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66 Creative Toasts to End Your Best Man Speech

• Posted by by Lisa Plaitt

As the best man, you will have the duty of writing a speech for the newlyweds. During this time, you can keep it lighthearted and playful, or opt for something straightforward and simple.

No matter what, you will have to make sure that you honor the bride and groom, and wish them a happy future together. 

While you might have the best man’s speech down to a T , how do you end it with a toast? In this article we have put together 66 different ways to give your best man toast that you can adapt and change.

So, whether you are looking to make fun of the newlyweds, or want to keep it serious, here are 66 ways to raise a glass to the lucky couple. 

Toasts to the Happy Couple

• “To my best friend [NAME] and his beautiful wife/groom [NAME] – here is to a wonderful future filled with lots of love and true happiness.”
• “It has been a huge honor to be your best man. However, it has become an even bigger honor to ask everyone in this room to toast the newly married couple. To the bride and groom!”
• “Let us all wish the bride and groom many years of love and happiness. May you be the kind of friends that only lovers can be. May you love each other in the way only best friends are able to.”
• “To the happy couple, may their love story unfold like a fairytale, with many a happy ending, and not a single wicked stepmother in sight.”
• “Here’s to the couple, may their love be like a cozy fire in the winter – warm, comforting, and always there to chase away the chill.”
• “To the newlyweds – may you always look at each other with the same sparkle in your eyes as when you first met!”
• “May their marriage be filled with love, laughter, and a mutual understanding that no matter what, they will always be each other’s wingman.”
• “Let us lift our glasses in celebration of the union of two remarkable individuals. May your marriage be a testament to how you both make each other stronger, more self-assured and madly in love with one another through the years.”
• “May your marriage never feel like hard work, but instead be full of moments that are as easy as breathing. May it bring out the best in you and give you even more reason to be thankful every day.”
• “Let’s raise a glass to a love that will make even Cupid jealous, and may their marriage be filled with laughter, adventure, and all the good things in life.”

Toasts to the Groom

• “Cheers to the groom, who has found a partner in life who can tolerate his witty humor and two left feet on the dance floor.”
• “A heartfelt congrats to the groom who finally found the missing piece to his puzzle, and I have to say, she fits him like a glove – a really pretty, elegant glove.”
• “To the handsome groom, may your love for your bride continue to be the anchor that steadies you both through life’s storms.”
• “May you, dear groom, be imbued with courage, wisdom, and love to be the best husband and partner you can be.”
• “Here’s to the groom, for having great taste in women! He found his queen among a sea of frogs and convinced her that she’s a real princess. May your love story last forever, and may you live happily ever after! Now, let’s raise our glasses and drink before she run away at midnight! Cheers!”
• “Here’s to the groom: he may have once been a single man, but now he’s got two bosses!”
• “Cheers to the groom, who is finally taking the plunge after years of dating! Now that you have found your perfect match, I just hope she doesn’t change her mind and leave you heartbroken. So make sure to stay on your best behavior – no more late nights out with the boys!”
• “In honor of this special day, I’d like to offer the groom some advice: As long as you two are willing to split the remote control and always make sure there’s enough toilet paper in the house, I’m confident your marriage will last forever.”

Toasts to the Bride

• To the beautiful bride, may your happiness be as radiant and timeless as the dress you wear today.
• Here’s to the woman who stole the groom’s heart and forever captured his love.
• Let’s raise a glass to the bride, whose smile brightens up even the dreariest of days, and who, today, takes her vows with the one she loves most.
• You have brought so much light and beauty into the world and today, as you marry your soulmate, you shine brighter than ever.
• To the stunning bride, here’s to a lifetime of love and adventure, of sharing everything, and always standing by each other’s side.
• “Here’s to the bride! A woman with an eye for detail and a heart of gold. She never fails to surprise us all with her words and actions, but most especially with the way she loves our groom.”

Toasts to the Future

• “Let us toast to the remarkable bond my buddy and his partner possess. Even though it wasn’t easy, they made it through and taught us that no matter what challenges stand in the way, true love will always find a way. Cheers!”
• “Let nothing stand between the two of you—not even time or distance—and may every day bring more love than the last. Congratulations to the bride and groom! May your future be bright, beautiful, and full of blessings. Cheers!”
• “Wishing you both a lifetime of health and happiness, where you can continue to explore all that life has to offer together as one. May you keep smiling with every struggle and crying with every joy – knowing that whatever comes your way will bring even more strength to your relationship.”
• “Here’s to the beautiful journey ahead – may it always be filled with genuine happiness in each other’s arms! Congratulations!”
• “Here’s to the couple as they begin this next chapter in their lives together. May they have strength to overcome any obstacles that come their way, courage to take risks when necessary, and compassion to understand one another despite life’s differences.”
• “Let’s toast to the special bond shared between this loving couple – one filled with trust, respect and admiration. Here’s wishing them a long and happy life together as husband and wife, surrounded by family and friends who can’t help but smile when thinking about them!”

Funny Best Man Toasts

If you have created a best man speech that has plenty of funny lines that will capture the room and cause lots of laughter, then you will want to end it that way too.

Here you will find a few examples to get your inspiration flowing.

Related read: 60 Funny Wedding Wishes for Newlyweds

• “Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to celebrate the union of my best friend and his better half. I’d like to take this opportunity to raise a toast to them on such an auspicious occasion.”
• “To my best friend, I’m so happy he has found someone who loves him just as much as I do!”
• “To my dear friend [Groom’s name], who I’ve known since we were kids, I must say, it’s about time you grew up and got married. I mean, seriously, what took you so long? But, in all honesty, I couldn’t be happier for you, my friend.”
• “May their marriage be like coffee: strong, hot and never bitter!”
• “To the bride and groom, may their love be like a game of chess – always evolving, never boring, and always ending with a mate.”
• “It comes as no surprise that we were not shocked when [NAME] asked [NAME] to marry them. We knew [NAME] had found the one when he stopped playing his Playstation. To the happy couple!”
• “To the bride and groom, may they never argue over who is the real boss in their relationship, but instead always play rock, paper, scissors to settle it.”
• “For the last time, I am going to ask everyone in the room to raise their glass and – if you are still able to – stand and wish the newlyweds a happy and bright future!”
• “If you had trouble hearing me at the back – I did ask to use a microphone, but the silence at the front of the room should help to reassure you that you are not missing a thing. Here’s to the bride and groom!”

• “Before I end this speech, I want to give some advice to the best man. Always remember to say the three magical words: ‘You’re right dear’. To the bride and groom!”
• “Let’s make sure this day is just as special as possible; after all, you only get married once – or at least we hope you do.”
• “May the newlyweds find prosperity in all aspects of life, excluding a receding hairline, which seems to be an unavoidable reality.”
• “I once read that the best man’s speech should always take as long as the amount of time it takes the groom to make love. So, here is to the happy couple!”
• “Thank you everyone for keeping the clapping to a minimum today. I have a terrible hangover. I couldn’t let the groom drink alone last night, could I? Let’s raise a final glass to the new Mr and Mrs [NAME].”
• “And now that I have come to the end of my speech, it has been great to have been a part of the only few minutes the bride wasn’t able to plan. Here’s to the happy couple!”

Best Man Toasts for Brother

Sometimes your best man is your brother. Here are a few ideas to end that toast.

• “It is with great honor that I stand here today and raise a toast to my wonderful brother – may the next chapter of his life be just as amazing as the last! Cheers!”
• “To my best friend, who also happens to be my brother, and his new wife. Let’s raise a glass to the many wonderful years that are ahead. Now, let’s dance, be merry, and eat cake!”
• “It is said that as my brother’s best man I am supposed to talk about what good qualities he has, and to sing his praises. However, I won’t lie and I cannot sing. To the happy couple!”
• “So raise a glass to my bro, who has more friends than Instagram followers – but just as many likes!”
• “It became obvious that my brother had fallen in love and found the one when he spent a lot more time with [BRIDE] instead of his Xbox.”
• “Here’s to my bro! A man who knows what he wants in life, except for a wife. He was so sure of himself until that fateful day when she said yes and turned his world upside down.”
• “This day has been a long time coming. My brother has finally admitted that I am the best man.”
• “May this marriage be the beginning of a brand new chapter in your lives, and may it bring lots of love and wonderful moments that you can share together.

Toasts That Include a Quote 

If you like a good quote, then find one that suits the occasion. Here are a few to think about: 

• “To end this speech, I would like to tell you some wise words that Socrates once said: ‘My advice to you is to get married. If you find a good wife, you will be happy. If not, you will become a philosopher.’ To the newlyweds!”
• “Oscar Wilde once said: ‘The man who says his wife cannot take a joke forgets that she took him’. To the bride and groom!”
• “Just before we raise a glass to [NAME] and [NAME], here is something Pauline Thomason once said: ‘Love is blind. Marriage is an eye-opener.’ To the newlyweds!” 
• “Just like Dr. Seuss once said: ‘You know when you are in love when you cannot fall asleep because your reality is finally better than your dreams’.
• “Emily Bronte once said: ‘Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same’. To Mr and Mrs [NAME].”

Toasts to the Bridal Party

While not traditional (the groom is the one who often toasts the bridesmaids), you can also compliment them too. Here are some examples:

• “I want to say a special thank you to all the bridesmaids. They have been wonderful and helpful throughout the process and today.
• “To the bridesmaids: Here’s to you all for being there with my sister during this exciting time. May your friendship remain strong as she embarks on this wonderful journey of marriage and new beginnings.”
• “Please raise your glasses to… The bridesmaids!”
• “Here’s to two of the best bridesmaids anyone could ask for! Without you, the wedding day would not have come together as perfectly and joyfully as it did. From helping with the dress fittings to doting on the bride during her special day, I want to thank both of you for your unwavering support and friendship.”
• “To the bridesmaids – may they always stay as beautiful and graceful as they are today!”
• “To a long-lasting friendship between these beautiful ladies, who have been by each other’s side through thick and thin. May your bond be strong for many years to come.”

Final Thoughts

Whether you choose a heartfelt, humorous, or nostalgic toast, the most important thing is that your words come from the heart and reflect the love and joy of the newlyweds’ union.

With these 66 creative and meaningful toasts, you’ll have the confidence and inspiration you need to deliver a memorable and unforgettable best man speech.

So, raise your glass and make a toast to the happy couple and their beautiful future together.

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Hello, I’m Lisa Plaitt and I have been married to my wonderful husband for almost five years. We met almost a decade ago now and I love him more everyday. But on my wedding day - the day that was supposed to be about celebrating us - I was far too stressed to enjoy it. My husband proposed to me in spring and it was a very lowkey setting, in our backyard without anyone else around to see it. It was a perfect proposal. But then everything got real, and I was suddenly thrust into planning mode.

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20 Of The Ultimate "Best Man" Quotes

When you find out that you’re the best man at a wedding, it’s a big deal. Your best friend, who may seem more like family, has selected you among all of his buddies to be his right-hand man for the wedding. It may sound like an excellent opportunity to have fun and celebrate, but there are also serious moments to plan for like the best man’s speech.

You may be familiar with public speaking, or perhaps, you’re a newbie. Maybe you have a career in the public sector and you’re used to being articulate in front of others. Alternatively, you could have social anxiety or not be the type to speak in public. Depending on your personality, you might be looking forward to giving the speech, or you could secretly be dreading it. One thing that can help when you are crafting your speech as the best man is to add in some quotes. Below are some tips for crafting a compelling speech as a best man, including some great quotes to use.

Planning ahead

To give a good best man speech, you may want to avoid writing the speech at the last minute. For the best results, you could start building your speech at least two months before the wedding occurs. That way, you have a lot of time to research and get some ideas for what you’d like to say. You can gain inspiration from past speeches, and you can think about what personal touches you want to add as well. 

The opening line matters

Consider using a quote at the beginning of the best man’s speech. Applicable quotes include those about friendship or love. When you think about your best friend getting married, think about what matters to him. Think about his values, his favorite movies, and his personality, for instance. If you choose a quote to open with, it can provide you with a theme for the rest of the speech.

Write down some ideas

If you’re just starting the process, the thought of writing a whole monologue can be daunting. It could be helpful to remember that you don’t need to write the speech in its entirety right away. Instead, you could start jotting down ideas and then build on them piece by piece. Whenever an idea comes to you, consider writing it down, even if it’s just in a notes-type app on your phone. You can read it to yourself out loud to get a feel for how it sounds and tweak it as you go. Some people find it easier to write a speech if they say the words out loud first, whereas others might be more comfortable sitting down to write their first draft silently. Try different approaches to see what works for you.

Make an outline

These are some great quotes aboWhen you write a speech, you may want to include a beginning, middle, and end. This may give the speech a logical  flow. It can also prevent you from rambling on about childhood stories or failing to come to a conclusion that wraps it all up. You might start with an anecdote representing the groom and go from there, but it could be important to have a road map for how the speech will go.

Here’s a basic outline for a best man’s speech:

• Use an engaging open line.
• Thank the wedding guests for being there.
• Congratulate the couple.
• Say some warm and kind words about the bride or partner.
• Crack a joke about the groom.
• Introduce a quote or passage from something meaningful to the groom.
• Propose a toast.

This is just one example of a best man’s speech at a wedding. It doesn’t have to be complicated; it can be light and funny or serious if you like.

Depending on how long you’ve known the person getting married, you may have anecdotes dating back to childhood, your teenage years, or young adult life. Most everyone likes a funny story, so including an anecdote can be engaging and fun.

Why is it a good idea to add a quote in your speech?

A quote can be a great point to start from since you can build your speech around the quote. Not only that, but a good quote often sticks with people. It gives people something that’s both meaningful and easy to remember about the speech, and it shows that you put care into the process. Let’s look at some examples of the ultimate best man quotes that you can put in your speech to make it special and memorable.

Before you choose the quote that you’re going to add to your speech, note that its tone is up to you. It doesn’t have to be cheesy; it can be funny or serious. Think about your friend, and make sure that the quote represents who they are as a person. Are they funny or more stoic and serious? Are they on the dramatic side or more philosophical? You might even find that taking some thoughts from other friends into consideration might help you throughout the process. There’s no right or wrong way to write a speech. You could start with a dramatic quote or something that’ll make the audience laugh. It’s just a matter of what sort of tone you want to set for the wedding. You want your speech to match your friend, the couple, and the crowd.

Ultimate best man quotes

One thing you can do is give a quote from the groom. Maybe you remember your friend saying something meaningful to you when you were in high school or college. Perhaps he said something funny on a road trip.  Remember that a heartfelt speech doesn’t necessarily have to be entirely serious. You can introduce some humor if you feel it’s appropriate. Here are some sample quotes that people have used in both best man speeches and as a part of weddings:

The following quotes range in tone from humorous to thoughtful:

“Marriage is like a cage; one sees the birds desperate to get in, and those inside equally desperate to get out.”

-Michelle Montaigne

“Marriage is not just spiritual communion. It also remembers to take out the trash.”

-Joyce Brothers

“An archeologist is the best husband a woman can have. The older she gets, the more interested he is in her.”

-Agatha Christie

“If I get married, I want to be very married.”

-Audrey Hepburn

“There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion than a good marriage.”

-Martin Luther

“By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.”

“If you want your wife to listen to you, then talk to another woman; she will be all ears.”

-Sigmund Freud

“All marriages are happy. It’s the living together afterward that causes all the trouble.”

-Raymond Hull

Take care of him. And make him feel important. And if you can do that, you’ll have a happy and wonderful marriage. Like two out of every ten couples.”

-Neil Simon

“What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined for life-to strengthen each other in all labor, to rest on each other in all sorrow, to minister to each other in all pain, to be one with each other in silent unspeakable memories at the moment of the last parting?”

-George Eliot

“To get the full value of joy, you must have someone to divide it with.”

-Mark Twain

“The secret of a happy marriage is finding the right person. You know they’re right if you love to be with them all the time.”

-Julia Child

“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.”

“To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow, this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.”

-Elizabeth Gilbert

“They slipped into an intimacy from which they never recovered.”

-F. Scott Fitzgerald

I make mistakes, I’m out of control, and at times hard to handle. But, if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.”

-Marilyn Monroe

“My wife is my soulmate. I can’t imagine being without her.”

– Matt Damon

“It’s tough to stay married. My wife kisses the dog on the lips, yet she won’t drink from my glass.”

-Rodney Dangerfield

“Marriage is an alliance entered into by a man who can’t sleep with the window shut, and a woman who can’t sleep with the window open.”

-George Bernard Shaw

“Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes in the hope of pulling out an eel.”

-Leonardo DaVinci

ut marriage that you might use in a best man speech.

Your speech shouldn’t sound scripted

When you’re writing your best man speech, you may want to focus on making it sound organic. You want the audience to feel like it’s a conversational matter rather than something that seems forced or stilted. 

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FAQs (Frequently asked questions)

Does the best man give a speech?

The best man’s position is a privilege and only entrusted to people who know the groom really well and who the groom confides in and trust, in other words, a best friend.

The best man speech is general accepted and has become a tradition practiced at every wedding. And like a best friend to the groom, it is required of you to give a best man speech.

When should the best man give his speech?

Giving a great wedding speech depends on the timing. Both the length of the speech and the time it was given can predict the response you get from the guest.

Below are some options to help guide you on how to give the best wedding speech.

• Have a plan for your wedding speech: Proper schedule of your wedding speech will help reduce the stress on the best man, maid of honor, and even the bride’s parents; the wedding speech can serve as a sequence for the rest of the event. If you plan to commence with a best man toast, ensure it occurs as soon as everyone is seated. Study shows that a well-structured speech establishes the aim of the occasion.

You can carry on with the best man toast sequentially or between breaks after the first course has been served.

• Give speech after the meal has been served: Another way to kick off with the best wedding speech is to wait until everyone is served their meal. It buys you time to talk without being interrupted by the waiters.

Tip: Be certain that the VIP sections are first served. That way, while other guests are being served or enjoying their food, those scheduled to present a speech can do so with a captive audience.

• Commence the dance with a best man’s toast: Making a best man toast immediately after the meal buys another speechmaker's added time to enjoy the wedding reception.

You can commence with the best man’s toast and then proceed to the cake cutting. Then finalize it by inviting the bride and groom’s parents to the dance floor before declaring the dance floor open for a celebration.

• Take advantage of the cocktail moment: One of the best opportunities to get audience attention when giving a best man speech is when everyone has a glass of cocktail in their hands. Once the best man toast is given, everyone can interact and get acquainted with each other.

What does the best man have to say in his speech?

After the groom’s speech comes the best man’s speech, it is an opportunity to let people know about the groom’s personality. I admit, putting down your emotions on paper can be devastating especially if you’re not used to being in the spotlight.

Below are some points to consider as you prepare to give your best man toast.

• Start with a joke: Everyone loves a funny best man. According to an incisive research report , humor during public speeches is a productive way of connecting with the audience. A joke about the groom can win over the guest but be sure you don’t overdo it. Try to make it precise and simple.

When giving a funny best man’s speech, you should not overstep your boundaries. Try as much as possible to keep it mild and simple.

For example: “I still can’t believe my buddy picked me to ruin one of the most important days of his life.”

• Introduction: Everyone needs to know  who you are. Tell the guest your name, your relationship with the groom. Maybe an interesting story of how you guys met, your experience with him, and make a joke of how you plan to roast him for the next few minutes.
• Don’t outshine the couple: Whatever speech you are to present should be about the newlyweds. A great best man's speech should be centered on the bride and groom.
• Speech should be decent: Wedding speeches should be decent because of all the relatives and friends, both young and old, colleagues and even superiors from the workplace in attendance. You wouldn’t want to say things that will be disturbing to them.
• Take them down memory lane: Talk about your early friendship days. Tell a story of how your friend has been in love many times, and none was productive, not until he met his new bride.

Talk about how compatible the newlyweds are, and you can joke about how the bride changed the groom’s shy personality to a confident one. You can follow the story up by narrating a funny event that occurred.

• Address the newlyweds: Some best men make the mistake of just talking about past experiences and forgetting to advise the new couple about marriage's reality. If you’re married, you can use your experience to educate the newlyweds or use inspirational quotes to encourage the couple.
• Praise the bride: Best men are a groom’s best friend, and a word of compliment from them to the bride shows acceptance; it shows that you approve of your friend’s choice. You can compliment her looks, how happy you are she accepted to marry your friend, and how lucky he is to have her as his bride. Using a good bride quote is also a good way to compliment the bride.
• Acknowledge the bridesmaid: Acknowledge the effort of the bride’s maid in getting the bride ready on time. You can joke about how easy they’ve had it and how you almost missed the ceremony because the groom couldn’t make up his mind on the choice of tie to put on.
• Be brief and precise: Don’t get carried away by being the funny best man. Wedding speeches should be short and straight to the point. They’ve never been a scenario where people complain of how brief the best man speech was. A brief and precise speech is all that is required if you plan to get your message across.
• Conclude with a quote : One of the best ways to round up a good speech is by adding great quotes that summarizes the best man speech nicely, maybe inspirational quotes. Adding the best quote to a wedding speech can never go wrong; it passes a message of encouragement and love.
• Propose a toast: A best man’s work is never complete without giving a best man’s toast. With your glass raised, say something nice about the couple, like wishing them a life of happiness and love, or you can say some cool quotes about love.

What do you say to the bride and groom?

What you say to the bride and groom is totally dependent on your relationship with them. Below are some instances to consider:

• Suppose you attended the wedding because you’re an acquaintance of the groom or vice versa. The right thing to say should be congratulations and thanks for having me. Your ceremony was amazing.
• Suppose it’s family. I am so happy for you. Is there anything I can do to help?
• Suppose it’s a daughter or a son. You’ve grown to be a very responsible young woman or vice versa. I am very proud of you. Your husband/wife is very lucky to have you.
• If it’s an enemy, it’s a very special day for the person. Try not to spoil it. A simple congratulations and happy married life will do.
• Best friend or a sister/brother. You look very beautiful or handsome. Is there anything you want? What can I do to help? Offering to help when you see the need to or if it seems that the bride or groom is edgy contributes a lot to the wedding's success.

Tip: On a wedding day, the bride and groom are always uneasy. Don’t take it personally if their response isn’t friendly; it’s not intentional. It’s easy to be jumpy when you’re under much pressure. Try as much to understand them and put in a good word to calm them down.

It’s very important not to let them know of any accidents that might occur during the wedding.

How do you end a toast?

The purpose of making a best man toast is to make certain that it’s a touching and unforgettable moment for the newlyweds. The best man toast is a position that will put you in the spotlight.

Delivering a good best man toast without a proper ending can spell disaster; several cool quotes about toast, inspirational quotes or quotes about love, and some great examples on how to end a best man toast, will go a long way.

At the end of the best man toast, you are expected to raise your glass to honor the newlyweds. Below are some frequently used words to end a toast.

• Let’s toast to the good health and prosperity of the bride and groom
• Here’s to many more years of love and happiness
• Wishing you a happy married life, cheers!

What do you say when you're the best man?  What toasts does the best man do? What do you say when giving a toast? Who gives a speech at the wedding? Do you say cheers at the end of a toast?

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Best Man Toasts, Wedding Speech Closing Lines

End your wedding speech with a bang.

Use these best man toasts to wrap up your wedding speech and deliver a mic-drop moment. Or take a sincere approach to your closing remarks and leave the wedding party touched by your thoughtfulness.

Any way you choose to approach your best man speech, we’ve got you covered!

Simple best man toasts and groomsmen’s toasts

1.) To the happy couple, Mr and Mrs [name]!

2.) Ladies and gentlemen, to the bride and groom!

3.) Now please join me in raising your glasses as we toast to the Bride and the Groom. I give you Mr. and Mrs. [name]!

4.) May you share all your dreams on the same pillow.

5.) May the rest of your lives be filled with magical moments.

6.) To my best friend and his beautiful bride: the new Mr and Mrs [name].

7.) May you both live as long as you want, And never want as long as you live.

8.) Please join me in raising a glass to the happy couple — to [bride] and [groom].

9.) I would like to wish you a lifetime of health, wealth, happiness and love. Ladies and gentlemen, let’s toast to the bride and groom.

10.) May you always be friends as well as lovers.

11.) Here’s is to a lifetime of love and happiness!

12.) When the husband drinks to the wife, all would be well; when the wife drinks to the husband, all is. – English proverb

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13.) May the saddest day of your future be no worse than the happiest day of your past.

14.) I’d like you all to join me in wishing the happy couple all the wealth, health and happiness in the world. To the bride and groom!

15.) Let us all wish [bride] and [groom] years and years of happiness. May you be friends to each other only as lovers can, and may you love each other only as best friends can.

16.) May neighbors respect you, Trouble neglect you, The angels protect you, And heaven accept you.

17.) I’d like you all to join me in wishing the new Mr and Mrs [name] all the wealth, health and happiness in the world. To the bride and groom.

18.) What an honor it has been to serve as [groom’s] best man. And it’s even more of an honor to ask you all to join me in toasting the newlyweds. Cheers!

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19.) Here is a toast to a perfect couple — to a long life together filled with happiness, adventure and lots of wonderful memories.

20.) Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife. – Franz Schubert

21.) For this is [bride] and [groom]’s time. And it’s time to raise your glass high in the air. To the bride and groom! We wish you a long and happy marriage.

22.) May you live as long as you like, And have all you like as long as you live.

23.) Congratulations on this big step in your lives. Let’s all raise our glasses and toast to the happy couple. May years of happiness and amazing memories await you!

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Useful best man toasts

24.) May you have the hindsight to know where you’ve been, The foresight to know where you are going, And the insight to know when you have gone too far.

25.) To get the full value of joy you must have someone to divide it with. – Mark Twain

26.) To keep your marriage brimming, With love in the loving cup, Whenever you’re wrong, admit it; Whenever you’re right, shut up. – Ogden Nash

27.) A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. – Mignon McLaughlin

28.) Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate. – Barnett R. Brickner

29.) Always keep the lid down.

30.) A good marriage is at least 80 percent good luck in finding the right person at the right time. The rest is trust. – Nanette Newman

31.) Love one another and you will be happy. It’s as simple and as difficult as that. – Michael Leunig

32.) Never go to bed angry… always stay up and argue.

33.) Don’t marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can’t live without. – James C. Dobson

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Marriage advice toasts

34.) Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threaded, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last. – Simone Signoret

35.) Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly. – Rose Franken

36.) The best thing to hold onto in life is each other. – Audrey Hepburn

37.) The grand essentials of happiness are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for. – Allan K. Chalmers

38.) The best way to remember your anniversary is to forget it once.

39.) Always remember the three little words…”You’re right dear.”

40.) The capacity to love is tied to being able to be awake, to being able to move out of yourself and be with someone else in a manner that is not about your desire to possess them, but to be with them, to be in union and communion. – Bell Hooks

41.) Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more. – Erica Jong

42.) Laughter is the shortest distance between two people. – Victor Borge

43.) In a great romance, each person plays a part the other really likes. – Elizabeth Ashley

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44.) To the two things that make a great marriage — having a good sense of humor and selective hearing.

45.) Love is blind, marriage is the eye-opener. – Pauline Thomason

46.) Today has been a very emotional day — even the cake is in tiers.

47.) This toast will be like a mini skirt: long enough to cover the essentials, but short enough to hold your attention.

48.) It’s not as great a day for the bride as she thinks. She’s not marrying the best man.

49.) Marriage is like a cage; one sees the birds outside desperate to get in, and those inside equally desperate to get out. – Michel de Montaigne

50.) [Bride] and [groom], before I finish, I’d like you to turn to face each other. You’re now looking into the eyes of the person who is statistically most likely to murder you. To the bride and groom!

51.) It’s a funny thing that when a man hasn’t anything on earth to worry about, he goes off and gets married. – Robert Frost

52.) By all means, marry if you get a good wife, you’ll be happy. If you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher. – Socrates

53.) A man is already halfway in love with any woman who listens to him. – Brendan Francis

54.) Before we raise our glasses to the happy couple, I’d like to make a toast to wives and lovers everywhere — may they never, ever cross paths!

55.) The man who says his wife can’t take a joke, forgets she took him. – Oscar Wilde

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Best man toasts for a brother

56.) To my very best friend and brother, and to his beautiful new wife, we salute you! Now let’s dance, drink and have a slice of cake!

57.) [Bride], I’ve never seen my brother happier and I know that’s because of you. May the Lord bless you with many, many happy years. Welcome to the family!

58.) To my brother and his new wife, may today be the beginning of a wonderful new and long-lasting chapter in your lives, and may you always love, honor and cherish each other, just as you do today.

59.) Apparently, as best man, I’m supposed to sing my brother’s praises and talk about his good qualities. Unfortunately, I can’t sing and I won’t lie.

60.) You have no idea how long I’ve waited for this day. My brother has finally admitted that I am in fact the best man.

61.) We all knew my brother had found the one when he started spending more time with [bride] than he did playing on his Xbox!

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Quotes to use for best man toasts

62.) There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion, or company than a good marriage. – Martin Luther

63.) We love because it’s the only true adventure. – Nikki Giovanni

64.) Love, be true to her; Life, be dear to her; Health, stay close to her; Joy, draw near to her; Fortune, find what you can do for her, Search your treasure-house through and through for her, Follow her footsteps the wide world over, And keep her husband always her lover. – Anna Lewis

65.) Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner. – Amy Bloom

66.) There’s nothing more admirable than two people who see eye to eye keeping house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and delighting their friends. – Homer

67.) My greatest wish for the two of you is that through the years your love for each other will so deepen and grow, that years from now you will look back on this day, your wedding day, as the day you loved each other the least. – Anonymous

68.) The best marriages, like the best lives, were both happy and unhappy. There was even a kind of necessary tension, a certain tautness between the partners that gave the marriage strength, like the tautness of a full sail. – Anne Morrow Lindbergh

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Love quotes

69.) Love is a fire that feeds our life. – Pablo Neruda

70.) It is written, when children find true love, parents find true joy. Here’s to your joy and ours from this day forward. – Unknown

71.) Where there is great love, there are always miracles. – Willa Cather

72.) Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful and endures through every circumstance. – 1 Corinthians 13:7

73.) To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage. – Lao Tzu

74.) The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. – John Green

75.) Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope. – Maya Angelou

76.) But let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. – Kahlil Gibran

77.) Insomuch as love grows in you, so beauty grows. For love is the beauty of the soul. – Saint Augustine

78.) Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible — it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could. – Barbara De Angelis

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Love sayings

79.) There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved. – George Sand

80.) Happy marriages begin when we marry the one we love, and the blossom when we love the one we married. – Sam Levenson

81.) When love reigns, the impossible may be attained. – Indian proverb

82.) You know you are in love when you see the world in her eyes, and her eyes are everywhere in the world. – David Levesque

83.) There is no remedy for love but to love more. – Henry David Thoreau

84.) True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. – Anonymous

85.) We never live so intensely as when we love strongly. We never realize ourselves so vividly as when we are in full glow of love for others. – Walter Rauschenbusch

86.) Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination. – Voltaire

87.) Love is the sum of our choices, the strength of our commitments, the ties that bind us together. – Emily Giffin

88.) He who wants to do good, knocks at the gate: he who loves finds the door open. – Rabindranath Tagore

89.) One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love. – Sophocles

90.) Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction. – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

91.) Where there is love there is life. – Mahatma Gandhi

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Romantic quotes

92.) Grow old with me. The best is yet to be — the last of life for which the first was made. – Robert Browning

93.) My heart is ever at your service. – William Shakespeare

94.) Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same. – Emily Bronte

95.) You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because your reality is finally better than your dreams. – Dr. Seuss

96.) What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined…to strengthen each other…to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories. – George Eliot

97.) The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman’s heart. – Josiah G. Holland

98.) To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow—this is a human offering that can border on miraculous. – Elizabeth Gilbert

99.) We are each other’s harvest, we are each other’s business, we are each other’s magnitude and bond. – Gwendolyn Brooks

100.) After all these years, I see that I was mistaken about Eve in the beginning; it is better to live outside the Garden with her than inside it without her. – Mark Twain

101.) There is no greater happiness for a man than approaching a door at the end of a day, knowing someone on the other side of that door is waiting for the sound of his footsteps. – Ronald Reagan

Wrapping it all up

We hope this list has been useful in finding the right best man toasts for you to use at a wedding. Whether you choose a long or short speech, these lines will have you closing on a high note!

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The best man is the most important person for the groom during the wedding, aside from the bride!

In a wedding, everything that is connected to the groom should be known by the best man. It is the best man who has to take care of nearly everything as the groom has got his hands full.

It is an important role to be a best man as it represents responsibility, so, be sure to be ready to take up all the responsibilities if you say yes.

If you don't want to take up such a big role, it is okay to say no to the groom when he asks you to be the best man for him.

Also, the best man has to give a speech and  read the messages from the people who could not attend the wedding but have sent their best wishes.

The scariest and the most fun part of the wedding is the speech. If you are a best friend, you can add up the incidents you both did as teens and get some good best man quotes to make the speech look good and funny.

You have to not talk only about the groom but also the bride. After all, it is going to be the bride and groom wedded to be a couple.

For your help, we have collected quotes for best man speeches where you can find funny best man quotes too, and also best man toasts quotes. If you like this, check out 50th wedding anniversary quotes or [Dwight Schrute quotes].

Here you can find some of the best best man speech quotes.

1. "The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman’s heart."

- Timothy Titcomb, 'J. G. Holland.'

2. "What I say is that, if a man really likes potatoes, he must be a pretty decent sort of fellow."

- A.A. Milne, 'Winnie-The-Pooh.'

3. "My speech is going to be like a mini-skirt: long enough to cover the essentials and short enough to hold your attention."

- Anonymous.

4. "It's a funny thing that when a man hasn't anything on earth to worry about, he goes off and gets married."

- Robert Frost.

5. "Marriage is not just spiritual communion. It is also remembering to take out the trash."

- Joyce Brothers.

6. "Never go to bed on an argument. Stay up and fight."

- Phyllis Diller.

7. "Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same."

- Emily Bronte.

8. "Love one another and you will be happy; it is as simple and as difficult as that."

- Michael Leunig.

9. "Love does not consist of gazing at one another but looking outward in the same direction."

- Antoine de Saint-Exupery.

10. "To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage."

11. "May the best day of your past be the worst day of your future."

12. "A man is already halfway in love with any woman who listens to him."

- Brendan Francis.

13. "There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion than a good marriage."

- Martin Luther.

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14. "Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly."

- Rose Franken.

15. "A good marriage is that in which each appoints the other guardian of his solitude."

- Rainer Maria Rilke.

16. "Here's to the groom, a man who keeps his head though he loses his heart."

17. "Before we raise our glasses to the happy couple, I’d like to make a toast to wives and lovers everywhere – may they never, ever cross paths!"

18. "There is only one happiness in life – to love and be loved."

- George Sand.

19. "Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."

- Aristotle.

20. "It’s not as great a day for the bride as she thinks. She’s not marrying the best man."

21. "Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction."

22. An archeologist is the best husband a woman can have. The older she gets, the more interested he is in her."

- Agatha Christie.

23. "I love being married. It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life."

- Rita Rudner.

24. "Love is the greatest refreshment in life."

- Pablo Picasso.

25. "My advice to you is to get married. If you find a good wife, you'll be happy; if not, you'll become a philosopher."

- Socrates.

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26. "We never live so intensely as when we love strongly. We never realize ourselves so vividly as when we are in the full glow of love for others."

- Walter Rauschenbusch.

27. "There is no greater happiness for a man than approaching a door at the end of a day, knowing someone on the other side of that door is waiting for the sound of his footsteps."

- Ronald Reagan.

28. "It is written: When children find true love, parents find true joy."

29. "In a great romance, each person plays a part the other really likes."

- Elizabeth Ashley.

30. "Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes in the hope of pulling out an eel."

- Leonardo DaVinci.

31. "For one more time, I’m going to ask everyone to charge their glasses and – for those who still can – stand, and raise a glass to the newlyweds."

32. "It's tough to stay married. My wife kisses the dog on the lips, yet she won't drink from my glass."

- Rodney Dangerfield.

33. "You know you are in love when you see the world in her eyes, and her eyes everywhere in the world."

- David Levesque.

34. "Be presidents of each other's fan clubs."

- Tony Heath.

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35. "Marriage is like a game of chess except the board is flowing water, the pieces are made of smoke and no move you make will have any effect on the outcome."

- Jerry Seinfeld.

36. "Love is being stupid together."

- Paul Valery.

37. "A marriage is always made up of two people who are prepared to swear that only the other one snores."

- Terry Pratchett.

38. "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."

- Mignon McLaughlin.

39. "The best thing to hold onto in life is each other."

- Audrey Hepburn.

40. "Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet service to see who they really are."

- Will Ferrell.

41. "To get the full value of joy you must have someone to divide it with."

- Mark Twain.

42. "Love is blind — marriage is the eye-opener."

- Pauline Thomason.

43. "They say you don’t marry the person you can live with, you marry the person you can’t live without. That sums up these two perfectly. To the happy couple."

44. "One of the best things about love is just recognizing a man’s steps when he climbs the stairs."

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45. "I love you so much, and I really hope you'll feel the same about me after you hear my speech."

46. "The more you invest in a marriage, the more valuable it becomes."

- Amy Grant.

47. "If you want your wife to listen to you, then talk to another woman; she will be all ears."

- Sigmund Freud.

48. "Marriage is like a cage; one sees the birds desperate to get in, and those inside equally desperate to get out."

- Michelle de Montaigne.

49. "It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other."

- Robin Williams, 'Good Will Hunting.'

50. "If I get married, I want to be very married."

51. "What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined…to strengthen each other…to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories."

- George Eliot.

52. "We are asleep until we fall in love!"

- Leo Tolstoy, 'War And Peace.'

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25 Best Man Toast Ideas to End Your Speech

This best man toast guide includes 25 excellent toast ideas, as well as advice on who the best man toasts in his speech

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One of the duties involved in giving the perfect best man speech is to give a best man toast  to the newlyweds – you’ll have to ask everyone to raise their glasses and drink to the happy couple and their future together.

A best man toast is the ideal way to end a best man's speech, but who does the best man toast and what do they  actually  have to say? 

To help you nail your best man speech toast, we have dozens of examples you can steal, with everything from funny quotes to great best man toasts that are more traditional. 

25 Best Man Toast Ideas & Tips for Nailing the End of Your Speech

As well as examples of best man toasts, we also have expert advice on who should the best man toast. When carrying out this  very important role, you want to ensure you are toasting to all the right people, and not taking away from anyone else's toast responsibilities. 

Whether you want to thank the bridesmaids, end with a laugh or stick to tradition, these best man toasts are short, sweet and  just what your speech needs. It's also the best solution if you're looking for a fun way to end a best man speech. 

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Quotes for a Great Best Man Toast

Best man toasts to the bridesmaids.

Before deciding what toasts to include in your speech, you need to know who you're toasting. So who does the best man toast in their speech?

Traditionally, the only people who the best man is obliged to toast in his speech are the newlyweds, however it's quite common for the best man toast to include a nod to the bridesmaids, too. 

Though this is usually done by the groom, if you are at a wedding where there is no groom, the groom isn't making a speech, or you just want to thank them as well, including a mention of the bridesmaids in your best man toast is welcomed. 

If you are particularly close with your best friend's family as well, you may want to mention them in your best man toast, but note that this is not traditionally done. 

If you want to be completely certain on the matter of who does the best man toast, check with the nearlyweds to ensure you're not doubling up on toasts. 

There's no point delivering a killer intro if you don't know how to end a best man speech now is there? In an ideal situation, your best man speech ending should be just as funny and witty as the beginning, and a brilliant toast is the perfect tool to use. 

You can use the body of your speech to toast to the bridesmaids, say something nice about the rest of the wedding party and mention some nice words about the groom, but there's no better way to end a best man speech than with a lovely toast to the couple. 

Sometimes the traditional way is the best – so if you want to play it safe with a classic and heartwarming best man toast, consider one of these…

• “Please join me in raising a glass to the happy couple – to [NAME] and [NAME]”
• “I’d like you all to join me in wishing the new Mr and Mr/Mrs [NAME] all the wealth, health and happiness in the world. To the newlyweds!”
• “To my best friend and his beautiful partner: the new Mr and Mrs/Mr [NAME]”
• “Please make sure your glasses are charged and join me in toasting the new Mr and Mrs/Mr [NAME]. Ladies and gentlemen, to the happy couple!”
• “They say you don’t marry the person you can live with, you marry the person you can’t live without. That sums up [NAME] and [NAME] perfectly. To the happy couple”
• “Here is a toast to a perfect couple – to a long life together filled with happiness, adventure and lots of wonderful memories”
• “To [NAME] and [NAME] – here is to a lifetime of love and happiness”
• “Raise your glass and join me in a toast to [NAME] and [NAME] – may you always be friends as well as lovers”

Funny Best Man Toast  Ideas

If you’ve peppered your speech with lots of best man jokes , continue in the same fashion and finish with a funny best man toast. Here are a few examples to give you an idea.

• "Time to raise our glasses to the happy couple because I like both of you -do you have any idea how rare that is?"
• “For one more time, I’m going to ask everyone to charge their glasses and – for those who still can – stand, and raise a glass to the newlyweds”
• "Raise a glass to the happy couple. May your marriage be as strong as the drinks in your hand. Cheers!"
• “Part of the best man speech involves a toast and for me, the best kind of toast is French toast. So, buvons à ce couple heureux”
• “Please can everyone join me in toasting two young – well, quite young anyway – people in love. To the happy couple”
• “To the two things that make a great marriage – having a good sense of humour and selective hearing. To [NAME] and [NAME]”
• “To [NAME] and [NAME] – we all knew [NAME] had found the one when he/she started spending more time with [NAME] than he did playing on his/her Xbox!”
• “[NAME] and [NAME], before I finish, I’d like you to turn to face each other. You’re now looking into the eyes of the person who is statistically most likely to murder you. To the happy couple!”

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If you really want to wow the guests and have a speech ending that will resonate with everyone, do your research and choose a quote as your best man toast. For even more ideas, we’ve got some inspirational quotes about love and marriage to inspire you.

• “I would like to end on some wise words from Socrates: ‘My advice to you is to get married. If you find a good wife/husband, you’ll be happy; if not, you’ll become a philosopher.’ To the happy couple!”
• “Here’s one of my favourite Oscar Wilde quotes: ‘The man who says his wife/husband can’t take a joke forgets that she/he took him.’ To [NAME] and [NAME].”
• “Before we raise a glass to the newlyweds, I’d like to share a Pauline Thomason quote with you: ‘Love is blind – marriage is the eye-opener.’ To the happy couple!”
• “Here’s a poem by Ogden Nash to finish on: To keep a marriage brimming with love in the loving cup, where you are wrong, admit it, and when you are right, shut up! To [NAME] and [NAME]”
• “To [NAME] and [NAME] – here’s an Antoine de Saint-Exupery quote to finish on: ‘Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.’”
• “Before we raise our glasses, I’d like to share this Mignon McLaughlin quote with [NAME] and [NAME]: ‘A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.’”

A thank you in your best man toast to the bridesmaids is a lovely and thoughtful idea. Traditionally the groom toasts the bridesmaids but there is no harm in complimenting them too, just check in with your friend to see if they are doing the same. 

• "The beautiful bridesmaids have been amazing. Ladies and gentlemen, I’d like you all to raise your glasses. I give you… the bridesmaids."
• "I would like to say a special thank you to the bridesmaids, who have been wonderful throughout the day. Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses."

Make sure you read our guide to overcoming wedding speech nerves to ensure you deliver your speech flawlessly!

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How to End a Best Man's Speech

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This article was co-authored by Rachel Weinshanker . Rachel Weinshanker is a Certified Event and Wedding Planner and the Owner of San Diego Life Events, an award-winning wedding and event planning business based in San Diego, California. Rachel has over eight years of event planning experience, and her work has been featured in many notable publications. San Diego Life Events has been awarded the Wedding Wire Couple's Choice Award in 2018, 2019, and 2020. Rachel is a graduate from San Diego State University. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 76,373 times.

So, you’ve written an awesome best man’s speech but you just can’t find the right words to close it out. Whether you’re looking for the perfect punchline or a beautiful toast, we’ve got your back! There are a ton of options here so rest assured that you’ll find the right solution based on what you’ve already written. In this article, we’ll walk you through how to craft a positive note, a toast, a quick joke, or some lovely well-wishes for the couple. Read on to learn everything you need to know about mastering the end of your speech.

Ending a Funny Speech

• For example, the person’s boss may be present, so you don’t want to say, “I wish you well, and hopefully Greg works harder for his bride than he does for his boss.”

• For example, say, “Here’s to you, Harry and Ginny, and Ginny, don’t try his ketchup spaghetti.”

• For example, you can say, “Emily deserves a great husband. Thankfully, you snapped her up before she found one.”
• For a funny ending, you might say something like, “To the two things that make a great marriage, a good sense of humor and selective hearing. To Peter and Paul.”
• If you aren’t comfortable making a joke, leave the humor out. A sincere, upbeat ending sounds better than a forced joke.

Finding with a Heartfelt Sendoff

• For instance, say something like, “Please join me in raising a glass to the happy couple.”
• If you don’t dedicate a separate line to the toast, clearly indicate that the end of your speech is coming. For instance, you might say the couple’s names, then stop and pick up your glass.

• For a serious ending, say something like, “Here’s to a lifetime of love and fulfillment.”

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Our Expert Agrees: When you're writing a best man's speech, keep it short and sweet, and even if your speech includes lighthearted jokes at the couple, end it on a positive note. That will leave the crowd feeling inspired and happy to be a part of the occasion.

• For example, you may think of saying, “Dante once said, ‘A great flame follows a little spark.’” If you have to have the quote, use it in the beginning of your speech.

• For example, avoid saying, “Take some time to listen and communicate, and I know we’ll be here someday to celebrate your 50th anniversary.”

Wrapping up with an Anecdote

• For example, say, “I wish my best friend and his bride a life filled with happiness, adventure, and great memories.”

• Good subject matter involves things like your friend’s hobbies, dancing, cooking, or experiences.

• For instance, say, “When Greg turned off Sunday football to meet up with Jane, I knew they really were in love.”

Delivering the Speech

• Also note any times you have trouble speaking the lines. As the best man, you have to sound enthusiastic. Adjust your speaking style as well as your speech.

• Many best man speeches run into trouble by rambling. Keep your ending short and to the point.

• For a great ending, the entire speech has to move quickly and lead into the final line. That’s why it’s important to rehearse your speech as a whole.

• You can always print or write out speech notes on notecards. Keep these with you in case you get stuck during the speech.
• Avoid reading from a script. The best speeches look and sounds natural.

• Be confident in the fact that you learned and practiced the ending. As long as you aren’t offensive, you will usually get a positive reaction.
• You don’t have to look directly at your audience. Glance around the room, focusing on different foreheads. No one will know the difference.

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If you’re unsure how to end your best man’s speech, there are a few options you can choose from. Consider closing your speech with a heartfelt comment on their marriage. For example, say something like, "I wish my best friend and his bride a life filled with happiness, adventure, and great memories," or "Here's to a lifetime of love and fulfillment." You can also wrap up your speech with a short joke, such as, “Emily deserves a great husband. Thankfully, Paul snapped her up before she found one.” This will work well if your speech is a comedic one. After your closing line, raise your glass and toast to the bride and groom. For more tips, including how to prepare for your speech, read on! Did this summary help you? Yes No

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Best Man Quotes – A Cheat’s Guide

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How to Use Quotes

Before we begin, a word of warning…Great quotes shouldn’t make you lazy. Use the quotes as an addition to what you want to say, rather than a substitute for your own words.

Write your speech first, then see if a quote or two can make it better.

1. Make the quotes meaningful

Think about the songs & the films that you’ve bonded over. Do any of these lend themselves to a great quote?

2. Don’t overload your speech with quotes

Two maximum as a general rule. One at the top and one towards the end.

3. Quote recognisable names (or at least provide some context)

It’s always good to quote people that you’ve actually have heard of (or at least respect after you’ve looked them up on Wikipedia). You’ll find there are loads of great quotes by people you’ve never heard of, but do you really want to qualify them by saying they were written by a ‘relationship consultant’?

4. Add a back ref

Put the quote into a personal context, or make it even more humorous with a suitable ‘ad lib’.

5. Get expert advice

Check out our  Best Man Speech Advice for the full low down on how to package your quotes up in a great speech. Or work with the Speechy team and exploit our products & services.

Speechy’s Favourite Best Man Quotes

“what i say is that, if a man really likes potatoes, he must be a pretty decent sort of fellow.”.

– A.A. Milne , Winnie-the-Pooh.

This quote works best if the groom likes his Maris Pipers!

“Before you marry a person, you should first make them use a computer with slow Internet service to see who they really are.”  – Will Ferrell 

You can always add some more ‘marriage advice’ quotes to your speech. Check out our father of the bride quotes for more inspo.

“I love being married. It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.” – Rita Rudner

It’s a classic but it works. Clearly only if you’re married.

“ Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It’s not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you haven’t learned anything”. – Muhammad Ali

Quoting this dude is always going to add a bit of cool to your speech.

“Who, being loved, is poor?”  – Oscar Wilde

For a moment people may suspect you’re being sincere. But obviously, you’ll back ref this with something related to the ridiculous cost of a wedding.

“There is nothing like puking with somebody to make you into old friends.”  – Sylvia Plath

Even literary titans understand the powerful bonding experience of a stag do.

”We fall in love because we long to escape from ourselves with someone as beautiful, intelligent, and witty as we are ugly, stupid, and dull. But what if such a perfect being should one day turn around and decide they will love us back? We can only be somewhat shocked-how can they be as wonderful as we had hoped. ” – Alain Du Botton

A bit of philosophy perhaps?

“Never go to bed on an argument. Stay up and fight.”  – Phyllis Diller

Still love this classic quote. And we follow her advice every night.

“ When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them and say ‘me too!’ be sure to cherish them. These people are your tribe. “

Everyone likes to be part of a tribe. And a wedding is always better if everyone’s part of one.

“ It’s not what we have in life, but who we have in life that matters.”  – Author Unknown

Just on the right side of sincere without verging into cheesy territory.

”Marriage is like a game of chess except the board is flowing water, the pieces are made of smoke and no move you make will have any effect on the outcome.” – Jerry Seinfeld

So if you use this one, the speech has got to end up being slightly less cynical.

”You can always tell a real friend: when you’ve made a fool of yourself he doesn’t feel you’ve done a permanent job.” – Laurence J. Peter

Thank God this is true.

‘It’s the friends you can call up at 4am that matter.’ – Marlene Dietrich 

An awesome German woman who clearly knew the rules of friendship. (Though didn’t live long enough to know friends don’t actually call each other these days).

“Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: ‘What! You too? I thought I was the only one.”  – C.S. Lewis

Give examples to make this quote funnier e.g. do you both order two Big Macs at a time, reckon Christopher Eccleston was the best Doc Who, remember the lyrics to The Shamen’s Ebeneezer track despite only being six when it was released.  You know the sort of thing…

“It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other”  – Robin Williams, Good Will Hunting

And a sweet one to end on (without being overly mushy).

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Here’s the great thing about using quotes in your best man speech – it makes you look super cultured and smart!

All going well, by the time you get to the end of your speech, which is where quotes are typically placed, the audience will have warmed to you because of your good humour and sensitivity. At this point they are ready to receive a bit of wisdom, from you, or in the form of a quote.  Here are some great examples of Best Man speech quotes that will leave the audience feeling that bit cleverer and wiser.

“Phillip – my best friend – some words of advice in the form of a wise old poem. To keep a marriage brimming with love in the loving cup, when you are wrong, admit it and when you are right, shut up!  Phillip and Claire!”

“And now all I have left to do is to say what a privilege it is to ask everyone here to charge their glasses and – for those of you who still can! – to rise to your feet. Ladies and Gentlemen… the bride and groom.”

“Before I offer a toast to Ian and Marion I’d like to leave you with one thought: you don’t marry someone you can live with, you marry someone you can’t live without. In this case, these two really have married the right person. To the bride and groom.”

“Here’s to the two things that – without doubt – make a great marriage. Here’s to a good sense of humour , and selective hearing. Ladies and gentlemen – the bride and groom.”

“I’d like to end by toasting the bride and groom. But just before I do, I’d like to cite some lyrics from a song written many years ago but which I believe, are still meaningful today. [Speak the words, with no tune] She loves you, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. She loves you, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And with a love like that, you know you should be glad. Ladies and Gentlemen, I give you the bride and groom.”

“To finish with some words from the bard: Love comforteth like sunshine after rain. So, you two, I hope your marriage is full of intermittent drizzle, followed by days of blistering heat. To the bride and groom.”

I’d like to round off now with the words of a wider man than I, Timothy Titcomb, who said “The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman’s heart.” This couldn’t be more true when I look at Phil & Tara. Ladies and gentlemen, to the bride and groom.

“In closing, I’d like to leave you with a traditional African saying: ‘May your love be like the misty rain, gentle coming in but flooding the river.’ Ladies and gentlemen – the bride and groom.”

“St. Augustine, an ancient philosopher once said ‘Inasmuch as love grows in you, so beauty grows. For love is the beauty of the soul.’ It may be old, but I’m sure you’ll agree it’s still relevant today, and none more so than with Harry & Jo. Ladies and gentlemen, please join me in one last toast, to the bride and groom, those most beautiful souls, Harry & Jo.”

“A wise by the name of Antoine de Saint-Exupery man once said, ‘Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.’ Ladies and gentlemen, I give you the bride and groom.”

“I’d like to end with a quote from a 19th-century poet, Kahlil Gibran, who said ‘ Marriage is like a golden ring in a chain, whose beginning is a glance and whose ending is an eternity.’ Today we celebrate that marriage. Please join me in one final toast, to the bride and groom, Andrew and Patricia”

“Walt Whitman, an American poet once said of marriage ‘The strongest and sweetest songs yet remain to be sung.’ Here’s to the start of even sweeter times, here’s to the bride and groom. To Mark & Helen.”

“Nikki Giovanni, the famous poet, writer, commentator, activist once said ‘We love because it’s the only true adventure.’ Ladies and gentlemen, please raise your glasses, and let’s drink to adventure, to Charles and Amy”

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What you say at the end can make all the difference in your toast's overall success

There is a growing tradition of ending Best Man's speeches with a piece of light-hearted or comical marriage advice or by making a comical marriage observation . For me, this is more suitable Father of the Bride material and should be avoided, particularly if you yourself are single. Marriage insights from a single best man don't carry much weight. It can be pulled off if the best man is married , but most Best Men, single or married, would be better sticking to other areas. Here are some to consider:

"There is an old wedding day tradition saying that the bride must wear something new, something old, something borrowed and something blue. To ensure that tradition is followed I would like to make a special presentation to Linda. It's old, borrowed and blue, and I figure Paul is new enough as her husband to cover the new. These should come in especially handy tonight when the newlyweds retire to their hotel room. Linda, here are some slightly used blue socks for you."

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"I have a telegram here for Paul from his Bank Manager, who sends his deepest apologies but he sadly can't be with you today… but will definitely be seeing you after the honeymoon."

"In a few short hours, Paul and Linda will be making their way to the airport for a wonderful two weeks in tropical paradise. But whilst they are sunbathing on sugar-white sand, or paddling in a bath-warm ocean, my advice to them is that a good honeymoon is far more like something much closer to home - a dining table with a roast chicken on it ... four bare legs and no drawers, with some breast, some leg, and plenty of stuffing."

"Later on tonight, when the music starts, you might get to see Paul's limbo dance. He learnt it trying to get into the paid toilets at Waterloo station."

There are plenty of other ways you can connect your closing words to the particulars of your occasion. For more examples click here .

Finally, as you lead into the champagne, it's time to offer your congratulations and well wishes to the happy couple, express your hopes for their marriage or sincerely sum up the occasion . Just one moment of heartfelt emotion will do. Consider your toast carefully as these will be the words you finish on.

"On behalf of the bride and groom, I would like to thank everyone here for sharing in this unique and special day, particularly those who have travelled long distances. I know that Paul and Linda will never forget it. But speaking personally, and perhaps slightly selfishly, I wish that you had all stayed at home because things would have been a lot easier on me."

"There is nothing more noble or admirable than watching two incredible people come together as one in the unity of marriage. As your friends and family, we delight in your marriage and offer our encouragement and support. Here is a toast to a long life filled with adventure, love, and cherished moments."

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The 50 Best Jokes For Your Best Man Speech

As the best man, you’re tasked with giving the toast—maybe the most famous one of the evening. For the big speech, it’s important to have some jokes scattered throughout. The couple gets to be sentimental. Her father gets to be sad and nostalgic. You need to bring the funny like it’s showtime at the Apollo. That’s no easy task, either. Luckily, there are dozens of jokes that have already been written that you can plug your buddy’s name into and carry on. We compiled some of our favorites for you here. Good luck!

Good evening everyone. I’m so happy to preside over the only five minutes that the bride didn’t plan. Of course, I’m only kidding. We went over the speech 40 minutes ago in the hall.

It’s been an emotional day, even the cake is in tiers.

We’ve reached the moment in the evening where we get to watch the groom figet and worry in anticipation. Yes, everyone, I’ve been asked by the staff to give him the bill.

Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. Before I begin, I just want to apologize for not being an experienced public speaker. I’m probably going to spend most of the time looking at this piece of paper in my hands. Oh, it’s not my notes – it’s a picture of the triple Jameson I’m going to down as soon as this is over.

I just heard there was a lucrative pool on the length of the Best Man’s speech. I put my money on 40 minutes, so settle in…

Before I begin my speech, there’s just one order of business I’ve been asked to take care of. *Hold up pair of trousers with padlock on them* These are Jack’s Chastity Pants. I know he’s given keys out to various ladies over the years, but since he is now a married man, he’d like to get those copies back, so Jill is the only one with access. *Wait for the keys you strategically handed out to wedding guests to be brought up*

My name is Peter and I am the Best Man. Many of you would beg to differ, but shut up – I know your secrets.

Just a couple of rules before we begin. If you have a mobile phone – leave it switched on, entertain yourselves. And if anyone texts you any good jokes, kindly pass them up to the front.”

I’ve been told I won’t get away with a few thank yous and a quick toast. Apparently, as Best Man, I’m supposed to sing the Groom’s praises and talk about his good qualities. Unfortunately, I can’t sing and I won’t lie.

My speech today will be like a mini-skirt.  Long enough to cover the essentials but short enough to hold your attention!

Good evening Ladies and Gentlemen – Before I came here today one of my good friends gave me some advice on giving this speech. He said think of it like walking through a nudist camp, it’s only hard for the first minute.

Now he’s getting a bit older he’s turning his attention more and more to gadgets, constantly buying stuff from ebay, amazon and I want one of those dot com. I swear he didn’t have an interest in women until he overheard someone say the secret to women was knowing what buttons to press.

I read somewhere the perfect best man speech should last as long as it takes for the groom to make love. So ladies and gentlemen, please raise a glass to the happy couple!

Sally is a bright, charming, wonderful woman, who deserves a good husband. It’s such a shame Harry swooped in before she could find one.

I think the main reason we’ve lasted as friends all these years is because you’re geographically convenient…and you had a trampoline.

Jack is the kindest friend anyone could ask for; a man whose philanthropy knows no bounds. ‘Generosity’ should be his middle name. He would do anything for me; like helping write a section of the best man speech because you forgot about it until late last night at the bar!

Jack was in a pub when he proposed. No, really, it was actually very romantic – he got up on one knee.

It’s strange to be giving a speech like this one, because my parents always told me that if I had nothing good to say about someone, I should just be quiet.

Seeing the happy couple walking down the aisle earlier today, I’m sure we all agree that the bride looked simply stunning. The groom, on the other hand, simply looked stunned.

So I’m the best man, although I think I was picked by default since the groom doesn’t really have any other friends.

I can only say in my defense that Mike and I share a common sense of humor so if this speech is in anyway unfunny please “Feel Free to Blame Mike.”

I’d also like to congratulate Keith on a truly magnificent speech, I always knew it would be hard to follow, and I was right, I could hardly follow a word of it.

John did tell me that the vicar was firmly against sex before marriage. However, Jane did assure him it would only take a couple of minutes.

Rest assured though, unlike most traditional best man speeches, which are full of sexual innuendo, I’ve promised Dan and Anne that if there is anything slightly risqué, I’ll whip it out immediately …”

Although Ria did actually tell me Paul has always brightened up her life. Well, she actually said he never turned the lights off but it amounts to the same thing pretty much.

I’ll try to keep my speech short, because every extra minute I speak is an extra minute’s delay in witnessing how the Groom’s dance lessons worked out.

I do have to say though how lucky you are Dave, you’re leaving with a beautiful wife whom you love. And you, Miranda, you get to go home with such a nice new dress and beautiful bouquet of flowers, it’s great.

Jill, you are an amazing woman who deserves a wonderful husband. And I promise you I won’t rest until I get to the bottom of what’s gone wrong here.

Being asked to be the best man is about five minutes of glowing pride, followed by an eternity of panic and misery. Linda, I expect you had a similar experience when Paul asked you to be his wife.

I spoke to both Sally and Paul before the Wedding and I asked Paul what he was looking for in Marriage – he said “Love, happiness and a long life together.” When I asked Sally the same question – she replied – A coffee percolator!

Speaking of Jane, I would like to say how beautiful she looks today in that fantastic dress …Dan likes it too, as he told me in the church it will blend in just nicely well with the rest of the kitchen.

Someone once said that marriage is a 50/50 partnership, but anyone who believes that clearly knows nothing about women or fractions!”

When I saw Linda heading up the aisle with her father, I thought “At last she’s seen sense, and got herself a man with looks and money.”

Before proposing, Paul went to ask Linda’s father for her hand in marriage. He said that it was fine by him, providing Paul took the hand that had spent 20 years fishing into his wallet!

I recognize my place here; being best man at a wedding is like being the dead body at a funeral. You’re expected to be there, but if you say too much people start freaking out.

If you can’t hear me in the back, let the silence in the front assure you that you’re not really missing out on anything.

A Best Man is like a dog. You love him, care about him, and he’s only thrown up and ruined your upholstery twice.

I would like to start by saying what a pleasure it is to be Best Man at Jack and Jill’s wedding. Jack made me compete for this honor today, but I was able to beat Mark the Bartender over there in rock-paper-scissors, so here I am!

I found the speech length really difficult to settle on. At one point, it ran to almost 70 minutes, so I cut it down to a five-minute speech but I just felt like too many important things were being left out. So I came to a compromise – I’m going to read the five-minute speech. Then straight afterwards, I’ll do 70-minute one and you guys can tell me which speech I should use.

What can you say about a man who came from humble beginnings and is now rising to the top of his industry based solely on his intelligence, grit and willpower? A man whose charisma knows no bounds and who has already distinguished himself amongst his peers? Because I’m trying to write my Tinder profile and I’m having trouble summarizing myself.

When I sat down to write this speech I Googled “perfect best man speech”, but you had to pay to read the examples and I didn’t think it was worth it, so I’m gonna wing it.

I admit, I’m extremely nervous right now. As the people sitting near to me at the table can testify, it really is possible to smell fear.”

I must admit, I’m not used to speaking in public. Until now I thought a toastmaster was a kitchen appliance.

The trouble with being the best man at a wedding is that you never get to prove it.

You know, it’s been said that being asked to be best man is like being asked to make love to Camilla Parker Bowles.. It’s a great honor but you don’t really want to do it!

I’ve been anxious about giving this speech for a while now. Fortunately last night I slept like a baby. Waking up every two hours and bawling my eyes out. Ten minutes ago, I had to ask a complete stranger to burp me.

Dave was telling me that the amazing meal this evening was charged on a cost-per-head basis, so, on the bride and groom’s behalf, I’d like to thank the following people for not coming…

What’s the difference between in-laws and out-laws? Outlaws are wanted.”

Leading up to today John and Jane were having an issue with the seating plan. Who would sit comfortably in here & who would have to get up and stand during the speeches so we decided to use wedding present list, biggest presents at front and work it back from there. So hopefully you can hear me at the back when I say on behalf of Jane and John thank‐you very much for the teaspoons.

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Hey there! Your friend’s wedding is just around the corner, and he’s chosen you to be the best man? Crafting the perfect best man speech might seem daunting, but trust us, it’s simpler than you imagine.

Below, you’ll find a wealth of tips and examples from Wedding Forward team to guide you through crafting a best man speech that will leave a lasting impression. Moreover, our editorial team interviewed two distinguished experts in the field: Mindy Weiss, the founder of Mindy Weiss Party Consultants and a best-selling author, and Steven Greitzer, a wedding tech entrepreneur and officiant, serving as CEO of Provenance . Their invaluable tips and advice also have been integrated into this article.

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Top Best Man Speech Examples

It is much easier to write a best man speech when you have some examples to draw upon for inspiration. That’s why Wedding Forward team have prepared variety collection of inspired best man speech to help you craft your own!

Best Man Speech For Friend

Best Man Speech for Brother

“Good evening, hope everyone is having a good time tonight. I feel very privileged and honored to be standing here tonight celebrating this lovely union. Two years ago, Matt gave the best man speech at my wedding and made a lot of awkward jokes. So needless to say, I’ve been waiting for this moment for a really long time! For those who don’t know, I am Matt’s brother, Mike. I first met Matt when I was two years old at our parent’s house in Boston. To be quite honest, I wasn’t thrilled because I really wanted a sister. And I think he knew because Matt would do ridiculous things like throw my toothbrush in the toilet, pour water at me when I was asleep and run across the room naked when I had any friends over. This made me less popular than I already was. Matt always excelled in school, was captain of the debate team (apologies to Cara, but he can argue his way out of anything!) and can make a mean steak. The truth is, despite him being an annoying brother at the time, I came out winning in the end. Because of him and this beautiful night, I am getting the sister I always wanted. Cara, you’re beautiful and our family loves you so much. Thank you for making my brother so happy. Let’s celebrate this amazing union and raise a glass to the newlyweds ! On behalf of the groomsmen and bridesmaids, we’d like to wish you a life full of love, happiness, and joy. To everyone who made tonight happen, thank you. You’ve made this night very special.” Source

Short Best Man Speech

“Ladies and gentlemen, may I have your attention, please? As the best man, I stand here today to say a few words about the remarkable love story between my incredible friend, [groom’s name], and his beautiful bride, [bride’s name]. [Groom’s name] and I have been through thick and thin together, and I’ve had the privilege of witnessing his growth as a person. But it wasn’t until [bride’s name] came into his life that I saw a change I can only describe as transformative. Their love is like a beacon, guiding them through life’s ups and downs. So here’s to the newlyweds—a couple who have found not just love, but true companionship. May your journey be filled with happiness, passion, and an everlasting bond.”

Funny Best Man Speech Examples

Best man talk for adam and kate.

“Adam and Kate – What a great day to get married! Marriage carries new responsibilities. Kate – from now on, you should never argue or disagree with Adam, because he is now the head of the family and the king of his castle. You will be expected to keep your hair and make-up perfect at all times – to dress in a way that pleases Adam. You should cook his favorite meals every night and encourage him to go out with his friends on a regular basis. Do these simple things and your marriage will be blessed with many years of happiness. Kate – I know that Adam loves you very much… because he spent a long time writing this speech for me. Congratulations to the both of you!” Source

Best Man Presentation for Sarah & Simon

“Sarah & Simon – every great relationship starts with rings. In the beginning, the phone would ring and just the thought of speaking to one another was exciting. Your love grew and so did your commitment to each other. The engagement ring soon came after. There were no doubts… your love was true. The engagement ring has now turned into a wedding ring and we are all here today to celebrate your marriage. Now of course… the suffer-ring begins. (smile and raise your glass) Peace and happiness to the new bride and groom!” Source

Speech for Neil and Claire

“Hi my name is Paul and Neil has asked me to be his best man for this wonderful occasion. I would like to say it is a very special honor but with it, comes the responsibility of giving the bloody speech. I would not say it is very comfortable to wear a tuxedo in a 30-degree church, which is not air-conditioned. The church ceremony I’m sure you’ll all agree was a wonderful, wonderful occasion. Maybe a little hot, but I’m glad to see so many of you have replaced your electrolytes with fuel of the alcoholic kind since the reception began. I have known Neil and Claire for_________ [how many years] years. You might say Neil and I met by accident, but it is no accident that Neil met Claire. If you know Neil you know he is an excellent athlete, in fact I noticed his Athletes foot right away. This was a man who had his knees and ankles shaved, for easy taping. I knew this was a hard-core sports fanatic. We both share a tremendous love of football and basketball. For many years, we have had a running bet during the season as to who will score more goals or more runs which of course, I always won. Neil is a ______________ [Groom’s Occupation] in Truro, and I thought__________________________________[Funny or quirky aspect about grooms occupation] Neil is a man who has dedicated his life to __________________[Grooms occupation] And now I’m sure will use his experience with ___________________________[what the Groom does in his occupation] in his marriage with Claire. It is great that Neil found Claire. He has always been looking for someone young, dynamic, intelligent, attractive, and with good health insurance. Neil and Claire met_________________________ [where they meet], But I have it on good authority that Neil started looking for a wife on the internet. And with a multitude of resources at his fingertips, he found some really great stuff, but sadly was unable to find himself a suitable partner. That is, until I mentioned to him that the correct category to be looking should be Woman Seeking Man. I explained the way it works, send an old picture when you still had lots of hair, lie about your height and weight, and at all other times be sincere and honest. I imagine that when Neil and Claire met and introduced each other he said I’m Neil and she said, “I need a Diamond.” So, Neil said, sure let’s pick one out. Claire is a Diamond. Neil is a gem; I think together they make beautiful jewellery. No Marriage would be complete without some brotherly advice to help set you on your way… So I canvassed the room and got some really good stuff for you! Love, honor and cherish each other, and don’t forget to take out the garbage. Your wife is always right. Just in case she is not right, refer back to #2. Always, yes always, notice every new hairstyle or dress. Do something nice for each other every single day. If she asks if something makes her look fat the answer is categorically, NO. Flowers are always a good Idea, even if you are not in trouble. There is really nothing better than a good foot rub or massage. Your wife is more important than sports. I guess. Even the cup final. It is a great joy for me to see Neil and Claire so happy. You learn things when you get older. Hmmm, I mean more mature. You make better decisions, isn’t it great that two people would entwine and commit to each other for life. Love, isn’t that what it is all about? We are here to celebrate that glorious event and this ceremony is all about letting the world know how much Neil and Claire’s love for each other is a reflection of one’s own soul in another’s. Anyway, it is time to celebrate the joyous and unbridled love that these two spectacular people will share the rest of their lives. Would you please stand now and join me in a toast. To love and laughter and happily ever after.” Source

What are the key elements that should be included in a memorable and heartfelt best man’s speech?

That is what Steven Greitzer, wedding tech entrepreneur and officiant, CEO of Provenance, said:

“There are many key elements to take into account when pulling together a great toast:

• Include 2-3 stories in your speech that capture the essence of the groom and your friendship.
• Make sure your speech is appropriate by discussing “no-go’s” with the couple beforehand.
• Acknowledge the groom’s partner in your speech and speak about how the relationship has helped the groom grow (more on that below).
• Offer a thematic takeaway, such as the importance of friendship or the strength of the couple’s love.
• Be sure to practice

The Provenance Toast Builder is the best and easiest way to make sure your wedding toast captures what you’re trying to say.”

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How to Write a Best Man Speech

For a great wedding speech, there are some simple rules you have to follow. Here you will find examples of best man speeches Dos and Don’ts from our editors.

• Plan your speech ahead (think about your best man speech structure, choose formal or funny style) and practice.
• Tell a short story ( keep the speech to about 5 minutes or less ) with jokes (2 or 3 will be enough).
• Get sentimental at some point, make compliments to the bride.
• Finish on an optimistic note (end your speech with love quotes or wishes for the happy couple).
• Be thankful (express gratitude towards the couple, their family, and anyone who helped make the wedding happen).

Don’ts

• Do not cross the 2-5 mins time limit.
• Do not make it about you.
• Avoid dirty jokes.
• Do not ignore the bride. Let her know how happy you are, that she is ending up with your friend.
• Avoid rude remarks. Keep your manners in check, even if it’s for a day.

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Best Man Speech Templates

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When creating the Best Man speech outline for your talk, include the following elements to involve everyone, making one and all feel that they are important participants in the merrymaking for the newlywed couple:

Use a Magnetic Opening Line

The opening words of your Best Man presentation should grab everyone’s attention. If you favor a romantic approach to start off a speech, you can start with a statement like, “True love wins all,” and then list the various ways the Groom, through his true love for his Bride, has won all her attention and affections.

• If some of the Groom’s favorite hip singer-songwriters date back to the 1960s and ’70s, you can quote from Bob Dylan: “ Love is just a four-letter word ,” going on to mention the many words of just four letters that relate to feelings of true love like “ kiss, hold, keep and ever. ” Be intent and clever with the use of language, and you will achieve better engagement with your audience.
• If your tastes (or the tastes of the newlyweds) are somewhat more classical, you can start by quoting the familiar line from Elizabeth Barrett Browning: “ How do I love thee, Let me count the ways. ” This popular line has been repeated in many variations by countless poets and songwriters ever since, so have no fear of labeling yourself as an egghead when quoting it. This opening line will also give you a chance to mention the main virtues and attributes of the Bride.

Thank the Other Speakers

It is always appropriate and appreciated if you thank the other speakers for the occasion. These speakers usually include the Maid of Honor and the Bride’s Father as well as any other members of the wedding party that the Bride and Groom ask to speak.

It is always good form to express your gratitude for their contributions to this special moment and event. Never criticize or make jokes about what they say or how they say it. Just thank them politely and continue with your own remarks since you know very well how to write a best-man speech.

Congratulate the Newlyweds

Congratulate the wedding couple on this exciting first chapter in their lives together. This is the ideal time to tell the guests how you met your great friend, the Groom. If you happen to be the Groom’s brother or cousin, you can recreate moments of hilarity from your younger years together or shared experiences of suspense or intrigue.

Recalling funny incidents or telling best man speech jokes involving the Groom is totally acceptable, so long as you keep the format and content clean and respectable.

Expert tip from Steven Greitzer:

“A great best man speech strikes the perfect balance of humor and sincerity. You want it to be memorable, but for the right reasons. Check with the couple to see if there are any topics you need to avoid or any topics that might be of particular concern to anyone in the audience. In the Provenance Toast Builder , the couple has the option to call out any topic they do, or don’t, want you to include. If you have any jokes in your speech you are unsure about, run them by someone who is close to the couple who you trust. And if you have a feeling that a joke might upset them or not land well with the audience – err on the side of caution. It’s their big day, not yours! There’s a way to have a funny best man speech that doesn’t upset grandma. Find the balance.”

Compliment the Bride

Now it is time to pull out the stops and give high praise to the Bride using your knowledge of how to write a best man talk. Highlight and emphasize her finest qualities, talents, and accomplishments.

Let them know just how overjoyed you are to celebrate the marriage of these two special people of whom you think so highly. Then give the Bride another charming compliment using top-quality speech writing tips.

Read Messages from Absent Guests

Take time to read some messages from invited guests who could not attend the wedding. This gesture is always appreciated by the absent guests and the Bride and Groom, alike. It also includes their congratulatory thoughts and best wishes for the newlyweds in the day’s special events.

Include a Famous Quote or Poem

Enchant your attentive audience of wedding guests further by reciting a well-known quote or poem that suits the occasion. This adds a creative literary element to the post-wedding celebration for the honored couple. You may want to consult other templates, including a listing of groomsman speech examples.

Best Man Speech Quotes

Choose Best Man speech quotes that reflect the couple’s personality, add humor, and keep them relevant.

Love is like war: easy to begin but very hard to stop. H. L. Mencken

Marriage is a workshop where husband works and wife shops.

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Mignon McLaughlin

Propose a Toast to the Wedding Couple

Raise your glass of champagne so the guests can eagerly follow your example as you deliver a heartfelt toast of optimistic good wishes for the excellent health, increasing wealth, and everlasting happiness of the newlyweds.

The toast should be given with gusto and true sincerity and may include mild best-man speech jokes. Remember that you speak for all the well-wishers in the room who want all the best for this newly married Bride and Groom, so put your best energy, spirit, and talents for convincing elocution into this featured Grand Finale.

The “Thankful” Speech

“Hello everyone, it’s such a pleasure to be here tonight as [Groom’s] best man. And I want to begin with saying what an honor it is that I was chosen to stand by your side today. You’ve always been someone that I looked up to and I am just beyond grateful that I get to share in this moment with you and [Bride]. [Groom] is someone that I’ve come to care for greatly over the years and I am so happy that he’s found someone to share his life with and start a family with. [Groom] has always been my right hand throughout the biggest moments of my life and I can’t wait to be able to watch everything beautiful unfold for the two of you. Cheers to a lifetime of happiness!”

The “Smart Move” Speech

“There’s an old saying about friendship that reads, “It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them,” and goodness that couldn’t be more true for me and my boy, [Groom]. I could go into all the funny stories that include some of that stupidity but instead I’d rather focus on all the smart moves he’s made. His friendships, the relationship he has with his family, his career, it’s all a reflection of the incredible man he’s become. But really, the smartest move he’s made is marrying you, [Bride]. Let’s toast to the best decision [Groom’s] ever made. I wish you a lifetime of love, happiness and success.”

The “She Was the One” Speech

“Ladies and gentlemen, thank you all for coming out tonight to celebrate the wedding of two people we all love, [Bride] & [Groom]! When I first met [Bride], I knew that she was the woman [Groom] would end up marrying. Even if it hadn’t dawned on him quite yet, it was obvious to everyone around just how smitten he was with her. They talk about a bride’s glow, but this man was shining since the moment he met [Bride]. He changed for the better without realizing it. And we all could see it. He couldn’t stop talking about her. We’d go out with the boys and [Bride’s] name would be brought up every two minutes. So, when he came to me to tell me that he would be proposing my only response was, ‘Well, it’s about time!’ There’s something special about these two. They go together without forcing it. They love each other without fighting it. And they care about each other without thinking about it. She was the one from the very beginning [Groom], and we’re all so happy to be able to take part in your big day. Cheers!”

Best Man Speech Opening Lines

Your opening lines are your best-man speech icebreakers, so it’s important that they are good. Grab the attention of your guests with witty best man speech openers such as these.

• “I would like to begin by congratulating the groom on his excellent taste in best men. He has really outdone himself this time, and I’m pleased.”
• “I have been asked by the bride and groom not to share any embarrassing stories, crude jokes, or pranks during my best man’s speech… so I guess that’ll be it from me! Thank you all for listening.”
• “If you cannot hear me at the back, nothing to worry about. By the complete silence in the front row here, you can rest assured that you’re really not missing much.”
• “Is anyone here this afternoon feeling nervous and queasy at the thought of what lies ahead? If you are, it’s probably because you’ve just married (groom’s name).”
• “All of you here who really know the bride must know that she is a wonderful person who deserves a good husband. Thank goodness (groom’s name) married her before she found one.”

Best Man Speech One-Liners

I am about to make the groom cry. I just received the food bill.

He is smart, tall, kind, generous….. Who am I actually talking about?

Hi, the groom is a great friend. Our friendship is 2hours old. I was hired as he’s got no friends.

His colleagues describe him as a first-class banker – I may have misheard them.

I heard some time that marriage is a 50/50 affair. Believe that at your own peril. We have factors called women and improper fractions.

One-liners are sharp jokes delivered in one sentence. A good one-liner is concise and meaningful. It is instant but loaded with humor that can keep the guests laughing for a while. It is important that the best man speech jokes contain one-liners.

Best Man Toasts Examples

“It’s been an emotional day, even the cake is in tiers.”

“Folks, I have been told I am not allowed to have a drink until AFTER my speech. If I seem like I’m in a hurry to finish, it’s because I am.”

“I hope the two of you have the two essential things it takes to have a successful marriage 1) a sense of humor 2) selective hearing.”

“Psychiatrists say that girls tend to marry men like their fathers. That must be why mothers cry at weddings.”

“Love is not about how often you say I love you, but how often you show that it’s true.”

Best Man Speech Jokes

“They say marriage is a journey, and tonight we celebrate the beginning of an epic road trip for the bride and groom. Just remember, guys, never forget to ask for directions!”

“They say the key to a successful marriage is patience, understanding, and a remote control with fresh batteries. Groom, make sure you always keep that remote handy!”

“Let’s raise our glasses to the newlyweds: may their love be like Wi-Fi, strong and never disconnecting, even in the midst of Netflix binges!”

“As the best man, it’s my duty to share a piece of advice with the groom: in marriage, always remember that a happy wife means a happy life… and also remember to nod and agree, even when she’s wrong!”

“Marriage is a lifelong commitment, just like the gym membership the groom signed up for and rarely uses. But this time, there are no cancellation fees!”

Best Man Speech Delivery and Presentation Tips

When delivering your best man speech, it’s essential to captivate the audience with your words and presence. Here are some tips to ensure a memorable and engaging delivery:

• Maintain good eye contact with the audience: Look directly at the guests while speaking. Eye contact helps establish a connection and shows that you are genuinely engaged with them.
• Speak clearly and at a moderate pace: Enunciate your words clearly and avoid rushing through your speech. Speaking at a moderate pace allows the audience to understand and absorb your message effectively.
• Use appropriate gestures and body language to enhance your delivery: Use hand gestures and body movements to emphasize key points and add energy to your speech. However, be mindful of not going overboard and distracting from your message.
• Incorporate pauses for comedic timing and to allow the audience to react: Timing is crucial, especially when delivering humorous anecdotes or punchlines. Pause before and after delivering a joke to build anticipation and give the audience time to laugh and react.

By implementing these delivery and presentation tips, you’ll engage the audience, leave a lasting impression, and make your best man speech a memorable highlight of the wedding celebration.

Are there any common mistakes to avoid, and how to overcome nervousness or stage fright?

According to wedding planner Mindy Weiss, “speeches can help make or break a wedding” . And we agree with this opinion. Speeches have the power to elevate the celebration, bringing tears of joy and laughter to guests, while also creating cherished memories that last a lifetime. However, poorly delivered speeches can disrupt the flow and energy of the event, leaving guests feeling disconnected and the couple disappointed.

Steven Greitzer convinced that one of the biggest mistakes is when the person giving the wedding speech only talks about the partner they’re closest with, unintentionally making the other partner feel left out and unimportant: “To help remedy this, the Provenance Toast Builder gives you the option to either talk about each partner 50/50, or to talk 70% about your person and 30% about their partner (which is a good rule of thumb). The Toast Builder also has thoughtful prompts to encourage you to share why they’re both 1) good people and 2) a great match for each other.

What is the best man supposed to say in his speech?

The best man should share anecdotes about the groom, praise the couple, thank everyone, and propose a toast. Keep it lighthearted and sincere.

What do you say in a short speech for Bestman?

In a short best man speech, express gratitude, share a memorable moment about the groom, and toast to the couple’s happiness. Keep it concise and impactful.

How do I write a good man speech?

Write a good best man speech by including humor, expressing genuine sentiments, avoiding inappropriate content, and keeping it focused on the couple. Practice for smooth delivery and timing.

There is truly something for everyone today to create the perfect Best Man Speech for that very special couple and their after-wedding reception, dinner, and celebration. Fond remembrances, amusing stories and anecdotes, humorous quotes, and emotional phrases end with the joyful ring of a clever, yet heartfelt Best Man Toast to the Bride and Groom. The contemporary wedding is truly a work of love and art with all the trimmings and enticing treats for one and all to treasure and enjoy.

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How to End a Best Man Speech: Tips and Examples

One of the most crucial aspects of giving a best man speech is knowing how to end it. Make the newlyweds feel special and leave the audience with a memorable impression. However, how precisely do you do that?

There are numerous ways to conclude a best man speech, and ultimately it comes down to your preferences and the overall mood of the speech.

Some individuals like to conclude with a sentimental toast, while others like to do so with a joke or anecdote that makes them laugh.

Whatever strategy you choose, the most important thing is to maintain it in a way that is appropriate for the couple and their families.

In this post, we’ll look at a few ideas and techniques for best man speeches that will leave the audience with a lasting impression.

We will give examples of several speech closings, ranging from sentimental to hilarious, and offer advice on how to pick the best strategy for your individual speech.

Therefore, whether you’re a seasoned public speaker or this is your first time serving as best man , we have all the information you need to wrap up your speech in confidence and flair.

The Importance of Ending Your Best Man Speech Well

When it comes to giving a best man speech, the ending is just as important as the beginning and middle.

A strong conclusion can leave a lasting impression on the audience and make the newlyweds feel truly special. Here are some reasons why ending your best man speech well is crucial:

• Leaving a positive lasting impression:  The ending of your speech is what people will remember most. By ending on a high note, you can ensure that the guests leave with a positive impression of both you and the newlyweds.
• Making the newlyweds feel special:  The best man speech is a chance to celebrate the newlyweds and their love. A heartfelt and sincere ending can make the couple feel truly special and loved.
• Wrapping up your speech effectively:  A strong ending can help to tie together the different parts of your speech and leave the audience feeling satisfied.

To ensure that your best man’s speech ends well, it’s important to consider your audience and the tone of your speech.

If your speech has been humorous, a light-hearted and funny ending can work well. On the other hand, if your speech has been more sentimental, a heartfelt and sincere ending may be more appropriate.

Some ways to end your best man speech include:

• A toast to the newlyweds:  Ending your speech with a toast to the newlyweds is a classic way to wrap up your speech. Just make sure to keep it short and sweet.
• A final joke or anecdote:  If your speech has been humorous, ending with a final joke or anecdote can be a great way to leave the audience laughing.
• A heartfelt message:  If you want to end your speech on a more sentimental note, consider sharing a heartfelt message with the newlyweds. This can be a great way to make the couple feel truly loved and appreciated.

Remember, the ending of your best man speech is just as important as the rest of your speech.

By taking the time to craft a strong and memorable conclusion, you can leave a lasting impression on the audience and make the newlyweds feel truly special.

How to End Your Best Man Speech

As the best man, you have the important task of delivering the final words of your speech.

It’s important to end on a strong note that will leave a lasting impression on the happy couple and their guests. Here are some tips to help you end your best man speech with style.

Finish Strong

Your ending should be memorable and powerful. You can end with a heartfelt message, a funny joke or a toast to the newlyweds.

Whatever you choose, make sure it reflects your relationship with the couple and your wishes for their future together. Keep in mind that your ending is the last thing people will remember from your speech, so make it count.

Keep it Short and Sweet

While you want to end strong, you don’t want to overstay your welcome. Keep your ending short and sweet, so you don’t lose your audience’s attention. A good rule of thumb is to keep your ending no longer than a minute or two.

End with a Poem or Inspirational Quote

If you’re looking for a more poetic or inspirational way to end your speech, consider ending with a quote or poem that reflects the couple’s love story. You can find many great quotes and poems online that will inspire and uplift your audience.

Raise a Glass

A classic way to end a best man speech is to raise a glass to the happy couple. This is a great way to toast to their future together and show your respect and admiration for them.

Thank the Happy Couple and the Audience

Finally, don’t forget to thank the happy couple and their guests for allowing you to be a part of their special day.

Express your gratitude for the opportunity to be the best man and share in their joy. This is a great way to end your speech on a sincere and upbeat note.

Ending your best man speech can be a challenge, but with a little research and planning, you can create a powerful and memorable ending that will leave a lasting impression on the happy couple and their guests.

Remember to keep it sincere, upbeat, and respectful, and you’ll do just fine.

When it comes to ending a best man speech, it’s important to finish strong. We want to leave a lasting impression on the newlyweds and their guests.

Here are some tips to ensure that your closing remarks are memorable and effective:

• Recap the highlights:  Briefly summarize the key points of your speech, highlighting the most memorable moments. This will help reinforce your message and ensure that your audience remembers the important parts of your speech.
• Offer congratulations:  Congratulate the newlyweds on their marriage and offer your best wishes for their future together. This is a great opportunity to express your happiness for the couple and to show your support for their relationship.
• End with a toast:  A toast is a traditional way to end a best man speech. Raise your glass and propose a toast to the newlyweds, wishing them a lifetime of love and happiness. Make sure to use a heartfelt and sincere tone, and avoid any inappropriate or offensive comments.
• Keep it concise:  Remember that your closing remarks should be brief and to the point. Avoid rambling or going off on tangents, and stick to the main message of your speech. This will help ensure that your audience stays engaged and interested until the very end.

By following these tips, we can ensure that our best man speech ends on a high note.

With a little preparation and a lot of heart, we can leave a lasting impression on the newlyweds and their guests, and help make their wedding day even more special.

When it comes to ending a best man speech, it’s important to keep it brief. We don’t want to drag on for too long and bore the guests, but we also want to make sure we leave a lasting impression.

A short and sweet ending is the perfect way to wrap up our speech. One way to keep it short is to avoid going off on tangents.

We should stick to our main points and not get sidetracked with unnecessary stories or jokes.

We can also use bullet points to help us stay on track and keep our ending concise.

Another way to keep it sweet is to end with a memorable quote or phrase. This can be a heartfelt message to the newlyweds or a funny one-liner that ties into our speech.

Whatever it is, it should be something that the guests will remember long after the wedding is over.

This is a great way to end our speech on a positive note and show our appreciation for the opportunity to be the best man.

Keeping our ending short and sweet is the perfect way to wrap up our best man speech.

By staying on track, using memorable quotes, and thanking the newlyweds, we can leave a lasting impression on the guests and make the wedding day even more special.

Sometimes the best way to end a best man speech is with a poem or inspirational quote. This can be a great way to leave the newlyweds with a lasting message that they can carry with them throughout their marriage.

Here are some tips to help you choose the perfect poem or quote to end your speech.

First, consider the tone of your speech. If you’ve been telling funny stories and making jokes, you might want to choose a poem or quote that is lighthearted and humorous.

On the other hand, if your speech has been more serious and sentimental, you might want to choose a more heartfelt poem or quote.

Next, think about the couple. What are their interests and values? Is there a poem or quote that speaks to their relationship or their hopes for the future? Choosing a poem or quote that is meaningful to the couple can add a special touch to your speech.

When it comes to delivering the poem or quote, make sure to practice beforehand. You want to be able to deliver it with confidence and emotion.

Consider printing out the poem or quote and reading it from the paper, or memorizing it if you feel comfortable.

Ending your best man speech with a poem or inspirational quote can be a beautiful way to leave a lasting impression on the newlyweds.

By considering the tone of your speech and the couple’s interests and values, you can choose a poem or quote that is meaningful and special. Remember to practice beforehand so you can deliver it with confidence and emotion.

When it comes to ending a best man speech, raising a glass is a classic and effective way to conclude.

It’s a chance to toast the newlyweds and express your well wishes for their future together. Here are a few tips to make sure your toast hits the mark:

• Keep it short and sweet: A long-winded toast can drag on and lose its impact. Keep your toast to a few sentences or a short paragraph.
• Use the couple’s names: Make sure to include the names of the bride and groom in your toast. This personal touch will make the toast feel more meaningful.
• Express your wishes for their future: Whether it’s health, happiness, or success, express your sincere hopes for the couple’s future together.
• Raise your glass: Don’t forget to actually raise your glass during the toast! This is a visual cue that signals to the audience that the toast is ending.

Here are a few examples of toasts that you can use as inspiration:

• “To [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], may your love for each other continue to grow stronger with each passing year. Cheers!”
• “We raise a glass to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], wishing you a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness. Congratulations!”
• “Here’s to [Bride’s Name] and [Groom’s Name], two people who are truly meant to be together. May your love story continue to inspire us all. Cheers!”

As the best man, it is important to express gratitude towards the happy couple for giving you the honor to be their best man.

We can start by thanking the couple for their friendship and the opportunity to be part of their special day. This is a great way to show appreciation and make them feel special.

It is also important to thank the audience for their presence and support. We can acknowledge the effort and time they took to attend the wedding, especially those who traveled from far away.

This is a great way to make the audience feel appreciated and included.

One way to express gratitude towards the happy couple and the audience is by raising a toast.

We can propose a toast to the couple for their love and commitment towards each other, and to the audience for their presence and support.

This is a great way to end the speech on a positive note and leave a lasting impression.

In addition, we can also include a personal anecdote or story about the couple to show how much they mean to us.

This can be a heartwarming moment that will make the couple feel special and appreciated.

Thanking the happy couple and the audience is an important part of ending a best man speech.

It shows gratitude and appreciation towards those who made the wedding possible and memorable.

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357 Best Man Speech Quotes (Creative, Funny, Cute, Romantic)

We’ve curated a comprehensive collection of best man speech quotes tailored for various moods and themes.

We have divided them into several categories such as cute, creative, funny, unique, romantic, popular, or trending providing you with a diverse range of options.

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Creative Best Man Speech Quotes

• Love is not just looking at each other, it’s looking in the same direction.
• Marrying for love may be a bit risky, but it is so honest that God can’t help but smile on it.
• A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.
• Marriage is like a fine wine, if tended properly, it just gets better with age.
• They say opposites attract – he’s charming, she’s smart.
• In the art of marriage, the little things are the big things.
• Love is the canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination.
• To the world, you may be one person, but to one person you are the world.
• Marriage: where ‘Yes Dear’ are the magic words.
• Love is a journey, not a destination.
• Here’s to love, laughter, and a lifetime of happiness.
• Love is telling someone their hair extensions are showing.
• Marriage is the alliance of two people, one of whom never remembers birthdays and the other never forgets them.
• They say you don’t marry someone you can live with – you marry the person you cannot live without.
• Love isn’t something you find, love is something that finds you.
• The secret to a happy marriage remains a secret.
• A man is incomplete until he’s married, then he’s finished.
• Marriage is not just spiritual communion, it’s also remembering to take out the trash.
• They say marriages are made in Heaven, but so is thunder and lightning.
• Marriage is the golden ring in a chain whose beginning is a glance and whose ending is eternity.
• Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be.
• Love is a friendship set to music.
• To love and to be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.
• Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
• A great marriage is not when the perfect couple comes together, it’s when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
• Love is the poetry of the senses.
• In dreams and in love, there are no impossibilities.
• Love is the closest thing we have to magic.
• To love someone deeply gives you strength, being loved by someone deeply gives you courage.
• Love is not about how much you say ‘I love you’, but how much you prove that it’s true.

Romantic Best Man Speech Quotes

• Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.
• The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.
• True love stories never have endings.
• Love doesn’t make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
• You don’t marry someone you can live with – you marry the person you cannot live without.
• Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
• Love recognizes no barriers, it jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.
• A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
• The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved, loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.
• The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more.
• Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination.
• The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing.
• Love doesn’t sit there like a stone, it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.
• May your love be modern enough to survive the times and old-fashioned enough to last forever.
• Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.
• The highest happiness on earth is marriage.
• Where there is love there is life.
• Love is when the other person’s happiness is more important than your own.
• To the world you may be one person, but to one person you are the world.
• The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.

Inspirational Best Man Speech Quotes

• The greatest marriages are built on teamwork, mutual respect, and a healthy dose of admiration.
• The secret of a happy marriage is finding the right person, you know they’re right if you love to be with them all the time.
• Marriage is not about finding a person you can live with, it’s about finding the person you can’t live without.
• A great marriage isn’t something that just happens, it’s something that must be created.
• In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.
• Marriages, like a garden, take time to grow, but the harvest is rich unto those who patiently and tenderly care for the ground.
• Love is not about how many days, months, or years you’ve been together, it’s about how much you love each other every day.
• May your love be modern enough to survive the times, yet old-fashioned enough to last forever.
• To get the full value of joy, you must have someone to divide it with.
• Love is not a weakness, it is strong, only the sacrament of marriage can contain it.
• The best thing about a long-lasting marriage is the company.
• A good marriage is one where each partner secretly suspects they got the better deal.
• Love is a choice you make from moment to moment.
• We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
• The beauty of marriage is not always seen from the very beginning, but rather as love grows and develops over time.
• Love doesn’t make the world go round, love is what makes the trip worthwhile.
• Choose your love, love your choice.

Funny Best Man Speech Quotes

• Marriage is like a deck of cards, in the beginning all you need is two hearts and a diamond, but after a while, you wish you had a club and a spade.
• Love is blind, but marriage is a real eye-opener.
• Being married is like any other job; it helps if you like your boss.
• Remember, ‘Yawn’ is just ‘Yes’ spelled sideways.
• They say love is grand; divorce is about ten grand.
• Marriage is a workshop where the husband works and the wife shops.
• I always knew [groom] was smart, he found someone even smarter to marry him.
• The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret.
• They say when a man holds a woman’s hand before marriage, it is love; after marriage, it’s self-defense.
• Marriage is an adventure, like going to war.
• A toast to love, laughter, and happily ever after.
• I’m not saying she’s a keeper, but when [groom] tried to leave, she locked the door.
• They’re a match made in heaven.. well a match made in Tinder, but that’s close enough.
• Marriage is like a phone call in the night: first the ring, and then you wake up.
• I don’t know what makes for a perfect marriage, but laughing at the same joke for the last 30 years seems to work.
• Always remember the three rings of marriage – the engagement ring, the wedding ring, and the suffering.
• I’ve prepared a few lines for today, and after the fifth one, I should be fine.
• In life, it’s important to know when to stop arguing with your wife and just apologize.
• You don’t marry someone you can live with – you marry the person you cannot live without, or at least can’t escape from.
• I told [groom] that a happy wife equals a happy life.
• They say opposites attract – he’s got hair, she’s got patience.
• The most effective way to remember your wedding anniversary is to forget it once.
• Remember, marriage is a relationship where one person is always right and the other is the husband.
• [Groom] is the kind of guy you don’t have to worry about introducing your parents to, unless you expect to inherit.
• Love is like a backache, it doesn’t show up on X-rays, but you know it’s there.
• [Bride] has found her prince, [groom] found a princess, let’s hope they don’t turn into toads.
• I asked [groom] what kind of a wedding he wished for, He said, ‘The one that would make her my wife.’.
• [Bride] is perfect in every way, even her driving, which is perfect..ly terrifying.

Cute Best Man Speech Quotes

• Love is not about how many days, months, or years you have been together, it’s about how much you love each other every day.
• If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
• In a sea of people, my eyes will always search for you.
• You don’t marry the person you can live with, you marry the person you cannot live without.
• Love is like a butterfly, it goes where it pleases and it pleases wherever it goes.
• When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.
• You don’t marry someone you can live with, you marry your best friend.
• They are not just lovers, they are best friends.
• [Groom] stole her heart, so she’s stealing his last name.
• Here’s to love, laughter, and happily ever after.
• Once in a while, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale.
• A heart that loves is always young.
• They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for.
• You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.
• Love is not about finding the right person, but creating the right relationship.
• [Groom], you’re lucky to have her, but she’s even luckier to have you.
• Here’s to love and laughter and happily ever after.
• May your love be like good wine, grow stronger as it grows older.

Unique Best Man Speech Quotes

• Love is not just a verb, it’s you looking in the mirror.
• A good marriage is like a casserole, only those responsible for it really know what goes in it.
• Love is the eternal dance of our world, tune in.
• Love is not just a feeling, it’s an art.
• Love is a game that two can play and both win.
• Where there is love, there is life.
• Love doesn’t make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
• Love is the expansion of two natures in such fashion that each includes the other, each is enriched by the other.
• Love is a song that never ends.
• Life’s greatest happiness is to be convinced we are loved.
• In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.
• To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.
• Love is not something you feel, it’s something you do.
• A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together, it is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
• True love is the joy of life.
• Love is a friendship that has caught fire.

Catchy Best Man Speech Quotes

• Love is a lot like a backache, it doesn’t show up on X-rays, but you know it’s there.
• They say love is blind, but marriage is a real eye-opener.
• A toast to love, laughter, and the happily ever after.
• Marriage is like a walk in the park, Jurassic Park.
• Love is the spice of life – it’s also the main ingredient.
• Here’s to the past for all you’ve learned, to the present for all you share, to the future for all you look forward to together.
• Remember, a happy wife means a happy life.
• Love is like a good wine, it gets better with time.
• Marriage is a three-ring circus: engagement ring, wedding ring, and suffering.
• A man is incomplete until he’s married – then he’s finished.
• Keep calm and say ‘I do’.
• Love is an ocean of emotions entirely surrounded by expenses.
• Marriage lets you annoy one special person for the rest of your life.
• Love is the same as like, only sweatier.
• May your love be like the wind, strong enough to move the clouds, soft enough to never hurt, but always never ending.
• Marriage is not just spiritual communion, it also involves a lot of garbage disposal.
• Love makes the ride worthwhile.
• Marriages are made in heaven, but so are thunder and lightning.
• I’m not saying she’s a keeper, but when he tried to leave, she locked the door.
• Love is being stupid together.
• To love, laughter, and their happily ever after.
• They say you marry the person who can make you laugh in public and scream in bed.
• Marriage is the alliance of two people, one of whom never remembers birthdays and the other who never forgets them.
• If love is the answer, could you rephrase the question?
• Marrying a man is like buying something you’ve been admiring for a long time in a shop window.
• Love is a sweet dream, and marriage is the alarm clock.
• Here’s to a marriage that lasts as long as forever and is as happy as love.
• To the newlyweds: may your love be modern enough to survive the times and old-fashioned enough to last forever.

Clever Best Man Speech Quotes

• I asked [groom] what kind of a wedding he wished for, He said, ‘The one that would make her my wife’.

Happy Best Man Speech Quotes

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Popular Best Man Speech Quotes

• To love and to cherish, from this day forward.
• You don’t marry someone you can live with, you marry the person you cannot live without.
• Marriage is a journey, not a destination.

Trending Best Man Speech Quotes

• Here’s to love, laughter, and living happily ever after.
• Love is like a fine wine, it gets better with age.
• Love is the spice of life, it’s also the main ingredient.

Fancy Best Man Speech Quotes

• Marriage, a book of which the first chapter is written in poetry and the remaining chapters in prose.
• Love is the opulent tapestry of life, woven with threads of joy, passion, and adventure.
• In the grand theater of life, love is the most splendid production.
• True love is the royal road that leads to the kingdom of the heart.
• Marriage is like a fine vintage wine; it only improves with age.
• To love and be loved is to bask in the sunlight of the soul.
• Love is the enchanting journey that leads to the abode of the heart.
• Marriage is not just a harmonious union, but a partnership of elegance and grace.
• The language of love is a symphony that resonates in the hearts of lovers.
• In the garden of love, marriage is the most beautiful flower.
• Love is not just a feeling, it’s an art of the highest order.
• A great marriage is like a masterful sonnet; it follows rhythm and rhyme through the passage of time.
• Love is the golden thread that ties our hearts and souls together.
• In the dance of life, love is the music that makes the world spin.
• Marriage is a mosaic you build with your spouse, millions of tiny moments that create your love story.
• Love is the timeless tale that whispers in the winds of eternity.
• A happy marriage is like a grand feast, full of flavors, colors, and enduring love.
• Love is the aristocrat of feelings, reigning supreme in the kingdom of emotion.
• Marriage is not a destination but a journey adorned with the beauty of shared moments.
• Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty.
• The union of two hearts is a veritable masterpiece of life’s canvas.
• Love is the exquisite art of giving and taking with a heart full of joy.
• In the symphony of love, marriage is the crescendo that fills the air with melody.
• True love is a sacred flame that burns eternally, and none can dim its special glow or change its destiny.
• Marriage, the beautiful weaving of two lives into a tapestry rich with color and detail.
• Love is the poetry of the senses, the music of the heart.
• A great love is like a masterpiece; when you are in it, you know it’s a work of art.

Love Best Man Speech Quotes

• Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
• Love is not finding someone to live with, it’s finding someone you can’t live without.

Cool Best Man Speech Quotes

• Love is the ultimate adventure, where even the smallest moments become epic.
• Marriage: the final frontier of [groom’s] bachelor life.
• Here’s to love, laughter, and the awesome journey ahead.
• [Bride] and [groom], the dynamic duo of love.
• In the story of life, their love is the best chapter.
• They’re not just lovers, they’re the co-authors of their love story.
• Love is not a word, it’s an attitude.
• A toast to the coolest couple who makes love look easy.
• [Groom], you just upgraded to a lifelong partnership with [bride].
• Here’s to the ride of your lives, better buckle up for love and laughter.
• The most epic love story just turned into a saga.
• Love is the ultimate mixtape that never stops playing.
• Their love is the kind that would make even Romeo and Juliet jealous.
• [Bride] and [groom], the real-life version of a modern fairy tale.
• Here’s to the couple who makes ‘happily ever after’ look effortlessly cool.
• To the Batman and Robin of romantic adventures.
• Their love story is my new favorite movie.
• Here’s to the power couple who’s about to conquer the world together.
• Love is the secret ingredient in their recipe of life.
• Their love is like a rare vintage, timeless and priceless.
• Here’s to the love that’s more thrilling than a superhero movie.
• To the couple who’s love story is nothing short of legendary.
• They’re the king and queen of hearts in the game of love.
• Love is their superpower, and together they’re invincible.
• Here’s to the love that’s cooler than the other side of the pillow.
• To the couple who’s love is as deep as the ocean and as high as the sky.
• Their love is the trendsetter for romantic epics.
• They’re not just in love, they’re love pioneers.
• Here’s to the couple who makes heartbeats skip and love look like art.
• To the lovebirds who make cool look effortless and love look limitless.

Witty Best Man Speech Quotes

• Marriage is like a deck of cards, in the beginning, all you need is two hearts and a diamond, and later, a club and a spade.
• The four most important words in any marriage: ‘I’ll do the dishes.’
• In the world of WiFi, [bride] and [groom] just found the best connection.
• Behind every great man is a woman rolling her eyes.
• [Groom], enjoy your last moments of making decisions alone.
• Marriage is like a public toilet, those waiting outside are desperate to get in, and those inside are desperate to come out.
• [Groom], you’re now officially ‘under new management.’
• Why are wives more dangerous than the Mafia? The mafia wants either your money or life, wives want both!
• Marriage is a workshop: where the man works and the woman shops.
• [Bride] and [groom], the perfect blend of love, laughter, and craziness.
• Love is a sweet dream, marriage is the alarm clock.
• [Groom], you’ve always been a player in the game of love, but now you’re officially off the market.
• Marriage: where ‘Yes, dear’ is the main part of your vocabulary.
• [Bride] and [groom], the best thing since sliced bread.
• To keep your marriage brimming, with love in the loving cup, whenever you’re wrong, admit it; whenever you’re right, shut up.
• Marriage is like a walk in the park… Jurassic Park.
• [Groom], welcome to the dangerous world of ‘Yes, dear.’
• [Groom], remember, in marriage you don’t lose your independence, you just learn how to negotiate it.
• Here’s to [bride] and [groom], who show us that blind dates can lead to great fates.
• They say love is blind but marriage is the real eye-opener.
• To love, laughter, and [groom] learning to say ‘sorry.’
• [Groom], your bachelor degree is hereby revoked.
• Marriage is the bond between a person who never remembers anniversaries and another who never forgets them.
• [Bride] and [groom], who prove that love is the best adventure, next to binge-watching Netflix.
• Here’s to their love: may it be modern enough to survive the times and old-fashioned enough to last forever.
• [Groom], remember, a happy wife is a happy life.
• To the couple whose love story gives fairy tales a run for their money.

Punny Best Man Speech Quotes

• [Groom], you’ve now got a ‘wif-fi’ connection that lasts a lifetime.
• It’s time to get this p-arty started – ‘p’ for partnership.
• To [bride] and [groom], who are ‘mint’ to be together.
• Their love is ‘wheel-y’ special, let’s bike together down the road of life.
• [Groom], you’ve been ‘swept’ off your feet, hopefully not with a broom.
• Here’s to the perfect ‘pair’ – like wine and cheese, but better.
• They’re not just ‘knot’ getting married, they’re tying the ‘knot.’
• [Bride] and [groom] are the ‘reel’ deal.
• It’s ‘o-fish-ally’ the best day ever!
• ‘Owl’ always remember this beautiful day.
• They have a ‘whale’ of a time together.
• Their love ‘beats’ everything.
• They’ve got a ‘pizza’ my heart.
• This wedding is ‘soup-erb.’
• They’re the ‘grate-est’ couple ever.
• Let’s ‘taco’ about love.
• [Groom], you’ve ‘bean’ amazing, but [bride] is your better half.
• Let’s give a ‘toast’ to the happy couple.
• Love like theirs is ‘rare,’ medium rare.
• They’re ‘butter’ together.
• [Groom], you’re ‘bacon’ her happy.
• They ‘avo-cardio’ love.
• ‘Lettuce’ celebrate their love.
• Their love is ‘brewing’ stronger each day.
• They’ve got the ‘egg-factor.’
• Love is sweet, and so is this ‘candy-d’ moment.
• They’re a ‘matcha’ made in heaven.
• Their love ‘sparks’ joy.
• Here’s to their ‘berry’ special love.
• [Groom] and [bride], the ‘pear-fect’ couple.

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The Most Memorable TV and Movie Best Man Wedding Speeches of All Time

These fictional toasts are some of the most unforgettable moments in entertainment history.

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As we all know, there are many commitments  a person is required to fulfill when asked to be the best man. However, these tasks—which include organizing the bachelor party , supporting the groom during the planning stage, and holding onto the wedding rings during the ceremony—are nothing compared to the main event and final responsibility: the best man speech.

Typically a three to five-minute toast meant to honor the couple, the best man speech is not only held in high regard, but is an age-old tradition many look forward to hearing at the rehearsal dinner or reception. These speeches are so popular, in fact, that countless TV shows and movies have immortalized this one special moment in a variety of ways.

From The Office to The Hangover Part II , some of our favorite fictional characters have delivered the most memorable (and hilarious) best man wedding speeches known to mankind. And for those currently preparing to give their own toasts, we've rounded up the top seven fictional moments to help inspire your own. Whether you find inspiration for a few jokes or learn what you should absolutely not do, read on for a few wedding day speeches we're sure you'll love.

The Five-Year Engagement

This hilarious romantic comedy follows the story of Tom Solomon (Jason Segel) and Violet Barnes (Emily Blunt), an engaged couple who struggle to make it down the aisle due to several unexpected misfortunes. But once they finally get to the alter and officially say "I do," Solomon's best man, Alex Eilhauer (Chris Pratt), decides to send them off with an epic, but inappropriate, best man speech that features a PowerPoint presentation and a toast sung to the tune of "We Didn’t Start The Fire" by Billy Joel. 

The Wedding Singer

In a scene from  The Wedding Singer,  actor Steve Buscemi plays a hilarious, but completely unhinged, best man. In his special toast during the reception , Buscemi's character delivers a drunken speech that includes topics like his stint in a rehab facility, family traumas, and exposed hidden secrets. While noteworthy and highly entertaining, this movie moment is a prime example of what not to do in the real world. 

Friends (The One With Ross's Wedding: Part 2)

During Ross Geller (David Schwimmer) and Emily Waltham's (Helen Baxendale) rehearsal dinner , best men Chandler Bing (Matthew Perry) and Joey Tribbiani (Matt LeBlanc) take center stage to deliver a best man speech everyone will love. Unfortunately, they both fail. Though Chandler tries to be funny, his humor and sarcasm get lost in the crowd, which ultimately leads to an embarrassing toast. As for Joey, while his toast seemingly starts off great, the quirky character ends up going on several tangents completely unrelated to the wedding, like his love for New York City and the United States.

Four Weddings and a Funeral

Fictional best man speeches are usually those that can be categorized as catastrophic, inappropriate, and downright bad. However, in  Four Weddings and a Funeral , best man Charles, played by Hugh Grant, delivers a lovely toast filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and a focus on the couple's love for each other—the perfect recipe for a best man speech.  

The Best Man

After almost completely sabotaging his best friends' wedding, Harper Stewart (Taye Diggs) redeems himself at the reception with a graceful and thoughtful best man speech. By focusing on the couple and highlighting the unbreakable bond between husband, Lance Sullivan (Morris Chestnut), and wife, Mia Morgan (Monica Calhoun), this toast is a heartfelt wedding moment that is remembered today as one of the best toasts in movie history.

The Office (Phyllis's Wedding)

Though this speech doesn't technically fall into the best man category, given the fact that Michael Scott (Steve Carell) completely ambushed Phyllis Lapin (Phyllis Smith) and Bob Vance's (Robert R. Shafer) reception, this speech is one of the most unforgettable wedding toasts in TV history. During Scott's impromptu moment, the Dunder Mifflin regional manager blurts out a bunch of random quotes, one-liners, and cheesy jokes. And while Steve Carrell's acting is utterly flawless in this scene, real-life best men should stay away from replicating Michael Scott's approach. 

The Hangover Part II

During The Hangover Part II , Alan (Zach Galifianakis) takes the mic to give one of the most embarrassing best man speeches we've ever seen. Addressing a table of family and friends, he begins by sharing several inappropriate "fun facts", before ultimately being prompted to quickly end his toast. Once at the end, though, he wraps up his speech with information a best man should never share, such as the groom's past relationship history and a mention of their indiscretions during a trip to Las Vegas , as documented in the first Hangover movie.

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167 Graduation Quotes That’ll Remind You to Follow Your Dreams

By Kristi Kellogg and Marilyn La Jeunesse

Finding the right graduation quote can be a tedious process. After four years of hard work, you want to commemorate this special moment with the right words. Something that defines who you are and sets the tone for the future. The truth of the matter is, it takes lots of blood, sweat, tears, and ramen to make it to graduation .

But, the day has finally come for you to don your hard-earned graduation robes, decorate your cap, and rewatch your favorite graduation movies to get excited for the big day. Bear your tassel proudly, and find the right motto for graduation captions on Instagram, of course. Hey, you didn’t work this hard in school just to post a captionless photo, right?

From inspirational quotes from Taylor Swift to funny graduation quotes from Timotheé Chalamet , we rounded up the best graduation quotes, best senior quotes, and graduation messages from celebrities, athletes, politicians, writers, cartoon characters and more. These thoughtful bits of advice are perfect to include in graduation cards (that go far beyond your “congratulations graduate” message), a commencement speech , or even to use for senior quotes in your yearbook. The choice is yours! Read on to discover 167 best graduation quotes.

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• "Your life is your adventure. And the adventure ahead of you is a journey to fulfill your own purpose and potential." —Kerry Washington
• “If you can do what you do best and be happy, you are further along in life than most people.” —Leonardo DiCaprio
• "Education is the most powerful weapon we can use to change the world." —Nelson Mandela
• "Your education is a dress rehearsal for a life that is yours to lead." —Nora Ephron
• "You are about to start the greatest improvisation of all. With no script. No idea what's going to happen, often with people and places you have never seen before. And you are not in control. So say 'yes.' And if you're lucky, you'll find people who will say 'yes' back." —Stephen Colbert
• "You must have some vision for your life. Even if you don't know the plan, you have to have a direction in which you choose to go." —Oprah
• "You don’t go to university so you can punch a clock. You go to university so you can be in a position to make a difference." —Janet Napolitano
• "Education is our passport to the future, for tomorrow belongs to the people who prepare for it today." —Malcolm X
• "I've learned it's important not to limit yourself. You can do whatever you really love to do, no matter what it is." —Ryan Gosling
• "Fight for what makes you optimistic about the world. Find it, insist on it, dig into it, go after it." —Jennifer Garner
• "Intelligence plus character—that is the goal of true education." —Martin Luther King Jr.
• "You cannot dream of becoming something you do not know about. You have to learn to dream big. Education exposes you to what the world has to offer, to the possibilities open to you." —Sonia Sotomayor
• "If I must give any of you advice it would be say yes. Say yes, and create your own destiny." —Maya Rudolph
• "Your inexperience is an asset in that it will make you think in original, unconventional ways. Accept your lack of knowledge and use it as your asset." —Natalie Portman
• "Take your risks now. As you grow older, you become more fearful and less flexible … Try to keep your mind open to possibilities and your mouth closed on matters that you don't know about. Limit your 'always' and your 'nevers.' Continue to share your heart with people even if it’s been broken." —Amy Poehler
• "You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backward. You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future." —Steve Jobs
• "Now go, and make interesting mistakes, make amazing mistakes, make glorious and fantastic mistakes. Break rules. Leave the world more interesting for your being here." —Neil Gaiman
• "When you respect the idea that you are sharing the Earth with other humans, and when you lead with your nice foot forward, you’ll win, every time. It might not be today, it might not be tomorrow, but it comes back to you when you need it." —Kristen Bell
• "Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have you, you will never, ever have enough." —Oprah
• "He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life." —Muhammad Ali
• "Go make your big beautiful dent, and as you do so come down on the side of boldness. If you err, may it be for too much audacity, and not too little. For you really are enough. You have untold strengths and resources inside. You have your glorious self." —Sue Monk Kidd
• "It is often easier to make progress on mega-ambitious dreams. I know that sounds completely nuts. But, since no one else is crazy enough to do it, you have little competition." —Larry Page
• "Some life lessons don’t ever change. They need to be highlighted and they need to be remembered throughout our entire lives. But how you embrace them will distinguish you from the pack." —Brooke Shields
• "You and you alone are the only person who can live the life that writes the story that you were meant to tell." — Kerry Washington
• "Be the hardest working person you know. Because if you’re not, someone else will be." —Ian Brennan
• "In response to those who say to stop dreaming and face reality, I say keep dreaming and make reality." —Kristian Kan
• "It’s your turn to choose and define what success means to you. Now, others will try to define it for you, but yours is the only voice that matters." — Octavia Spencer
• Nobody else is paying as much attention to your failures as you are . . . to everyone else, it’s just a blip on the radar screen, so just move on. —Jerry Zucker
• "I am here to tell you that whatever you think your dream is now, it will probably change. And that's okay." —Conan O'Brien
• "Learn from every mistake because every experience, encounter, and particularly your mistakes are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are. And then figure out what is the next right move. And the key to life is to develop an internal moral, emotional G.P.S. that can tell you which way to go." —Oprah
• "If we’d all stuck with our first dream, the world would be overrun with cowboys and princesses. So whatever your dream is right now, if you don’t achieve it you haven’t failed and you’re not some loser." —Stephen Colbert
• "Don’t be afraid of fear. Because it sharpens you, it challenges you, it makes you stronger; and when you run away from fear, you also run away from the opportunity to be your best possible self."—Ed Helms
• “Success is not about wealth or fame, but about inner happiness and fulfillment.” —Margot Robbie
• “There are multiple sides to all of us. Who we are — and who we might be if we follow our dreams. —Miley Cyrus
• “God will never give you anything you can’t handle, so don’t stress.” —Kelly Clarkson
• "We're only here for so long. Be happy, man. You could get hit by a truck tomorrow." —​Timothée Chalamet​
• “Don’t allow people to dim your shine because they are blinded. Tell them to put on sunglasses.” —Lady Gaga
• "Get busy living or get busy dying." —Stephen King
• "You can’t climb the ladder of success with your hands in your pockets." —Arnold Schwarzenegger
• "If you aren't going all the way, why go at all?" —Joe Namath
• "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." —Wayne Gretzky
• "You will stumble and fall, you will experience both disaster and triumph, sometimes in the same day. But it's really important to remember that like a hangover, neither triumphs nor disasters last forever." —Helen Mirren
• "Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work." —Thomas Edison
• "You have to dance a little bit before you step out into the world each day, because it changes the way you walk." —Sandra Bullock
• "Even if you are on the right track, you will get run over if you just sit there." —Will Rogers
• "The road to success is always under construction." —Lily Tomlin
• "You're only given a little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it." —Robin Williams
• "Opportunity dances with those who are already on the dance floor." —Jackson Browne
• “Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive.” —Elbert Hubbard
• “If you don’t like the road you’re walking, start paving another one.” —Dolly Parton
• “Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you stand.” —Hayley Williams
• “Success is nothing if you don’t have the right people to share it with; you’re just going to end up lonely.” —Selena Gomez
• "The meaning of life is to find your gift, the purpose of life is to give it away." —Joy J. Golliver
• "That clock you hear is the sound of your own heart. Sink your teeth into this life, and don’t get let go." —Lin-Manuel Miranda
• "No job or task is too small or beneath you. If you want to get ahead, volunteer to do the things no one else wants to do, and do it better." —Bobbi Brown
• "You can’t do it alone. Be open to collaboration. Find a group of people who challenge and inspire you. Spend a lot of time with them and it will change your life." — Amy Poehler
• "When we show up, act boldly, and practice the best ways to be wrong, we fail forward. No matter where we end up, we’ve grown from where we began." —Stacey Abrams
• "I celebrate you as you remember the power of grace and pride, and I challenge you to choose freedom over fear." —Janelle Monáe
• "Education is not preparation for life; education is life itself." —John Dewey
• "You could travel with the sheep, follow everybody else’s stuff, but then you’re not you. I guess if I want to say anything it’s ‘Be you.’ Be true to you, and that should make the ride a little more interesting." — Whoopi Goldberg
• "There will be times when your best isn’t good enough. There can be many reasons for this, but as long as you give your best you’ll be OK." —Robert De Niro
• "We may live in an age of instant messaging, instant gratification and Instagram, but there is no way to short circuit the path to success." —Tory Burch
• "Now the first suggestion is to aim high, but be aware that even before you have reached your ultimate professional destination, if you always strive for excellence, you can and should have a substantial impact on the world in which you live." —Sandra Day O’Connor
• "As you graduate, as you deal with your excitement and your doubts today, I urge you to try and create the world you want to live in. Minister to the world in a way that can change it. Minister radically in a real, active, practical, get your hands dirty way." —Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
• "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined." —Henry David Thoreau
• "The horizon leans forward, offering you space to place new steps of change." —Maya Angelou
• "There is nothing more beautiful than finding your course as you believe you bob aimlessly in the current. Wouldn’t you know that your path was there all along, waiting for you to knock, waiting for you to become. This path does not belong to your parents, your teachers, your leaders, or your lovers. Your path is your character defining itself more and more everyday like a photograph coming into focus." —Jodie Foster
• "Real leadership comes from the quiet nudging of an inner voice. It comes from realizing that the time has come to move beyond waiting to doing." —Madeleine Albright
• "Dreams are lovely. But they are just dreams. Fleeting, ephemeral, pretty. But dreams do not come true just because you dream them. It's hard work that makes things happen. It's hard work that creates change." —Shonda Rhimes
• "Don't just get involved. Fight for your seat at the table. Better yet, fight for a seat at the head of the table." —Barack Obama
• “Life can be heavy if you carry it all at once. Know what to keep and what to release. Decide what is yours to hold, and let all the other things go." —Taylor Swift
• “A lot of people give up just before they’re about to make it. You know you never know when that next obstacle is going to be the last one.” —Chuck Norris
• “It’s the choice. You have to wake up every day and say, ‘There’s no reason today can’t be the best day of my life’.” —Blake Lively
• “We are all deserving and we don’t need permission or an invitation to exist and to step into our power.” —Ilhan Omar
• “Your self worth is determined by you. You don’t have to depend on someone telling you who you are.” —Beyoncé
• "No matter what happens in life, be good to people. Being good to people is a wonderful legacy to leave behind." —Taylor Swift
• "There’s something so special about a woman who dominates in a man’s world. It takes a certain grace, strength, intelligence, fearlessness, and the nerve to never take no for an answer." —Rihanna
• "Understand that one day you will have the power to make a difference, so use it well." —Mindy Kaling
• "I'm continually trying to make choices that put me out of my own comfort zone. As long as you're uncomfortable it means you're growing." —Ashton Kutcher
• "It's amazing what you can get if you quietly, clearly and authoritatively demand it." —Meryl Streep
• "It's the choice. You have to wake up every day and say 'There's no reason today can't be the best day of my life.'" —Blake Lively
• "I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." —Michael Jordan
• "There may be people that have more talent than you, but there’s no excuse for anyone to work harder than you do." —Derek Jeter
• "My favorite animal is the turtle. The reason is that in order for the turtle to move, it has to stick its neck out. There are going to be times in your life when you’re going to have to stick your neck out. There will be challenges, and instead of hiding in a shell, you have to go out and meet them." —Ruth Westheimer
• "There is no passion to be found in playing small — in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living." —Nelson Mandela
• "When someone who loves you hugs you, hug them back with two arms—don’t do the one-arm hug, because when you hug someone with two arms, it allows you to lean on somebody, and we all need someone to lean on." — Sandra Bullock
• "Frustration, although quite painful at times, is a very positive and essential part of success. —Bo Bennett
• "You can never be the best. The only thing you can be the best at is developing yourself." — Natalie Portman
• "Real courage is holding on to a still voice in your head that says, ‘I must keep going.’ It’s that voice that says nothing is a failure if it is not final. That voice that says to you, ‘Get out of bed. Keep going. I will not quit.'" —Cory Booker
• "Cynicism has never won a war, or cured a disease, or started a business, or fed a young mind, or sent men into space. Cynicism is a choice. Hope is a better choice." —Barack Obama
• "What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us." —Ralph Waldo Emerson
• "When people tell you not to believe in your dreams, and they say 'Why?' say 'Why not?'" —Billie Jean King
• "I encourage you to live with life. Be courageous, adventurous. Give us a tomorrow, more than we deserve." —Maya Angelou
• "There is no such thing as failure. Failure is just life trying to move us in another direction." — Oprah Winfrey
• "I’m a greater believer in luck, and I find the harder I work the more I have of it." —Thomas Jefferson
• “Sometimes the problem feels so big that changing one life doesn’t feel like enough. But it is.” —America Ferrera
• “Don’t take yourself too seriously. Know when to laugh at yourself, and find a way to laugh at obstacles that inevitably present themselves.” —Halle Bailey
• “Heroes are ordinary people who make themselves extraordinary.” —Gerard Way
• “Every day is a new opportunity to change your life and be who you want to be.” —Demi Lovato
• "Don't be afraid. Be focused. Be determined. Be hopeful. Be empowered." —Michelle Obama
• "Remember this: You are awesome. I’m not suggesting you be boastful. No one likes that in men or women. But I am suggesting that believing in yourself is the first necessary step to coming even close to achieving your potential." —Sheryl Sandberg
• “Don’t ever doubt yourselves or waste a second of your life. It’s too short and you’re too special.” —Ariana Grande
• "Ignore the naysayers. Really the only option is: head down and focus on the job." —Chris Pine
• "Success is only meaningful and enjoyable if it feels like your own." —Michelle Obama
• "The best remedy for those who are frightened, lonely or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere where they can be alone with the sky, nature, and God. For only then can you feel that everything is as it should be and that God wants people to be happy amid nature’s beauty and simplicity." —Anne Frank
• "It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are." —E. E. Cummings
• "I can’t think of any better representation of beauty than someone who is unafraid to be herself." —Emma Stone
• "You don’t have to be famous. You just have to make your mother and father proud of you, and you already have." —Meryl Streep
• "In this life we cannot do great things. We can only do small things with great love." —Mother Teresa
• “So often in life things that you regard as an impediment turn out to be great good fortune.” —Ruth Bader Ginsburg
• “It never hurts to keep looking for sunshine.” —Eeyore
• “What do you have to do? What do you want to do? Tomorrow is not promised. Make plans anyway.” —Lin Manuel Miranda
• “There are no regrets in life. Just lessons.” —Jennifer Aniston
• “For the great doesn’t happen through impulse alone, and is a succession of little things that are brought together.” —Vincent Van Gogh
• "Change takes courage." —Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez
• "You're never a loser until you quit trying." —Mike Ditka
• "Your imagination is your preview of life's coming attractions." —Albert Einstein
• “Work so hard that you never have to introduce yourself.” —Gigi Hadid
• "It’s hard to beat a person who never gives up." —Babe Ruth
• "There are no regrets in life — just lessons." —Jennifer Aniston
• "Stay hungry. Stay foolish." —Steven Jobs
• "A woman with a voice is, by definition, a strong woman." —Melinda Gates
• "You get in life what you have the courage to ask for." —Oprah Winfrey
• "To give any less than your best is to sacrifice a gift." —Steve Prefontaine
• "Being realistic is the most commonly traveled road to mediocrity." —Will Smith
• "Persistence can change failure into extraordinary achievement." —Matt Bondi
• "If you can’t outplay them, outwork them." —Ben Hogan
• "This above all: To thine own self be true." —William Shakespeare
• "Do. Or do not. There is no try." —Yoda
• "Be bold, be courageous, be your best." –Gabrielle Giffords
• "It is absolutely still possible to make a difference." —Michelle Obama
• “You’re not a slacker if you cut yourself some slack.” —Bill Gates
• “Be persistent and never give up hope.” —George Lucas
• “Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.” —Gloria Steinem
• "It is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate." —George Burns
• “There’s always going to be someone who doesn’t like you.” —Ariana Grande
• "All of our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them." —Walt Disney
• “Started from the bottom, now we’re here.” —Drake
• "The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams." —Eleanor Roosevelt
• "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." —Sun Tzu
• "Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can." —Arthur Ashe
• "She turned her can’ts into cans and her dreams into plans." —Kobi Yamada
• "There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." —C.S. Lewis
• "You can never be overdressed or overeducated." —Oscar Wilde
• "Nothing is impossible. The word itself says 'I'm possible.'" —Audrey Hepburn
• "A champion is someone who gets up when he can't." —Jack Dempsey
• “Don’t you ever let a soul in the world tell you that you can’t be exactly who you are.” —Lady Gaga
• “Be kind to yourself a little more every day.” —Dua Lipa
• “You will screw it up sometimes.” —Taylor Swift
• “And here you are living despite it all.” —Rupi Kaur
• “If you don’t have any shadows you’re not in the light.” —Lady Gaga
• “Keep your eyes on the finish line and not on the turmoil around you.” —Rihanna
• “For every winner, there doesn't have to be a loser. In fact, most success stories are less about competition and more about collaboration.” —Michelle Yeoh
• “Time is the most valuable resource on the planet.” —Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy
• “Please don’t be afraid, don’t worry yourself. The end and beginning, beginning and end are connected.” —BTS’s Suga
• “Trust your gut, keep throwing darts at the dartboard. Don’t listen to the critics – and you will figure it out.” —Will Ferrell
• “Building your community is how you change the world.” —LeBron James
• “Never let anyone put you in a box or tell you what you can do. Make sure you paint your own picture and go your own path, and continue to think outside the box.” —Magic Johnson
• “If everything was perfect, you would never learn and you would never grow.” —Beyoncé
• “Embrace your uniqueness for it is what makes you truly beautiful.” —Dove Cameron
• “I’ve always done whatever I want and been exactly who I am.” —Billie Eilish
• “Don’t try so hard to fit in, and certainly don’t try so hard to be different, just try hard to be you.” —Zendaya
• “If you were born with the weakness to fall you were born with the strength to rise.” —Rupi Kaur
• “You have to believe in yourself when no one else does.” —Serena Williams
• “You can be everything. You can be the infinite amount of things that people are.” —Kesha
• “Do one thing every day that scares you.” —Eleanor Roosevelt
• “Keep smiling, because life is a beautiful thing and there’s so much to smile about.” —Marilyn Monroe

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First put on its feet all the way back in 2018, the show’s plot is thrust into motion as Edelman recalls being subjected to antisemitic comments on the platform formerly known as Twitter. Rather than blocking the offenders, he chose to keep tabs on them, until the moment when a tweet crossed his path that he couldn’t let be: “Hey, if you live in NYC and you have questions about your whiteness, come to 441 27th Avenue tomorrow night at 9:15.” It was thus that this Boston native, raised in an Orthodox Jewish family, wound up at a white nationalist gathering in Queens that left him contemplating themes of empathy, identity, belonging and community.

Set to hit HBO tomorrow in the form of an awards-contending comedy special, the show centered on this stranger-than-fiction experience of Edelman’s opened off-Broadway in 2022 before making its way to Broadway and touring around the world, winding down with a recent run of shows at Los Angeles’ Mark Taper Forum.

In conversation with Deadline, Edelman reflects on takeaways from his experience with Just for Us , and the creative contributions of its original director Adam Brace — his longtime creative partner, with whom he worked on three one-man shows, who died tragically of a stroke last summer, at just 43 years old. As he touches on encounters with Jared Kushner at synagogue, his experience learning sign language for the show and the extent of his show business ambitions, he also offers his thoughts on the Oscars speech from Jonathan Glazer that’s divided Hollywood creatives.

DEADLINE: What did you learn about yourself from working on Just for Us?

DEADLINE: How is your life different now than it was when the journey with this show began?

EDELMAN : I mean, I’m Jewish now. Back then, I was a devout member of Opus Dei, so this is a real departure for me. No. Oh God, what’s changed? I mean, look so much. I think I started the show kind of as a child, and finished a show a bit more of an adult.

DEADLINE: You’re saying you got bar mitzvahed with the show?

EDELMAN : I was not going to be the one to say that, Matt, but I absolutely thought of saying it and then decided not to. But yes, I got circumcised on the show every night, which is why it had to end. Because I only had so much left.

No, no, I’m joking, obviously. But honestly, I’ll say this. I think the show was formed with me having come out of a writers’ room on a CBS multi-cam, and as silly as this is, the grasp of structure that I was learning, as I started thinking about and writing the show, that really was helpful.

This is sort of a synthesis of my solo show, or my stand-up beginnings, with my TV writing of a more middle adulthood. I took a break from the show for a year to go into a room on a Netflix show that Jenji Kohan put me in, and the lessons I learned from Jenji came to bear on the show, also. So, I think I grew as an artist and a writer, besides just as a person. Who’s to say what’s more important?

DEADLINE: Could you talk about the show’s title and what it means to you?

EDELMAN : I mean, I just told somebody that there are 20 different reasons that could be the title of the show. I’ve always liked the ambiguity of the title…within the context of a conversation about assimilation or whiteness. My director Adam Brace used to [say] that a good solo show can oftentimes ask the question, what is our place in the world? And I think the questions about what Just for Us might mean is an extension of that.

DEADLINE: Brace was clearly very important to you. What did be bring to your work and life?

EDELMAN : For 11 years, I got to be in good conversation with the person who was one of my closest friends, and then towards the end of his life, definitely [we had] a really nice partnership. [I had] a deep and abiding love for this guy who I met as a college student, and I’ll always be so grateful to him for this thing.

Towards the beginning of the time period where Adam was no longer here doing the show, it felt like a dialogue with him, in a way, to be close to him. Then, it [became] a catechism, a dialogue with this guy who’s no longer here. That was sort of how it felt at the beginning, and even at the end, it felt like that.

Although, by the way, the community of people that was there after he passed away — his family and his partner Becca [Fuller], especially — they kept a really good grip on me and made sure that I didn’t fall completely apart. They came over for the opening of the show on Broadway.

But yeah. I got to make this crazy, beautiful thing with my closest friend, and it was our most involved work together. He came over to the U.S. four or five times to help mount it, and then he passed away, and then I had to keep doing the thing. I loved doing the thing, and I’m happy that it gets to sort of be frozen in celluloid amber. But also, I wonder how much I’ll miss that repeated dialogue with him, if that makes any sense.

EDELMAN : Oh yeah, it’s fantastic, genuinely. I only know a few words of sign language. Also, I’m not perfect at it, and people at the show who speak ASL or British Sign Language or European sign languages, oftentimes the attitude I get, which I love, is sort of like, “Nice try.” Sort of like “You speak sign language like you learned it from someone who’s not deaf,” which is true. But it’s given me a crazy appreciation for how interesting and funny the language is. My favorite [expression in sign language] is “Thank you.” It’s weirdly a gesture that feels very intimate, in a way that “Thank you” in English doesn’t quite.

DEADLINE: You also reference Jared Kushner in the show, as someone you’ve seen at synagogue, who’s very loud . Any good anecdotes there?

EDELMAN : First of all, a lot of Kushner relatives have come to see the show, with varying affection for the Kush. And he’s around. I see him sometimes. I think they live in Miami now; I don’t think they’re in New York as much anymore. But I’ll say this. I hear that he knows of the joke, is what I’m told. I don’t know if I’m going to expect a tweeted endorsement from Ivanka [Trump] anytime soon.

But when Ivanka started to convert, she was in synagogue. It was really interesting, and the rabbi who did their conversion is a very venerable rabbi in New York. When he came to the show, literally 20 people called me to tell me he was coming, and then when he came to the show afterwards, he had written a letter, and then someone had faxed the letter to someone else, who scanned it and emailed it to me. So literally every form of communication, other than telegram, was deployed in getting me the rabbi’s thoughts on the show. But he liked it, it seemed.

DEADLINE: This show has so many layers of implications for the world — particularly in a heated election year — in terms of the discussion you lead about empathy and the challenge of breaking out of our individual echo chambers. What do you think it will take for more people to at least hear those on the other side of the spectrum for them, as you’ve made a point of doing?

EDELMAN : Whenever I’m asked a question about empathy, I always ask people to consider a question themselves, which is, do you want to be right or do you want to be effective? Because the two things aren’t always the same thing, right? Sometimes, your truth, the facts that you know to be true and are sure are true — and maybe empirically, objectively true — are completely different than the reality that somebody else lives in. How do you square those two things? How do you find a way to acknowledge someone else’s lived experience without being completely delusional, to an extent that you lose yourself?

It’s a really difficult balancing act, so I think the best that you can hope for is to try to put yourself in a space where you can show up and expect to be listened to, and also show up, expecting to listen — and not with the intent of convincing, but with the intent of just being there to understand the other’s perspective.

There’s a really great interview that Christopher Hitchens did with Sean Hannity, two people who could not be more diametrically opposed, and Sean Hannity’s really going at Christopher Hitchens. And Hitchens says, brilliantly…I’m misquoting here, I’m sure. “I don’t mean to be rude” — which was a lie, by the way — “but you give me the impression of someone who’s never read the opinions of those that he disagrees with.” Because Hannity, of course, didn’t understand wherever Hitchens was coming from. And maybe Hannity would’ve been like, “Oh, no, I read this, that, or the other.” But the truth is that understanding completely the perspective of that which opposes you creates empathy, creates discourse, creates a grounding in reality, and also can sharpen your own opinions. All of those things.

DEADLINE: Expanding the conversation on empathy to the Israel-Palestine conflict, I’m curious to hear what you thought of The Zone of Interest filmmaker Jonathan Glazer’s highly polarizing speech at the Oscars. Thousands of prominent figures in the arts and elsewhere have publicly denounced it , with thousands more today taking his side . Generally speaking, how do we open a dialogue on topics this sensitive that’s constructive?

EDELMAN : I mean, Israel and Palestine is the issue that is so treacherous, and so hard to get your arms around completely, that it’s immediately become a third rail. Third rails are inherently interesting, right? All the power’s in the third rail, and that speech in particular holds such intrigue because it’s such a high-profile moment and such a challenging piece of work that he’s accepting that award for. The work and the subject matter means so much to so many people, and so watching everybody’s discourse over it, I think I long for a more interested conversation about it. Not interesting , but a more interested conversation, in terms of why we’re reacting to this the way we are. What questions does it raise? What opinions does it change? Because any answer to those questions is pretty fascinating.

I have a lot of friends who feel very strongly about it on different sides of the issue. When it comes to Israel and Palestine right now, I become very much a listener. As soon as October 7th happened, I was like, “Oh, this is going to be nightmarish. This is just going to be a freaking disaster,” and I think it has been. I don’t think it’s controversial to say that it’s just been a wrenching experience.

But again, talk about strongly felt opinions loosely held. I go back and forth. I’m extremely pushed to and fro by the news, and the opinions of my friends who feel very strongly on all sides. My friends who live on the ground, my friends who are of Palestinian descent, my friends and family who live in Israel with wildly differing political opinions. Really tough, fascinating thing.

I always said that my next show was going to be about Israel and Palestine; I think that’s probably still the case. It may take a long time to put that show together, but I’ve always been really fascinated by this thorny, poisonous topic. So, I don’t know. I watched the speech live and now am starting to get a little caught up on the reactions to it. But I’ve seen people that I love and respect on both of those letters. So, hard to square that.

EDELMAN : I want to act more. I really like being in front of the camera, which is something I wasn’t sure that I wanted, and then I got to do it a little bit, and I was like, “Oh gosh, this is really fun.” I had so much fun on Seinfeld’s movie, doing a little bit in Unfrosted . It was such a blast.

I have some writing stuff for television that I’m psyched about. I have a thing I co-wrote with Jenji Kohan, an adaptation of [the Chaim Potok novel] My Name Is Asher Lev that I’d love to get made. I’m writing sitcoms and fielding some thoughts and offers for various new work. So, like everybody else, I just want to do fun and interesting and fulfilling stuff. What a revolutionary thing to say.

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