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My five-star reads: 15 of the best books I’ve ever read

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I read a lot of books each year. I have a ludicrous number of books on the go at any given time. And fortunately for the people in my life, I have this website to channel my thoughts about books.

But that said, I have a very high bar for 5* reviews. Most books I read fall into the 3-4* range – good enough to finish and recommend, but not quite life-changing.

For me, a five-star read is a rare beast – but when I encounter one, I can’t stop talking about it… for years (if not decades) after reading.

Including mostly fiction for now, many of the books below are engaging and unputdownable reads , but I’ve also included the most life-changing books I’ve read. These are books that have inspired me to change direction, think differently, overcome challenges, and work out who I really am.

So without further ado, read on for the five-star books I can’t say enough good things about.

My favourite books and five-star reads

Kafka on the shore by haruki murakami.

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Why I love Kafka on the Shore … I think this is Murakami at his best. A story about running away from home to take refuge in a library? Yes, please.

During my late teens and early twenties, I went on a Murakami reading binge and ticked off nearly all of his major novels. I have to be in the right mood for his writing, but when I am, nothing else comes close. I’m currently re-reading Kafka on the Shore and remembering just how fantastic it is.

Haruki Murakami is the master of blending  slice-of-life  everyday events like cooking pasta and doing laundry with the supernatural – think talking cats, mysteriously deep wells, and otherworldly meetings with people who aren’t quite who they seem.

War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy

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Why I love  War and Peace…  It’s a fantastically all-encompassing book about what living really feels like. Surprisingly, it also helped me through the anxiety I was experiencing in my late teens.

As you might be able to guess,  reading  War and Peace  is what inspired me to start this website. I first read it during one of the most anxious periods of my life, but Tolstoy’s timeless words unexpectedly helped me find perspective and calm.

Tolstoy’s masterpiece isn’t exactly known for being easy to read, but  choosing the right translation  can help a lot. (TLDR: I love Anthony Briggs’s translation – on each read, I’ve been reminded of just how immersive the book can be and usually finish it in a couple of weeks.)

The Garden of Evening Mists by Tan Twan Eng

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Why I love The Garden of Evening Mists … With no wasted words, Tan Twan Eng has written some of the most graceful and moving books I’ve ever read. They’re slow, beautiful, and absolutely not to be rushed.

When I think of my all-time favourite books, I often forget about Tan Twan Eng’s writing. As soon as I remember, I feel terrible for forgetting him.

In The Garden of Evening Mists , Supreme Court Judge Teoh Yun Ling chooses early retirement to return to the Cameron Highlands of Malaysia in the late 1980s, where she once served as an apprentice to a Japanese gardener.

Confronting the Japanese occupation of Malaya, this is a striking book that deservedly won the Man Asian Literary Prize and Walter Scott Prize for Historical Fiction (and was shortlisted for the Booker Prize).

The Gift of Rain is also superb, as was Tan Twang Eng’s new book for 2023, The House of Doors (one of my favourite books of the year ).

The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt

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Why I love The Goldfinch … This book has everything I love most about Donna Tartt’s writing: a keen eye for beauty and turmoil, sprawling storylines, characters rebuilding their life after trauma, and way too many pages.

At least in my eyes, Donna Tartt is a literary icon and The Goldfinch a modern classic . In this Pulitzer Prize winner from 2013, a young New Yorker grieving the loss of his mother is dragged into a gritty underworld of art and wealth.

With Donna Tartt’s usual cadence of a book a decade, will she announce another book soon? Who knows, but I really hope so.

One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel García Márquez

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Why I love  One Hundred Years of Solitude…   It’s exactly what the best magical realism should be: otherworldly but so very human.

Although it’s been years since I last enjoyed his writing, Gabriel García Márquez will always be one of my favourite writers. Alongside Isabel Allende’s The House of the Spirits , I’d also nominate One Hundred Years of Solitude as one of the best magical realism novels ever written.

A masterclass in the art of fiction, pick up García Márquez’s most popular novel for the magnetic story of the rise and fall, birth and death of the mythical town of Macondo, told through the history of the Buendía family.

Circe by Madeline Miller

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Why I love Circe … Madeline Miller’s bestseller reads like a dream. It’s one of the few books I wanted to re-read immediately after finishing (alongside Prodigal Summer , The Covenant of Water , and The Overstory ).

Ignoring the terrible whims of Greek Gods, one of my literary happy places is Aiaia, the island to which Circe is banished. Rather than acting as her prison, Aiaia becomes her sanctuary, with days focused on honing the art of  pharmaka –  the magic of herbs – as she forages, picks, blends, brews, and experiments with what she finds.

Although I loved The Song of Achilles , there’s something so dreamy, luscious, and evocative about Circe that makes it Miller’s masterpiece for me. The themes of love, loss, and motherhood are etched in my brain’s literary vault.

The Waves by Virginia Woolf

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Why I love The Waves … This is one of the few books I’ve read that feels like the title. If the sea were a book, it’d be this classic.

Okay, a little honesty. Iain, my husband, is reading The Waves right now on my recommendation (I bought him a copy for Christmas) and struggling . I fell in love with this book during a modernist literature module at university, and while I was prepared for the stream of consciousness and lack of plot, he really wasn’t.

My advice? Try and let the book wash over you, rather than looking for a plot to follow. It’s gorgeously written, but reading it is more like admiring a beautiful piece of modern art than a gripping novel. It’s not for everyone, but you might just love it too.

Cutting for Stone by Abraham Verghese

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Why I love Cutting for Stone … I’m convinced that Abraham Verghese is one of the best living writers, mostly because of this book.

When I worked at my village bookshop for several years as a teenager, the owner always recommended Cutting for Stone . His personal mission seemed to be making sure that every local resident read it. And it really is fantastic.

If you know Abraham Verghese’s name, it’s most likely to be from his 2023 sensation The Covenant of Water . I also thought this was incredible (although traumatic) and I’m still badgering my husband to read it every week.

That said, I still think Cutting for Stone – a moving story of twin brothers, medicine, and a country on the brink of revolution – comes out slightly ahead. I’d love to read both books again this year to make sure.

His Dark Materials by Philip Pullman

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Why I love His Dark Materials … The Arctic. Magic. Animal sidekicks. Badass characters.

When I married Iain, we chose a reading from The Amber Spyglass in our ceremony. (If you’ve read the books, you’ll might be able to guess which section we chose.) We both grew up with Philip Pullman’s books and still love them, so it was a fairly easy choice.

Yes, the trilogy is written for children, but – like The Hobbit – it’s a work of genius. I think back to the books fairly often, including when pondering parenthood, growing up, courage, and being a good person.

Prodigal Summer by Barbara Kingsolver

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Why I love  Prodigal Summer …  According to my personal formula for a perfect book, this is most likely the winner. Read it for wild nature, self-discovery, complex emotion, and intertwined stories.

Set during  a single summer by the Appalachian Mountains , Barbara Kingsolver whisks us away into three different yet interconnected lives as new life and the sensuality of nature blossom.

Deanna is a local girl turned biologist turned forest ranger, living reclusively in a cabin in the woods. Lusa is a city girl turned entomologist turned farmer’s wife. And Garnett is a grumpy old man, fed up with his eccentric neighbour Nannie Rawley.

Each time I re-read this book, especially when I’m feeling burnt out and in need of an escape, I remember how much I love all of these characters.

King Lear by William Shakespeare

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Why I love King Lear…   This is the first Shakespeare play that swept me off my feet – and it’s stuck with me ever since.

While studying literature, I slogged through a lot of painfully arduous books. But occasionally, something I presumed would be difficult was actually… good. In the case of King Lear , it was really good.

Although King Lear is unavoidably bleak, it’s also an unparalleled exploration of family, what we pass to our children, and how we age – all told with passion, poetry, and dark humor.

Once you read it, you realise just how much Shakespeare’s timeless tale of family and inheritance has influenced. From TV award-winners ( Succession ) to classic novels ( Moby-Dick ), you can find echoes of King Lear everywhere.

A Whole Life by Robert Seethaler

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Why I love A Whole Life … This book opened my heart, brought me to tears, and never let me forget it.

Although many of my five-star books can double as doorstops, A Whole Life is proof that plenty of beauty and emotion can fit in small packages.

Chosen as one of my favourite books that feel like a quiet life by the mountains , this is the story of Andreas Egger, a man who knows every path and peak of his mountain valley in the Austrian Alps.

As Andreas navigates loss, ageing, and a changing way of life, read this for  a stunning and heartbreaking book  about what life is really made of; both the little things and the biggest moments. 

Pachinko by Min Jin Lee

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Why I love  Pachinko …  Love, loss, the repercussions of the past across centuries. Multigenerational stories don’t get much better than this.

Pachinko is one of the few books I recommend to everyone. This compulsively readable  multigenerational epic  follows the story of a poor Korean immigrant family to Japan and their reinvention over the following generations.

Told with so much force but also precision, this is one of my top recommendations if you want to fall back in love with reading and rediscover how immersive great fiction can be.

The Overstory by Richard Powers

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Why I love  The Overstory …  It’s one of the best books I’ve read to open my eyes to the world’s beauty, fragility, and interconnectedness.

The Overstory  has my vote as one of the  best modern novels of the century  so far. It took me a few attempts to get into the 502-page Pulitzer Prize winner, but when I did, I didn’t want it to end.

This magnificent book is a paean to the vast and marvellously intricate world that we depend on in so many ways:  the world of trees .

With stunning writing and creativity, Richard Powers weaves together interlocking fables that range from antebellum New York to the late twentieth-century Timber Wars of the Pacific Northwest and beyond. 

Wind, Sand and Stars by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

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Why I love  Wind, Sand and Stars…   It’s both a masterpiece and a welcome reminder that life really is fleeting.

Antoine de Saint-Exupéry’s crowd favourite,  The Little Prince , is packed with lessons about kindness and living well. However, his memoir of his life as an aviator,  Wind, Sand and Stars , is always my top pick of his books.

Braiding philosophy and lyricism with the miracle and danger of early aviation, this is so much more than a memoir of flying. It’s a book with a bird’s eye view that manages to take in all of life below.

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Lucy Fuggle is a professional writer, reader, and creator of Tolstoy Therapy. Drawing on her love for books and a degree in English Literature, she started Tolstoy Therapy in 2012 and has shared the most feel-good, cozy, and beautiful books for over a decade. After working as a content specialist with leading companies for nearly 10 years, she now focuses on her own websites and books ( Mountain Song , Your Life in Bloom , and Simple Business ). She grew up in England and now lives in Denmark with her husband. For more book recommendations, subscribe to Tolstoy Therapy's weekly email to inspire your reading list.

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Rebecca holds a PhD in English and is a professor at Norwalk Community College in Connecticut. She teaches courses in composition, literature, and the arts. When she’s not reading or grading papers, she’s hanging out with her husband and son and/or riding her bike and/or buying books. She can't get enough of reading and writing about books, so she writes the bookish newsletter "Reading Indie," focusing on small press books and translations. Newsletter: Reading Indie Twitter: @ofbooksandbikes

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There’s something about a shiny new collection of essays that makes my heart beat a little faster. If you feel the same way, can we be friends? If not, might I suggest that perhaps you just haven’t found the right collection yet? I don’t expect everyone to love the thought of sitting down with a nice, juicy personal essay, but I also think the genre gets a bad rap because people associate it with the kind of thing they had to write in school.

Well, essays don’t have to be like the kind of thing you wrote in school. Essays can be anything, really. They can be personal, confessional, argumentative, informative, funny, sad, shocking, sexy, and all of the above. The best essayists can make any subject interesting. If I love an essayist, I’ll read whatever they write. I’ll follow their minds anywhere. Because that’s really what I want out of an essay — the sense that I’m spending time with an interesting mind. I want a companionable, challenging, smart, surprising voice in my head.

So below is my list, not of essay collections I think everybody “must read,” even if that’s what my title says, but collections I hope you will consider checking out if you want to.

1. Against Interpretation — Susan Sontag

2. Alibis: Essays on Elsewhere — André Aciman

3. American Romances — Rebecca Brown

4. Art & Ardor — Cynthia Ozick

5. The Art of the Personal Essay — anthology, edited by Phillip Lopate

6. Bad Feminist — Roxane Gay

7. The Best American Essays of the Century — anthology, edited by Joyce Carol Oates

8. The Best American Essays series — published every year, series edited by Robert Atwan

9. Book of Days — Emily Fox Gordon

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10. The Boys of My Youth — Jo Ann Beard

11. The Braindead Megaphone — George Saunders

12. Broken Republic: Three Essays — Arundhati Roy

13. Changing My Mind — Zadie Smith

14. A Collection of Essays — George Orwell

15. The Common Reader — Virginia Woolf

16. Consider the Lobster — David Foster Wallace

17. The Crack-up — F. Scott Fitzgerald

18. Discontent and its Civilizations — Mohsin Hamid

19. Don’t Let Me Be Lonely: An American Lyric — Claudia Rankine

20. Dreaming of Hitler — Daphne Merkin

21. Self-Reliance and Other Essays — Ralph Waldo Emerson

22. The Empathy Exams — Leslie Jameson

23. Essays After Eighty — Donald Hall

24. Essays in Idleness — Yoshida Kenko

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25. The Essays of Elia — Charles Lamb

26. Ex Libris: Confessions of a Common Reader — Anne Fadiman

27. A Field Guide to Getting Lost — Rebecca Solnit

28. Findings — Kathleen Jamie

29. The Fire Next Time — James Baldwin

30. The Folded Clock — Heidi Julavits

31. Forty-One False Starts — Janet Malcolm

32. How To Slowly Kill Yourself and Others in America — Kiese Laymon

33. I Feel Bad About My Neck — Nora Ephron

34. I Just Lately Started Buying Wings — Kim Dana Kupperman

35. In Fact: The Best of Creative Nonfiction — anthology, edited by Lee Gutkind

36. In Praise of Shadows — Junichiro Tanizaki

37. In Search of Our Mother’s Gardens — Alice Walker

38. Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? — Mindy Kaling

39. I Was Told There’d Be Cake — Sloane Crosley

40. Karaoke Culture — Dubravka Ugresic

41. Labyrinths — Jorge Luis Borges

42. Living, Thinking, Looking — Siri Hustvedt

43. Loitering — Charles D’Ambrosio

44. Lunch With a Bigot — Amitava Kumar

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45. Madness, Rack, and Honey — Mary Ruefle

46. Magic Hours — Tom Bissell

47. Meatless Days — Sara Suleri

48. Meaty — Samantha Irby

49. Meditations from a Movable Chair — Andre Dubus

50. Memories of a Catholic Girlhood — Mary McCarthy

51. Me Talk Pretty One Day — David Sedaris

52. Multiply/Divide: On the American Real and Surreal — Wendy S. Walters

53. My 1980s and Other Essays — Wayne Koestenbaum

54. The Next American Essay, The Lost Origins of the Essay, and The Making of the American Essay — anthologies, edited by John D’Agata

55. The Norton Book of Personal Essays — anthology, edited by Joseph Epstein

56. Notes from No Man’s Land — Eula Biss

57. Notes of a Native Son — James Baldwin

58. Not That Kind of Girl — Lena Dunham

59. On Beauty and Being Just — Elaine Scarry

60. Once I Was Cool — Megan Stielstra

61. 100 Essays I Don’t Have Time to Write — Sarah Ruhl

62. On Kissing, Tickling, and Being Bored — Adam Phillips

63. On Lies, Secrets, and Silence — Adrienne Rich

64. The Opposite of Loneliness — Marina Keegan

65. Otherwise Known as the Human Condition — Geoff Dyer

66. Paris to the Moon — Adam Gopnik

67. Passions of the Mind — A.S. Byatt

68. The Pillow Book — Sei Shonagon

69. A Place to Live — Natalia Ginzburg

70. Playing in the Dark: Whiteness and the Literary Imagination — Toni Morrison

71. Pulphead — John Jeremiah Sullivan

72. Selected Essays — Michel de Montaigne

73. Shadow and Act — Ralph Ellison

74. Sidewalks — Valeria Luiselli

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75. Sister Outsider — Audre Lorde

76. The Size of Thoughts — Nicholson Baker

77. Slouching Towards Bethlehem — Joan Didion

78. The Souls of Black Folk — W. E. B. Du Bois

79. The Story About the Story — anthology, edited by J.C. Hallman

80. A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again — David Foster Wallace

81. Ten Years in the Tub — Nick Hornby

82. Thirteen Ways of Looking at a Black Man — Henry Louis Gates

83. This Is Running for Your Life — Michelle Orange

84. This Is the Story of a Happy Marriage — Ann Patchett

85. Tiny Beautiful Things — Cheryl Strayed

86. Tuxedo Junction: Essays on American Culture — Gerald Early

87. Twenty-eight Artists and Two Saints — Joan Acocella

88. The Unspeakable — Meghan Daum

89. Vermeer in Bosnia — Lawrence Weschler

90. The Wave in the Mind — Ursula K. Le Guin

91. We Need Silence to Find Out What We Think — Shirley Hazzard

92. We Should All Be Feminists — Chimamanda Ngozi Adichi

93. What Are People For? — Wendell Berry

94. When I Was a Child I Read Books — Marilynne Robinson

95. The White Album — Joan Didion

96. White Girls — Hilton Als

97. The Woman Warrior — Maxine Hong Kinston

98. The Writing Life — Annie Dillard

99. Writing With Intent — Margaret Atwood

100. You Don’t Have to Like Me — Alida Nugent

If you have a favorite essay collection I’ve missed here, let me know in the comments!

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