xavier community, who have expressed reservations over the invitation to Ambassador Linda Thomas-Greenfield to serve as our 2024 commencement speaker and have shared their strong views on the United States’ position on the conflict in the Middle East,” Verret wrote. “There are also many in this community who admire Ambassador Thomas-Greenfield and believe she would meaningfully contribute to the commencement ceremony.

“That said, everyone’s goal is to have a commencement ceremony that appropriately honors the graduates and their achievements. The vast majority of students want to be able to enjoy a commencement ceremony free of disruptions. Therefore, we will not be moving forward with the commencement speaker as originally planned.”

The university only announced Thomas-Greenfield as its commencement speaker on May 5, before pulling the invitation three days later.

Exciting news! 🌟 US Ambassador Linda Thomas-Greenfield will speak at our College of Arts and Sciences undergrad ceremony, and Deborah H. Telman, J.D., from Gilead Sciences, Inc., will address our Graduate Programs and College of Pharmacy! 🎉 #XULA24 🌐: https://t.co/QQ4ke5DiZc pic.twitter.com/I0WepcFu23 — Xavier Univ. of LA (@XULA1925) May 5, 2024

Verret added that the university “came to this regrettable conclusion together with Ambassador Thomas-Greenfield’s team,” and that it looked forward to welcoming the diplomat to the New Orleans campus at a future date “to engage with our students and faculty in substantive conversations.”

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