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I was poised to attack "The Family Stone" because its story of a family of misfits is no match for the brilliance of " Junebug ." I was all worked up to bemoan the way a holiday release with stars like Claire Danes , Diane Keaton , Dermot Mulroney and Luke Wilson gets a big advertising sendoff, while a brilliant film like "Junebug," ambitious and truthful, is shuffled off into "art film" purgatory. Then sanity returned: "Junebug" intends to be a great film, and is, and "The Family Stone" intends to be a screwball comedy, and is, and all they have in common is an outsider coming into a family circle. To punish "The Family Stone" because of "Junebug" would be like discovering that "The Producers" is not " The Sweet Smell of Success ."

So let's see what it is. As the movie opens, the Stones are preparing to celebrate Christmas. The oldest son, Everett (Dermot Mulroney) is bringing home his fiancee Meredith ( Sarah Jessica Parker ) to meet the family. Meredith is not going to be an easy fit. She's aggressive, uptight, hyper-sensitive and dresses like someone who has never been undressed.

Waiting in the hometown are Everett's family: His mom Sybil (Diane Keaton), his dad Kelly ( Craig T. Nelson ), his brother Ben (Luke Wilson), his gay and deaf brother Thad (Ty Giordano), and his kid sister Amy ( Rachel McAdams ). We will also meet Thad's African-American partner, Patrick (Brian White), and their adopted son.

So, OK, if the Stones are OK with Patrick, they're strong on empathy and acceptance. Therefore, if they don't like Meredith, it is because she is not to be liked. And that does seem to be the case, because (1) it is instantly obvious to her mother Sybil that this is the wrong woman for her son Everett, and (2) poor Meredith is one of those perfectionists who in their rigid compulsion to do the right thing always succeed in doing the wrong one.

Sir Michael Tippett, who wrote operas, said, "There is only one comic plot: the unexpected hindrances to an eventual marriage." While this definition does not encompass "A Night at the Opera" or " Babe: Pig in the City ," there is much truth in it. In Meredith's case, she is her own greatest hindrance to marriage, and the more she realizes that, the deeper the hole she digs.

The screenplay by director Thomas Bezucha establishes subplots around this central fact. We learn that Everett is drawn to Meredith partly because he believes that to be successful in business, he should be more like her and less like he really is. We learn that Ben, the Luke Wilson character, thinks of himself as a wild and crazy guy. We meet Meredith's sister Julie (Claire Danes), who flies in to rescue her sister and turns into a second fly in the same ointment. Julie is as relaxed and natural as Meredith is emotionally constipated.

And then, in ways I will not reveal, it turns out there is another truth Sir Michael might have observed: Opposites attract.

"The Family Stone" is silly at times, leaning toward the screwball tradition of everyone racing around the house at the same time in a panic fueled by serial misunderstandings. There is also a thoughtful side, involving the long and loving marriage of Sybil and Kelly. Diane Keaton and Craig T. Nelson create touching characters in the middle of comic chaos. They have a scene together as true and intimate in its way as a scene involving a long-married couple can be. It doesn't involve a lot of dialogue, and doesn't need to, because it obviously draws on a lot of history.

There is an emerging genre of movies about family reunions at holiday time. It seems to be a truth universally acknowledged that most reunions at Christmas end happily, while most reunions at Thanksgiving end sadly. That's odd, because the way things shake down in the world of fragmented families, we tend to spend Thanksgiving with those we choose, and Christmas with those we must. If those two lists are identical in your life, your holidays must all be joyous, or all not.

What is always true is that the holiday itself imposes Aristotle's unities of time and place upon the plot. Most of the action takes place in the house or on the way and from it, and whatever happens will have to happen before everybody heads back to the airport. That creates an artificial deadline that makes everything seem more urgent and requires that the truth be told or love declared right here and now, or not at all.

"The Family Stone" sorts out its characters admirably, depends on typecasting to help establish its characters more quickly, and finds a winding path between happy and sad secrets to that moment when we realize that the Family Stone will always think of this fateful Christmas with a smile, and a tear. What else do you want? If it's a lot, just rent "Junebug."

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The Family Stone (2005)

Rated PG-13 for some sexual content including dialogue and drug references

103 minutes

Luke Wilson as Ben Stone

Craig T. Nelson as Kelly Stone

Claire Danes as Julie Morton

Rachel McAdams as Amy Stone

Sarah Jessica Parker as Meredith Morton

Tyrone Giordano as Thad Stone

Dermot Mulroney as Everett Stone

Diane Keaton as Sybil Stone

Directed and written by

Thomas Bezucha

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Bittersweet story won't appeal to younger teens.

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What you will—and won't—find in this movie.

Holidays are stressful, but family members really

Some fighting between brothers, treated as comedy

Sexual activity hinted at (woman wakes up in wrong

Minor language ("damn," "s--t").

Brief shot of Santa/Norelco ad on TV; beer labels

Drinking in bar, to point of passing out and forge

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Holidays are stressful, but family members really love each other.

Violence & Scariness

Some fighting between brothers, treated as comedy and leaving black eyes and cut faces.

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Sexual activity hinted at (woman wakes up in wrong brother's bed); gay couple kisses chastely; parents kiss and snuggle in bed, revealing very briefly the mother's mastectomy scar.

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Drinking in bar, to point of passing out and forgetting the evening; references to pot-smoking.

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Parents need to know that this romantic comedy focuses on family tensions emerging when grown children come home for the Christmas holidays. Characters argue and pout; brothers fight, causing black eyes and cut cheeks. Characters drink at a bar, to the point that one passes out and doesn't remember how she ends up in her fiancé's brother's bed. One character is accused of racism, homophobia, and general "uptightness." While it's mainly comedic, the movie also includes a plot thread where a character is dying of cancer (brief glimpse of her mastectomy scar). To stay in the loop on more movies like this, you can sign up for weekly Family Movie Night emails .

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One of my favorite Christmas films

Such a great family movie for older or more mature teens., what's the story.

In THE FAMILY STONE, the liberal-leaning, proud Stones are upset when good boy Everett ( Dermot Mulroney ) brings home a bad fiancée. Granted, Meredith ( Sarah Jessica Parker ) doesn't mean to be bad. In fact, she tries very hard to be liked. But she's just tense, fretful, and sometimes ignorant, making her a target for the free-thinking Stones. The family includes parents Sybil ( Diane Keaton ) and Kelly ( Craig T. Nelson ), and the kids: deaf Thad (Tyrone Giordano) and his African American partner Patrick (Brian J. White), pregnant Susannah (Elizabeth Reaser) and her charmingly brainy daughter Elizabeth (Savannah Stehlin), pot-smoking documentary filmmaker Ben ( Luke Wilson ), and the wittily "mean one," Amy ( Rachel McAdams ). Before such judges, every word Meredith speaks seems to indict her. Only Ben supports her. He encourages her: "You have the freak flag, you just don't fly it." Flying that flag will prove Meredith's salvation.

Is It Any Good?

Thomas Bezucha's film means well and offers fine performances, but is in the end tripped up by holiday-family-gathering movie clichés. The point of The Family Stone isn't really measuring up, though this is, of course, the presumption of Christmas-family-gathering movies.

While it provides pleasurable moments (Susannah watching Judy Garland sing in Meet Me in St. Louis on TV, Brad finding the perfect gift for Amy), The Family Stone is, finally, less brave than Meredith, resorting at last to cookie-cutter resolutions like slapsticky fights and everyone's-happy couplings.

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Families can talk about the family relationships. How do the kids' behaviors resemble their parents'? How do the Stones come to see their presumed open-mindedness as insular and judgmental? How might Meredith's transformation from tense to sociable (here pushed along by a night of drinking), be achieved in a less stereotypical way?

Movie Details

In theaters : December 16, 2005
On DVD or streaming : May 2, 2006
Cast : Diane Keaton , Rachel McAdams , Sarah Jessica Parker
Director : Thomas Bezucha
Inclusion Information : Female actors
Studio : Twentieth Century Fox
Genre : Comedy
Run time : 102 minutes
MPAA rating : PG-13
MPAA explanation : some sexual content including dialogue, and drug references.
Last updated : December 2, 2023

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The Family Stone Reviews

I just can't stand this group and the ending is unbelievable

Full Review | Jul 26, 2023

By the end of the film...I always find myself tearing up.

Full Review | Dec 5, 2022

The Family Stone flips the script by having Thad be loved and supported by all his siblings and both his parents. Nothing can compete with Diane Lane, as Thad’s mom...

Full Review | Sep 26, 2022

There is a lack of craft to the project in nearly every sense that sees great actors give good performances as bad characters.

Full Review | Original Score: C | Aug 28, 2022

Although "Stone" has some problems, it's still a film that works -- thanks to a very agreeable cast.

Full Review | Original Score: B | Nov 19, 2019

Remarkably for a Hollywood movie, this very entertaining comedy proves that the outward good cheer and inward bad vibes of the Christmas season can not only coexist, but amusingly feed upon each other.

Full Review | Original Score: 3.5/5 | Dec 14, 2018

The movie feels sentimental but never cheesy: Our allegiances shift throughout, until we decide everyone deserves our sympathy, everyone has reasons.

Full Review | Original Score: 5/5 | Jul 31, 2018

a gob of yuletide Play-Doh

Full Review | Original Score: 1.5/4 | Aug 17, 2010

The Family Stone works hard to warm the cockles of our hearts. The cast is attractive. The sentiments are commendable. But the love Bezucha wants us to feel for the family couldn't possibly compete with the love they already feel for themselves.

Full Review | Jul 7, 2010

I loved it.

Full Review | Apr 29, 2009

Full Review | Original Score: B | May 7, 2007

The farcical elements are much too loaded to provide any real fun, and the Stones come off more as sanctimonious, politically correct left-wing prigs than enchanting.

Full Review | Mar 1, 2007

The movie feels a lot like slacker brother Ben: a little sloppy, mostly predictable, some flashes of poignancy and wisdom, but ultimately doesn't live up to its potential.

Full Review | Original Score: 2.5/4 | Sep 22, 2006

What's so refreshing about Thomas Bezucha's The Family Stone is how it plays off of genre expectations and effortlessly switches back and forth between comedy, romance and tragedy.

Full Review | Jul 29, 2006

Full Review | Original Score: 2/5 | May 12, 2006

Tocante sem ser melodramático, desenvolve bem seus personagens, cujas interações soam sempre reais. Além disso, o filme oscila com segurança entre o drama e a comédia e conta com um elenco formidável.

Full Review | Original Score: 4/5 | Apr 14, 2006

Full Review | Original Score: 3/5 | Apr 1, 2006

Full Review | Original Score: 1.5/5 | Mar 18, 2006

...turns from endearing to phony even before the first carol is sung.

Full Review | Feb 21, 2006

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The Family Stone

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Sarah Jessica Parker as Meredith Morton; Dermot Mulroney as Everett Stone; Rachel McAdams as Amy Stone; Luke Wilson as Ben Stone; Tyrone Giordano as Thad Stone; Elizabeth Reaser as Susannah Stone; Brian J. White as Patrick; Diane Keaton as Sybil Stone; Craig T. Nelson as Kelly Stone; Claire Danes as Julie Morton

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Meredith Morton gives a whole new meaning to the word uptight. That means there’s only one thing for a Hollywood screenwriter to do: introduce her to a family that puts the loose in loosey-goosey. Everett Stone brings Meredith home to meet his family at Christmastime, intending to propose to her. But his mean-girl sister, Amy, and laid-back stoner brother, Ben, set about “welcoming” her first.

It’s oil and water. No matter what Meredith does, she just reinforces her image as a tightly wound harpy, which invites Amy and Ben to wind her tighter. Desperate to make a good impression but being driven crazy, Meredith invites her sister, Julie, to come keep her company.

In the meantime, despite the Stones’ apparent bon vivance, tragedy lurks just below the surface with matriarch Sybil’s health. Take Everett’s growing doubts about his relationship with Meredith, throw in her pretty sister and factor in Ben’s sudden attraction to, of all people, Meredith, and you have the makings of an utterly predictable and not very romantic comedy.

Positive Elements

The Stones are a family of free spirits and eccentrics, but they all tolerate each other’s foibles with relatively good grace. Ben at first is all too willing to yank Meredith’s chain, but he eventually comes to feel compassion for her. Sybil and her husband, Kelly, have weathered a past serious illness, and their marriage seems the stronger for it. Son Thad is deaf, and everyone supplements his or her speech with sign language so that Thad can be part of the conversation, even if he’s not being spoken to directly.

Sexual Content

Sybil has a distressingly casual attitude toward casual sex. So casual that she actually disapproves when Meredith refuses to sleep in the same bed with Everett, calling it “silly.” (It should be noted that Meredith’s “stand” results more from queasiness at sleeping with Everett in his childhood bedroom than any moral qualms.) Sybil is fond of using crass sexual terms in front of her family, and picks a particularly colorful one to refer to Amy’s losing her virginity—not disapprovingly, mind you. (Meredith repeats it later.)

Sybil lifts her pajama top to reveal a mastectomy scar. Her husband caresses it to show that he loves her despite the loss of her breast. The two kiss, with sex implied as the camera cuts away.

Thad brings home his homosexual lover, Patrick, and the Stone family celebrates and defends his lifestyle. Indeed, Sybil half-jokingly says she wishes all her sons were gay.

After a night of drunkenness, Meredith wakes up in Ben’s bed, thinking she’s had sex with him. (They haven’t, although several people think they have.) A sleazy sight gag involving an erection and other conversations about sex round things out.

Violent Content

Beyond a few pratfalls, Meredith slaps Ben. Ben and Everett get in a fistfight and wrestle on the floor, bloodying each other’s faces.

Crude or Profane Language

One use of the euphemism “friggin.” One use of the s-word and a handful of other swear words. Meredith misuses God’s name at least eight times, and Sybil adds “d–n” to her profanity three times. Jesus’ name is abused once. Sybil apparently says a “very bad word” in sign language, too.

Drug and Alcohol Content

Ben takes Meredith to a bar, where she proceeds to get extremely drunk. Ben also drinks, and their table is lined with empty beer bottles. Meredith buys a round of beers for the entire bar and later says they should try to “score some pot.” In another example of casual parenting Ben smokes marijuana from a pipe while talking with his dad, which leads Sybil to ask Ben, “You and Daddy have fun getting stoned?” (Dad didn’t partake, but neither did he object.) Several people have wine with a meal.

Other Negative Elements

The only “normal” and well-adjusted couple in this story is the gay one. And that says a lot about what the filmmakers think about homosexuality. The Stones emphatically state that homosexuality is not a choice, and even though Meredith doesn’t mean to be disrespectful when broaching the topic of homosexual couples adopting children, she’s portrayed as an intolerant prude for having any concerns at all. Her concerns, for the record, are logistical ones, not moral ones. She’s worried about the layer of difficulty homosexuality adds to one’s life in our current culture.

It’s implied that the only way Meredith can loosen up is by getting drunk.

The Family Stone tries very hard—too hard—to be a feel-good Christmas movie. Instead, we’re “treated” to a series of nails-on-the-blackboard moments. This story had potential, but it fails many times on the most basic level. To start with, you wonder what Everett ever saw in the insufferably uptight Meredith. There is not for one moment an emotional closeness between them. Various people say and do things, not because they logically grow out of their character, but because they’re needed merely to advance the story. Really, who would feel free to invite her sister to someone else’s house for Christmas without asking first? But how else were they going to get the “other woman” into the story?

The film’s casual attitude toward illicit sex grates on the nerves far worse than sloppy storytelling, though. Hearing a mom crudely joke about her daughter losing her virginity had me cringing. There is also the not-so-subtle glorification of homosexuality. (Director Thomas Bezucha’s only previous film is a gay-themed romantic comedy.) Take all this, factor in the drug abuse and the profanity, and I can only conclude that this Stone deserves to sink like one.

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16 Dec 2005

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Spending what Americans call “the holidays” with one’s own family can be traumatic enough, so it’s a bit odd that anyone would want to torture themselves further by seeing movies about other people’s Christmas or Thanksgiving gatherings. A decade ago, Jodie Foster assembled an eclectic cast (including, coincidentally, Claire Danes) for the hit-and-miss comedy drama Home For The Holidays; Thomas Bezucha aims for much the same territory with his sophomore effort as writer-director — and manages to score more hits than misses.

The Family Stone comprises bohemian parents Sybil and Kelly (Diane Keaton and Craig T. Nelson), devoted daughters Amy and Susannah (Rachel McAdams and Elizabeth Reaser), and three sons: a deaf gay (Tyrone Giordano) with a black boyfriend (Brian White), a feckless stoner (Luke Wilson), and an uptight businessman, Everett (Dermot Mulroney), whose new girlfriend rubs everyone up the wrong way from the moment she brings her uptight, Upper-West-Side attitude to the vast New England family home. The family is so close-knit, poor Meredith (Sarah Jessica Parker) is virtually doomed before she steps out of the car, watched by the crowd at the kitchen window. For all their tolerant values and political correctness, the Stones have mercilessly pre-judged Meredith — much to the annoyance of Everett, who has marriage in mind.

It’s a recipe with ingredients taken from everything from Meet The Fockers to Sweet Home Alabama. But Bezucha is thankfully less concerned with exploring familiar fish-out of-water themes than breathing life into multi-faceted, flawed characters, who reveal new complexities as the story progresses. Likewise, his commendable script is mostly successful at juggling elements of comedy, drama, romance, and even trickier prospects such as poignancy and farce.

Only twice does the film stretch credibility, and thus patience: first, when Meredith finally frees her “inner freak” after a few beers with Luke Wilson’s affable Ben; and later, when the arrival of her down-to-earth sister Julie (Danes) sends the plot in yet another direction. And, talking of direction, Bezucha’s is far less technically assured than his writing, but the uniformly high quality of the performances — Keaton and Parker in particular — smooths over the cracks.

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Time to Drop the Cellphone and Pick Up a Casserole

By Manohla Dargis

Dec. 16, 2005

All happy families resemble one another, Tolstoy famously wrote, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way, but Tolstoy didn't know the Stones, who are happy in a Hollywood kind of way and unhappy in a self-help kind of way. This tribe of ravenous cannibals bares its excellent teeth at anyone who doesn't accommodate the family's preening self-regard. Its most recent target is Meredith Morton, an executive played by Sarah Jessica Parker, who probably hopes to marry into the clan, little realizing that this will leave no Stone unturned and all aimed straight at her head.

Written and directed by Thomas Bezucha, "The Family Stone" opens inside a crowded department store, with Meredith talking nonstop into a cellphone while her boyfriend, Everett Stone (Dermot Mulroney), buys a gift. Meredith steps out of her bubble only long enough to correct Everett's gift choice brusquely and make the salesgirl feel bad. (In some flicks, cellphones are the new cigarettes, a sure sign of incivility.) There are few character types Hollywood loves to hate more than the female business executive, what the movies once called a "career woman." And with her brittle efficiency and tight chignon, Meredith looks precisely like one of those types for whom comeuppance and a more relaxed hairstyle are right around the corner.

That corner and that comeuppance will be revealed inside the studiously tasteful Stone family manse, to which Everett squires Meredith home for the holidays. Located in a picture-perfect New England college town (actually, Madison, N.J.), the house looks more persuasively lived in than many big-studio interiors, perhaps because of all the books crammed onto shelves and piled on night tables. The Stone patriarch, Kelly (Craig T. Nelson), is a professor, and the family's vaguely bookish, boho vibe is reinforced by the Susan Sontag-style splash of white that punctuates the otherwise dark head of his wife, Sybil (Diane Keaton), a woman of multiple moods, if not personalities. If Kelly serves as the family's foundation, Sybil is a lot like the house itself, a warm womb in which each family member can seek refuge.

There is, of course, something irresistible about having a maternal womb of one's own, and not just as a pretext for cheap puns. The hitch here is that Mom is fairly monstrous, and most of her five kids fairly unbearable. The exceptions are Susannah (Elizabeth Reaser), who, perhaps because she has her own family, is merely bland, and Ben (Luke Wilson), whose laid-back charm owes much to the actor playing him. Less appealing are the baby Stone, Amy (Rachel McAdams), and Thad (Ty Giordano), who is deaf and about to adopt a child with his partner, Patrick (Brian White). Shrouded in saintliness and as neutered as geldings, Thad and Patrick offer further proof that as far as pop culture representation is concerned, gay men are fine, as long as they're redecorating or straighter than straight.

It takes a while for Sybil's monstrosity to emerge, mainly because the reliably appealing Ms. Keaton, with her fluttering hands and gorgeous smile, radiates such likability. The film doesn't present the character as a monster; this is, after all, a paean to that beloved fiction called the sanctity of the family. More interesting, though, the film is also a clear attempt to bottle the manic energy and generous spirit of madcap classics like George Cukor's wonderful 1938 "Holiday." This partly explains Mr. Bezucha's unfortunate attempts at broad physical comedy (flying casseroles, etc.), which even a dexterous performer like Ms. Parker has trouble with. This actress fares better facing off against Ms. Keaton, whose character carries a dark secret that will be a secret only to those who don't notice the rampaging elephant in the room.

In a better movie, these strong-willed women would be ready-made friends rather than instant combatants. A better movie would also bring Amy, the second most unbearable family member, into a sisterhood, rather than turn her into the resident baddie. (Amy carries a National Public Radio tote bag, a red flag for intolerance, if ever there was one.) Like Meredith and Sybil, Amy is the other putatively difficult woman in this film, a shrew-in-training who spews bile at Meredith as readily as Linda Blair once spewed pea soup. Like Ms. Keaton and Ms. Parker, Ms. McAdams is such an engaging screen presence that she holds your attention and sympathy despite the handicap presented by her character's personality or, rather, sex, which here are one and the same thing.

The female troubles that bedevil "The Family Stone" are by turns exasperating and fascinating. Save for the boring sister, the women are pills, but they're also far more fun to watch than the men, who all are terribly kind and dull, dull, dull. (Ben is by far the most appealing, but he also seems permanently stoned.) The women make "The Family Stone," especially Ms. Parker, whose nimble performance is reason alone to see the film: not since Philippe Petit has anyone walked a tightrope with such finesse -- and in high heels, no less. Of course, her character will eventually be added to the Stone pile, and like everyone else in this fairy tale, she will be paired with her ideal mate, as if she were set for Noah's Ark instead of one leaking, creaking vehicle.

"The Family Stone" is rated PG-13 (Parents strongly cautioned). The language is lightly spiced.

The Family Stone Opens today nationwide.

Written and directed by Thomas Bezucha; director of photography, Jonathan Brown; edited by Jeffrey Ford; production designer, Jane Ann Stewart; produced by Michael London; released by 20th Century Fox. Running time: 102 minutes.

WITH: Claire Danes (Julie Morton), Diane Keaton (Sybil Stone), Rachel McAdams (Amy Stone), Dermot Mulroney (Everett Stone), Craig T. Nelson (Kelly Stone), Sarah Jessica Parker (Meredith Morton), Luke Wilson (Ben Stone), Elizabeth Reaser (Susannah), Ty Giordano (Thad Stone) and Brian White (Patrick).

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Sarah Jessica Parker Answers Almost Every Question We Have About The Family Stone

My favorite genre of movie is “bustling, dramatic upper-middle-class white family loses their minds during one particularly charged weekend.” The Family Stone — released in 2005 to middling reviews — is this genre’s crowning achievement. Sarah Jessica Parker stars as the career-driven Meredith Morton, who spends Christmas with her boyfriend Everett’s (Dermot Mulroney) New England family. Meredith’s nervousness reads as iciness from the moment Everett’s car pulls into the Stone’s driveway, and the family immediately circles the wagons when they see that their prodigal son has decided to marry her. If Everett’s mother Sybil ( Diane Keaton ) isn’t undercutting her every action, his younger sister Amy ( Rachel McAdams ) sips coffee and sets traps for Meredith in every conversation. Eventually, Meredith calls for backup: She calls for her sister Julie ( Claire Danes ), and the Stone family is immediately smitten with the more outgoing Morton.

I mean, there’s really no smooth way to say this next part: Everett, boneheaded, falls for Julie. Meredith, against her better judgement, warms to Everett’s weed-smoking, sweatpants-wearing brother Ben (Luke Wilson). The whole family is reeling from the news that Sybil’s breast cancer has returned. There’s a deeply uncomfortable dinner scene where Meredith is cluelessly homophobic, and another scene where she accidentally points to a black character as a charades clue for The Bride Wore Black . Stunningly, the only set piece missing here is a beloved family dog.

And yet I love this movie unironically. I watch it every Christmas. I watch it even when it’s not Christmas. I love Rachel McAdams’s scowl. I love Diane Keaton’s pristine white button-up, and the way she wears it under a frumpy robe. I love Luke Wilson’s oversize North Face parka, which he definitely could not afford. I love that Mulroney’s character is named Everett, because that’s my cousin’s name. Also, The Family Stone is fun! And it’s the rare studio movie that features three women, and, instead of begging you to like them, presents them with sharp sides and questionable intentions intact.

Every year I basically die because no one wants to listen to me talk about this movie at length. (The militia of Family Stone warriors is small, and it’s mostly just me and Bobby Finger .) So I decided to talk to Sarah Jessica Parker about it.

Can you give me a sense of what your life was like when you signed on to The Family Stone ? I think you were winding down work on Sex and the City . I’m not sure if I had finished Sex and the City yet, actually. When I first met [director] Tom Bezucha and the offer came, I had recently finished. I was feeling good. I had just completed a long run as part of a project that I was proud of and had obviously changed the course of my life. I felt very privileged, and it felt like we were able to stop [the show] in a way that we all felt good about.

But also I did have a young son, and I was looking forward very much to being his parent and having real time with him. When Family Stone came up, I remember that I had some time between wrapping Sex and the City the series and starting a movie. I knew my son was going to come with me, which was really important. That’s kind of the beauty of movies: They’re a finite period. While they are intense and all-consuming, it’s kind of like a window. As a parent who wanted to spend time with my child, it was ideal.

What was your meeting with Tom like? I was excited that he wanted me to play the part. He had very specific ideas about this character. He offered a really nice challenge. He wanted her to be skilled in ways that I had not been onscreen. There was a sort of chilly quality to her, where her neuroses were so evident, and yet she works so hard to mask that. She was wound so tight.

The way she moves and behaves, it’s all very restrained. There was also that stillness. Carrie Bradshaw was very physical. She moved around a lot; she gesticulated a lot. Hands were an important part of the way she told stories, and Tom really didn’t want that, which was exciting to me. We really did talk a lot about that. Even in the process of shooting, there would be times that he would remind me of some of those original landmarks that we were shooting for.

Last night I read some old reviews about the movie, and I’ve become so defensive of Meredith. People call her unlikable or shrill, which are obviously very loaded labels. I think she’s just really nervous — who can’t relate to that? Did it bother you, how she was received? I don’t read reviews, luckily. I’m always curious when there is a general opinion about a woman not being likable. I take personal offense to it, as well. I really struggle with how to have those conversations with people and not be defensive, but actually talk about what those words mean, and why qualities that are called unlikable when they are attributed to a female character in cinema are not at all applied to a man. I’ve had that even recently with Divorce . It’s so curious. It’s not without frustration on my part.

I didn’t think she was unlikable at all. Especially in romantic comedies, there’s this idea about likable, relatable gals. I think it does a huge disservice to the billions of woman who are all wonderfully different. Somebody is nervous, or lacks confidence? I found none of it unlikable. In fact, I found her compelling. I was drawn to her because of her exhibited neuroses.

I think Meredith was probably somebody who had very high standards for herself and lived in a world that was about discipline, appearance, success, ambition, and personal achievement. I think it made her actually quite touching. I really liked her, and I was sorry that she suffered so much, that she was so hard on herself and so hard on others. She was making an attempt to have a full life, a life that she thought was a portrait of success. I found those qualities very human.

On the other side of this dynamic is Diane Keaton. Were you nervous? Was it hard to not take her attitude with your character personally? I was nervous about it. She and I actually had worked together before; we did First Wives Club . I didn’t spend a lot of time on camera with her, but I had been around her a little bit. I was nervous, but at least I had some exchanges with her previous to that. She was very nervous-making. She was tough on me.

Tough how? I wasn’t certain in the beginning whether she was being personally tough on me, whether it was her relationship to the character. I came to understand that it was very much about the dynamic that the characters, what are they engaging in. She was tough on me in a way, but it was very specific to the on-camera story, and not personal and not mean. It was a huge joy to play those scenes with her, and wonderfully terrifying.

I loved working with her because I learned a lot about … I got — it was sort of a backstage pass to better understanding why I loved her so as an actor, and I do, and have for many, many years.

Can you tell me what you appreciate about her as an actor, about her process? She’s very particular about the work. She worked extremely hard. She asks a lot of questions. She’s serious about the work. There’s a lightness to her. There’s a sort of soufflé thing about Diane Keaton. She has this really buoyant — do you know what I mean?

Yeah. She’s witty and she’s clever and she’s seemingly scattered in a way. But that does not actually speak to the enormous intelligence and seriousness that she brings to her work. It’s not an accident, her work. It’s not easy. It’s thoughtful and considered.

I hope I’m not saying something I shouldn’t, but she wears headphones on the set. To stay focused, she’ll wear headphones basically until they call action. I think it’s a very interesting way to stay focused. A set is wonderfully chaotic. There’s a lot going on, and a lot of last-minute adjustments, people talking and going over lines, all the various disciplines on the set taking care of what they need to do. It’s a strangely chaotic place considering what has to happen the second the camera rolls, which is that everything goes quiet and still.

Who do you think was more vicious, the Diane Keaton character or the Rachel McAdams character? You probably know the movie better than I do, I’ve only seen it once. My guess is that the mother remains the most important person, the person whose approval you most need. I think that family, when they circled the wagons, is very intense and formidable combatants, but the gravitas of a mother kind of eclipses [anyone else].

How many times did the three of you have to fall into that egg dish, the breakfast strata? Many times. Many times.

Please tell me everything about it. I know we had a bunch of costumes ready. We did it a lot because it was covered from a bunch of different angles. As always, before those scenes, it’s a lot of discussion about how it’s going to happen and when it’s going to happen. You try to control as much as you can simply I think for a camera to be able to capture it. But it has to feel completely out of control and reckless and spontaneous.

I was absolutely completely covered with it. I recall going in for coverage, and having to stay covered in it. Like, I couldn’t clean up. I had to stay because they were going in for tighter shots, and we couldn’t try to re-create how it had spilled on me. I spent many, many hours staying in that outfit.

I love that stuff. I love falling. I love all the physical stuff. I love props. For me, the more real all that can be, the better the work is, the better I feel like I’m actually having the experience, so I don’t want anyone else to do it for me. I don’t care if I’m covered in some Swedish egg casserole or whatever that was. I definitely know that I was the last of the day. I know that they covered me last. I spent many hours in some version of that, but it didn’t really bother me.

After the strata scene, I think the second most infamous is the dinner scene: Meredith has a really hard time asking Everett’s gay brother and his partner if they’d really want a gay son. Was that excruciating to film, someone who’s wrong but having such a hard time explaining even what she’s thinking? Yeah, it was excruciating because of the silences, you know? I didn’t want anything about that to be easy, and I didn’t want it to feel familiar. You do so many takes of scenes like that because you’re moving around the table very slowly with the camera so that everybody’s covered in the scene, and that really is a scene where you really need to be on people at different times — in the editing room, you need all those choices.

So, yes, it was, because there’s nobody to help you. You really are alone in it. She’s trying so hard to defend an argument — to course correct really quickly — but it’s a long-held belief. She isn’t arriving at this as a conversation piece. It’s not like you’re joining in and saying, “I just wondered, ‘Did you ever think that maybe it might be easier if you hadn’t made that choice, or if this wasn’t your life?’” That is much more painful because it was so revealing about her, but also she was so much on her own. And, yes, all the actors were looking at me. I wanted to feel isolated, so it was excruciating, but it felt appropriately so.

Was Meredith’s tic always the throat-clearing? Yes. From the beginning, I think it was written into the script.

Do you remember the cast doing a lot of improv, or finding things on the day? I don’t think there’s a lot of improv. Diane can do it and does it beautifully. I tend not to because I think it’s hard to do it really, really well. I’m sure you’ve seen many cases when people think they’re good at it. It’s sort of awful when someone isn’t great at it and doesn’t add something meaningful.

Would you be mad if your own sister stole your fiancé? I guess it would depend on the circumstances.

What!! I mean, I don’t know. I guess that would be pretty hurtful. You mean like a current fiancé, not someone that is broken up, but that somebody who is in fact, to your knowledge, your fiancé?

Yes. And you are engaged?

Mm-hmm. Just like in the movie. Well, yes. It would be very upsetting. That would be awful. Also, it’s very hard to imagine that my sister — I have many sisters. I can’t imagine any of them doing that. Our tastes are very different, let’s just start with that. Yeah, I think that would be probably really problematic for everybody, for the entire family.

I want to go back to the kitchen scene for a second because that’s maybe my favorite line reading in the movie: You’re covered in the food and sort of whimper, “What’s so great about you guys?” I don’t even remember when I say it. You have to remind me, I’m so sorry.

No, you’re fine! I literally watch this movie every year, so I’m very familiar with it. Maybe I should watch it again. Maybe my daughters would love it. They’re 9. Are they too young, or are they the right age?

I think that’s the perfect age. I think it’s totally appropriate. You have to show it to them. But anyway, it’s when the strata has just dropped in the kitchen. You’re looking at Diane, sort of like, Why would I even want to be a part of this family? “What’s so great about you guys?” Diane says, “Well, you know, we’re all we’ve got.” Right, yeah. Thank you.

I’m truly recounting this movie to you, I’m so sorry. Oh my God, no, thank you.

Since you have kids, have you ever considered that maybe you’ll become this Sybil character when or if they bring someone home for the holidays? You know, I thought a lot about my children and their romantic life. Matthew [ Broderick , her husband] and I would do our very best to be decent and civilized and hospitable to somebody who we’d think is not deserving or worthy of our children.

I’ve also said to [her son] James Wilkie, “You know, when you go to college, you can come home” … or when he’s married, when he’s a grown-up person and he has a romantic partner. I would tell him he was going to marry a woman named Mary, and I have no idea why. I was like, “You understand you have to come home every Friday for dinner, with or without your partner.” I always imagine that it will be like, How could this have happened? That they’d be the most perfect, the most suitable choice, that we’d get so lucky.

I hope that we’re a house that our kids want to come home to, and that people want to spend time with us for holidays. It would be a thrill. I don’t know what you do if you don’t care for a child’s romantic selection. I don’t know how you’re supposed to get through that. Looking back, I know for sure that I brought some people home that, later on, my brothers and parents revealed to me they were so relieved when we broke up.

I love that. But they were very generous [with the guests, at the time].

Would you, Sarah Jessica, pick the Luke Wilson character or the Dermot Mulroney character? This is very hard because I love those actors so much.

Okay, but there’s definitely a wrong answer here. Do you want to tell me what my answer should be? Do you want me to pick Luke?

Yeah. Only because Everett was consistently the worst. Sorry. That dinner scene — he abandons Meredith in that dinner scene! He doesn’t even try to help her. I could not respect him after that. Well, you know more than I do. Of course she should end up with Luke. Of course she should!

Luke has a line, he says, “You have a freak flag, Meredith, but you just don’t fly it.” I wanted to hear what that advice means to you. I guess what he meant, and what it would mean to me, is you’re not allowing yourself to be your unique self. You’re not allowing yourself to be flawed or wrong or silly or ridiculous or vulnerable. You’re not allowing yourself to be your true person. I guess that’s certainly what I would mean if I said that. What do you think changed in Meredith?

I think it’s what you said, that she’s just relaxed and herself. A lot of the anxiety comes from not doing that, which I think is what makes the performance so great. Well thank you.

As I’ve said, this is my favorite holiday movie and I watch it all the time, but especially this time of year. Do you have a favorite holiday movie? We don’t watch a lot of movies at Christmas. It’s very strange. I didn’t grow up watching movies at Christmas. At Christmas, we always went to whatever the big movie was, as a family.

Actually, we used to watch — now, I’m remembering this — when you could start renting movies on your own we always watched Albert Brooks’s movies at Christmas. Always.

Which ones? We watched Defending Your Life . We watched Modern Romance . Real Life . We were obsessed with Albert Brooks, and we watched them over and over again.

Well, thank you so much for talking to me and letting me indulge — Thank you. I feel like you know so much more. But mostly thank you for loving Meredith. It’s so touching and so nice to hear.

This interview has been edited and condensed.

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EW debates 'The Family Stone': The best Christmas movie, or the worst?

The Family Stone is one of those Christmas movies viewers either love or hate, mostly because it's just about impossible to sort of like Diane Keaton or sort of dislike Sarah Jessica Parker. Stone is also known for forcing audiences to confront difficult questions, including "Which Wilson brother do I prefer?" and "How do I feel about Dermot Mulroney's cry face?"

Correspondent Samantha Highfill and senior writer Darren Franich decided to talk out their feelings about the controversial (in our office, anyway) 2005 film. Sam's in the film's pro corner; Darren's bringing all the cons.

Happy holidays!

SAM: Where does one begin when talking about The Family Stone ? Let's start with the fact that it's about a beautifully dysfunctional family led by the brilliant duo of Diane Keaton and Craig T. Nelson. Has there ever been a better parental pairing in a Christmas movie? No, there has not. Add in Rachel McAdams, Dermot Mulroney, Luke Wilson, Elizabeth Reaser, and Tyrone Giordano as their grown children, and I've never wanted to hang out with a family more. Seriously, you saw them play Charades. They're FUN. Plus, they all know sign language—because brother Thad is deaf—which just makes them cooler.

DARREN: On paper, it's the perfect family, and the perfect set-up for a great Christmas movie. Unfortunately, The Family Stone is not a Christmas movie. It's a horror movie in which the perfect family's perfect Christmas gets invaded by Sarah Jessica Parker, portraying the worst character in movie history. SJP plays Meredith Morton, who's nominally some kind of executive from Manhattan. But actually, she's a social terrorist from space who has the emotional intelligence of a five-year-old raised in a bomb shelter. My problems with the movie start with her character: Parker played the definition of a hip New Yorker in Sex and the City , so it's a tonal nightmare to see her playing a big-city executive who appears to have never heard of gay people, or deaf people, or to have learned really any basic level of human interaction.

But more to the point: Can we talk about the fact that this is a movie where Dermot Mulroney takes his girlfriend home for Christmas…and then meets his girlfriend's sister…and then immediately falls in love with the sister…and then asks the sister to try on his grandmother's wedding ring? And it's totally okay, because the girlfriend wants to date Dermot Mulroney's brother? Sam, I ask you: Doesn't The Family Stone only make sense if we pretend everyone onscreen is completely insane?

SAM: You know what is insane, Darren? Love. Love makes us do crazy things, like fall for our terrible girlfriend's sister or our hot boyfriend's brother. But here's the thing: We're overthinking this. The Family Stone isn't Interstellar ; it doesn't need to be analyzed. This is a quirky, incredibly chaotic family that sometimes swaps love interests. So what? It's a Christmas movie. Anything is possible! And I won't complain about it, because Luke Wilson is the one thing that makes Sarah Jessica Parker tolerable.

What I will say about SJP's portrayal is that this film takes the idea that Sarah Jessica Parker is annoying, then plays it up to the umpteenth degree—even making sure her ponytail is so tight that it hurts to look at her. I have to appreciate a film that takes Carrie Bradshaw, distorts her, and doesn't stop until she's completely unlikable. Yet she doesn't ruin the film. Her whole purpose is to serve as the counterpoint to this messy, liberal family.

Is Meredith the worst? Yes. Does her awfulness bring about some great moments for the "perfect" family? Yes. And for me, that's her entire purpose. (Well, that and her dance.) But to go back to your question of sanity: I think these people are "insane" in a way. They know that they're losing their mother, and they're grieving. If grief doesn't make people do "insane" things, I don't know what does.

DARREN: Booo, I say. Booo! I know that my visceral reaction to the movie is rooted in how and when I saw it: With my mom, when I was home for Christmas from college. We went in expecting a funny/heartwarming family comedy: We got a movie where talented actresses pratfall over spilled food, and then suddenly every things shifts on a dime because CANCER. You're so busy forgetting to laugh that you barely have time to not cry.

Now, cancer plotlines in movies can be incredibly moving. But here, it just feels like a massive bummer airdropped in from out of nowhere. I'm intrigued by your argument that everyone in this movie is acting like a crazy person because they're repressing their grief. But I don't think that really explains the last act of the movie, when everyone becomes a cartoon character. And it also doesn't explain Rachel McAdams, playing the world's least convincing hipster (whoa, sweatpants!). But I don't want to hate on McAdams too much, because she's the most fascinating character in the movie. She hates Sarah Jessica Parker, and she has a weird non-sibling chemistry with Dermot Mulroney: This all feels very grown-up Flowers in the Attic to me.

Am I overanalyzing? I can't help it! You're so right about the cast being great, but The Family Stone itself is such a weird combination of wacky and perfect that they wind up feeling more like a family from a Christmas advertisement. Like, isn't it weird that the family is supposed to be this beacon of liberal tolerance—gay deaf son! Rachel McAdams playing Winona Ryder! Luke Wilson playing Owen Wilson!—but then the end of the movie is the picture of mid-century Americana, everyone happily married and pregnant? The Family Stone tries to have its cake, eat it, smear the cake all over the actors' faces and declare itself a triumph of the human spirit.

SAM: I actually don't think this film is trying to declare itself as anything! I get that it walks this weird line of "is this supposed to be funny or is this supposed to be sad?"—but I think that's what makes it both. The Family Stone is—love squares aside—a very realistic look at a family dynamic in times of coping. Yes, Diane Keaton has cancer, but it never feels schmaltzy. I don't think you're necessarily supposed to cry when you watch it—though if you didn't, I question the existence of your soul, Franich.

I had a similar first experience with the film: Went to see it with the family; was not expecting all the cancer. I didn't love it for that very reason. But upon re-watching, I realized The Family Stone is about funny moments in times of sadness. Honestly? I feel stupid talking so seriously about a movie that I don't feel takes itself too seriously. It's not preaching about the loss of a family member; if anything, it teaches us how not to deal with loss.

And I have to say, I don't think they turn into a Christmas advertisement. Sure, everyone's hair looks great in that final scene—but I think it's also the movie's most depressing moment. It's the picture of a hurting, messed up family. They're not punching each other or laughing or throwing things, but not because they've evolved into the perfect family. It's because the Stones are no longer themselves. Who's to say that Rachel McAdams' character stays with the EMT, or that SJP will even be a member of the family next year? Nobody. In that moment, they're trying to have a good holiday without their matriarch, and they're lost. They'll go back to screaming at each other as soon as possible.

More importantly, how have we not talked about Brian White's chunky sweaters yet? Because: AMAZING.

DARREN: I feel the need to declare that I am not the Grinchiest Grinch on Earth. Last year, I watched It's a Wonderful Life for the first time, and was a blubbery mess for the last twenty minutes. Like, Sam, literally, I was crying for twenty minutes . That hasn't happened since the last time I injured myself playing a sport my parents forced me to play!

So I like what you're saying about the messed-up quality of the Stones. To be honest, I think I'd like the movie more if it doubled down on the grief thing—if you could really feel how Diane Keaton's condition was driving all the members of the family to pretend to be their best selves, until they become their worst selves.

The Family Stone might not be my cup (glass) of tea (eggnog), but I can't get too mad about a movie becoming a new go-to yuletide entertainment. The Franiches were always a Christmas Story family, although at some point my brother and I started watching Scrooged —both of which hail from the '80s. Love, Actually came out more recently, but it's as British as British can be. So even though I don't necessarily approve of vaguely-incestuous sister-swapping, I can support the notion of The Family Stone taking a place in the canon of American Christmas films.

SAM: I would like the record to reflect that one mention of Brian White's sweaters was all it took to open Darren's heart. Because they're that great.

The only other thing I'll say is that I don't disagree with the notion that doubling down on the grief thing would help—yet I'd also hate if the movie did that. Because oddly enough, I find this to be a very fun holiday film. Yes, there's all the grief—but that's just one part of this family's holiday. And while another part involves sister-swapping, so long as it gets me a slap fight between Luke Wilson and Dermot Mulroney, I'm happy.

You’ve Been Getting ‘The Family Stone’ All Wrong

Next year all our troubles will be out of sight... right?

The Big Picture

Queer-centric holiday romcoms like Happiest Season or Single All the Way offer a more inclusive representation of queer people during typically heteronormative holiday traditions.
The Family Stone delivers a deep and personal experience of going home for the holidays as a queer family member, resonating with those navigating adulthood and their queer identities.
The film's queer subtext goes beyond its openly gay characters, exploring themes of identity, acceptance, and the importance of love and authenticity in a flawed but lovable modern family.

When it comes to queer holiday movies , for the longest time The Family Stone was the best we ever had. One advantage of the streaming age is that it has led to the beginnings of a more inclusive cultural landscape, specifically around the holidays. Indeed, the release of queer-centric holiday romcoms like Happiest Season or Single All the Way can provide a much better mirror into the lives and experiences of queer people during celebrations of typically heteronormative holiday traditions. But while it’s easier to have a romantic comedy with queer lead characters released exclusively on a streaming platform, it’s still a rarity within the mainstream world of theatrical films. Before streaming was so mainstream, though, The Family Stone brought the experience of going home for the holidays as a queer family member to the big screen.

The Family Stone

An uptight, conservative businesswoman accompanies her boyfriend to his eccentric and outgoing family's annual Christmas celebration and finds that she's a fish out of water in their free-spirited way of life.

What Is 'The Family Stone' About?

Released in 2005, The Family Stone follows the eponymous Stone family, headed by Sybil ( Diane Keaton ) and Kelly ( Craig T. Nelson ), as each of their five grown children and their respective partners and families come home to celebrate the holidays. Susannah ( Elisabeth Reaser ) is married with a child and a second on the way. Ben ( Luke Wilson ) is a hippie-ish documentary filmmaker in Berkeley. Thad ( Tyrone Giordano ) is an architect preparing to adopt a child with his partner Patrick ( Brian J. White ), and Amy ( Rachel McAdams ) is a teacher. But we mustn’t forget golden-boy middle child, Everett ( Dermot Mulroney ), an NYC businessman who has returned home with the woman he intends to marry, Meredith ( Sarah Jessica Parker ), to seek out his grandmother’s wedding ring that he was promised. There’s one small problem: Meredith’s more uptight, cold, and conservative demeanor immediately clashes with the warm, liberal antics of the Stone household, causing swift tension and pandemonium.

Watching 'The Family Stone' During the Holidays Became Deeply Personal

I was single digits when The Family Stone was first released and it was something I watched with my mother once every few years as I got older—but was never a film I became overly attached to. Flash forward to the year I turned 19 when I was an anxious college student trying to navigate adulthood for the first time. It’s commonplace for us to acknowledge that children mature and grow at different rates, but a concept we don’t readily consider or accept for young adults. In other words, I might have been 19, but I still felt very much like a child and did not feel at all equipped to handle the world that other adults were throwing at me. As if that time of life isn’t complicated and emotionally messy for just about everyone, it’s especially difficult when that time accompanies one’s coming-of-age as a queer person . Suffice it to say that, by the end of that year, I was depressed, exhausted, and lonely even in the most crowded of rooms. Re-enter The Family Stone .

The holidays are a difficult time when you find yourself no longer a child but not yet a grown-up. Childhood traditions start to lose a bit of meaning and the illusion that other adults around you always had it together has most likely shattered. In my case, my beloved grandmother, my Nanny, passed away the year I turned 18, and Christmas never quite felt the same again. Everyone around me seemed fine to adapt and keep up the charade as if nothing had happened, but that didn’t work for me and only contributed to my impending young adult depression. By the following year, nothing was working to get me out of the bell jar and into the holiday spirit—except watching The Family Stone over and over again.

'The Family Stone' Is Riddled with Queer Subtext

Although it might seem to be a given that the film possesses elements of queerness just by the fact that it features openly gay supporting characters, a rarity for a mainstream film with A-list actors in 2005, The Family Stone ’s queerness goes much deeper than that. 17 years later, the film’s heart and tone still speak to something so integral to the queer experience, especially around the holidays. And ironically enough, barely any of that heart and tone even includes the actual gay characters.

There’s the uncomfortable experience of spending Christmas with your boyfriend's large cliquey family for the first time, as Meredith does, which is hard enough without already knowing they’re going to dislike you for your icy exterior. There’s the realization that Meredith and Everett are only together because they’re both trying hard to be people they’re not. There’s Rachel McAdams who shines as the bitchy younger sister who only exists to stir the pot (a character that undoubtedly resonates the most with many gay men over the holidays, forced to participate in their family’s heterosexist traditions). There’s Luke Wilson as the brother who encourages Meredith to stop screwing the lid on so tight and to let her freak flag fly. And if the film wasn’t already rich enough with gay subtext, The Family Stone proudly uses Judy Garland’s original performance of “ Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas ” from Meet Me in St. Louis , which contains the original lyrics that were infamously rewritten at the behest of Frank Sinatra who believed them to be too depressing.

But any appreciation of The Family Stone would be remiss without mentioning its infamous scene when at Christmas Eve dinner Meredith attempts to engage prospective gay parents Thad and Patrick in a debate over nature vs. nurture after her sister Julie’s ( Claire Danes ) questions about race were met with smiles and acceptance. Things go embarrassingly awry when Sybil jokes that she desperately hoped all her sons would be gay, which prompts Meredith to reply that she would think any parent would want a normal child. The film’s most important moment comes after Meredith storms off, when Sybil throws a utensil to get the attention of her deaf son, telling him that she loves him and that he is more normal than any asshole sitting at that table.

Personality Conflicts and Secrets Come to a Head

You thought that’s where the cringing and second-hand embarrassment ended? Well, think again. As if that wasn’t a brutal enough Christmas Eve family dinner, next comes Christmas morning in the Stone household, where a hungover Meredith mistakenly believes herself to have slept with Ben. Meanwhile, Amy’s old flame Brad ( Paul Schneider ) appears at the house, having been personally invited there by an inebriated Meredith at a local bar the night before to rekindle his relationship with Amy. Everything comes to a head when Sybil relents and gives her mother’s wedding ring as promised to Everett, and Meredith—expecting a proposal to come—impatiently declares in front of the entire living room, “No, I will not marry you!” The kicker is that Everett didn’t even ask, and Meredith finally has the breakdown we’ve all been waiting for that culminates in Parker’s immaculate and teary delivery of the line, “Isn’t there anybody that loves me?”

Whether Ben and Meredith actually slept together (they didn’t) turns out to be irrelevant, because as he soon points out to his brother in an altercation that concludes with the collapse of the kitchen table holding the evening’s turkey, “You don’t love her, man.” What makes the climax of The Family Stone so compelling, and by extension so riddled with queer subtext, is that Everett and Meredith are both trying to be people they’re not. Even before the morning’s pandemonium breaks out, Sybil makes Everett promise to stop trying to be so perfect all the time. And as Ben teaches Meredith, there’s value in releasing ourselves from the obligation of who we’ve always thought ourselves to be. Maybe there’s a more secure and less anxious version of each other that exists beyond the facade we cling to in a desperate attempt to be loved.

'The Family Stone' Portrays a Flawed but Loveable Modern Family

The Stones are deeply flawed, as is any family , but what makes them so compelling and loveable—especially to queer viewers—is their ability to still love each other wholly and unconditionally despite their flaws. It’s evident from the moment Ben arrives home when Sybil informs him, “No smoking pot in the house, I mean it this time,” followed by a smile and a hug. Liberal and left-wing as they may be, the Stones teach their audience every time that the most powerful thing we can do with our lives is to put aside greed and expectation to follow love and desire. The film is somewhat dated in that it barely uses its actual queer characters to showcase this message, and it’s hard not to raise an eyebrow by 2022 standards as we see the gay brother watch from the car as Everett is the one to leave behind one version of life for another. (That is, Claire Danes over Sarah Jessica Parker.) But The Family Stone nonetheless accomplishes its mission of displaying a 21st-century family in all its messy, inclusive glory. (Oh yes, did I mention that Diane Keaton is dying and this is her last Christmas with the family? Grab the freaking tissues.)

Watching The Family Stone on a loop that year and every year since has allowed me to imagine that other, happier versions of life exist outside the one I might be experiencing. There may be new and exciting traditions lying in the Christmases ahead that would replace the childhood ones that had withered and died. Even though you may never stop missing the people you’ve lost at certain times of the year, you’re allowed to acknowledge and be kind to those wounds. Everybody is figuring everything out for themselves day by day, hoping for the moment when things feel like they make sense. And most importantly, that life is far too short not to be pursuing the things and the people that make us happy. Until then, we’ll have to muddle through somehow.

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‘The Family Stone’ Movie Review (2005)

By Laremy Legel

I really wanted to hate The Family Stone based on the trailers alone. It’s your typical schlock preview with the prerequisite laughing, crying and dancing around to old time love songs. Basically it’s annoying as all hell and made me want to do anything with my evening other than see it. Kudos to the marketing department there. The good news is the film is not schlock; in fact it’s a damn decent effort that’s worthy of a visit to your local multi-plex.

The plot of The Family Stone is something we’ve all faced in our lives, the meeting of potential in-laws. Dermot Mulroney plays Everett Stone, a gentleman squire bringing his lady (Sarah Jessica Parker) home for the holidays. Sarah Parker (sorry, you only get one middle name usage per review) plays the annoying potential fiance whom the family naturally hates. You’d hate her too as she’s pretty unlikable in much of the film. She’s the opposite of her “Sex and the City” persona, instead of smooth and sultry we get awkward and obtuse. Mulroney and Parker do well enough here, nothing to write home about but they don’t drag down the film.

In the first five minutes of The Family Stone we learn one of the Stone family members is a deaf gay fellow who’s involved in an interracial relationship. Tyrone Giordano played this innovative and refreshing role and he’s asked to pull off much of the drama of The Family Stone too. The other members of the family include Rachel McAdams as hateful little sister Amy who continues to work off her debt owed to me from The Notebook . Still about eight movies to go Rachel, keep plugging away. The dad is played by Craig T. Nelson and though he’s only asked to “act” for about six minutes Craig Nelson does okay overall too.

I should point out right about now that The Family Stone is a familial comedy as opposed to a romantic comedy. They put the word “family” right there in the title so you shouldn’t be too shocked. It’s familial in the sense that it portrays with great accuracy the love and nerve grating effect that families have on all of us. Diane Keaton plays the momma of the family in an extremely well fleshed out and realistic turn. Unlike most holiday movies you won’t find an angel behind curtain number one. I only have one more cast note (c’mon, gimme a break, it was a huge ensemble cast) and it involves the cherubic Claire Danes. She was fairly average in Shopgirl but back to full speed delightful in The Family Stone . Welcome back Claire! Take a seat by the fire and have some cocoa.

Also of note is one of the producers of The Family Stone is Michael London, not Michael Landon who is in fact quite deceased. There was some confusion in the audience beforehand about the producer which I’d hate to see spread like wildfire throughout the country. The producer of this one is fully living, tell a buddy.

The small flaws I found in the movie were of a logical nature. Certain things simply don’t happen in relationships, or if they do it’s not nearly so tidy. I’m not going to get into spoilers but it’s fair to say there is a smidge of Hollywood magic sprinkled on this one that’s entertaining but in no way pertains to the world in which we live. There is also a drop of melodrama that’s too much for me but I’m a forgiving type of guy. The Family Stone is worth seeing in the theater regardless of the marketing. Give the film a chance and you’ll find a few laughs and perhaps a tear or two as well provided the surgeons haven’t removed those tear ducts just yet.

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The Family Stone Parent Guide

It's a frosty Christmas for the Stone family when the parents (Diane Keaton and Craig T. Nelson) and their divergent adult children gather together and give a chilly reception to Meredith (Sarah Jessica Parker) who is threatening to marry Everett, the eldest son (Dermot Mulroney).

Release date December 15, 2005

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A few decades ago the holiday season featured movies about people facing poverty and despair. Today, the silver screen is usually dressed in dysfunctional families facing enormous stress as they try to eat one dinner together. Such is the situation in this film, where the annual gathering of the Stones will make your worst nightmare before Christmas seem like a sugarplum fairy.

Sybil Stone (Diane Keaton), a controlling yet dedicated mother, and her husband Kelly (Craig T. Nelson), are putting the finishing touches on the festive celebration, with the help of their daughter Amy (Rachel McAdams), who is the only Stone sibling still at home. Joining the trio for the special day is their gay, hearing impaired son Thad (Tyrone Giordano) and his companion Patrick (Brian White); their married, pregnant, and peacemaking daughter Susannah (Elizabeth Reaser) with her young daughter Elizabeth (Savannah Stehlin); and their laid back single son, Ben (Luke Wilson). The last to pull into the driveway is their oldest son, the suit-and-tie wearing Everett (Dermot Mulroney), and his girlfriend Meredith (Sarah Jessica Parker)—the latter being the catalyst who will get the movie truly rolling.

After meeting Meredith, it is evident why she is difficult to love at first sight. Her already forthright demeanor is only enhanced by her nervous anxiety over dealing with people she knows dislike her. Requesting sleeping accommodations separate from Everett’s (she is uncomfortable sharing a bed with him at his parents’ home), she puts an already angry Amy on the couch. Her attempt to apologize the next morning only makes things worse. Caught between a rock-hearted host and a hard bed, Meredith moves to a nearby inn and asks her sister Julie (Claire Danes) to give up her holiday plans and hop on a bus to come and provide emotional support.

However, one more person in an already too-full house can’t prevent the “big” meltdown that occurs over Christmas Eve dinner when Meredith begins questioning Thad about his gender preference. Developing into an impassioned discussion about the influence of genetics and environment on sexual orientation, the meal ends with a heated argument and an extra helping of hurt feelings.

Putting this shattered family back together is going to take a miracle, and fortunately the script provides a few—along with filling in some missing pieces with a couple of other storylines.

If you’re looking for a charming Christmas comedy, don’t expect to find it here. This movie deals with some very mature topics, mostly of a sexual nature. Although it addresses many of these issues with an insight and maturity rarely found in this genre, parents should be aware this Santa’s sack contains discussion starters on everything from homosexual couples adopting children to what a mastectomy looks like.

After the dishes are washed and the wrapping paper settles, The Family Stone’s powerful and sincere performances provide some provoking food for thought. Yet, if you’ve ever had to spend Christmas with a house full of relatives—some of whom you love and others you are trying to tolerate—this movie may hit a little too close to home for the holidays.

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Why is The Family Stone rated PG-13? The Family Stone is rated PG-13 by the MPAA for some sexual content including dialogue, and drug references.

This dialogue-heavy film, which is a near-continuous series of arguments, deals with topics that will be difficult for pre-teens to follow. Many moderate profanities are included, along with a couple of slang terms for sex—one in ASL (American Sign Language). Physical altercation is limited to a short moment when adult brothers fight with each other, resulting in a couple of small head wounds. Homosexual and heterosexual relationships are explored, but there are no explicit sexual discussions or portrayals. Some characters drink beer in a bar; one becomes intoxicated and makes a reference to “wanting some pot.”

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How did Meredith’s nervous anxiety about spending time with the Stones make her appear even more abrasive? What, if anything, might Sybil and Amy have done to ease the tension?

During dinner, Meredith questions Thad about his sexual orientation. Do you think she was honestly looking for an opinion, or merely wanting a way of voicing her own? What does Sybil’s remarks reveal about how she has raised her sons? Do you think there is anything in a person’s “environment” which may factor into their sexual orientation, or does it have any affect at all?

The Stones are very accepting of Thad’s lifestyle, yet they are intolerant of Meredith. Is this a double standard?

The most recent home video release of The Family Stone movie is May 2, 2006. Here are some details…

The Family Stone comes hurtling onto DVD in either widescreen or full screen presentations with the following bonus extras: Two audio commentaries (one by actors Sarah Jessica Parker and Dermot Mulroney, and the other by writer/producer Thomas Bezucha, producer Michael London, editor Jeffery Ford and production designer Jane Ann Stewart), six deleted scenes (with optional commentary), a behind-the-scenes featurette, excerpts from the Fox Movie Channel casting session and world premiere, a question and answer session with the cast, and a gag reel. Audio tracks are available in English (5.1 Dolby digital) French (Dolby Surround) and Spanish (Dolby Surround), with subtitles in English and Spanish.

The Family Stone (2005)

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THE FAMILY STONE is a comic story about the annual holiday gathering of a New England family, the Stones. The eldest son brings his girlfriend home to meet his parents, brothers and sisters. The bohemian Stones greet their visitor -- a high-powered, controlling New Yorker -- with a mix of awkwardness, confusion and hostility. Before the holiday is over, relationships will unravel while new ones are formed, secrets will be revealed, and the family Stone will come together through its extraordinary capacity for love. Sybil Stone (DIANE KEATON) is the strong-willed matriarch who is at the heart of the Stone family, an outspoken woman who wants only the best for her five children. Strikingly beautiful, her face now reflects a recent note of brittleness or fatigue, suggesting that perhaps Sybil carries a secret. Sybil and her family are not pleased with the arrival of eldest son Everett’s girlfriend, Meredith Morton (SARAH JESSICA PARKER). Meredith is an immaculately composed, contemporary New York City-based career woman whose tailored suits, upswept hair and subtle makeup speak volumes about her personality, making an indelible impression on both friends and strangers. When she meets the Stones, the results are chaotic and unforgettable. After her initial trial by fire with the Stones, Meredith enlists the help of her younger sister, Julie Morton (CLAIRE DANES). Julie, who works at a foundation awarding grants to artists, isn’t nearly as tightly wound as Meredith. Julie enters the “lions’ den” with much more ease than her sister, but Julie’s visit ultimately leads to further complications, especially for Everett Stone (DERMOT MULRONEY). Everett is a successful executive in Manhattan whose charm comes from the fact that he seems to be utterly unaware of the effect his attractiveness and easy-going nature has on others. Everett’s brother, Ben Stone (LUKE WILSON), seems to have strayed the furthest from his family’s New England roots. A film editor living on the West Coast, Ben’s unpredictable, sometimes mischievous nature is reflected in the ultra-casual clothes he wears. Ben’s and Everett’s sister, Amy Stone (RACHEL McADAMS), is the passionate, outspoken and youngest member of the family. She bears her luminous natural beauty with an aggressive indifference -- and with a near open hostility toward Meredith. The family patriarch, Kelly Stone (CRAIG T. NELSON), is a college professor in his sixties who is still an impressive figure. Kelly has an obvious love for his family that drives his every move. Elizabeth Reaser plays another Stone sibling, Susannah, and Ty Giordano portrays Thad Stone, the youngest son, who is both deaf and gay. Giordano is a deaf actor who, like his on-screen character, reads lips and speaks, in addition to signing. Brian White plays Thad’s partner, Patrick. THE FAMILY STONE is set during Christmas, in a small college town, because the holidays resonate for families like no other time of the year. The Stone household is characterized by its absence of traditional social boundaries. They routinely discuss everything from smoking pot to the loss of virginity. No subject is taboo -- especially the topic of Meredith Morton. A clash of cultures is inevitable and swift; soon Meredith realizes the contempt with which she is perceived, so she moves out of the Stone house and into a local inn. Despite efforts by Everett’s brother Ben to console her, Meredith asks her sister Julie to join her for emotional support. Julie’s arrival -- and its unexpected effect on Everett -- turns the family Stone upside-down.

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It's a tough thing for a dysfunctional-family-at-Christmas movie to avoid doses of melodrama, and it's fair to say that The Family Stone contains its share. But the nice thing about the movie is that it avoids overt manipulation. There's some - it's virtually impossible for a movie of this sort to generate an emotional response without any - but it's kept to a minimum and doesn't come at the viewer like a sledgehammer. Instead of having to sit through a Terms of Endearment scene, we are offered something more tasteful.

Meeting one's prospective in-laws is always a daunting prospect, but combine the following factors - you're going to meet them all at once, you're not comfortable with large family gatherings, and it's Christmas - and you have a recipe for a really bad holiday. For Meredith Morton (Sarah Jessica Parker), this is a nightmare come to life. Meredith is a repressed, buttoned down type with impeccable manners. People warm to her like they do to a glacier. She has accompanied her boyfriend, Everett Stone (Dermot Mulroney), home for the holidays. In addition to introducing her to his family, he's thinking of proposing marriage.

The Stone family reacts to Meredith's arrival like a pack of wolves, and they pounce with fangs bared. The worst of the lot is Everett's youngest sister, Amy (Rachel McAdams), who has a barbed comment for every occasion. Sybil (Diane Keaton), Everett's mother, isn't much better - she instantly recognizes that Meredith isn't right for her son. Everett's dad, Kelly (Craig T. Nelson); deaf brother, Thad (Tyrone Giordano); and pregnant sister, Susannah (Elizabeth Reaser), take a wait-and-see approach. Only Ben (Luke Wilson), the black sheep of the Stone clan, seems willing to cut Meredith a break. After less than a day with the Stones, the frazzled outsider, feeling the pressure, checks out of the house and into a nearby inn. She also calls in reinforcements in the person of her sister, Julie (Claire Danes). What proceeds to complicate matters is that Everett finds himself attracted to Julie, while Ben and Meredith discover a connection when they attempt to fly her "freak flag."

I have seen The Family Stone categorized in some places as a "screwball comedy," but this is an inappropriate label. There are a few mildly comedic moments sprinkled throughout the production, but this belongs in the drama category. Laughter, although it may occur (and hopefully in all the right places), is not the primary goal of writer/director Thomas Bezucha. He wants The Family Stone to touch a deeper chord. For the most part, he succeeds. There's nothing extraordinary or groundbreaking about the film, but it understands what it's doing, and does it effectively. The key for a movie like this is getting the characters to seem more like people than caricatures, and Bezucha acoomplishes that.

The film comes with an epilogue, and it is needed because not all the subplots can be wrapped up in the three-day span that restricts the primary action. This five-minute sequence, which offers closure to almost everything, has an underlying sense of poignancy that the director could have mishandled. The atmosphere is ripe for manipulation of the kind that will ensure there's not a dry eye in the house. But Bezucha is restrained. He's smart, recognizing that we don't need violins to feel the undercurrent.

The talented cast helps. Sarah Jessica Parker, finding that there is life after Sex in the City , has no difficulty with Meredith's arc. Of all the characters in the movie, she undergoes the biggest transformation, and Parker aces it. Diane Keaton and Craig T. Nelson settle comfortably into the matriarch/patriarch roles, and there is one especially touching scene between the two of them. Luke Wilson brings his special brand of relaxed, "don't worry, be happy" performance to the proceedings. Rachel McAdams, 2005's "it" girl (see also Wedding Crashers and Red Eye ), imparts a dose of charisma. Claire Danes, on the comeback trail, is appealing. And Dermot Mulroney needs little more to get by than his good looks.

It's worth mentioning that this is the best adult holiday film in a while. (Of course, competition has been thin - Christmas with the Kranks , Surviving Christmas , etc.) The box office life of The Family Stone will be short. The movie is so drenched in Christmas spirit that it will seem a little stale once the holidays are past. Even taking this into consideration, it's worth two hours for those who appreciate this kind of workmanlike, low-risk drama.

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This time, South Park riffs on Ozempic -- a weight-loss drug that many celebrities have been taking. However, Cartman is told that his health insurance doesn't cover it. It leads to a wild ride where his friends try to help out, only for unfettered chaos to ensue. In the process, they discover a dark truth about their nation and what it thinks of poor people who struggle to access basic drugs.

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Creators, Matt Stone and Trey Parker , love taking shots at America's oppressive systems . For years, they have poked and prodded at socioeconomic and sociopolitical issues. The new era of South Park leaned heavily into racism with how the boys treated tokenism, and capitalism with how Randy Marsh built his weed empire. In The End of Obesity , it's all about the American healthcare system. Despite Cartman's mother making all the payments necessary in her life, the weight loss drug is off-limits for her son.

Kyle and Butters help a depressed Cartman out, thinking if he's skinny, he won't be a bully anymore. However, Cartman gets pushed through a rigmarole by a healthcare representative. They're sent from doctor to doctor, specialist to specialist, and clinic to clinic. They need a battery of tests, results, emails, faxes and second opinions, all while the medical representative works in an old-school office. The technology there is obsolete, which shows the boys a few options. Either the system is outdated, it doesn't care, or that it won't bother to evolve once money is being made .

To make matters worse, people in positions of power are controlling the representative, preventing him from helping poor people. No matter what taxes are paid, the rich keep running the show. The man even boldly says this system is meant to benefit the elite and wealthy . It's very much a shot at Big Pharma (especially the high prices of insulin), leaving the kids frustrated. It pushes Kyle to hit up the black market and find a source from India. They will send raw materials over via mail, allowing the boys to become compound pharmacists. They can set their lab up like in Breaking Bad , and make their own version of the drug.

It speaks to another real-world issue, where bodies like the FDA and other authorities warn against such secondary pharmacies. These makeshift drugs can lead to adverse side effects and lowered efficacy. But the boys are at their wit's end. To top it off, they go online selling their drugs at cheap, affordable rates, which again leans into the market openings, and how other people make money due to a broken system. Cartman doesn't care, however, as long as he gets his meds and fulfills his dreams of being a thinner Cartman .

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A big part of what leaves Cartman angry is his doctor telling him to subscribe to the Lizzo treatment. It's believing in one's form, being body positive, and ignoring the haters -- riffing on singer, Lizzo, and how much her critics hate her accepting who she is. Cartman is irate, however, because he thinks this is just for the poor, while the rich get to take the meds at will. Coincidentally, Randy realizes how much the wealthy enjoy high-end drugs when he parties with the mothers in the snowy Colorado town. He's looking for the next high after weed, but his eyes are opened in a big way.

As the citizens realize how shady the system is, the weight loss initiative sweeping across America angers the cereal cartel. The likes of Cap'n Crunch and Tony the Tiger band together. They need these drugs destroyed because if the meds get people to stop eating sugar-filled foods, namely cereal in the morning, their stock and revenue will plummet . This cartel nods to how South Park has used iconic pop culture faces and business figureheads in the past. Colonel Sanders turned KFC into a monopoly willing to kill rivals, while Mickey Mouse murdered naysayers of the Disney empire in years gone by.

This time, it's a war on diets. With a drug shortage hitting town, Randy and the wives decide to pull off a Fast & Furious heist . They need to rob a truck bringing in drugs so they can continue their debauchery. The problem is, this is another source that Kyle had found and ordered from. To top it off, the cartel is eyeing the truck, too. They slaughtered Kyle's Indian supplier and his warehouse, pretending to be social activists who believe in the natural form and real beauty. Now, they want to ensure the secondary market is taken off-stream as well. It's very much something that fits Netflix's Narcos .

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The beauty of South Park on Wednesdays on Comedy Central in the 1990s and 2000s is that it could have pivoted weekly to parody real-time news. That model of satire shifted to long-form storytelling rather than standalone episodes. However, knowing what happened in 2015's Mad Max: Fury Road gives Parker and Stone an advantage. They turn the heist into a Fury Road -style heist, which is ironic with Furiosa: A Mad Max Saga being released the same day as this South Park one-off.

Fury Road was all about Charlize Theron's Furiosa driving a War Rig with Immortan Joe's wives. Max helped her protect the ladies, fending off the War Boys and the villains as they pursued the prize that was stolen from them. Coincidentally, Furiosa has some of this too, with the younger Furiosa and Praetorian Jack fending off hijackers looking to steal from their truck on the deadly road in George Miller's Wasteland.

South Park embellishes the truck's route and suddenly drops in its own Fury Road in hilarious fashion . Randy and the wives attack the truck, the boys defend it, while the cartel assaults it from the side and the air as well. Randy eventually switches sides, realizing it's wrong to use the drugs the way his crew has been using them. There is a lot of death and destruction, but in time, Randy and the boys bring the truck home. They're battered and bruised after their Fury Road , but there is hope for Cartman.

The big twist is, when they open the cargo hold, they see the medical rep there. Apparently, those American vendors that Kyle ordered from are controlled by the country's medical board. The man confirms the compounds they want are inaccessible, leaving the kids wondering if such a biased healthcare system can be fixed . According to the rep, it can't, which is a harsh reality that most Americans have come to accept. It's worth noting, South Park doesn't usually end a narrative on a defeatist note, but this is one instance where not even Parker and Stone have a solution.

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The Family Stone movie review (2005)
Diane Keaton and Craig T. Nelson create touching characters in the middle of comic chaos. They have a scene together as true and intimate in its way as a scene involving a long-married couple can be. It doesn't involve a lot of dialogue, and doesn't need to, because it obviously draws on a lot of history. There is an emerging genre of movies ...
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Everett Stone (Dermot Mulroney) wants to bring his girlfriend, Meredith Morton (Sarah Jessica Parker), to meet his bohemian Connecticut family at Christmas. Straitlaced Meredith, feeling she needs ...
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The Family Stone: Directed by Thomas Bezucha. With Claire Danes, Diane Keaton, Rachel McAdams, Dermot Mulroney. An uptight, liberal businesswoman accompanies her boyfriend to his eccentric and outgoing family's annual Christmas celebration and finds that she's a fish out of water in their free-spirited way of life.
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Our review: Parents say ( 2 ): Kids say ( 6 ): Thomas Bezucha's film means well and offers fine performances, but is in the end tripped up by holiday-family-gathering movie clichés. The point of The Family Stone isn't really measuring up, though this is, of course, the presumption of Christmas-family-gathering movies.
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TOP CRITIC. The Family Stone works hard to warm the cockles of our hearts. The cast is attractive. The sentiments are commendable. But the love Bezucha wants us to feel for the family couldn't ...
The Family Stone
The Family Stone is a 2005 American comedy-drama film written and directed by Thomas Bezucha.Produced by Michael London and distributed by 20th Century Fox, it stars an ensemble cast, including Diane Keaton, Craig T. Nelson, Dermot Mulroney, Sarah Jessica Parker, Luke Wilson, Claire Danes, Rachel McAdams, and Tyrone Giordano.. The plot follows the Christmas holiday misadventures of the Stone ...
The Family Stone (2005)
7/10. How to make a bad situation worse. blanche-2 27 December 2011. Diane Keaton, Craig T. Nelson, Sarah Jessica Parker, Dermot Mulroney, and Luke Wilson star in "The Family Stone," a 2005 holiday movie. Parker plays Meredith, the uptight girlfriend of Everett Stone (Mulroney) who accompanies him home for Christmas.
The Family Stone
Movie Review. Meredith Morton gives a whole new meaning to the word uptight. That means there's only one thing for a Hollywood screenwriter to do: introduce her to a family that puts the loose in loosey-goosey. Everett Stone brings Meredith home to meet his family at Christmastime, intending to propose to her.
The Family Stone
1 h 43 m. Summary The Family Stone is a story about an annual gathering of an unconventional New England family. Before the holidays are done, relationships will unravel while new ones are formed, secrets will be revealed and the Stone family will come together through its extraordinary capacity for love. (20th Century Fox) Comedy. Drama. Romance.
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The Family Stone (2005) It's the season of good will, but there's not much of it going round in yuletide comedy The Family Stone. Diane Keaton plays the head of the clan and leads the assault on ...
The Family Stone (2005)
Bezucha stumbles by milking the final scene for way too long, but The Family Stone still gets the balance right for a superior multiplex holiday offering -- unpredictable enough to be funny, familiar enough to be comfortable, touching enough to be sentimental. Read movie and film review for The Family Stone (2005) - Thomas Bezucha, Bezucha ...
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The Family Stone Review. Christmas at the Stone family home is a time for laughter, joy and liberal values until eldest son Everett (Mulroney) brings Meredith (Parker), his tightly wound ...
Time to Drop the Cellphone and Pick Up a Casserole
The Stone patriarch, Kelly (Craig T. Nelson), is a professor, and the family's vaguely bookish, boho vibe is reinforced by the Susan Sontag-style splash of white that punctuates the otherwise dark ...
A Long Talk With Sarah Jessica Parker About The Family Stone
Sarah Jessica Parker stars as the career-driven Meredith Morton, who spends Christmas with her boyfriend Everett's (Dermot Mulroney) New England family. Meredith's nervousness reads as iciness ...
EW debates 'The Family Stone': The best Christmas movie, or the worst?
The Family Stone is—love squares aside—a very realistic look at a family dynamic in times of coping. Yes, Diane Keaton has cancer, but it never feels schmaltzy. Yes, Diane Keaton has cancer ...
You've Been Getting 'The Family Stone' All Wrong
Released in 2005, The Family Stone follows the eponymous Stone family, headed by Sybil ( Diane Keaton) and Kelly ( Craig T. Nelson ), as each of their five grown children and their respective ...
'The Family Stone' Movie Review (2005)
'The Family Stone' Movie Review (2005) December 16, 2005. By Laremy Legel . I really wanted to hate The Family Stone based on the trailers alone. It's your typical schlock preview with the ...
Everything I need to know, I learned from 'The Family Stone'
Sibling dynamics are definitely one of the reasons this movie stays high on my list of favorites. 4. Appreciate the time you have together. Without being too spoiler-y, I will say something vague ...
The Family Stone
A woman meets her future in-laws and discovers they don't much care for her in this comedy from writer and director Thomas Bezucha. Everett Stone (Dermot Mulroney) is a successful young businessman who is dating Meredith Morton (Sarah Jessica Parker), and has asked her to spend Christmas with his family, with plans to ask his mother, Sybil (Diane Keaton), for the titular family wedding band ...
Classic Review: The Family Stone (2005)
The Family Stone is a true ensemble film. Its cast, by far, is the biggest draw and its biggest strength. Everyone here works wonders together, let by one of the most inspired performances by Keaton in the last couple decades. This was probably the first (or one of the first) times she took the role of the matriarch, an archetype she ended up ...
The Family Stone Movie Review for Parents
The Family Stone Rating & Content Info . Why is The Family Stone rated PG-13? The Family Stone is rated PG-13 by the MPAA for some sexual content including dialogue, and drug references.. This dialogue-heavy film, which is a near-continuous series of arguments, deals with topics that will be difficult for pre-teens to follow.
The Family Stone (2005)
The latest movie news, trailers, reviews, and more. The latest movie news, trailers, reviews, and more. ... THE FAMILY STONE is a comic story about the annual holiday gathering of a New England ...
Family Stone, The
MPAA Rating: "PG-13" (Sexual Situations, Profanity) Genre: DRAMA/COMEDY. Subtitles: none. Theatrical Aspect Ratio: 1.85:1. It's a tough thing for a dysfunctional-family-at-Christmas movie to avoid doses of melodrama, and it's fair to say that The Family Stone contains its share. But the nice thing about the movie is that it avoids overt ...
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The beauty of South Park on Wednesdays on Comedy Central in the 1990s and 2000s is that it could have pivoted weekly to parody real-time news. That model of satire shifted to long-form storytelling rather than standalone episodes. However, knowing what happened in 2015's Mad Max: Fury Road gives Parker and Stone an advantage. They turn the heist into a Fury Road-style heist, which is ironic ...

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